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"Hard " It very hard  | |||
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"How easy is it for ladies to find the right man on here? " some don't want to marry they want fun  | |||
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"How easy is it for ladies to find the right man on here? " ... Or the right woman /other ... Perhaps partner in fun is a better descriptor | |||
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"How easy is it for ladies to find the right man on here? " Near impossible. | |||
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"Okay maybe i should of said play mate. You all say its hard, but you have plenty of veris.. So I guess it's easy enough for you to find someone who you fancy. " Still not easy as I'm very picky. | |||
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"Okay maybe i should of said play mate. You all say its hard, but you have plenty of veris.. So I guess it's easy enough for you to find someone who you fancy. " Social veris yeah. 3 people in 2 years otherwise. And ones a woman not a man | |||
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"I stay hidden And hunt myself Works for me " Sounds easy for a woman to do that. I can't imagine many men would ignore a text or wink. | |||
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"Okay maybe i should of said play mate. You all say its hard, but you have plenty of veris.. So I guess it's easy enough for you to find someone who you fancy. " It's extremely easy to find a shag. It's only a little difficult to find one offs which are OK, although it requires slogging through a lot of crap. Friends, quite difficult. Regular, extremely difficult. | |||
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"It's not easy at all, despite what some will say. " love the pic, gave me a giggle | |||
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"How easy is it for ladies to find the right man on here? " not easy | |||
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"Okay maybe i should of said play mate. You all say its hard, but you have plenty of veris.. So I guess it's easy enough for you to find someone who you fancy. " Yeah I was lying it’s actually super easy | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be" Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. " It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. " I'm being absolutely serious - you said find the "right" man and for that it's equally as hard for women as men. As I said while the volume of men clearly outnumbers that of women, if you take out of that equation the men who don't "get" the site, or have the wrong approach, attitude or expectations - the numbers are actually a lot more evenly balanced, so logic dictates that it's equally hard for men or women to find what they are looking for. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. " Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. | |||
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" most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. " Do you think that men will accept any woman? | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. " Everyone can be ‘choosy’. Just because there’s less women doesn’t mean men can’t be choosy | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. I'm being absolutely serious - you said find the "right" man and for that it's equally as hard for women as men. As I said while the volume of men clearly outnumbers that of women, if you take out of that equation the men who don't "get" the site, or have the wrong approach, attitude or expectations - the numbers are actually a lot more evenly balanced, so logic dictates that it's equally hard for men or women to find what they are looking for." I don't agree with that. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. " No. You don't get it. If the site had millions of sexy desperate supermodels to every man, I wouldn't lower my standards. I will not meet, no matter how horny I am, unless my standards are met. | |||
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"How easy is it for ladies to find the right man on here? " From what i'm told, surprisingly harder than you'd imagine. I think it's easier the other way around to be honest. | |||
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"Not easy at all to find one that 1. I'm attracted to 2. Is attracted to me 3. Is at least semi sane 4. Doesn't want to fuck any woman offering 5. Is honest 6. Isn't a dickhead" | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. I'm being absolutely serious - you said find the "right" man and for that it's equally as hard for women as men. As I said while the volume of men clearly outnumbers that of women, if you take out of that equation the men who don't "get" the site, or have the wrong approach, attitude or expectations - the numbers are actually a lot more evenly balanced, so logic dictates that it's equally hard for men or women to find what they are looking for. I don't agree with that. " Why not? I think he's right. | |||
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" most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Do you think that men will accept any woman?" I think that depends on the man. I know a man who will sleep with anyone. Personally I wouldn't get it up for just anyone. I could of met up with other women if I wasn't so fussy. But I have to feel an attraction. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. " Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. " | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Everyone can be ‘choosy’. Just because there’s less women doesn’t mean men can’t be choosy " Yeah men can be choosy online.. Hence why many never get any meets. