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I Ain't a-Changin' for Anyone!
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In my time here I've not had tons of meets. For various reasons (which I can't be bothered to go into here)..in fact, I've actually made many more friends and welcome acquaintances than I've had sexual encounters.
I -like a lot of you no doubt- go through various stages of meets/potential meets and then periods of not much happening. This is one of the latter times, and I must admit, I do start to question if I'm going about things the right way. I mean, I'm courteous to people I like the look of, send pleasant opening messages (though that IS hard, coming from a single guy!); I (hope) I'm not rude, crass or that I come across as pushy etc. But sometimes that doesn't stop others from just being rude or (sometimes) insulting.
And that's what makes me question my time here...I think to myself "should I change my profile/likes/messages/photos etc. just to appease potential suitors"...just as I did earlier this evening.
But no..you know what, fuck em. If people don't like what they see, and if they can't be nice, then I'm not going to bloody change! Why should I? Sure, it might reduce my meets, but I'd rather meet/chat to people who WANT to chat/meet with me! I know some of my fetishes/likes aren't for everyone, but so-bloody-what, eh?
And what's more, I don't think ANYONE should change just to gain meets (I know of others who have made amendments) either!
Be who you are..someone will like you! Not everyone, nobody is liked by everyone (except for perhaps Keaunu Reeves, he seems like a thoroughly nice chap).
Rant (was it even a rant?) over! I might go to bed now..ha!
Love n snogs to y'all! |
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"I cant be anything or anyone other than me....I like being me 
And so you should!!!
I wish I could be more "me" in real life..it's so much easier online! "
What's stopping you? Fuck what anyone thinks..you only get on shot at living x |
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"I cant be anything or anyone other than me....I like being me
And so you should!!!
I wish I could be more "me" in real life..it's so much easier online!
What's stopping you? Fuck what anyone thinks..you only get on shot at living x"
I plan on having at least 3..hahah!
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"In my time here I've not had tons of meets. For various reasons (which I can't be bothered to go into here)..in fact, I've actually made many more friends and welcome acquaintances than I've had sexual encounters.
I -like a lot of you no doubt- go through various stages of meets/potential meets and then periods of not much happening. This is one of the latter times, and I must admit, I do start to question if I'm going about things the right way. I mean, I'm courteous to people I like the look of, send pleasant opening messages (though that IS hard, coming from a single guy!); I (hope) I'm not rude, crass or that I come across as pushy etc. But sometimes that doesn't stop others from just being rude or (sometimes) insulting.
And that's what makes me question my time here...I think to myself "should I change my profile/likes/messages/photos etc. just to appease potential suitors"...just as I did earlier this evening.
But no..you know what, fuck em. If people don't like what they see, and if they can't be nice, then I'm not going to bloody change! Why should I? Sure, it might reduce my meets, but I'd rather meet/chat to people who WANT to chat/meet with me! I know some of my fetishes/likes aren't for everyone, but so-bloody-what, eh?
And what's more, I don't think ANYONE should change just to gain meets (I know of others who have made amendments) either!
Be who you are..someone will like you! Not everyone, nobody is liked by everyone (except for perhaps Keaunu Reeves, he seems like a thoroughly nice chap).
Rant (was it even a rant?) over! I might go to bed now..ha!
Love n snogs to y'all! "
You wouldn’t be my cup of tea but I’m sure there is a lady out there who will cope with, let’s just say, your strong personality  |
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"In my time here I've not had tons of meets. For various reasons (which I can't be bothered to go into here)..in fact, I've actually made many more friends and welcome acquaintances than I've had sexual encounters.
I -like a lot of you no doubt- go through various stages of meets/potential meets and then periods of not much happening. This is one of the latter times, and I must admit, I do start to question if I'm going about things the right way. I mean, I'm courteous to people I like the look of, send pleasant opening messages (though that IS hard, coming from a single guy!); I (hope) I'm not rude, crass or that I come across as pushy etc. But sometimes that doesn't stop others from just being rude or (sometimes) insulting.
And that's what makes me question my time here...I think to myself "should I change my profile/likes/messages/photos etc. just to appease potential suitors"...just as I did earlier this evening.
But no..you know what, fuck em. If people don't like what they see, and if they can't be nice, then I'm not going to bloody change! Why should I? Sure, it might reduce my meets, but I'd rather meet/chat to people who WANT to chat/meet with me! I know some of my fetishes/likes aren't for everyone, but so-bloody-what, eh?
