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How do you feel when a minger turns you down?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ha Ha you just laugh about it!

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Define minger

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

They instantly become a minger when they do.

The day I get turned down I'll let you know. It'll happen soon.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

Depends on your definition of hot and/or minger.

Speaking as someone who has been called both on here it's in the eye of the beholder

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By *exysquirter77Woman over a year ago

norwich

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Who did you turn down ??

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By *hechapMan over a year ago

Derry

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Why would you want to be with a minger to start with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Why would you want to be with a minger to start with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve never been turned down for sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Why would you want to be with a minger to start with.

A holes a hole

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Can't say I've ever been turned down by a minger

But Tbh, if I considered someone to be one, I wouldn't have asked them in the first place

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Why would you want to be with a minger to start with.

I don't message first so I usually turn down the offers I receive. I don't chat to someone who I don't like the look of.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

A minger to you might be a hottie to some one else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

A minger to you might be a hottie to some one else."

Very true and this thread is reinforcing the belief of some fabbers that for so many it's all about physical appearance and attributes.

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By *ent and bratCouple over a year ago

here there everywhere

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

we love your posts

satire is a dying form

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

A minger to you might be a hottie to some one else.

Very true and this thread is reinforcing the belief of some fabbers that for so many it's all about physical appearance and attributes."

Well yeah I wouldn’t fuck someone I didn’t find physically attractive

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

A minger to you might be a hottie to some one else.

Very true and this thread is reinforcing the belief of some fabbers that for so many it's all about physical appearance and attributes.

Well yeah I wouldn’t fuck someone I didn’t find physically attractive "

Most people wouldn't.

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By *uliette500Woman over a year ago

Hull

Apparently I am normally hot and sexy until I say no. Then I suddenly become alsorts of unspeakable things.

This is the reason why I don't say no anymore I just delete and block.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"Apparently I am normally hot and sexy until I say no. Then I suddenly become alsorts of unspeakable things.

This is the reason why I don't say no anymore I just delete and block. "

Apparently I'm a really nice interesting guy until I send a face pic at their request and on most occasions that triggers an instant block. No explanation just block. The only time I've had to say no was when approached by other men and I agree I suddenly become unattractive to them too despite being straight.

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By *elvet RopeMan over a year ago

by the big field

"They instantly become a minger when they do.

The day I get turned down I'll let you know. It'll happen soon.

I'm afraid i'm busy this week and next week- i couldn't possibly even if you asked nicely, sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel like i am the minger when i get turned down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

I don't know what you look like mavis, but I do like your banter, you have sarcastic streak that I like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am the minger so youre all hot to me, until you turn me down then your minging hoe

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Define minger

Someone you don't fancy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on your definition of hot and/or minger.

Speaking as someone who has been called both on here it's in the eye of the beholder"

Very true.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I don't know what being turned down feels like!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

A minger to you might be a hottie to some one else.

Very true and this thread is reinforcing the belief of some fabbers that for so many it's all about physical appearance and attributes."

For some people it *is* about physical appearance. If they aren't attracted to them why would they fuck them?

Is it bad to want to be physically attracted to someone?

I can't sit on someone's personality.

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By *unshine05Man over a year ago

Sherborne

Only skanks say a hole is a hole,

Get some self-respect for yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

It is difficult to take at first but a blessing in the long run, remember though, don’t drop your standards to fuck someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

we love your posts

satire is a dying form"

Are you saying I'm half dead? Best compliment I've had all week.

My OP is actually asking a serious question though.

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

A minger... I wouldn't try it on with anyone I considered a minger..and I dislike that term

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Apparently I am normally hot and sexy until I say no. Then I suddenly become alsorts of unspeakable things.

This is the reason why I don't say no anymore I just delete and block.

I don't think that kind of block is screaming horror.

