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"Been seeing a married seperated women for 6 months on and off , Blah ,Blah , she as now moved out the family home ,and into her new house , with her kids ,and it's getting a bit to heavy , text's emails etc , i told her from day one i aint looking for a relationship , should ui tell her i'm on a Fab swingers site , or just wing it ?,can it be kept apart ,anyone else been in a similar position ? please tell uncle Ade "If she knew from day one that was just bit fun then why hide that your on here. But think about how you tell her because feelings change,she may have been happy with things to start but think differently about you now | |||
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"Whats she look like and are the rug rats out of nappies now n all that tickle tackle so you not tied down with baggage etc etc? " lol, rug rats older , but she 10 year younger than me ,and been in a stale relationship , i've hinted and sort of asked indirectly if she fancied 3 somes ,couples ,etc , but cant ,pin her down , no pun intended ,lol fit as fuck ,too, but  | |||
"tell her the truth, no sense in giving her false hopes on what may or may not happen between you two"  | |||
"Whats she look like and are the rug rats out of nappies now n all that tickle tackle so you not tied down with baggage etc etc? lol, rug rats older , but she 10 year younger than me ,and been in a stale relationship , i've hinted and sort of asked indirectly if she fancied 3 somes ,couples ,etc , but cant ,pin her down , no pun intended ,lol fit as fuck ,too, but "Be honest with her mate. If things do develope, your FAB life will only come and bite you on the ass at a later date. Thankfully, I met Jen through here, so never had all these things to worry about. You never know, if you do come clean, she may well be interested and try the scene out! Finally, if this dont help, there is an Ask Ade thread on here somewhere. Apparently, he can help with anything | |||
"Whats she look like and are the rug rats out of nappies now n all that tickle tackle so you not tied down with baggage etc etc? lol, rug rats older , but she 10 year younger than me ,and been in a stale relationship , i've hinted and sort of asked indirectly if she fancied 3 somes ,couples ,etc , but cant ,pin her down , no pun intended ,lol fit as fuck ,too, but "Sounds like she needs Timberiseing to me haha | |||
"Whats she look like and are the rug rats out of nappies now n all that tickle tackle so you not tied down with baggage etc etc? lol, rug rats older , but she 10 year younger than me ,and been in a stale relationship , i've hinted and sort of asked indirectly if she fancied 3 somes ,couples ,etc , but cant ,pin her down , no pun intended ,lol fit as fuck ,too, but
Be honest with her mate. If things do develope, your FAB life will only come and bite you on the ass at a later date.
Thankfully, I met Jen through here, so never had all these things to worry about.
You never know, if you do come clean, she may well be interested and try the scene out!
Finally, if this dont help, there is an Ask Ade thread on here somewhere. Apparently, he can help with anything "Hmm , Ask Ade .. eh , sounds like a good bloke , i may just do that , lol, well i was hoping she might join in on here , she's coming over tonight , so i may just accidently on purpose leave this Fab site on my computer , see if she responds so watch this space around 8 pm tonight ...  | |||
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"Whats she look like and are the rug rats out of nappies now n all that tickle tackle so you not tied down with baggage etc etc? lol, rug rats older , but she 10 year younger than me ,and been in a stale relationship , i've hinted and sort of asked indirectly if she fancied 3 somes ,couples ,etc , but cant ,pin her down , no pun intended ,lol fit as fuck ,too, but
Be honest with her mate. If things do develope, your FAB life will only come and bite you on the ass at a later date.
Thankfully, I met Jen through here, so never had all these things to worry about.
You never know, if you do come clean, she may well be interested and try the scene out!
Finally, if this dont help, there is an Ask Ade thread on here somewhere. Apparently, he can help with anything
Hmm , Ask Ade .. eh , sounds like a good bloke , i may just do that , lol, well i was hoping she might join in on here , she's coming over tonight , so i may just accidently on purpose leave this Fab site on my computer , see if she responds so watch this space around 8 pm tonight ... "Leave a webcam on, so we can see her reaction when she sees it | |||
"I have been seeing a vanilla guy since January. I just told him and showed him my profile. I suppose it was a case of me saying "this is what I am and what I have been doing". A like it or lump it situation. If he had not liked it I would have moved on. But ironically since telling him I have had no inclination to swing, just come on here now for the banter and keeping in touch with friends." HA HA ..i knew you was a pussy cat really ...GRRRRRRR | |||
"Whats she look like and are the rug rats out of nappies now n all that tickle tackle so you not tied down with baggage etc etc? lol, rug rats older , but she 10 year younger than me ,and been in a stale relationship , i've hinted and sort of asked indirectly if she fancied 3 somes ,couples ,etc , but cant ,pin her down , no pun intended ,lol fit as fuck ,too, but
Be honest with her mate. If things do develope, your FAB life will only come and bite you on the ass at a later date.
Thankfully, I met Jen through here, so never had all these things to worry about.
You never know, if you do come clean, she may well be interested and try the scene out!
Finally, if this dont help, there is an Ask Ade thread on here somewhere. Apparently, he can help with anything
Hmm , Ask Ade .. eh , sounds like a good bloke , i may just do that , lol, well i was hoping she might join in on here , she's coming over tonight , so i may just accidently on purpose leave this Fab site on my computer , see if she responds so watch this space around 8 pm tonight ...