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. I'm being absolutely serious - you said find the "right" man and for that it's equally as hard for women as men. As I said while the volume of men clearly outnumbers that of women, if you take out of that equation the men who don't "get" the site, or have the wrong approach, attitude or expectations - the numbers are actually a lot more evenly balanced, so logic dictates that it's equally hard for men or women to find what they are looking for. I don't agree with that. " Just because you don't agree, because that suits your views, but have you even considered for one second that what he is saying is true? | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Everyone can be ‘choosy’. Just because there’s less women doesn’t mean men can’t be choosy Yeah men can be choosy online.. Hence why many never get any meets. " They can be choosy in every aspect of life. Anyone can  | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. I'm being absolutely serious - you said find the "right" man and for that it's equally as hard for women as men. As I said while the volume of men clearly outnumbers that of women, if you take out of that equation the men who don't "get" the site, or have the wrong approach, attitude or expectations - the numbers are actually a lot more evenly balanced, so logic dictates that it's equally hard for men or women to find what they are looking for. I don't agree with that. Why not? I think he's right. " Look at the reality. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. " Wow. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. " I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Wow." Yeah, if I get a whiff of "I'm only meeting you because Fab sucks for men", I'm out. Have a little self respect, guys. | |||
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"How easy is it for ladies to find the right man on here? " Extremely difficult | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. " But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. I'm being absolutely serious - you said find the "right" man and for that it's equally as hard for women as men. As I said while the volume of men clearly outnumbers that of women, if you take out of that equation the men who don't "get" the site, or have the wrong approach, attitude or expectations - the numbers are actually a lot more evenly balanced, so logic dictates that it's equally hard for men or women to find what they are looking for. I don't agree with that. Just because you don't agree, because that suits your views, but have you even considered for one second that what he is saying is true? " No. I don't see it like that. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? " That's what you just said. Not me. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. " When the choice is 80 knobheads (who you may or may not fancy), 10 people you don't fancy, five you have reservations about, and five who you want to meet but so does every other woman on Fab... Similar choices, more junk mail. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? That's what you just said. Not me. " It's absolutely what you inferred. Many people read it like that. | |||
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"Depends what they are looking for. I’m sure for ladies who have an ‘any dick’s a tick’ attitude it’s the same as the men who have the ‘ any hole’s a goal’ attitude. For other women and men who have to fancy someone and have some connection it can be equally as difficult. Classing all women as super choosey and all men as desperados is insulting to both sexes. " You’re spot on there SJ | |||
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"Depends what they are looking for. I’m sure for ladies who have an ‘any dick’s a tick’ attitude it’s the same as the men who have the ‘ any hole’s a goal’ attitude. For other women and men who have to fancy someone and have some connection it can be equally as difficult. Classing all women as super choosey and all men as desperados is insulting to both sexes. " I completely agree with this | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? That's what you just said. Not me. "
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? That's what you just said. Not me. It's absolutely what you inferred. Many people read it like that." | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. I'm being absolutely serious - you said find the "right" man and for that it's equally as hard for women as men. As I said while the volume of men clearly outnumbers that of women, if you take out of that equation the men who don't "get" the site, or have the wrong approach, attitude or expectations - the numbers are actually a lot more evenly balanced, so logic dictates that it's equally hard for men or women to find what they are looking for. I don't agree with that. " No-one says you have to agree with it - it's an opinion after all, but it's a fairly reasoned and balanced one - just because women have more choice in terms of numbers of men, doesn't mean it's any easier for them. In fact you could actually argue it's harder because they have to look through more profiles if you really want to break it down into simplistic terms. What you appear to be missing however is that *most* women don't want just any man, they want to find one they are attracted to and have a connection and chemistry with so when you take those things into account their "choice" becomes a lot more limited and probably as much so as mens "choice" And that is not them being "choosy" in the way you are inferring - just the simple and quite normal and natural every day rules of attraction coming into play. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? That's what you just said. Not me.
No point talking to someone who backtracks when they don't get the response they want.
Honestly though, sort out your negative attitude towards women, it's not attractive."What I'm saying is if most were super choosy like many of the ladies say they are... Then it would be extremely difficult for men to get meets. I've seen profiles asking for "exceptional men" Women can do that and still get inundated with offers. But imagine if I man was looking for miss perfect and said something like that.. Lol I don't think he'd get far at all. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? That's what you just said. Not me.
No point talking to someone who backtracks when they don't get the response they want.
Honestly though, sort out your negative attitude towards women, it's not attractive.
What I'm saying is if most were super choosy like many of the ladies say they are... Then it would be extremely difficult for men to get meets.
