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What makes you sexually dominant?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ive always wondered....
Is its personal temperament?
The relationship you have with the other person/people?
Is it cos Porn says thats how to be?
I’m curious.... |
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I don't think there's one definition because a person can be dominant with one person and submissive with another, it depends on the dynamic.
There will be people who will say you need to fit certain criteria though. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"I don't think there's one definition because a person can be dominant with one person and submissive with another, it depends on the dynamic.
There will be people who will say you need to fit certain criteria though."
I agree with this.
I think that a lot of people think that they 'should' be dominant based on societal gender roles and influenced by porn to a varying degree. In reality they tend to think that rough or borderline abusive sex is being dominant.
When it comes to actual D/s dynamics, it depends entirely on the individual couple. |
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"I don't think there's one definition because a person can be dominant with one person and submissive with another, it depends on the dynamic.
There will be people who will say you need to fit certain criteria though.
I agree with this.
I think that a lot of people think that they 'should' be dominant based on societal gender roles and influenced by porn to a varying degree. In reality they tend to think that rough or borderline abusive sex is being dominant.
When it comes to actual D/s dynamics, it depends entirely on the individual couple. "
Yep!
That is something that very few people understand. |
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I am sexually dominant. I always have been.
Someone would have to be pretty special for me to allow them to have a playtime or temporarily be in charge. Either way.. I would still be the dominant one. |
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I think for some people, they just are. There are certain aspects of my sexuality which aren't at all fluid, and have been part of my subconscious long before I knew how to express them sexually. (That being said, I'm not dominant) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive always wondered....
Is its personal temperament?
The relationship you have with the other person/people?
Is it cos Porn says thats how to be?
I’m curious...."
the rope and gags  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think there is an exact way to describe it. I have played with guys who claim not to be dominant in anyway shape or form yet I've found that naturally I submit to them as they have something about them that just oozes dominance. Where as other that say they are Dom's I've found I just become Bratty with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a fan of men who claim to be dominant. I’m more the opposite personally. Although it does depend on the person and trust is a major thing here for me. I find myself mellowing a little lately. |
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"Not a fan of men who claim to be dominant. I’m more the opposite personally. Although it does depend on the person and trust is a major thing here for me. I find myself mellowing a little lately. "
I can be a fan of dominant in the right circumstances, but those claiming to be so often have me running a mile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think confidence exudes dominance"
Why is confidence exuding dominance? They are two totally different things though I get naturally dominant people exude confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think confidence exudes dominance
Why is confidence exuding dominance? They are two totally different things though I get naturally dominant people exude confidence "
exactly my point you can't t be dominant without it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think confidence exudes dominance
Why is confidence exuding dominance? They are two totally different things though I get naturally dominant people exude confidence exactly my point you can't t be dominant without it "
But having confidence doesn't make a person dominant in anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think confidence exudes dominance
Why is confidence exuding dominance? They are two totally different things though I get naturally dominant people exude confidence exactly my point you can't t be dominant without it
But having confidence doesn't make a person dominant in anyway! "
i think it can |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think confidence exudes dominance
Why is confidence exuding dominance? They are two totally different things though I get naturally dominant people exude confidence exactly my point you can't t be dominant without it
But having confidence doesn't make a person dominant in anyway! i think it can "
Not at all hahahahahahahaha having a dominant personality makes a person confident but anyone, any type of personality can have confidence, bearing in mind confidence can be in just one aspect of a person's life upwards! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A predisposition to control that may, for example play itself out in your work or social life is a start point
After that all it takes is a little imagination and good chemistry with your partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think confidence exudes dominance
Why is confidence exuding dominance? They are two totally different things though I get naturally dominant people exude confidence exactly my point you can't t be dominant without it
But having confidence doesn't make a person dominant in anyway! i think it can
Not at all hahahahahahahaha having a dominant personality makes a person confident but anyone, any type of personality can have confidence, bearing in mind confidence can be in just one aspect of a person's life upwards! "
I'm not disagreeing with you I'm just saying if you are into being dominant in order to exude that to the submissive you would have to have the confidence to pass it off, some people confident or not have no interest in being a dom or a sub |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i think confidence exudes dominance
Why is confidence exuding dominance? They are two totally different things though I get naturally dominant people exude confidence exactly my point you can't t be dominant without it
But having confidence doesn't make a person dominant in anyway! i think it can
Not at all hahahahahahahaha having a dominant personality makes a person confident but anyone, any type of personality can have confidence, bearing in mind confidence can be in just one aspect of a person's life upwards! I'm not disagreeing with you I'm just saying if you are into being dominant in order to exude that to the submissive you would have to have the confidence to pass it off, some people confident or not have no interest in being a dom or a sub "
Oh I've never considered anyone to be remotely dominant unless they actually have a naturally dominant personality so no idea lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i think confidence exudes dominance
Why is confidence exuding dominance? They are two totally different things though I get naturally dominant people exude confidence exactly my point you can't t be dominant without it
But having confidence doesn't make a person dominant in anyway! i think it can
Not at all hahahahahahahaha having a dominant personality makes a person confident but anyone, any type of personality can have confidence, bearing in mind confidence can be in just one aspect of a person's life upwards! I'm not disagreeing with you I'm just saying if you are into being dominant in order to exude that to the submissive you would have to have the confidence to pass it off, some people confident or not have no interest in being a dom or a sub
Oh I've never considered anyone to be remotely dominant unless they actually have a naturally dominant personality so no idea lol "
i have no intdrest in being a dom but others have said i orchestrate subtley |
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