Some people feel bad when they're not attracted to someone and don't know how to be tactful. They feel bad. It's easier to block than say no. Like ghosting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why would you proposition someone you dont find attractive in the first place?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Hello, would you like to meet me for some sex? I don't travel, so you'll need to book a hotel near Salisbury. I'll contribute towards the cost, unless you use the room all night, then it's down to you I'm afraid.

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

Doesn’t happen......

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By *anana JoeMan over a year ago

Sheffield

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

On here I have been reliably informed pre turn down everyone is beautiful they only become a minger after they have turned you down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I feel like i am the minger when i get turned down. "

There will be people who you really like as friends but you wouldn't want to fuck them. Doesn't mean you're a minger, more a friend zone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Dunno never asked anyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What defines a "minger"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Only skanks say a hole is a hole,

Get some self-respect for yourself"

Are you saying I'm a skank?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What defines a "minger"? "

People have their own definition. Someone outside their usual desires/ type that they'd go for maybe.

Perhaps someone who the person really fancies but most other people wouldn't fancy at all.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

You move on to the next one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone is lovely in their own special way in my eyes. Folks are judgemental. If they don't like them just don't say anything and move on.

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

I’ve never asked a minger for a fuck.

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By *inchpandaMan over a year ago

Atherstone

I get turned down for most people I speak to first, but I wouldn't bother chatting sexually/ flirty to the person on this site if I didn't find them attractive, but saying that just one sentence from someone can turn them from "a sure thing" too "I'd rather not talk to you anymore" in some cases

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only skanks say a hole is a hole,

Get some self-respect for yourself

Are you saying I'm a skank?"

How did you get in a situation where a ‘minger’ turned you down??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmm there's 2 things wrong with the question.

1. I wouldn't approach a minger

2. No one turns me down.

Must be horrid out there for some

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I get turned down for most people I speak to first, but I wouldn't bother chatting sexually/ flirty to the person on this site if I didn't find them attractive, but saying that just one sentence from someone can turn them from "a sure thing" too "I'd rather not talk to you anymore" in some cases"

I agree. One wrong thing said and it puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Only skanks say a hole is a hole,

Get some self-respect for yourself

Are you saying I'm a skank?

How did you get in a situation where a ‘minger’ turned you down??"

It's just a question.

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By *rAngleseyMan over a year ago

Anglesey

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Trying to proposition someone you are not attracted to, Is a sad & desperate act.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why would you proposition someone you dont find attractive in the first place?"

What he said ^

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Why would you contemplate being with someone you don’t find attractive ?

Are you really that desperate?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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Sometimes I like to message mingers just to give them a little ego boost, you know?

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I don’t do ‘mingers’

....or Cads for that matter!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"Only skanks say a hole is a hole,

Get some self-respect for yourself"

Woah now sunshine. I say this, I'm no skank.

My vagina gets washed weekly with bleach .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you don't ask you don't get so no matter what she reply with you just take it

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Well, I'll have to take your silence as a knock back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Define minger

My thoughts as well!! Astonishing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mavis your way of conversation is very Male! I would even think you where a man. Very masculine in how you say things. I might be wrong

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By *edoriartyCouple over a year ago

Peterborough

Plenty more mingers in the sea

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By *ollycouple71Couple over a year ago

manchester

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Define minger

My thoughts as well!! Astonishingly?"
someone you find ulgy

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By *zQTWoman over a year ago

Somewhere

Well I recently (today) got turned down by a man who’s face I hadn’t really seen (yes on fab) and I thought nothing of it... so I would assume I wouldn’t feel any different if he were in your words a ‘minger’

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By *r AmbassadorMan over a year ago

Dublin

Wait a min,,

If they turned you down

Maybe your the Minger,

Least to them your a Minger

Am I right,,,

Or am I not wrong????

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By *r AmbassadorMan over a year ago

Dublin

"Well I recently (today) got turned down by a man who’s face I hadn’t really seen (yes on fab) and I thought nothing of it... so I would assume I wouldn’t feel any different if he were in your words a ‘minger’ "

What.,,,

Was he Nuuuutttsssss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Makes a think that if they are turning me down that I must be a minger!!!