Leave a webcam on, so we can see her reaction when she sees it "Ha ,Ha , thats being a bit too naughty , even for me | |||
"I have been seeing a vanilla guy since January. I just told him and showed him my profile. I suppose it was a case of me saying "this is what I am and what I have been doing". A like it or lump it situation. If he had not liked it I would have moved on. But ironically since telling him I have had no inclination to swing, just come on here now for the banter and keeping in touch with friends." Ya but id still shag ya tho given half the chance MATE!haha | |||
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"I would test the water on how she feels about a no strings relationship before I go and tell her everything. Once you have told her about swinging and fab you can't untell her. If she reacts badly what she tells others might be unfair and reflect badly on you. But if she is ok with it, you can build up to telling her gradually. I would just start by reminding her you aren't looking for anything serious and prefer to be free to meet others, as should she if she wants. It may just be that now she has her own place and no restrictions, she wants to make the most of it and have you round to play more than before." Ha ha , your right of course , but i was married 19 years ,been divorced over 10 years ,i got a son and daughter late 20's , , and i love my FREEDOM , she knows i'm no angel , but as you say , she's smitten ...well she's bound to be ..i'm lovely ..!! | |||
"I have been seeing a vanilla guy since January. I just told him and showed him my profile. I suppose it was a case of me saying "this is what I am and what I have been doing". A like it or lump it situation. If he had not liked it I would have moved on. But ironically since telling him I have had no inclination to swing, just come on here now for the banter and keeping in touch with friends. Ya but id still shag ya tho given half the chance MATE!haha" who you calling mate  | |||
"I have been seeing a vanilla guy since January. I just told him and showed him my profile. I suppose it was a case of me saying "this is what I am and what I have been doing". A like it or lump it situation. If he had not liked it I would have moved on. But ironically since telling him I have had no inclination to swing, just come on here now for the banter and keeping in touch with friends. HA HA ..i knew you was a pussy cat really ...GRRRRRRR "pussy cats have claws yer know ya knoblet | |||
"I have been seeing a vanilla guy since January. I just told him and showed him my profile. I suppose it was a case of me saying "this is what I am and what I have been doing". A like it or lump it situation. If he had not liked it I would have moved on. But ironically since telling him I have had no inclination to swing, just come on here now for the banter and keeping in touch with friends. HA HA ..i knew you was a pussy cat really ...GRRRRRRR
pussy cats have claws yer know ya knoblet "Hmmm, i do hope so ...  | |||
"I have been seeing a vanilla guy since January. I just told him and showed him my profile. I suppose it was a case of me saying "this is what I am and what I have been doing". A like it or lump it situation. If he had not liked it I would have moved on. But ironically since telling him I have had no inclination to swing, just come on here now for the banter and keeping in touch with friends. HA HA ..i knew you was a pussy cat really ...GRRRRRRR
pussy cats have claws yer know ya knoblet "Yeah n teeth as well lol take yours out hun and get ya gums round this whilst ya doing fuck all hey haha x | |||
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"I have been seeing a vanilla guy since January. I just told him and showed him my profile. I suppose it was a case of me saying "this is what I am and what I have been doing". A like it or lump it situation. If he had not liked it I would have moved on. But ironically since telling him I have had no inclination to swing, just come on here now for the banter and keeping in touch with friends. HA HA ..i knew you was a pussy cat really ...GRRRRRRR
pussy cats have claws yer know ya knoblet
Yeah n teeth as well lol take yours out hun and get ya gums round this whilst ya doing fuck all hey haha x"get my gums around your plums you asking.....watch it mister | |||
"I think you should man-up and tell her how things are and then she know where she stand ... never know she may like to be here too." I might let you be our first adventure ... | |||
"I have been seeing a vanilla guy since January. I just told him and showed him my profile. I suppose it was a case of me saying "this is what I am and what I have been doing". A like it or lump it situation. If he had not liked it I would have moved on. But ironically since telling him I have had no inclination to swing, just come on here now for the banter and keeping in touch with friends. HA HA ..i knew you was a pussy cat really ...GRRRRRRR
pussy cats have claws yer know ya knoblet
Yeah n teeth as well lol take yours out hun and get ya gums round this whilst ya doing fuck all hey haha x
get my gums around your plums you asking.....watch it mister "wierdo you wench lol fancy bringing the thought of fruit n veg into this topic when ive had nowt to eat yet all morning as nobody loves or wants to care for me booooo boooooo hoooooow But I dont let it get to me ya no  | |||
"I think you should man-up and tell her how things are and then she know where she stand ... never know she may like to be here too. I might let you be our first adventure ... "yes maybe , lol if she is coming on strong she must be thinking its more then sex with you .. | |||
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"well i find honesty is still the best policy, if your just playing around they should know, like if im dating and im going on a date with someone and not in relationship and someone asks well i'll straight up tell them what im doing, and where _ am with the other person so they know this before agreeing to do anything and i'll let the other lass know as well. good to be honest in a world full of shit. now one thing you always have to know about seeing people in proper world is alot of women may agree to no relationship or to be fuck buddies, but every case has its own merrit. from the start you gotta suss thier reasons for wanting this relationship, are they just after regular NSA/fuck buddies coz they cant be arsed with a relationship or want someone constantly inbetween guys? if thats the case then yeah they wont be looking for a relationship (unless they unwittingly fall for you over time) are they just wanting to regulary see someone as friends and thats why they agree to seeing you without a relationship (as alot of women like to start this way as a method of taking things slow if they dont think they are 100% ready for something full on - if so they arnt doing it just for sex and will want a relationship with you they are just doing it in a way that makes it easier for them to handle one step at a time) are they settling for what ever terms you put out there coz they want a relationship and will take what you offer? as i know a few