I've seen profiles asking for "exceptional men"
Women can do that and still get inundated with offers. But imagine if I man was looking for miss perfect and said something like that.. Lol I don't think he'd get far at all. "Why wouldn’t he? Why should men meet someone who they don’t think are little miss perfect if that’s what they want? | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? That's what you just said. Not me.
No point talking to someone who backtracks when they don't get the response they want.
Honestly though, sort out your negative attitude towards women, it's not attractive.
What I'm saying is if most were super choosy like many of the ladies say they are... Then it would be extremely difficult for men to get meets.
I've seen profiles asking for "exceptional men"
Women can do that and still get inundated with offers. But imagine if I man was looking for miss perfect and said something like that.. Lol I don't think he'd get far at all. "There are many men on here who only meet women who tick the right boxes for them. I've had a man decide not to meet me as after chatting he felt we weren't compatible. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. I'm being absolutely serious - you said find the "right" man and for that it's equally as hard for women as men. As I said while the volume of men clearly outnumbers that of women, if you take out of that equation the men who don't "get" the site, or have the wrong approach, attitude or expectations - the numbers are actually a lot more evenly balanced, so logic dictates that it's equally hard for men or women to find what they are looking for. I don't agree with that. No-one says you have to agree with it - it's an opinion after all, but it's a fairly reasoned and balanced one - just because women have more choice in terms of numbers of men, doesn't mean it's any easier for them. In fact you could actually argue it's harder because they have to look through more profiles if you really want to break it down into simplistic terms. What you appear to be missing however is that *most* women don't want just any man, they want to find one they are attracted to and have a connection and chemistry with so when you take those things into account their "choice" becomes a lot more limited and probably as much so as mens "choice" And that is not them being "choosy" in the way you are inferring - just the simple and quite normal and natural every day rules of attraction coming into play." I'm not missing that "most women want just any man" I havent said that. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? That's what you just said. Not me.
No point talking to someone who backtracks when they don't get the response they want.
Honestly though, sort out your negative attitude towards women, it's not attractive.
What I'm saying is if most were super choosy like many of the ladies say they are... Then it would be extremely difficult for men to get meets.
I've seen profiles asking for "exceptional men"
Women can do that and still get inundated with offers. But imagine if I man was looking for miss perfect and said something like that.. Lol I don't think he'd get far at all. "There are guys on here with profiles like that and why shouldn't they if they know what they want | |||
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"On here I could get loads of meets if I was looking to be regularly gang banged by stag parties, paid to do exactly what they wanted, given drugs, would meet people who won't even show me their face, was prepared to meet in cars or pub toilets, met people who send me verbal abuse if I don't respond in 30 seconds, was willing to be on call for someone whenever they stayed in my area for work or wanted to dish out purely blowjobs like i was some sort of blowjob charity. But I'm not so it's not easy to find meets on here. Half the people I have tried to meet cancel anyway or sometimes I don't get to that point with people I talk to as they become so pushy over messages that I'm no longer comfortable meeting them. I meet most of my play partners in person, sometimes through events." It must really be frustrating spending the time in messaging back and forth with someone and have them.cancel a meeting or not showing up  fortunate this hasn't hapoened to me yet.... | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? That's what you just said. Not me.
No point talking to someone who backtracks when they don't get the response they want.
Honestly though, sort out your negative attitude towards women, it's not attractive.
What I'm saying is if most were super choosy like many of the ladies say they are... Then it would be extremely difficult for men to get meets.