Maybe I am, I dunno, I don't think I am lol

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Ask the women I've turned down.

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Mavis your way of conversation is very Male! I would even think you where a man. Very masculine in how you say things. I might be wrong "

You're wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

I don't meet mingers to start with!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

"
i grin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We met someone for a social, he knew Rea was a redhead because we'd all exchanged face photos.

Anyway, turns up at Costa abd after about 3 minutes says to Mrs. I didn't realise you had ginger hair, that's minging.

So to him, Mrs. was a minger.

We were a bit put out, but that's personal taste for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have high standards so I wouldn’t even be asking a minger to meet me.

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By *estSussexGuy76Man over a year ago

copthorne

To be honest, I try to contact people I feel I could have fun with.

Every message I've sent I'm polite, respectful and try and bring something to the convo.

When I don't get a reply but see maybe a status saying " where are the decent guys " I'm like reallllllyyy ha ha

But that's life on fab ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why would you try to meet someone who you thought was a minger? Mavis (Mark)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dread to think how they feel when i turn them down

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By *oupleforxtrafunCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

Devastated

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

I’m no minger!!

Well that’s my own high opinion of me I guess

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why would you try to meet someone who you thought was a minger? Mavis (Mark)"
ahhhh but they become a Minger when they turn you down

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mavis your way of conversation is very Male! I would even think you where a man. Very masculine in how you say things. I might be wrong "

He ain’t got no Adam’s apple!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Well, I'll have to take your silence as a knock back.

Sorry Clem I missed your kind offer last night. My loss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wait a min,,

If they turned you down

Maybe your the Minger,

Least to them your a Minger

Am I right,,,

Or am I not wrong????

To them, possibly, yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We met someone for a social, he knew Rea was a redhead because we'd all exchanged face photos.

Anyway, turns up at Costa abd after about 3 minutes says to Mrs. I didn't realise you had ginger hair, that's minging.

So to him, Mrs. was a minger.

We were a bit put out, but that's personal taste for you.

It is personal taste, still rude though.

I'd take it as a positive. Better to have him say that over coffee than in bed together.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"To be honest, I try to contact people I feel I could have fun with.

Every message I've sent I'm polite, respectful and try and bring something to the convo.

When I don't get a reply but see maybe a status saying " where are the decent guys " I'm like reallllllyyy ha ha

But that's life on fab ....

Your nice message may have been lost in the middle of hundreds of nasty ones. Keep smiling.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think you are being disrespectful. Why would you want to meet a 'minger' (put it) unless you are just trying to shag everyone and anyone..

Has someone you down on the basis of your looks then? Perhaps you are someone else's Minger!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why would you try to meet someone who you thought was a minger? Mavis (Mark)

ahhhh but they become a Minger when they turn you down

"I didn't want to meet you anyway!"

Errr....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Think you are being disrespectful. Why would you want to meet a 'minger' (put it) unless you are just trying to shag everyone and anyone..

Has someone you down on the basis of your looks then? Perhaps you are someone else's Minger!!!!"

How am I being disrespectful? Everyone is unattractive to someone. Of course I am someone else's minger.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Interesting question, I often wonder how people feel when I turn them down. Only a few have let me know in no uncertain terms.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

It's not something that is a problem, as I'm not interested in meeting anyone where there's no match, whoever rejects me and shouldn't be for anyone. I don't think of people as below me or me them.

If it works, carry on. If not, find others

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

We can’t all appeal to everyone but I have noticed threads - usually by men, who think that the women who have turned them down have no right to because they are unattractive and wouldn’t do well in the real world.

I always feel that says more about them than the person who has rejected them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think you are being disrespectful. Why would you want to meet a 'minger' (put it) unless you are just trying to shag everyone and anyone..

Has someone you down on the basis of your looks then? Perhaps you are someone else's Minger!!!!