lasses who are more than game to be fuck buddies but really they like you and know its a way in hoping for the best. if you want to have a nsa relationship that stands the test of time then you both need to be on the same page and keep it that way even if you get close, if its not going to work you need to get real and not let that mess things up but if its the other situtations well sometimes people agree to things so they dont miss out hoping things will change. end of the day you might of said no relationship from the start, but you obv hid your fab life from her as didnt want her to know your shagging about as she probally wouldnt of been interested. its been a good six months now, if you spent alot of time with her then yeah they a good chance alot of feelings have developed, maybe on your part too (i dont know) but it dont sound like the sort of thing where you can have your cake and eat it. sounds like she just wanted to be friends first and see how things panned out, i think some women do that as a form of security knowing they can get out of it easily enough without the guy being able to say oh thoght you wanted a relationship etc and so they can take small steps each at a time. she probs thinks that even thought you said that originally that because you have stuck around and seen her that much that your practically there alreday now, its a confusing thing even for both parties sometimes. but you got to either be honest to her about what your doing or at the minimum say look i told you i didnt want a relationship and nothings changed for me. it just will probally mean it complicates things for you, but you cant have your cake and eat it in alot of cases when feelings come into play! but yeah if you having a relationship without the relationship then always be wary why a woman would want to do this. motives need to be established if its someone that you have no interest in a relationship with otherwise can end in tears for one if it goes to far" good to be honest in a world full of shit. now one thing you always have to OK SO I GOT TO THIS BIT TOOK A LOOK AT THE REST BELOW AND THOUGHT IF IM HONEST I CANT REALLY BE ARSED READING ANYMORE AS ITS JUST GOES ON AND ON AND ON AND ... | |||
If she is just out of a tedious marriage, she may not fancy being stuck with one person so quickly anyhoo.
Good Luck uncle Ade | |||
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"I think you should man-up and tell her how things are and then she know where she stand ... never know she may like to be here too. I might let you be our first adventure ... yes maybe , lol if she is coming on strong she must be thinking its more then sex with you .."Well of course she is , i'm just what every women needs , but she weould be being selfish , keeping me to herself , now would'nt she ...
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"Just re-affirm the fact that you are NOT looking for a monogamous relationship. You don't have to mention the Swinging thing at all if you make it clear she is not your only interest
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This^^^
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"Just re-affirm the fact that you are NOT looking for a monogamous relationship. You don't have to mention the Swinging thing at all if you make it clear she is not your only interest
If she is just out of a tedious marriage, she may not fancy being stuck with one person so quickly anyhoo.
Good Luck uncle Ade "Hmmm, are you fishing for a 3 some with us then . you never know ya luck in a raffle , | |||
" Hmmm, are you fishing for a 3 some with us then . you never know ya luck in a raffle , "I'm not into girls in anything more than a kiss and a cuddle .... and that's still more than you'd get
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" Hmmm, are you fishing for a 3 some with us then . you never know ya luck in a raffle ,
I'm not into girls in anything more than a kiss and a cuddle .... and that's still more than you'd get
"Lol, your just being jealous cos you want me all to your self ..TOOOOOOOOOO. | |||
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"If she knows you and her are not exclusive, I don't see the need to go into the detail of which websites you use. If she doesn't know you and her are not exclusive, you haven't really been as open with her as you may like to think you have been. The big questions is... do you want do you want from her." Har , now then , i know women arent on this planet for my entertainment , even tho they think i'm on here for theirs ....so who's being selfish really , ? as i said right at the begining of this thread , iwas up front right from the word go , she knows i'm on other sex and dating sites ... she just don't know about this one ... | |||
"Whats she look like and are the rug rats out of nappies now n all that tickle tackle so you not tied down with baggage etc etc? lol, rug rats older , but she 10 year younger than me ,and been in a stale relationship , i've hinted and sort of asked indirectly if she fancied 3 somes ,couples ,etc , but cant ,pin her down , no pun intended ,lol fit as fuck ,too, but
Be honest with her mate. If things do develope, your FAB life will only come and bite you on the ass at a later date.
Thankfully, I met Jen through here, so never had all these things to worry about.
You never know, if you do come clean, she may well be interested and try the scene out!
Finally, if this dont help, there is an Ask Ade thread on here somewhere. Apparently, he can help with anything
Hmm , Ask Ade .. eh , sounds like a good bloke , i may just do that , lol, well i was hoping she might join in on here , she's coming over tonight , so i may just accidently on purpose leave this Fab site on my computer , see if she responds so watch this space around 8 pm tonight ...
Leave a webcam on, so we can see her reaction when she sees it "lmfao
* cReEpS rOunD cRypT * | |||
"If she knows you and her are not exclusive, I don't see the need to go into the detail of which websites you use. If she doesn't know you and her are not exclusive, you haven't really been as open with her as you may like to think you have been. The big questions is... do you want do you want from her. Har , now then , i know women arent on this planet for my entertainment , even tho they think i'm on here for theirs ....so who's being selfish really , ? as i said right at the begining of this thread , iwas up front right from the word go , she knows i'm on other sex and dating sites ... she just don't know about this one ... "I just think your here to be used and abused by us women. Just thank your lucky star's I have hung up my shagging swinging boots for a while | |||
"Whats she look like and are the rug rats out of nappies now n all that tickle tackle so you not tied down with baggage etc etc? lol, rug rats older , but she 10 year younger than me ,and been in a stale relationship , i've hinted and sort of asked indirectly if she fancied 3 somes ,couples ,etc , but cant ,pin her down , no pun intended ,lol fit as fuck ,too, but
Be honest with her mate. If things do develope, your FAB life will only come and bite you on the ass at a later date.