And what's more, I don't think ANYONE should change just to gain meets (I know of others who have made amendments) either!
Be who you are..someone will like you! Not everyone, nobody is liked by everyone (except for perhaps Keaunu Reeves, he seems like a thoroughly nice chap).
Rant (was it even a rant?) over! I might go to bed now..ha!
Love n snogs to y'all! "
Preach on brother!!!
As a fellow single guy I agree even striking up a conversation can be like ice skating uphill at times but I am who I am and bugger to changing for ANYONE!
I go by if it's worth having its worth waiting for!
What else can we be but ourselves (or lying cheating twats I guess hahaha!)?
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"In my time here I've not had tons of meets. For various reasons (which I can't be bothered to go into here)..in fact, I've actually made many more friends and welcome acquaintances than I've had sexual encounters.
I -like a lot of you no doubt- go through various stages of meets/potential meets and then periods of not much happening. This is one of the latter times, and I must admit, I do start to question if I'm going about things the right way. I mean, I'm courteous to people I like the look of, send pleasant opening messages (though that IS hard, coming from a single guy!); I (hope) I'm not rude, crass or that I come across as pushy etc. But sometimes that doesn't stop others from just being rude or (sometimes) insulting.
And that's what makes me question my time here...I think to myself "should I change my profile/likes/messages/photos etc. just to appease potential suitors"...just as I did earlier this evening.
But no..you know what, fuck em. If people don't like what they see, and if they can't be nice, then I'm not going to bloody change! Why should I? Sure, it might reduce my meets, but I'd rather meet/chat to people who WANT to chat/meet with me! I know some of my fetishes/likes aren't for everyone, but so-bloody-what, eh?
And what's more, I don't think ANYONE should change just to gain meets (I know of others who have made amendments) either!
Be who you are..someone will like you! Not everyone, nobody is liked by everyone (except for perhaps Keaunu Reeves, he seems like a thoroughly nice chap).
Rant (was it even a rant?) over! I might go to bed now..ha!
Love n snogs to y'all! "
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"Exactly!! It IS a shame that a few ijits out there spoil it for us genuine chaps and ladies.
I always thought it was ejits!
Who knew hahaha"
I actually re-spelled it from that before I posted! Eejits..egits..ijits..who knows? Who cares? The ijits do! hahah |
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"Exactly!! It IS a shame that a few ijits out there spoil it for us genuine chaps and ladies.
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"Exactly!! It IS a shame that a few ijits out there spoil it for us genuine chaps and ladies.
I always thought it was ejits!
Who knew hahaha
I actually re-spelled it from that before I posted! Eejits..egits..ijits..who knows? Who cares? The ijits do! hahah"
I get that 100% honest injun I do! Haha |
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By *sandu2ukCouple
over a year ago
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"You should always be true to yourself. If someone doesn't like you for who you are then fine...someone else will "
Couldn’t agree more. Just be you, the only thing we all know how to do is be us! If others don’t like it, that’s their issue. Be yourself because you’re fantastic, we all are. |
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"In my time here I've not had tons of meets. For various reasons (which I can't be bothered to go into here)..in fact, I've actually made many more friends and welcome acquaintances than I've had sexual encounters.
I -like a lot of you no doubt- go through various stages of meets/potential meets and then periods of not much happening. This is one of the latter times, and I must admit, I do start to question if I'm going about things the right way. I mean, I'm courteous to people I like the look of, send pleasant opening messages (though that IS hard, coming from a single guy!); I (hope) I'm not rude, crass or that I come across as pushy etc. But sometimes that doesn't stop others from just being rude or (sometimes) insulting.
And that's what makes me question my time here...I think to myself "should I change my profile/likes/messages/photos etc. just to appease potential suitors"...just as I did earlier this evening.
But no..you know what, fuck em. If people don't like what they see, and if they can't be nice, then I'm not going to bloody change! Why should I? Sure, it might reduce my meets, but I'd rather meet/chat to people who WANT to chat/meet with me! I know some of my fetishes/likes aren't for everyone, but so-bloody-what, eh?
And what's more, I don't think ANYONE should change just to gain meets (I know of others who have made amendments) either!
Be who you are..someone will like you! Not everyone, nobody is liked by everyone (except for perhaps Keaunu Reeves, he seems like a thoroughly nice chap).
Rant (was it even a rant?) over! I might go to bed now..ha!
Love n snogs to y'all! "
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