How am I being disrespectful? Everyone is unattractive to someone. Of course I am someone else's minger. "

Why would you arrange to meet someone there is no attraction to or is a Minger (your words) in the first place. Thinks that maybe the 'Minger' made a wise choice..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think you are being disrespectful. Why would you want to meet a 'minger' (put it) unless you are just trying to shag everyone and anyone..

Has someone you down on the basis of your looks then? Perhaps you are someone else's Minger!!!!

How am I being disrespectful? Everyone is unattractive to someone. Of course I am someone else's minger.

Why would you arrange to meet someone there is no attraction to or is a Minger (your words) in the first place. Thinks that maybe the 'Minger' made a wise choice.."

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Some people will fuck anyone and everyone, minger or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d never contact somebody who I thought was a minger so therefore I’d never be turned down by one. I’ve never understood the “any holes a goal” thing, I’d rather go without than sleep with a girl I don’t fancy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think you are being disrespectful. Why would you want to meet a 'minger' (put it) unless you are just trying to shag everyone and anyone..

Has someone you down on the basis of your looks then? Perhaps you are someone else's Minger!!!!

How am I being disrespectful? Everyone is unattractive to someone. Of course I am someone else's minger.

Why would you arrange to meet someone there is no attraction to or is a Minger (your words) in the first place. Thinks that maybe the 'Minger' made a wise choice..

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Some people will fuck anyone and everyone, minger or not. "

That is true.. and shows how desperate some are!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think you are being disrespectful. Why would you want to meet a 'minger' (put it) unless you are just trying to shag everyone and anyone..

Has someone you down on the basis of your looks then? Perhaps you are someone else's Minger!!!!

How am I being disrespectful? Everyone is unattractive to someone. Of course I am someone else's minger.

Why would you arrange to meet someone there is no attraction to or is a Minger (your words) in the first place. Thinks that maybe the 'Minger' made a wise choice..

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Some people will fuck anyone and everyone, minger or not.

That is true.. and shows how desperate some are!!"

Yep

And Mavis is asking them how they feel when said minger turns them down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Were they a minger before or after they turned you down?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Were they a minger before or after they turned you down?

Haha brilliant

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan over a year ago

stockport wasteland

A woman can be classed as a minger but have a bubbly personality and have a laugh and if that person get turned down the one doing the turning down is the minger..... Maybe hehe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Were they a minger before or after they turned you down?

Haha brilliant

Mingers stand to the left please! Beautiful people to the right!

Lets have a "hell yeah"

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By *ifty69Man over a year ago

north tyneside

Ive just been turned down, its not a problem, everyone has different tastes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing but goddesses would do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've been turned down on our couples profile....they even said " sorry but shes not for us " ...cant say it didn't bite a little....but rejection is part of life in general.

You just gotta suck it up.

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By *ifty69Man over a year ago

north tyneside

"We've been turned down on our couples profile....they even said " sorry but shes not for us " ...cant say it didn't bite a little....but rejection is part of life in general.

You just gotta suck it up."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We can’t all appeal to everyone but I have noticed threads - usually by men, who think that the women who have turned them down have no right to because they are unattractive and wouldn’t do well in the real world.

I always feel that says more about them than the person who has rejected them. "

It does happen. There have been threads where 'hot' people have been slated for saying no 'because they are clearly up their own arse'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Think you are being disrespectful. Why would you want to meet a 'minger' (put it) unless you are just trying to shag everyone and anyone..

Has someone you down on the basis of your looks then? Perhaps you are someone else's Minger!!!!

How am I being disrespectful? Everyone is unattractive to someone. Of course I am someone else's minger.

Why would you arrange to meet someone there is no attraction to or is a Minger (your words) in the first place. Thinks that maybe the 'Minger' made a wise choice.."

I didn't. My OP is a question for discussion.

But thanks for the inference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A woman can be classed as a minger but have a bubbly personality and have a laugh and if that person get turned down the one doing the turning down is the minger..... Maybe hehe"

I think you understand what I'm saying. Other people may call her a minger but the guy sees a sparkling vivacious woman. (For example)

But if she turned him down would he feel worse because all his mates would think she's not hot.