Thankfully, I met Jen through here, so never had all these things to worry about.
You never know, if you do come clean, she may well be interested and try the scene out!
Finally, if this dont help, there is an Ask Ade thread on here somewhere. Apparently, he can help with anything
Hmm , Ask Ade .. eh , sounds like a good bloke , i may just do that , lol, well i was hoping she might join in on here , she's coming over tonight , so i may just accidently on purpose leave this Fab site on my computer , see if she responds so watch this space around 8 pm tonight ...
Leave a webcam on, so we can see her reaction when she sees it lmfao
* cReEpS rOunD cRypT *"Where've you been ? | |||
"Whats she look like and are the rug rats out of nappies now n all that tickle tackle so you not tied down with baggage etc etc? lol, rug rats older , but she 10 year younger than me ,and been in a stale relationship , i've hinted and sort of asked indirectly if she fancied 3 somes ,couples ,etc , but cant ,pin her down , no pun intended ,lol fit as fuck ,too, but
Be honest with her mate. If things do develope, your FAB life will only come and bite you on the ass at a later date.
Thankfully, I met Jen through here, so never had all these things to worry about.
You never know, if you do come clean, she may well be interested and try the scene out!
Finally, if this dont help, there is an Ask Ade thread on here somewhere. Apparently, he can help with anything
Hmm , Ask Ade .. eh , sounds like a good bloke , i may just do that , lol, well i was hoping she might join in on here , she's coming over tonight , so i may just accidently on purpose leave this Fab site on my computer , see if she responds so watch this space around 8 pm tonight ...
Leave a webcam on, so we can see her reaction when she sees it lmfao
* cReEpS rOunD cRypT *
Where've you been ?"she has been creeping round crypts, where do you think she has bin | |||
"Whats she look like and are the rug rats out of nappies now n all that tickle tackle so you not tied down with baggage etc etc? lol, rug rats older , but she 10 year younger than me ,and been in a stale relationship , i've hinted and sort of asked indirectly if she fancied 3 somes ,couples ,etc , but cant ,pin her down , no pun intended ,lol fit as fuck ,too, but
Be honest with her mate. If things do develope, your FAB life will only come and bite you on the ass at a later date.
Thankfully, I met Jen through here, so never had all these things to worry about.
You never know, if you do come clean, she may well be interested and try the scene out!
Finally, if this dont help, there is an Ask Ade thread on here somewhere. Apparently, he can help with anything
Hmm , Ask Ade .. eh , sounds like a good bloke , i may just do that , lol, well i was hoping she might join in on here , she's coming over tonight , so i may just accidently on purpose leave this Fab site on my computer , see if she responds so watch this space around 8 pm tonight ...
Leave a webcam on, so we can see her reaction when she sees it lmfao
* cReEpS rOunD cRypT *
Where've you been ?"Been awaiting Me ....no doubt ... | |||
"Whats she look like and are the rug rats out of nappies now n all that tickle tackle so you not tied down with baggage etc etc? lol, rug rats older , but she 10 year younger than me ,and been in a stale relationship , i've hinted and sort of asked indirectly if she fancied 3 somes ,couples ,etc , but cant ,pin her down , no pun intended ,lol fit as fuck ,too, but
Be honest with her mate. If things do develope, your FAB life will only come and bite you on the ass at a later date.
Thankfully, I met Jen through here, so never had all these things to worry about.
You never know, if you do come clean, she may well be interested and try the scene out!
Finally, if this dont help, there is an Ask Ade thread on here somewhere. Apparently, he can help with anything
Hmm , Ask Ade .. eh , sounds like a good bloke , i may just do that , lol, well i was hoping she might join in on here , she's coming over tonight , so i may just accidently on purpose leave this Fab site on my computer , see if she responds so watch this space around 8 pm tonight ...
Leave a webcam on, so we can see her reaction when she sees it lmfao
* cReEpS rOunD cRypT *
Where've you been ?
she has been creeping round crypts, where do you think she has bin"Well ..... she must have crept round every crypt in crypt kingdom. | |||
"Whats she look like and are the rug rats out of nappies now n all that tickle tackle so you not tied down with baggage etc etc? lol, rug rats older , but she 10 year younger than me ,and been in a stale relationship , i've hinted and sort of asked indirectly if she fancied 3 somes ,couples ,etc , but cant ,pin her down , no pun intended ,lol fit as fuck ,too, but
Be honest with her mate. If things do develope, your FAB life will only come and bite you on the ass at a later date.
Thankfully, I met Jen through here, so never had all these things to worry about.
You never know, if you do come clean, she may well be interested and try the scene out!
Finally, if this dont help, there is an Ask Ade thread on here somewhere. Apparently, he can help with anything
Hmm , Ask Ade .. eh , sounds like a good bloke , i may just do that , lol, well i was hoping she might join in on here , she's coming over tonight , so i may just accidently on purpose leave this Fab site on my computer , see if she responds so watch this space around 8 pm tonight ...
Leave a webcam on, so we can see her reaction when she sees it lmfao
* cReEpS rOunD cRypT *
Where've you been ?
Been awaiting Me ....no doubt ... "Nah ..that would be creeps round crapt | |||
"Whats she look like and are the rug rats out of nappies now n all that tickle tackle so you not tied down with baggage etc etc? lol, rug rats older , but she 10 year younger than me ,and been in a stale relationship , i've hinted and sort of asked indirectly if she fancied 3 somes ,couples ,etc , but cant ,pin her down , no pun intended ,lol fit as fuck ,too, but
Be honest with her mate. If things do develope, your FAB life will only come and bite you on the ass at a later date.
