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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t have sufficient experience to answer this well, but enthusiasm, passion, self knowledge, an adventurous, experimental spirit, sensuality and willingness to respond to their partner’s body plus that elusive chemistry would be how I’d describe it |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Variation, He knows where my buttons are, when to push them, & just as importantly when not to.
Mostly I'd say its his ability to read my sexual moods, sometimes I want lazy sex, sometimes I want to hang from the light fittings & be freaky, sometimes I want to get the toys out for a while.
Almost always he knows which before I do. I think its because we both work from home & have been together almost 24/7/365 for the past seven years. Still find ourselves squeezing each others bums on the way to our respective working areas 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t have sufficient experience to answer this well, but enthusiasm, passion, self knowledge, an adventurous, experimental spirit, sensuality and willingness to respond to their partner’s body plus that elusive chemistry would be how I’d describe it"
Spot on! |
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"I don’t have sufficient experience to answer this well, but enthusiasm, passion, self knowledge, an adventurous, experimental spirit, sensuality and willingness to respond to their partner’s body plus that elusive chemistry would be how I’d describe it
Spot on! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it just happens. My girl and I are like a fight scene out of taken or the matrix where all the moves and hands hit the right place at the right time, full of passion, anger, emotion and soul. I think good sex is like a soul exchange.....  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I think it just happens. My girl and I are like a fight scene out of taken or the matrix where all the moves and hands hit the right place at the right time, full of passion, anger, emotion and soul. I think good sex is like a soul exchange..... "
That's a good description.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t have sufficient experience to answer this well, but enthusiasm, passion, self knowledge, an adventurous, experimental spirit, sensuality and willingness to respond to their partner’s body plus that elusive chemistry would be how I’d describe it
Spot on! "
Good guesswork  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it just happens. My girl and I are like a fight scene out of taken or the matrix where all the moves and hands hit the right place at the right time, full of passion, anger, emotion and soul. I think good sex is like a soul exchange..... "
I agree with the soul exchange. I’ve experienced it so infrequently that that is the best way I could imagine of summing it up in two words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*wanders off to find his chemistry degree certificate because apparently everyone is looking for it*"
I have a degree in chemistry too, it's never helped me with my relationships..... |
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Communication. You can have all the chemistry in the world but if you can't bring yourself to say "that's thing's not working for me, I love it when you move your tongue like this instead" then it's not going to be great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Communication. You can have all the chemistry in the world but if you can't bring yourself to say "that's thing's not working for me, I love it when you move your tongue like this instead" then it's not going to be great."
Agree... chemistry is only one component. Communication the other, not only being able to take direction but actually doing it.
For me it’s men that understand that the lead up and build up to sex is just as important as sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely chemistry. Playfulness, consideration, the matrix analogy is a good one! It's that certain something that just happens. The difference between just a shag and a great session. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Chemistry, lust, that mutual want and desire to please  "
 It's also about the ability to listen and read the other person's body. The best sex I've had has been where you just connect and read each other. |
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"Chemistry, lust, that mutual want and desire to please
It's also about the ability to listen and read the other person's body. The best sex I've had has been where you just connect and read each other. "
Instructions tattooed on?  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Chemistry, lust, that mutual want and desire to please
It's also about the ability to listen and read the other person's body. The best sex I've had has been where you just connect and read each other.
Instructions tattooed on? "
I love tattoos so I wouldn't mind. "Vag on here" would be so hot. |
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"Chemistry, lust, that mutual want and desire to please
It's also about the ability to listen and read the other person's body. The best sex I've had has been where you just connect and read each other.
Instructions tattooed on?
I love tattoos so I wouldn't mind. "Vag on here" would be so hot."
Can you read really small print?  |
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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago
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Learning during the Discovery of someone new. Selfless in applying what is learned. Fun together is better than when only one has fun out of the two (or more).
The longer the date the more is learned. Repeat dates also. More can be explored. |
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"I think it just happens. My girl and I are like a fight scene out of taken or the matrix where all the moves and hands hit the right place at the right time, full of passion, anger, emotion and soul. I think good sex is like a soul exchange..... "
This is a lovely description |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Chemistry, lust, that mutual want and desire to please
It's also about the ability to listen and read the other person's body. The best sex I've had has been where you just connect and read each other. "
Well, that comes naturally to me |
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