I've seen profiles asking for "exceptional men"
Women can do that and still get inundated with offers. But imagine if I man was looking for miss perfect and said something like that.. Lol I don't think he'd get far at all. "Men already say it's difficult to get meets. I'm surprised you even want to meet women, the amount of horrible crap you say about them. | |||
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" What I'm saying is if most were super choosy like many of the ladies say they are... Then it would be extremely difficult for men to get meets. I've seen profiles asking for "exceptional men" Women can do that and still get inundated with offers. But imagine if I man was looking for miss perfect and said something like that.. Lol I don't think he'd get far at all. " I pretty much do exactly that and I am more than happy with my Fab experience | |||
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"On here I could get loads of meets if I was looking to be regularly gang banged by stag parties, paid to do exactly what they wanted, given drugs, would meet people who won't even show me their face, was prepared to meet in cars or pub toilets, met people who send me verbal abuse if I don't respond in 30 seconds, was willing to be on call for someone whenever they stayed in my area for work or wanted to dish out purely blowjobs like i was some sort of blowjob charity. But I'm not so it's not easy to find meets on here. Half the people I have tried to meet cancel anyway or sometimes I don't get to that point with people I talk to as they become so pushy over messages that I'm no longer comfortable meeting them. I meet most of my play partners in person, sometimes through events. It must really be frustrating spending the time in messaging back and forth with someone and have them.cancel a meeting or not showing up fortunate this hasn't hapoened to me yet...."Either that or they go totally cray cray saying they can't meet in certain areas in public because of a crazy ex and offer to show you police reports  | |||
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"On here I could get loads of meets if I was looking to be regularly gang banged by stag parties, paid to do exactly what they wanted, given drugs, would meet people who won't even show me their face, was prepared to meet in cars or pub toilets, met people who send me verbal abuse if I don't respond in 30 seconds, was willing to be on call for someone whenever they stayed in my area for work or wanted to dish out purely blowjobs like i was some sort of blowjob charity. But I'm not so it's not easy to find meets on here. Half the people I have tried to meet cancel anyway or sometimes I don't get to that point with people I talk to as they become so pushy over messages that I'm no longer comfortable meeting them. I meet most of my play partners in person, sometimes through events. It must really be frustrating spending the time in messaging back and forth with someone and have them.cancel a meeting or not showing up fortunate this hasn't hapoened to me yet...."It's very frustrating. Or the ones where you agree to things and at the last minute change their mind. Social only becomes riding his cock in the carpark because he's irresistible etc. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? That's what you just said. Not me.
No point talking to someone who backtracks when they don't get the response they want.
Honestly though, sort out your negative attitude towards women, it's not attractive.
What I'm saying is if most were super choosy like many of the ladies say they are... Then it would be extremely difficult for men to get meets.
I've seen profiles asking for "exceptional men"
Women can do that and still get inundated with offers. But imagine if I man was looking for miss perfect and said something like that.. Lol I don't think he'd get far at all.
Why wouldn’t he? Why should men meet someone who they don’t think are little miss perfect if that’s what they want?"Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? That's what you just said. Not me.
No point talking to someone who backtracks when they don't get the response they want.
Honestly though, sort out your negative attitude towards women, it's not attractive.
What I'm saying is if most were super choosy like many of the ladies say they are... Then it would be extremely difficult for men to get meets.
I've seen profiles asking for "exceptional men"
Women can do that and still get inundated with offers. But imagine if I man was looking for miss perfect and said something like that.. Lol I don't think he'd get far at all.
Why wouldn’t he? Why should men meet someone who they don’t think are little miss perfect if that’s what they want?
Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me.
I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible.
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" Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. " If the people you have access to don't meet your sexual standards... Don't fuck them. It's not food or water. You won't die. | |||
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"On here I could get loads of meets if I was looking to be regularly gang banged by stag parties, paid to do exactly what they wanted, given drugs, would meet people who won't even show me their face, was prepared to meet in cars or pub toilets, met people who send me verbal abuse if I don't respond in 30 seconds, was willing to be on call for someone whenever they stayed in my area for work or wanted to dish out purely blowjobs like i was some sort of blowjob charity. But I'm not so it's not easy to find meets on here. Half the people I have tried to meet cancel anyway or sometimes I don't get to that point with people I talk to as they become so pushy over messages that I'm no longer comfortable meeting them. I meet most of my play partners in person, sometimes through events. It must really be frustrating spending the time in messaging back and forth with someone and have them.cancel a meeting or not showing up fortunate this hasn't hapoened to me yet....
Either that or they go totally cray cray saying they can't meet in certain areas in public because of a crazy ex and offer to show you police reports "Oh dear... I can see jyst how exasperating this can be if it happens on a regular basis.... | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? That's what you just said. Not me.
No point talking to someone who backtracks when they don't get the response they want.
Honestly though, sort out your negative attitude towards women, it's not attractive.