Thankfully, I met Jen through here, so never had all these things to worry about.
You never know, if you do come clean, she may well be interested and try the scene out!
Finally, if this dont help, there is an Ask Ade thread on here somewhere. Apparently, he can help with anything
Hmm , Ask Ade .. eh , sounds like a good bloke , i may just do that , lol, well i was hoping she might join in on here , she's coming over tonight , so i may just accidently on purpose leave this Fab site on my computer , see if she responds so watch this space around 8 pm tonight ...
Leave a webcam on, so we can see her reaction when she sees it lmfao
* cReEpS rOunD cRypT *
Where've you been ?
Been awaiting Me ....no doubt ... "trying to avoid you but tripped over the queue of women waiting to shag your brains out | |||
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"Pussy are you in the hall of mirrors again ?" yer you know me I get off looking at me beef curtains/bomber doors in mirrors | |||
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"If she knows you and her are not exclusive, I don't see the need to go into the detail of which websites you use. If she doesn't know you and her are not exclusive, you haven't really been as open with her as you may like to think you have been. The big questions is... do you want do you want from her. Har , now then , i know women arent on this planet for my entertainment , even tho they think i'm on here for theirs ....so who's being selfish really , ? as i said right at the begining of this thread , iwas up front right from the word go , she knows i'm on other sex and dating sites ... she just don't know about this one ... "OK so you have listening problems, even with the written word... so may be don't tell her anything as you won't hear what she has to say 
I have not mentioned anyone being selfish.
Right at the begining of this thread you said you were upfront about not wanting a relationship... not whether you would be exclusive.... the two are different and hence the comments in my post.
If she knows you are on other sex and dating sites, what difference does it make if she knows the name of this one? Unless you just want to rub her nose in it of course by encouraging her to come and look at you and your flirting fan club.
So just in case.... she doesn't need to know the NAME of the websites you use... only the fact that you use them. | |||
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"no one likes being misled even if the truth is hard to swallow." Does that apply to a man with a 13" cock and loves BJs? | |||
"If she knows you and her are not exclusive, I don't see the need to go into the detail of which websites you use. If she doesn't know you and her are not exclusive, you haven't really been as open with her as you may like to think you have been. The big questions is... do you want do you want from her. Har , now then , i know women arent on this planet for my entertainment , even tho they think i'm on here for theirs ....so who's being selfish really , ? as i said right at the begining of this thread , iwas up front right from the word go , she knows i'm on other sex and dating sites ... she just don't know about this one ...
OK so you have listening problems, even with the written word... so may be don't tell her anything as you won't hear what she has to say
I have not mentioned anyone being selfish.
Right at the begining of this thread you said you were upfront about not wanting a relationship... not whether you would be exclusive.... the two are different and hence the comments in my post.
If she knows you are on other sex and dating sites, what difference does it make if she knows the name of this one? Unless you just want to rub her nose in it of course by encouraging her to come and look at you and your flirting fan club.
So just in case.... she doesn't need to know the NAME of the websites you use... only the fact that you use them."Hmmm , not sure if i'm cunning across loud and clear here , she knows i dont want a relationship with just one women ...but she dont know i'm thinking of telling her about this site , and the obvious question that i would have thought you might have clicked , as to if she would be happy to take part too, or would she just say yes to please me , now my dilema is , do i just show her how much fun i have on here , and how friendly 95% of you are , or do i tell her it's over ... | |||
" Hmmm , not sure if i'm cunning across loud and clear here , she knows i dont want a relationship with just one women ...but she dont know i'm thinking of telling her about this site , and the obvious question that i would have thought you might have clicked , as to if she would be happy to take part too, or would she just say yes to please me , now my dilema is , do i just show her how much fun i have on here , and how friendly 95% of you are , or do i tell her it's over ... "So she doesnt know you actually sleep with other women but she knows that you dont want a monogamous relationship? or she does know that you sleep with other women? because no your not coming across very clearly lol | |||
" Hmmm , not sure if i'm cunning across loud and clear here , she knows i dont want a relationship with just one women ...but she dont know i'm thinking of telling her about this site , and the obvious question that i would have thought you might have clicked , as to if she would be happy to take part too, or would she just say yes to please me , now my dilema is , do i just show her how much fun i have on here , and how friendly 95% of you are , or do i tell her it's over ...
So she doesnt know you actually sleep with other women but she knows that you dont want a monogamous relationship?
or she does know that you sleep with other women?
because no your not coming across very clearly lol
"Lol,you women are so wanting , jesus ,she knows i sleep with other women ...safe sex , i never go in without a skin ... | |||
" Hmmm , not sure if i'm cunning across loud and clear here , she knows i dont want a relationship with just one women ...but she dont know i'm thinking of telling her about this site , and the obvious question that i would have thought you might have clicked , as to if she would be happy to take part too, or would she just say yes to please me , now my dilema is , do i just show her how much fun i have on here , and how friendly 95% of you are , or do i tell her it's over ...