Do people expect to be turned down by a 'hot' person, so they're not as bothered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We've been turned down on our couples profile....they even said " sorry but shes not for us " ...cant say it didn't bite a little....but rejection is part of life in general.

You just gotta suck it up."

If those were their exact words they may have actually been intimidated and thought you were out of their league. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always feel that says more about them than the person who has rejected them. "

Totally agree.

I was wondering what the OP was thinking when posting this thread.

To describe someone as a 'minger', disrespectful as it is, suggests that one considers them unattractive (at best).

To ask how others might respond to having been turned down by such a person says far more about the standards of the person being turned down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hey OP. Interesting question. Have t been turned down by a minger as such but often send a face pic when someone sends me one, just to be fair. One guy, who I really wasn’t inspired by, replied that I shouldn’t hide that I had brown skin in my public pics as sooooo many guys weren’t attracted by it!!! Fucktard and number one minger

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hey OP. Interesting question. Have t been turned down by a minger as such but often send a face pic when someone sends me one, just to be fair. One guy, who I really wasn’t inspired by, replied that I shouldn’t hide that I had brown skin in my public pics as sooooo many guys weren’t attracted by it!!! Fucktard and number one minger

That was very kind of him to give you that advice. At least you won't horrify any more innocent men if you warn them in advance.

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By *oupleforxtrafunCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

Hopefully one day a Minger doesn’t turn me down and my luck pick up

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Hopefully one day a Minger doesn’t turn me down and my luck pick up

Which of you posted that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know that feeling.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan over a year ago

chester

We don’t usually turn anyone down

Genuine ones wouldn’t and I certainly haven’t .

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By *uilder506Man over a year ago

bognor

I get used to it

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

This minger turned down a lady on here.

She went ballistic

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By *nceinawhileCouple over a year ago

Ipswich

"We don’t usually turn anyone down

Genuine ones wouldn’t and I certainly haven’t . "

Sounds like your saying if you turn someone down your not genuine well I take it I'm not genuine then as I've turned people down

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By *ingle ex cuckMan over a year ago

chester

"We don’t usually turn anyone down

Genuine ones wouldn’t and I certainly haven’t .

Sounds like your saying if you turn someone down your not genuine well I take it I'm not genuine then as I've turned people down "

I’m speaking from experience and as a genuine minger I wouldn’t turn anyone down

I’m sure there are tactical ways of saying no thank you And I’m sure genuine people on here regularly use them words ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't talk to longer except if they are selling punctured French letters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't talk to minger* except if they are selling punctured French letters "

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

I haven’t been turned down by a minger - they’ve all said yes

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By *onkyLemonsCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *nceinawhileCouple over a year ago

Ipswich

"We don’t usually turn anyone down

Genuine ones wouldn’t and I certainly haven’t .

Sounds like your saying if you turn someone down your not genuine well I take it I'm not genuine then as I've turned people down

I’m speaking from experience and as a genuine minger I wouldn’t turn anyone down

I’m sure there are tactical ways of saying no thank you And I’m sure genuine people on here regularly use them words ??"

I've never used the M word I've been called it more than once and worse for politely saying no thank you to people

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I haven’t been turned down by a minger - they’ve all said yes

Noted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We don’t usually turn anyone down

Genuine ones wouldn’t and I certainly haven’t .

Sounds like your saying if you turn someone down your not genuine well I take it I'm not genuine then as I've turned people down

I’m speaking from experience and as a genuine minger I wouldn’t turn anyone down

I’m sure there are tactical ways of saying no thank you And I’m sure genuine people on here regularly use them words ??

I've never used the M word I've been called it more than once and worse for politely saying no thank you to people"

Everyone is a minger if they say no.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

I was a total gentleman over it even if you were brutal in the execution.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

I was a total gentleman over it even if you were brutal in the execution.