What I'm saying is if most were super choosy like many of the ladies say they are... Then it would be extremely difficult for men to get meets.
I've seen profiles asking for "exceptional men"
Women can do that and still get inundated with offers. But imagine if I man was looking for miss perfect and said something like that.. Lol I don't think he'd get far at all.
Why wouldn’t he? Why should men meet someone who they don’t think are little miss perfect if that’s what they want?
Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me.
I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible.
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? That's what you just said. Not me.
No point talking to someone who backtracks when they don't get the response they want.
Honestly though, sort out your negative attitude towards women, it's not attractive.
What I'm saying is if most were super choosy like many of the ladies say they are... Then it would be extremely difficult for men to get meets.
I've seen profiles asking for "exceptional men"
Women can do that and still get inundated with offers. But imagine if I man was looking for miss perfect and said something like that.. Lol I don't think he'd get far at all.
Why wouldn’t he? Why should men meet someone who they don’t think are little miss perfect if that’s what they want?
Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me.
I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible.
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"On here I could get loads of meets if I was looking to be regularly gang banged by stag parties, paid to do exactly what they wanted, given drugs, would meet people who won't even show me their face, was prepared to meet in cars or pub toilets, met people who send me verbal abuse if I don't respond in 30 seconds, was willing to be on call for someone whenever they stayed in my area for work or wanted to dish out purely blowjobs like i was some sort of blowjob charity. But I'm not so it's not easy to find meets on here. Half the people I have tried to meet cancel anyway or sometimes I don't get to that point with people I talk to as they become so pushy over messages that I'm no longer comfortable meeting them. I meet most of my play partners in person, sometimes through events." | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? That's what you just said. Not me.
No point talking to someone who backtracks when they don't get the response they want.
Honestly though, sort out your negative attitude towards women, it's not attractive.
What I'm saying is if most were super choosy like many of the ladies say they are... Then it would be extremely difficult for men to get meets.
I've seen profiles asking for "exceptional men"
Women can do that and still get inundated with offers. But imagine if I man was looking for miss perfect and said something like that.. Lol I don't think he'd get far at all.
Why wouldn’t he? Why should men meet someone who they don’t think are little miss perfect if that’s what they want?
Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me.
I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible.
In your opinion and experience. Plenty of men disagree with you "Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you. Maybe you would feel different then. | |||
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"On here I could get loads of meets if I was looking to be regularly gang banged by stag parties, paid to do exactly what they wanted, given drugs, would meet people who won't even show me their face, was prepared to meet in cars or pub toilets, met people who send me verbal abuse if I don't respond in 30 seconds, was willing to be on call for someone whenever they stayed in my area for work or wanted to dish out purely blowjobs like i was some sort of blowjob charity. But I'm not so it's not easy to find meets on here. Half the people I have tried to meet cancel anyway or sometimes I don't get to that point with people I talk to as they become so pushy over messages that I'm no longer comfortable meeting them. I meet most of my play partners in person, sometimes through events." That’s a sad indictment | |||
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"I think all the people on this thread should introduce themselves to everyone. Maybe, have one big party somewhere. Lol Nah nobody likes me " I like you. You’re funny, smart, too smart sometimes  teasing you. Lol | |||
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"On here I could get loads of meets if I was looking to be regularly gang banged by stag parties, paid to do exactly what they wanted, given drugs, would meet people who won't even show me their face, was prepared to meet in cars or pub toilets, met people who send me verbal abuse if I don't respond in 30 seconds, was willing to be on call for someone whenever they stayed in my area for work or wanted to dish out purely blowjobs like i was some sort of blowjob charity. But I'm not so it's not easy to find meets on here. Half the people I have tried to meet cancel anyway or sometimes I don't get to that point with people I talk to as they become so pushy over messages that I'm no longer comfortable meeting them. I meet most of my play partners in person, sometimes through events. That’s a sad indictment "I'm getting very much this way too. | |||
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"How easy is it for ladies to find the right man on here? " Considering there are still ladies on here, I would say extremely difficult, it like ladies looking for shoes, in one shop, out of the other shop, fashion change like the wind. | |||
