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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No don’t take it, if he wants to help you let him take you out shopping and buy bits at a time, plus also you’ll get to know him which makes it more comfortable to pay him back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No don’t take it, if he wants to help you let him take you out shopping and buy bits at a time, plus also you’ll get to know him which makes it more comfortable to pay him back"
 I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? "
my father said to me if you lend money never expect to get it back so as long as the guy knows theirs a chance he wont then surely you have nothing to lose   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Neither a borrower nor a lender be "
Absolutely right
I’d happily accept meals and drinks from someone if we were out socially - but never ever cash, especially from someone I had never met.
When I meet a man who likes to give gifts of something (perfume, flowers, lingerie etc) I accept them on subsequent meets, but not on a first meet. I would never accept cash
I think I’d be asking myself why someone I had never met would offer me cash. Maybe it’s an attempt to get your bank details? There’s many dishonest scammers on here
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? "
Why not save your own money then you can buy your own things. |
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"So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? "
I wouldn't take any money if I can help it. It's your decision of course but you even posing the dilemma here suggests it may not sit well with you. I would politely decline in this situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.
And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.
And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer.
Ok"
This |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.
And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer.
Ok
This "
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.
And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer.
Ok
This
Thanks "
That |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.
And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer.
Ok
This
Thanks
That "
Apple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.
And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer. "
i heard this of you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.
And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer. i heard this of you "
They haven't lied to you |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"No don’t take it, if he wants to help you let him take you out shopping and buy bits at a time, plus also you’ll get to know him which makes it more comfortable to pay him back
This "
Ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.
And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer. i heard this of you
They haven't lied to you "
i know  |
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"So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? "
Save up for what you want and buy things bit by bit.
It's not like it's something where you'll lose it of you don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated... ).
Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I wouldn’t take it, wouldn’t sit right with me.
I struggle when out with someone not doing equal rounds / split of costs"
its ok i can handle it |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).
Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth..... "
You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy. |
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"Personally I wouldn’t take it, wouldn’t sit right with me.
I struggle when out with someone not doing equal rounds / split of costs
Its ok i can handle it "
I’m sure you can... it was meant (must remember my punctuation) as I need to pay my way, equally, when out with someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).
Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....
You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy."
That is most probably true, but I have no real personal experience of it on here. I do know a friend of a friend rim the real world who has all his holidays and presents paid for by his rich executive older girlfriend, that's pretty  |
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"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).
Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....
You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy.
That is most probably true, but I have no real personal experience of it on here. I do know a friend of a friend rim the real world who has all his holidays and presents paid for by his rich executive older girlfriend, that's pretty "
Rimming for holidays and gifts? |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).
Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....
You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy.
That is most probably true, but I have no real personal experience of it on here. I do know a friend of a friend rim the real world who has all his holidays and presents paid for by his rich executive older girlfriend, that's pretty
Rimming for holidays and gifts?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).
Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....
You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy.
That is most probably true, but I have no real personal experience of it on here. I do know a friend of a friend rim the real world who has all his holidays and presents paid for by his rich executive older girlfriend, that's pretty
Rimming for holidays and gifts?"
Ooops...
In* not rim! (new phone I swear.... ) |
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"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).
Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....
You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy.
That is most probably true, but I have no real personal experience of it on here. I do know a friend of a friend rim the real world who has all his holidays and presents paid for by his rich executive older girlfriend, that's pretty
Rimming for holidays and gifts?
Ooops...
In* not rim! (new phone I swear.... )"
Don't believe you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't take it, especially from a stranger!! . I was brought up to live by if you can't afford it with your own money then you don't have it. If they're is something you want you save up to buy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).
Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....
You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy.
That is most probably true, but I have no real personal experience of it on here. I do know a friend of a friend rim the real world who has all his holidays and presents paid for by his rich executive older girlfriend, that's pretty
Rimming for holidays and gifts?
Ooops...
In* not rim! (new phone I swear.... )
Don't believe you "
Tbf, I don't know what my friends get up to in private, they could well be rimming their way around the real world in secret for all I know....
(It's really ironic that when I went to type rimming on this damn phone it autocorrected it to winning....) |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? "
well what you going to do you have had all these opinions so have you decided?
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I'm with everyone else on here OP in that I'd be suspicious of his motives for the offer especially given you've never met and therefore probably don't know each other that well.
Any meet I have here, costs are split equally which leaves no room for obligation or expectation to be set. |
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"So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? "
Well if you can't afford things its better to save up than borrow.
If you can't save then its unlikely you can repay a loan.
All loans come with strings no matter what.
Is it really a loan? Does the lender think it is or is it more payment for pleasure in their mind?
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"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).
Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....
You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy.
That is most probably true, but I have no real personal experience of it on here. I do know a friend of a friend rim the real world who has all his holidays and presents paid for by his rich executive older girlfriend, that's pretty
Rimming for holidays and gifts?
Ooops...
In* not rim! (new phone I swear.... )
Don't believe you
Tbf, I don't know what my friends get up to in private, they could well be rimming their way around the real world in secret for all I know....
(It's really ironic that when I went to type rimming on this damn phone it autocorrected it to winning....)"
'Win When You're Rimming' - wasn't that a Robbie Williams record? |
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By *opite_xWoman
over a year ago
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A few guys have offered me ‘holidays’ on here, they’re abroad and they pay for me to fly out and meet them.
Don’t know about you guys but that goes against all my natural survival instincts haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did he specify that’s what the money was for? Ask yourself would the very nice guy lend you money to pay your gas bill or buy food?
Personally I’d run a mile. But I see why women would take advantage of men who are that dumb to offer money. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? "
Surely saving a bit you'd soon have that money?
Best of luck, whatever you decide x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm afraid I'm with almost everyone else here op. Kindness and generosity are wonderful things with people you know, love and trust but money from a stranger rarely comes without an expectation of something. Don't put yourself in debt to someone you don't know. Money has a terrible habit of causing more problems than it solves. I wish you well in whatever you decide. |
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I was brought up to save for things and if you cant save for things you go without. Are you seriously considering getting into debt for something as frivilous as a pair of knickers
Cant afford it then go without |
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