So she doesnt know you actually sleep with other women but she knows that you dont want a monogamous relationship?
or she does know that you sleep with other women?
because no your not coming across very clearly lol
Lol,you women are so wanting , jesus ,she knows i sleep with other women ...safe sex , i never go in without a skin ... "Right then if she knows you sleep with other women, whats the problem with showing her the site.. no dilemma at all... if she isnt into it then she will say if she is curious then she will try it.. | |||
" Hmmm , not sure if i'm cunning across loud and clear here , she knows i dont want a relationship with just one women ...but she dont know i'm thinking of telling her about this site , and the obvious question that i would have thought you might have clicked , as to if she would be happy to take part too, or would she just say yes to please me , now my dilema is , do i just show her how much fun i have on here , and how friendly 95% of you are , or do i tell her it's over ...
So she doesnt know you actually sleep with other women but she knows that you dont want a monogamous relationship?
or she does know that you sleep with other women?
because no your not coming across very clearly lol
Lol,you women are so wanting , jesus ,she knows i sleep with other women ...safe sex , i never go in without a skin ...
Right then if she knows you sleep with other women, whats the problem with showing her the site.. no dilemma at all... if she isnt into it then she will say if she is curious then she will try it.. "Thanks , i'll dump her then ... | |||
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"surely u know if her fantasies involve something this site could make real? If you dont, start from there, sharing fantasies is fun, if they do, well your sorted. "Yeah , But i'm a single bloke , i dont want to have to explain to all my ladies who or what or when , or why , i can understand if i was married , engaged etc , but i'm free and single ..she's still married dont forget , although now living apart .. it aintb just black and white , thats why i put this up , but i did ask in the first sentance if anyone has had a similar problem ??,, Cheers | |||
"surely u know if her fantasies involve something this site could make real? If you dont, start from there, sharing fantasies is fun, if they do, well your sorted.
Yeah , But i'm a single bloke , i dont want to have to explain to all my ladies who or what or when , or why , i can understand if i was married , engaged etc , but i'm free and single ..she's still married dont forget , although now living apart .. it aintb just black and white , thats why i put this up , but i did ask in the first sentance if anyone has had a similar problem ??,,
Cheers ""all your ladies" how many do you have then ? | |||
"surely u know if her fantasies involve something this site could make real? If you dont, start from there, sharing fantasies is fun, if they do, well your sorted.
Yeah , But i'm a single bloke , i dont want to have to explain to all my ladies who or what or when , or why , i can understand if i was married , engaged etc , but i'm free and single ..she's still married dont forget , although now living apart .. it aintb just black and white , thats why i put this up , but i did ask in the first sentance if anyone has had a similar problem ??,,
Cheers "all your ladies" how many do you have then ?"One more than i need at the Moment ...it aint finding them thats hard ,it's getting rid of them i have a problem with ... | |||
"surely u know if her fantasies involve something this site could make real? If you dont, start from there, sharing fantasies is fun, if they do, well your sorted.
Yeah , But i'm a single bloke , i dont want to have to explain to all my ladies who or what or when , or why , i can understand if i was married , engaged etc , but i'm free and single ..she's still married dont forget , although now living apart .. it aintb just black and white , thats why i put this up , but i did ask in the first sentance if anyone has had a similar problem ??,,
Cheers "all your ladies" how many do you have then ?
One more than i need at the Moment ...it aint finding them thats hard ,it's getting rid of them i have a problem with ... "Must be all that charm and sophistication they find irresistible, i dont envy you, maybe you should draw up a rota? That may work  | |||
"surely u know if her fantasies involve something this site could make real? If you dont, start from there, sharing fantasies is fun, if they do, well your sorted.
Yeah , But i'm a single bloke , i dont want to have to explain to all my ladies who or what or when , or why , i can understand if i was married , engaged etc , but i'm free and single ..she's still married dont forget , although now living apart .. it aintb just black and white , thats why i put this up , but i did ask in the first sentance if anyone has had a similar problem ??,,
Cheers "all your ladies" how many do you have then ?
One more than i need at the Moment ...it aint finding them thats hard ,it's getting rid of them i have a problem with ... "Pull the valve out! | |||
" Yeah , But i'm a single bloke , i dont want to have to explain to all my ladies who or what or when , or why , i can understand if i was married , engaged etc , but i'm free and single " but your intimation suggests that she may think different, hence your quandary it also seems obvious that despite your proclaimed single status, you feel 'something' for the lady or you wouldn't be worried about the outcome of revealing your fab status or the effect it will have on the 'relationship' you have with her all things aside, keep it simple tell her and let her make her own judgements | |||
"surely u know if her fantasies involve something this site could make real? If you dont, start from there, sharing fantasies is fun, if they do, well your sorted.
Yeah , But i'm a single bloke , i dont want to have to explain to all my ladies who or what or when , or why , i can understand if i was married , engaged etc , but i'm free and single ..she's still married dont forget , although now living apart .. it aintb just black and white , thats why i put this up , but i did ask in the first sentance if anyone has had a similar problem ??,,
Cheers "all your ladies" how many do you have then ?