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"On here I could get loads of meets if I was looking to be regularly gang banged by stag parties, paid to do exactly what they wanted, given drugs, would meet people who won't even show me their face, was prepared to meet in cars or pub toilets, met people who send me verbal abuse if I don't respond in 30 seconds, was willing to be on call for someone whenever they stayed in my area for work or wanted to dish out purely blowjobs like i was some sort of blowjob charity. But I'm not so it's not easy to find meets on here. Half the people I have tried to meet cancel anyway or sometimes I don't get to that point with people I talk to as they become so pushy over messages that I'm no longer comfortable meeting them. I meet most of my play partners in person, sometimes through events. That’s a sad indictment
I'm getting very much this way too. "This is my experience also! I get loads of messages saying in hotel now wanna meet? All they deem necessary for me to choose is a picture of their cock! Let alone, totally ignoring how or when I meet or who I want to meet, as that really isn't a factor after all is it? Yeah, it is soo easy for women on here isn't it? | |||
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" Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. In your opinion and experience. Plenty of men disagree with you
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"On here I could get loads of meets if I was looking to be regularly gang banged by stag parties, paid to do exactly what they wanted, given drugs, would meet people who won't even show me their face, was prepared to meet in cars or pub toilets, met people who send me verbal abuse if I don't respond in 30 seconds, was willing to be on call for someone whenever they stayed in my area for work or wanted to dish out purely blowjobs like i was some sort of blowjob charity. But I'm not so it's not easy to find meets on here. Half the people I have tried to meet cancel anyway or sometimes I don't get to that point with people I talk to as they become so pushy over messages that I'm no longer comfortable meeting them. I meet most of my play partners in person, sometimes through events. That’s a sad indictment
I'm getting very much this way too.
This is my experience also! I get loads of messages saying in hotel now wanna meet? All they deem necessary for me to choose is a picture of their cock! Let alone, totally ignoring how or when I meet or who I want to meet, as that really isn't a factor after all is it?
Yeah, it is soo easy for women on here isn't it? "It's really easy if I want to be treated like a cheap hooker minus the payment. I'll pass, thanks. | |||
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" Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. In your opinion and experience. Plenty of men disagree with you
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Maybe you would feel different then.
I do that daily and speak my mind in the forums and I'm more than happy with how far it takes me "And I can't speak for other women but this one is very glad that you do! | |||
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" Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. In your opinion and experience. Plenty of men disagree with you
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Maybe you would feel different then.
I do that daily and speak my mind in the forums and I'm more than happy with how far it takes me "Same... but I don't meet from the forum. If I did I'd never meet anyone!! That's where being yourself and speaking your mind really gets you | |||
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" Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. In your opinion and experience. Plenty of men disagree with you
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Maybe you would feel different then.
I do that daily and speak my mind in the forums and I'm more than happy with how far it takes me
And I can't speak for other women but this one is very glad that you do!"God, this. | |||
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" Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you. Maybe you would feel different then. There are lots of very successful men on fab, I personally know loads. Maybe instead of blaming everyone else take a look at what YOU might be doing wrong. " Like I said I could meet up with more women if I felt an attraction to everyone. | |||
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. Totally untrue, personally, I will not meet someone if I don't fancy them and I wouldn't, even if there were less men to choose from. I think you concentrate too much on the women that don't want to meet you and try to push the blame onto women in general. This might have something to do with why you find it hard to meet on here, your negative attitude towards women will be noticed. I'm not suggesting you would meet someone who you don't fancy. I'm saying you have more choice, so eventually you will see someone who you fancy and take it further. But you're saying that if men were choosy most women wouldn't ever meet, don't you see how bad that comment is? That's what you just said. Not me.
No point talking to someone who backtracks when they don't get the response they want.
Honestly though, sort out your negative attitude towards women, it's not attractive.
What I'm saying is if most were super choosy like many of the ladies say they are... Then it would be extremely difficult for men to get meets.
I've seen profiles asking for "exceptional men"
Women can do that and still get inundated with offers. But imagine if I man was looking for miss perfect and said something like that.. Lol I don't think he'd get far at all.
Why wouldn’t he? Why should men meet someone who they don’t think are little miss perfect if that’s what they want?
Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me.
I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible.
