I have noticed that the number of couples where the lady is bi and they are really only interested in playing with the other lady has increased dramatically. 
One even suggested that the men could go to the pub for a drink while they played 
I'm sorry but that is not swinging to us,
What are your thoughts on this ?
Would you be happy to play this way |
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over a year ago
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I think swinging is whatever the couple wants it to be really. Everyone has their own agenda and that's why you only really meet up with people that fit into your way of thinking |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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Yes we would be happy to play this way, infact we have in the past. But it was something we had all agreed on beforehand.
I have also met and played with ladies on my own. (no partners present at all)
But then we are open to playing most ways (full swap, soft swap, girl/girl only, groups) |
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Why make a fuss about it if it isn't your thing, find other people who meet your requirements, i am sure there are some out there. Negativity is a turn off. Julie xx |
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I cant see anything wrong with guys buggering off for a while and letting the ladies play alone, not all women want to be performing seals and some perfer time alone just for them with another woman
If its not for you fair enough but its still swinging just because its not how you'd do it |
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"I have noticed that the number of couples where the lady is bi and they are really only interested in playing with the other lady has increased dramatically.
One even suggested that the men could go to the pub for a drink while they played
I'm sorry but that is not swinging to us,
What are your thoughts on this ?
Would you be happy to play this way "
That's a little dramatic isn't it? Someone isn't interested in playing with you so you call it not swinging! I thought the would that is more appropriate is choice. |
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"Why make a fuss about it if it isn't your thing, find other people who meet your requirements, i am sure there are some out there. Negativity is a turn off. Julie xx"
not making a fuss just curious that's all as we do seem to get mainly that sort of messages from `supposed` couples |
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"Why make a fuss about it if it isn't your thing, find other people who meet your requirements, i am sure there are some out there. Negativity is a turn off. Julie xx
not making a fuss just curious that's all as we do seem to get mainly that sort of messages from `supposed` couples "
eh why are they "supposed" couples?? just because they choose to play separately from time to time. it doesn't make them any less of a couple x |
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"Why make a fuss about it if it isn't your thing, find other people who meet your requirements, i am sure there are some out there. Negativity is a turn off. Julie xx
not making a fuss just curious that's all as we do seem to get mainly that sort of messages from `supposed` couples "
Your profile is virtually all demands and don't do this sont do that and you finish of "Sorry but that is our preference" Rgather ironic don't you think  |
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"I have noticed that the number of couples where the lady is bi and they are really only interested in playing with the other lady has increased dramatically.
One even suggested that the men could go to the pub for a drink while they played
I'm sorry but that is not swinging to us,
What are your thoughts on this ?
Would you be happy to play this way
That's a little dramatic isn't it? Someone isn't interested in playing with you so you call it not swinging! I thought the would that is more appropriate is choice."
yes it is but our profile states quite clearly we play as a couple
but these fems seem to have ditched their partners as far as swinging goes and expect me to do the same.
It is when they first message us for a meet then when all arrangements are made they drop in that bomb shell
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Why make a fuss about it if it isn't your thing, find other people who meet your requirements, i am sure there are some out there. Negativity is a turn off. Julie xx
not making a fuss just curious that's all as we do seem to get mainly that sort of messages from `supposed` couples
eh why are they "supposed" couples?? just because they choose to play separately from time to time. it doesn't make them any less of a couple x"
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