I'm not brutal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can't say I've ever been turned down by a minger

But Tbh, if I considered someone to be one, I wouldn't have asked them in the first place

Agree xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

I was a total gentleman over it even if you were brutal in the execution.

I'm not brutal.

I am sure it was you who said I should be back in crossroads!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

I was a total gentleman over it even if you were brutal in the execution.

I'm not brutal.

I am sure it was you who said I should be back in crossroads!

That's a compliment surely.

Crossroads was an amazing soap opera with top notch acting and classy sets. You'll be too young to know what it was.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Flattered someone has even spoken to me enough to turn me down

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By *moothdickMan over a year ago

stoke

I get turned by all, so I can’t define a minger lol

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Flattered someone has even spoken to me enough to turn me down

Yeah right. I bet you're beating them off with a stick.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman over a year ago

all loved up

As i wouldn't ask someone that for me wasnt attractive.. I wouldn't have this issue... I also wouldnt use that term..

But if I did id take it same as i take any rejection... which is to say no worries. Wish them well and move on

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By *ulldog_71Man over a year ago

Sedgefield

unfortunately I'm the minger that gets turned down never get the chance to turn down others lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get turned down by everyone so what they are like makes no difference lol

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Travelling

I'm used to being turned down, ive turned down people too. So it doesn't bother me who does it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As i wouldn't ask someone that for me wasnt attractive.. I wouldn't have this issue... I also wouldnt use that term..

But if I did id take it same as i take any rejection... which is to say no worries. Wish them well and move on"

Cant see you being turned down somehow x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Flattered someone has even spoken to me enough to turn me down

I am betting you never been turned down for anything x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clearly only became a minger when they turned you down...

Certainly not a nice name to call anyone...

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Flattered someone has even spoken to me enough to turn me down

I am betting you never been turned down for anything x"

How much? I could do with a little earner.

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Travelling

If anybody would like to experience what it is like to be turned down by a minger, I'm happy to offer my services.

Turned down by a minger: The experience!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"unfortunately I'm the minger that gets turned down never get the chance to turn down others lol"

You have a gorgeous arse, please will you shag me?

(Turn me down)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If anybody would like to experience what it is like to be turned down by a minger, I'm happy to offer my services.

Turned down by a minger: The experience! "

I cant turn you down, even for a bet lol x

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By *akes handymanMan over a year ago

In the Lakes

I always get turned down .. so nothing different there

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"If anybody would like to experience what it is like to be turned down by a minger, I'm happy to offer my services.

Turned down by a minger: The experience! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"unfortunately I'm the minger that gets turned down never get the chance to turn down others lol

You have a gorgeous arse, please will you shag me?

(Turn me down)"

You are not getting turned down either x

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

"I’ve never asked a minger for a fuck. "

You are lucky because you got your faithful pumpkin (and possibly a watermelon too)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

elated

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By *aul40nwMan over a year ago

wirral

"I always get turned down .. so nothing different there

I would be happy with being turned down .. at least its a reply haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

Why would you want to be with a minger to start with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

The term "minger" I assume would be given out to someone you found unattractive and the term "turning down" would assume that you would have extended some kind of invite to them based on attraction that had been rebuffed?

Personally and logically I'd never find myself in a situation where both those terms were viable to be used in the same statement as why I'd make such an offer to someone I found repugnant in the first instance is beyond me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have only been turned down once in a negative way and it was over my size. I genuinely laughed about it because by this point in my life I don't care.

I admit I am all about physical attraction first, if you are planning on meeting and getting intimate with anyone you need to find them attractive. If a guy messages me abs I'm not into their looks I try to be gentle and nice about it. There is no need to make anyone feel unattractive just because they don't fit your likes.

I'm not every guy's cup of tea but I am a bottle of moet to others and I'm fine with that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I been turn down all the time. to be honest i do not under the word minger means.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive not been turned down yet

ive mastered a solution to rejection...