Have you considered that you're all using the same or at least similar approach?"Yes i have considered that. | |||
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" Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you. Maybe you would feel different then. There are lots of very successful men on fab, I personally know loads. Maybe instead of blaming everyone else take a look at what YOU might be doing wrong. Like I said I could meet up with more women if I felt an attraction to everyone. " Everyone could but not everyone has made multiple threads about it. | |||
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" Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. In your opinion and experience. Plenty of men disagree with you
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Maybe you would feel different then.
I do that daily and speak my mind in the forums and I'm more than happy with how far it takes me
Same... but I don't meet from the forum. If I did I'd never meet anyone!! That's where being yourself and speaking your mind really gets you"Because they don't want to meet you, or because you don't want to meet them? | |||
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Maybe you would feel different then.
I do that daily and speak my mind in the forums and I'm more than happy with how far it takes me "Looks like you met almost everyone at socials. | |||
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" Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you. Maybe you would feel different then. There are lots of very successful men on fab, I personally know loads. Maybe instead of blaming everyone else take a look at what YOU might be doing wrong. Like I said I could meet up with more women if I felt an attraction to everyone. Everyone could but not everyone has made multiple threads about it." You love having a go at me in the forums lol and you allways move the goal post. | |||
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" Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. In your opinion and experience. Plenty of men disagree with you
Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you.
Maybe you would feel different then.
I do that daily and speak my mind in the forums and I'm more than happy with how far it takes me
Looks like you met almost everyone at socials. "You do know that people hide verifications, right? | |||
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" Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you. Maybe you would feel different then. There are lots of very successful men on fab, I personally know loads. Maybe instead of blaming everyone else take a look at what YOU might be doing wrong. Like I said I could meet up with more women if I felt an attraction to everyone. Everyone could but not everyone has made multiple threads about it. You love having a go at me in the forums lol and you allways move the goal post. " OP I had sympathy for you at first and tried to offer genuine assistance but you've just continued to be unpleasant about women on here and to men who have tried to tell you about how their experience has differed and it has become increasingly difficult to maintain any sympathy. | |||
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" Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. In your opinion and experience. Plenty of men disagree with you
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Maybe you would feel different then.
I do that daily and speak my mind in the forums and I'm more than happy with how far it takes me
Looks like you met almost everyone at socials. "What does that have to do with anything? What I get out of Fab, and who and how I meet, is between me and those people but doesn't escape the fact I'm happy with my experience. Perhaps rather than worrying about the experience of others you should focus closer to home | |||
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" Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you. Maybe you would feel different then. There are lots of very successful men on fab, I personally know loads. Maybe instead of blaming everyone else take a look at what YOU might be doing wrong. Like I said I could meet up with more women if I felt an attraction to everyone. Everyone could but not everyone has made multiple threads about it. You love having a go at me in the forums lol and you allways move the goal post. " I hate the way you always blame everyone else for the fact that you have no luck, loads of other people do well so maybe the issue is with you, not everyone else. Moved the goal posts in what way? I'm answering your original question in a calm and polite manner. | |||
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" Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. In your opinion and experience. Plenty of men disagree with you
Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you.
Maybe you would feel different then.
I do that daily and speak my mind in the forums and I'm more than happy with how far it takes me
Looks like you met almost everyone at socials.
What does that have to do with anything? What I get out of Fab, and who and how I meet, is between me and those people but doesn't escape the fact I'm happy with my experience.