One more than i need at the Moment ...it aint finding them thats hard ,it's getting rid of them i have a problem with ... Must be all that charm and sophistication they find irresistible, i dont envy you, maybe you should draw up a rota? That may work "Yeah you should try walking in my shoes for a day , it's HARD being me ..., are you skating tonight ..) | |||
" Yeah , But i'm a single bloke , i dont want to have to explain to all my ladies who or what or when , or why , i can understand if i was married , engaged etc , but i'm free and single but your intimation suggests that she may think different, hence your quandary it also seems obvious that despite your proclaimed single status, you feel 'something' for the lady or you wouldn't be worried about the outcome of revealing your fab status or the effect it will have on the 'relationship' you have with her all things aside, keep it simple tell her and let her make her own judgements " Good answer , | |||
" Hmmm , not sure if i'm cunning across loud and clear here , she knows i dont want a relationship with just one women ...but she dont know i'm thinking of telling her about this site , and the obvious question that i would have thought you might have clicked , as to if she would be happy to take part too, or would she just say yes to please me , now my dilema is , do i just show her how much fun i have on here , and how friendly 95% of you are , or do i tell her it's over ... "Oh I think you are coming across loud and clear.... it just might not be the message you intended. So in summary.... you open saying the situation with you and her is getting a bit too heavy... and you want to know if you should tell her you are on a specific swinging site to see if she is interested in getting involved, even though you think the current situation is getting too heavy. You seem to believe you have two options... dump her or get her on here. I'd say dump her...... you'll be doing her a favour. | |||
"Yeah you should try walking in my shoes for a day , it's HARD being me ..., are you skating tonight ..) "Mebbe you should try walking for a day in her shoes, then when you tell her, you've got a damn good head start and she's shoeless.......
Just a thought..... | |||
" Hmmm , not sure if i'm cunning across loud and clear here , she knows i dont want a relationship with just one women ...but she dont know i'm thinking of telling her about this site , and the obvious question that i would have thought you might have clicked , as to if she would be happy to take part too, or would she just say yes to please me , now my dilema is , do i just show her how much fun i have on here , and how friendly 95% of you are , or do i tell her it's over ...
Oh I think you are coming across loud and clear.... it just might not be the message you intended.
So in summary.... you open saying the situation with you and her is getting a bit too heavy... and you want to know if you should tell her you are on a specific swinging site to see if she is interested in getting involved, even though you think the current situation is getting too heavy.
You seem to believe you have two options... dump her or get her on here.
I'd say dump her...... you'll be doing her a favour.
"Thats exactly what i thought .. | |||
" Thats exactly what i thought .. "I wonder if that includes all the words I took out  | |||
" Thats exactly what i thought ..
I wonder if that includes all the words I took out "Lol, so now we got the foreplay out the way .. when do you want me | |||
" Thats exactly what i thought ..
I wonder if that includes all the words I took out
Lol, so now we got the foreplay out the way .. when do you want me "I guess the appropraite answer is 'anytime'..... I'm just surpised you are interested in what I had in mind. | |||
" Thats exactly what i thought ..
I wonder if that includes all the words I took out
Lol, so now we got the foreplay out the way .. when do you want me
I guess the appropraite answer is 'anytime'..... I'm just surpised you are interested in what I had in mind."Well as you have no doubt guessed by now , i'm not into girly girlies , or push overs or clingy bunny boilers , i aint read your profile , mainly cos i cant be arsed ,lol, but i can tell by the way you cum across that your a Tigeress , you like to roam free ,because yhats when your at your bestn , in the wild amongst us other beasts , caging you up would be the death of you ..so Wild one , go for the kill , i might just be the prey you've been waiting to get your teeth into .... | |||
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"I've been eating too many frosties "Ha Ha ... you need a smaller spoon .. | |||
"I've been eating too many frosties
Ha Ha ... you need a smaller spoon .. "Tut .... there is no spoon!
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"I've been eating too many frosties
Ha Ha ... you need a smaller spoon ..
Tut .... there is no spoon!
"hmm, i quite like you , you have potential .. PM me some time , i'll sort out a window for you .. | |||
"I've been eating too many frosties
Ha Ha ... you need a smaller spoon ..
Tut .... there is no spoon!
hmm, i quite like you , you have potential .. PM me some time , i'll sort out a window for you .. "I've already sorted out a window for you... don't worry it's on the ground floor. | |||
"I've been eating too many frosties
Ha Ha ... you need a smaller spoon ..
Tut .... there is no spoon!
hmm, i quite like you , you have potential .. PM me some time , i'll sort out a window for you ..
I've already sorted out a window for you... don't worry it's on the ground floor."i do hope it's the round one .. | |||
"I've been eating too many frosties
Ha Ha ... you need a smaller spoon ..
Tut .... there is no spoon!
hmm, i quite like you , you have potential .. PM me some time , i'll sort out a window for you ..
I've already sorted out a window for you... don't worry it's on the ground floor.
i do hope it's the round one .. "Sadly I fear it is not one of the play school windows. I took the precaution of selecting one away from any court ordered exclusion zones you may need to comply with. | |||
"I've been eating too many frosties
Ha Ha ... you need a smaller spoon ..
Tut .... there is no spoon!
hmm, i quite like you , you have potential .. PM me some time , i'll sort out a window for you ..
I've already sorted out a window for you... don't worry it's on the ground floor.
i do hope it's the round one ..
Sadly I fear it is not one of the play school windows. I took the precaution of selecting one away from any court ordered exclusion zones you may need to comply with. "So you aint cumming out to play then after all ?.have i got to pull your pigtails some more ?or are you Playing hard to get
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"surely u know if her fantasies involve something this site could make real? If you dont, start from there, sharing fantasies is fun, if they do, well your sorted.
Yeah , But i'm a single bloke , i dont want to have to explain to all my ladies who or what or when , or why , i can understand if i was married , engaged etc , but i'm free and single ..she's still married dont forget , although now living apart .. it aintb just black and white , thats why i put this up , but i did ask in the first sentance if anyone has had a similar problem ??,,
Cheers "Mmmmm what has not wanting to explain yourself to her got to do with having better sex...and this is why we get into debates about what is a swinger...no one says u have to settle down with her. The various long term meets i have over the years have been filthy buggers who have enjoyed mutal exploration and fantasies.None of them were any more than friends i fucked. But i think my words will go over the head of someone whose reply to be sexually open is im a single bloke so i may as well withdraw now. | |||
"I've been eating too many frosties
Ha Ha ... you need a smaller spoon ..
