It can be tough, but it might be worth putting a bit more detail on your profile. Just now it suggests you're looking to find 2 single women to agree to meet for a 3 way.
I genuinely hope you beat the odds and find it, but the chances are slim. Why not put a bit more about yourself and your interests, and give the ladies something that suggests you might have some shared interests.... Beyond another lady  |
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Having a profile that says something about you and the person you are looking for is always a good start.
Reading profiles and only sending messages to people you think will match what you and they are looking for.
Getting involved in the forums and chat rooms is fun and helps to get to know people.
Also maybe attending a local social, getting to know people and hopefully getting verified.
Good luck.  |
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"Having a profile that says something about you and the person you are looking for is always a good start.
Reading profiles and only sending messages to people you think will match what you and they are looking for.
Getting involved in the forums and chat rooms is fun and helps to get to know people.
Also maybe attending a local social, getting to know people and hopefully getting verified.
Good luck. "
And have different pictures of socks |
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What were your expectations of this site? Were you thinking you'd sign up and get a shag within a matter of days? Also what's your messaging technique? Give me an example of something you have sent, I can give you a females perspective on it |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"Come one this thinking it was good
Can someone explain how to go about things as I ain’t having much luck lol and no replies
Unless I’m just an ugly fucker lol "
How do you get to Carnegie hall, practice.
This is like most social media sites it just takes time and a few connection, try clubs, go on cam, post interesting topic in the forum's bring out you personality. |
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"Different socks ?????????
Shhh! What’s the first rule of sock club? 
Oh that makes me the leader of sock club. 
The queen of socks.... "
Ohh I like that title. |
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"Different socks ?????????
Shhh! What’s the first rule of sock club?
Oh that makes me the leader of sock club.
The queen of socks....
Ohh I like that title. "
You should be thrown out your own club for talking about sock club
?????? |
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"Different socks ?????????
Shhh! What’s the first rule of sock club?
Oh that makes me the leader of sock club.
The queen of socks....
Ohh I like that title. "
You’re the soxiest person on this thread tonight  |
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"What were your expectations of this site? Were you thinking you'd sign up and get a shag within a matter of days? Also what's your messaging technique? Give me an example of something you have sent, I can give you a females perspective on it"
Send a pm let me know if it’s any good lol |
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"What were your expectations of this site? Were you thinking you'd sign up and get a shag within a matter of days? Also what's your messaging technique? Give me an example of something you have sent, I can give you a females perspective on it
Send a pm let me know if it’s any good lol "
Didn’t have any expectations tbh just thought I would give it a go as it was suggested to me by a friend |
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"Different socks ?????????
Shhh! What’s the first rule of sock club?
Oh that makes me the leader of sock club.
The queen of socks....
Ohh I like that title.
You should be thrown out your own club for talking about sock club
??????"
Ahh but I make the rules as queen of sock club so there!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been here over 2 years now and no one has met me I think I've had 1 maybe 2 people who were serious but it was at a club which I'm not a member of. If you wanna get verified go to a club |
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"What were your expectations of this site? Were you thinking you'd sign up and get a shag within a matter of days? Also what's your messaging technique? Give me an example of something you have sent, I can give you a females perspective on it
Send a pm let me know if it’s any good lol
Didn’t have any expectations tbh just thought I would give it a go as it was suggested to me by a friend "
Ok then give it more time |
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"Come one this thinking it was good
Can someone explain how to go about things as I ain’t having much luck lol and no replies
Unless I’m just an ugly fucker lol "
Take a look at tour profile. Look at it from a woman’s point of view and ask yourself if you’ve put in enough effort into the bio. Then remember that there are 1,000 men for every woman on here. Then ask yourself if you maybe need to make yourself stand out more.
This advice is coming from an ugly fucker who has 2 or 3 meets a week lol |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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OP.
You've only been on here for 3 weeks! It's not Instashag!
You are up against so many other guys all seeking the same thing.
You have to sell yourself, it's as simple as that to be noticed!
In your profile, people want to know what you can offer in a meet as well as what you'd like!
Get into clubs or socials in your area; get involved in the Forums.
It's all about becoming known, but it can take a lot of time, so Patience & Perseverance are key elements.
It does work! Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What were your expectations of this site? Were you thinking you'd sign up and get a shag within a matter of days? Also what's your messaging technique? Give me an example of something you have sent, I can give you a females perspective on it
Send a pm let me know if it’s any good lol
Didn’t have any expectations tbh just thought I would give it a go as it was suggested to me by a friend "
Is the friend who suggested this site, a man or a woman? |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I'd echo what others have said. I'd also say that it takes time to meet people, the average for guys getting a first meet is somewhere around 4/5 months.
It's all a learning curve and not just about your profile.
I kind of think that a person needs to work it out for themselves, if its handed to them or written for them then it's not genuinely 'them'.
I do wish you luck though OP, at least your first thread wasn't a ranty tirade... |
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"Come one this thinking it was good
Can someone explain how to go about things as I ain’t having much luck lol and no replies
Unless I’m just an ugly fucker lol
Take a look at tour profile. Look at it from a woman’s point of view and ask yourself if you’ve put in enough effort into the bio. Then remember that there are 1,000 men for every woman on here. Then ask yourself if you maybe need to make yourself stand out more.
This advice is coming from an ugly fucker who has 2 or 3 meets a week lol"
I was reading your profile in admiration... your my hero |
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Don't go thinking the only reason a man lacks success on here is purely down to looks. Much more relevant is how you present yourself on your profile and how you communicate.
You are in a big pool of single men looking for a small number of single women. You should be constantly asking yourself "Am I coming across as somebody a woman might want to meet?" That means socially much more than sexually. If a woman doesn't want to talk with you she sure as hell won't want to shag you. |
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"What were your expectations of this site? Were you thinking you'd sign up and get a shag within a matter of days? Also what's your messaging technique? Give me an example of something you have sent, I can give you a females perspective on it
Send a pm let me know if it’s any good lol
Didn’t have any expectations tbh just thought I would give it a go as it was suggested to me by a friend
Is the friend who suggested this site, a man or a woman?"
Women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've only been on fab for 3 weeks...
Putting more exciting pictures could be a good start.
Exciting pics in what respect ?"
I'll let you figure that out. |
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"What were your expectations of this site? Were you thinking you'd sign up and get a shag within a matter of days? Also what's your messaging technique? Give me an example of something you have sent, I can give you a females perspective on it
Send a pm let me know if it’s any good lol
Didn’t have any expectations tbh just thought I would give it a go as it was suggested to me by a friend
Is the friend who suggested this site, a man or a woman?
Women "
Women have a different experience than men on this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Always a laugh to see hardcore swingers or homebound forumites advising a bloke who wants a quick shag on how to do it....
Buddy you know yourself and you know what you want, go get it with that winning smile and fuck some fab shit up....!
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"Always a laugh to see hardcore swingers or homebound forumites advising a bloke who wants a quick shag on how to do it....
Buddy you know yourself and you know what you want, go get it with that winning smile and fuck some fab shit up....!
Nip "
I’m not just after a quick shag though really wouldn’t say no obviously lol |
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