"A 'couple' sent us a wink .. The profile left us 'gobsmacked' to sat the least .. dont know whether to report it or not ..
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We've seen a few in our time. One even stated the type of hotel - a 5 star one with a spa! 
They were reported and we haven't seen them since. |
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"A 'couple' sent us a wink .. The profile left us 'gobsmacked' to sat the least .. dont know whether to report it or not ..
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do share with us who they are, i need a good smack in the gob lol  |
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"Is it acceptable to be charged 'expenses' for petrol and overnight accommodation when they travel to a meet you ? "
no
if your sharing a hotel room for play you should both pay but if the hotels only being used by oen person to sleep in after play then they shpuld pay for their own room
I dont drive so all my meets are via trains, taxis etc so i cant get costly but i wouldnt dream of asking who im meeting to cover my travel costs, if i couldnt afford it i wouldnt go, even if they offered to pay id say no and arrange another time i could afford it |
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"Is it acceptable to be charged 'expenses' for petrol and overnight accommodation when they travel to a meet you ? "
when you say travel to meet you do you mean your inviting them round to your home? |
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If you can't afford to travel then you accommodate in my book. If some sort asked me to pay for petrol i would decline. Much rather travel and pay for a hotel room as handing over cash is something else to me and not swinging.  |
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"Is it acceptable to be charged 'expenses' for petrol and overnight accommodation when they travel to a meet you ?
no
if your sharing a hotel room for play you should both pay but if the hotels only being used by oen person to sleep in after play then they shpuld pay for their own room
I dont drive so all my meets are via trains, taxis etc so i cant get costly but i wouldnt dream of asking who im meeting to cover my travel costs, if i couldnt afford it i wouldnt go, even if they offered to pay id say no and arrange another time i could afford it"
i often put on my profile asking if anyone fancies giving me a lift to a club...petrol money is always offered |
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Looking at the replies from the OP I would say that it is not actually a meet but what someone has written on their profile...
All they have done is send you a wink...am I right?
If you don't agree with what they have asked in their profile...simply move on... |
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"A 'couple' sent us a wink .. The profile left us 'gobsmacked' to sat the least .. dont know whether to report it or not ..
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Report what??
They haven't asked you for anything and although we here may not agree with it, they may be others that will happily pay cost of petrol/accommodation...
More fool the ones that do, but that is their choice... |
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