Tut .... there is no spoon!
hmm, i quite like you , you have potential .. PM me some time , i'll sort out a window for you ..
I've already sorted out a window for you... don't worry it's on the ground floor.
i do hope it's the round one ..
Sadly I fear it is not one of the play school windows. I took the precaution of selecting one away from any court ordered exclusion zones you may need to comply with.
So you aint cumming out to play then after all ?.have i got to pull your pigtails some more ?or are you Playing hard to get
"Oh no......... the window is ready and waiting. | |||
"surely u know if her fantasies involve something this site could make real? If you dont, start from there, sharing fantasies is fun, if they do, well your sorted.
Yeah , But i'm a single bloke , i dont want to have to explain to all my ladies who or what or when , or why , i can understand if i was married , engaged etc , but i'm free and single ..she's still married dont forget , although now living apart .. it aintb just black and white , thats why i put this up , but i did ask in the first sentance if anyone has had a similar problem ??,,
Cheers
Mmmmm what has not wanting to explain yourself to her got to do with having better sex...and this is why we get into debates about what is a swinger...no one says u have to settle down with her.
The various long term meets i have over the years have been filthy buggers who have enjoyed mutal exploration and fantasies.None of them were any more than friends i fucked.
But i think my words will go over the head of someone whose reply to be sexually open is im a single bloke so i may as well withdraw now."YEP , your right , but of course you already knew that ... | |||
"surely u know if her fantasies involve something this site could make real? If you dont, start from there, sharing fantasies is fun, if they do, well your sorted.
Yeah , But i'm a single bloke , i dont want to have to explain to all my ladies who or what or when , or why , i can understand if i was married , engaged etc , but i'm free and single ..she's still married dont forget , although now living apart .. it aintb just black and white , thats why i put this up , but i did ask in the first sentance if anyone has had a similar problem ??,,
Cheers
Mmmmm what has not wanting to explain yourself to her got to do with having better sex...and this is why we get into debates about what is a swinger...no one says u have to settle down with her.
The various long term meets i have over the years have been filthy buggers who have enjoyed mutal exploration and fantasies.None of them were any more than friends i fucked.
But i think my words will go over the head of someone whose reply to be sexually open is im a single bloke so i may as well withdraw now.
YEP , your right , but of course you already knew that ... "i know everything darling... | |||
"One more than i need at the Moment ...it aint finding them thats hard ,it's getting rid of them i have a problem with ... "Sheesh! You're a real catch aren't you. All these lucky ladies who would be suicidal if you decided they were superfluous to your ego. Do us all a favour and tell her, cos then she'll either come on here and tell us all what you're really like, or she'll have ya gonads as earrings. | |||
"One more than i need at the Moment ...it aint finding them thats hard ,it's getting rid of them i have a problem with ...
Sheesh! You're a real catch aren't you. All these lucky ladies who would be suicidal if you decided they were superfluous to your ego.
Do us all a favour and tell her, cos then she'll either come on here and tell us all what you're really like, or she'll have ya gonads as earrings. "you still hiding behind that photo ...talk to me face to face if you want me to take you seriously ... | |||
"One more than i need at the Moment ...it aint finding them thats hard ,it's getting rid of them i have a problem with ...
Sheesh! You're a real catch aren't you. All these lucky ladies who would be suicidal if you decided they were superfluous to your ego.
Do us all a favour and tell her, cos then she'll either come on here and tell us all what you're really like, or she'll have ya gonads as earrings.
you still hiding behind that photo ...talk to me face to face if you want me to take you seriously ... "Well stop giving it the big 'I am' then. The message you've been putting across in this thread is that you're some kind of king swinger, girl in every port, love em and leave em type of lothario, and I think it's all bravado tbh. | |||
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"hehe ..... waits and looks up above to see if he has a parachute after he has been blown out of the sky "You still waiting ... | |||
"hehe ..... waits and looks up above to see if he has a parachute after he has been blown out of the sky
You still waiting ... "Fuck me your desperate tonight!!!!  | |||
"hehe ..... waits and looks up above to see if he has a parachute after he has been blown out of the sky
You still waiting ...
Fuck me your desperate tonight!!!! "Careful Ron. | |||
"hehe ..... waits and looks up above to see if he has a parachute after he has been blown out of the sky
You still waiting ...
Fuck me your desperate tonight!!!! "LOL, i like to do my bit for Charity now and again..... | |||
"hehe ..... waits and looks up above to see if he has a parachute after he has been blown out of the sky
You still waiting ...
Fuck me your desperate tonight!!!!
Careful Ron. "Yosser Hughes to the employment officer called Dan. Gizza Jon Gizza Job co on gizz it. Im desperate Dan! | |||
"hehe ..... waits and looks up above to see if he has a parachute after he has been blown out of the sky
You still waiting ...
Fuck me your desperate tonight!!!!
Careful Ron. "Mushy are you wearing lipstick again ..? | |||
"hehe ..... waits and looks up above to see if he has a parachute after he has been blown out of the sky
You still waiting ...
Fuck me your desperate tonight!!!!
Careful Ron.
Mushy are you wearing lipstick again ..?
"Nah, it stuck to me arse hairs. Still can't get it all off. lol | |||
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"so after all the advice you got,What happened??" She's cumming back Friday evening ,lol, i just cant get rid ..my mistake i never normally tell them where i live .. | |||