Dont ask in the first place

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman over a year ago

Bangor

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

If they are a "minger" in your eyes why were you trying to hook up in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I been turn down all the time. to be honest i do not under the word minger means."

Minger normally ugly or unattractive

But what one person finds unattractive might be someone elses nirvana. Never any need for making anyone feel bad because you don't like them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I been turn down all the time. to be honest i do not under the word minger means.

Minger normally ugly or unattractive

But what one person finds unattractive might be someone elses nirvana. Never any need for making anyone feel bad because you don't like them"

Did you just change your name? Or is my phone/eyes playing up

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By *ollycouple71Couple over a year ago

manchester

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

I was a total gentleman over it even if you were brutal in the execution.

I'm not brutal.

I am sure it was you who said I should be back in crossroads!

That's a compliment surely.

Crossroads was an amazing soap opera with top notch acting and classy sets. You'll be too young to know what it was. "
who was it Benny?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I been turn down all the time. to be honest i do not under the word minger means.

Minger normally ugly or unattractive

But what one person finds unattractive might be someone elses nirvana. Never any need for making anyone feel bad because you don't like them

Did you just change your name? Or is my phone/eyes playing up"

Lol sorry yes I have, it's not you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I been turn down all the time. to be honest i do not under the word minger means.

Minger normally ugly or unattractive

But what one person finds unattractive might be someone elses nirvana. Never any need for making anyone feel bad because you don't like them

Did you just change your name? Or is my phone/eyes playing up

Lol sorry yes I have, it's not you"

I thought my eyes were going funny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I been turn down all the time. to be honest i do not under the word minger means.

Minger normally ugly or unattractive

But what one person finds unattractive might be someone elses nirvana. Never any need for making anyone feel bad because you don't like them

Did you just change your name? Or is my phone/eyes playing up

Lol sorry yes I have, it's not you

I thought my eyes were going funny

story of my life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I been turn down all the time. to be honest i do not under the word minger means.

Minger normally ugly or unattractive

But what one person finds unattractive might be someone elses nirvana. Never any need for making anyone feel bad because you don't like them

Did you just change your name? Or is my phone/eyes playing up

Lol sorry yes I have, it's not you

I thought my eyes were going funny

story of my life"

No, ive have have a perve... i mean look at your profile, youre beautiful, my eyes arr still fine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I been turn down all the time. to be honest i do not under the word minger means.

Minger normally ugly or unattractive

But what one person finds unattractive might be someone elses nirvana. Never any need for making anyone feel bad because you don't like them

Did you just change your name? Or is my phone/eyes playing up

Lol sorry yes I have, it's not you

I thought my eyes were going funny

story of my life

No, ive have have a perve... i mean look at your profile, youre beautiful, my eyes arr still fine

I cant type for toffee today though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Learnt to handle rejection only too well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you thought they were unattractive why did you approach them in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thonk at that stage its time to have a chat with yourself...

Why the feck am I mailing someone I think is a minger for a ride, have I fallen that far? Would a nice wank or two and a takeout no make me happier?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thonk at that stage its time to have a chat with yourself...

Why the feck am I mailing someone I think is a minger for a ride, have I fallen that far? Would a nice wank or two and a takeout no make me happier?"

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just move on to the next ,till one says yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

But people get these messages all the time when they turn someone down. "You're fat and ugly, I would never fuck you anyway!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I been turn down all the time. to be honest i do not under the word minger means.

Minger normally ugly or unattractive

But what one person finds unattractive might be someone elses nirvana. Never any need for making anyone feel bad because you don't like them"

I agree.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Don't you understand the question?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Does it make you sad... or relieved?

Does it hurt less... or more... if it's someone hot turning you down?

I was a total gentleman over it even if you were brutal in the execution.

I'm not brutal.

I am sure it was you who said I should be back in crossroads!

That's a compliment surely.

Crossroads was an amazing soap opera with top notch acting and classy sets. You'll be too young to know what it was. who was it Benny?"

I'm Benny.

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