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" Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you. Maybe you would feel different then. There are lots of very successful men on fab, I personally know loads. Maybe instead of blaming everyone else take a look at what YOU might be doing wrong. Like I said I could meet up with more women if I felt an attraction to everyone. Everyone could but not everyone has made multiple threads about it. You love having a go at me in the forums lol and you allways move the goal post. I hate the way you always blame everyone else for the fact that you have no luck, loads of other people do well so maybe the issue is with you, not everyone else. Moved the goal posts in what way? I'm answering your original question in a calm and polite manner. " No point sugar coating things. I don't want to go into that now, because il probably get banned. | |||
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" Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you. Maybe you would feel different then. There are lots of very successful men on fab, I personally know loads. Maybe instead of blaming everyone else take a look at what YOU might be doing wrong. Like I said I could meet up with more women if I felt an attraction to everyone. Everyone could but not everyone has made multiple threads about it. You love having a go at me in the forums lol and you allways move the goal post. I hate the way you always blame everyone else for the fact that you have no luck, loads of other people do well so maybe the issue is with you, not everyone else. Moved the goal posts in what way? I'm answering your original question in a calm and polite manner. " I'm not blaming everyone else either. Just talking reality. | |||
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" Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you. Maybe you would feel different then. There are lots of very successful men on fab, I personally know loads. Maybe instead of blaming everyone else take a look at what YOU might be doing wrong. Like I said I could meet up with more women if I felt an attraction to everyone. Everyone could but not everyone has made multiple threads about it. You love having a go at me in the forums lol and you allways move the goal post. OP I had sympathy for you at first and tried to offer genuine assistance but you've just continued to be unpleasant about women on here and to men who have tried to tell you about how their experience has differed and it has become increasingly difficult to maintain any sympathy. " I didn't mean to be unpleasant to anyone. | |||
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"For the life of me Op, I fail to understand how you and others think it's so difficult to get meets here as men. It's not rocket science nor exploring the mysteries of the universe by any stretch! A bit of common sense goes a long way! Respect people's preferences, be polite and engaging, put out a positive vibe. Approach women as people and not as just someone to be fucked. Play to your strengths (if any!) and stop lamenting your luck as it gets you nowhere. If you put minimal effort in you can't expect much in return. Is this so difficult to understand? " | |||
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"For the life of me Op, I fail to understand how you and others think it's so difficult to get meets here as men. It's not rocket science nor exploring the mysteries of the universe by any stretch! Respect people's preferences, be polite and engaging, put out a positive vibe. Approach women as people and not as just someone to be fucked." This all day
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"For the life of me Op, I fail to understand how you and others think it's so difficult to get meets here as men. It's not rocket science nor exploring the mysteries of the universe by any stretch! A bit of common sense goes a long way! Respect people's preferences, be polite and engaging, put out a positive vibe. Approach women as people and not as just someone to be fucked. Play to your strengths (if any!) and stop lamenting your luck as it gets you nowhere. If you put minimal effort in you can't expect much in return. Is this so difficult to understand? "Not that isn't difficult to understand. However it isnt easy to meet women and from what I've read it isn't easy for women to meet men either. | |||
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" Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. In your opinion and experience. Plenty of men disagree with you
Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you.
Maybe you would feel different then.
I do that daily and speak my mind in the forums and I'm more than happy with how far it takes me
Looks like you met almost everyone at socials.
What does that have to do with anything? What I get out of Fab, and who and how I meet, is between me and those people but doesn't escape the fact I'm happy with my experience.
Perhaps rather than worrying about the experience of others you should focus closer to home
I was talking about meeting people through this site and not at events. "The point still stands regardless of where and how I've met people (and despite what you may try and infer I've met people both through the site and at socials) I'm more than happy with my experience. To come back to your OP though I stand by what I said earlier, it's just as hard or easy for women to find what they're looking for here as it is men. | |||
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"For the life of me Op, I fail to understand how you and others think it's so difficult to get meets here as men. It's not rocket science nor exploring the mysteries of the universe by any stretch! Respect people's preferences, be polite and engaging, put out a positive vibe. Approach women as people and not as just someone to be fucked. This all day
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" Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you. Maybe you would feel different then. There are lots of very successful men on fab, I personally know loads. Maybe instead of blaming everyone else take a look at what YOU might be doing wrong. Like I said I could meet up with more women if I felt an attraction to everyone. Everyone could but not everyone has made multiple threads about it. You love having a go at me in the forums lol and you allways move the goal post. I hate the way you always blame everyone else for the fact that you have no luck, loads of other people do well so maybe the issue is with you, not everyone else. Moved the goal posts in what way? I'm answering your original question in a calm and polite manner. No point sugar coating things. I don't want to go into that now, because il probably get banned. " Funny that
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"For the life of me Op, I fail to understand how you and others think it's so difficult to get meets here as men. It's not rocket science nor exploring the mysteries of the universe by any stretch! A bit of common sense goes a long way! Respect people's preferences, be polite and engaging, put out a positive vibe. Approach women as people and not as just someone to be fucked. Play to your strengths (if any!) and stop lamenting your luck as it gets you nowhere. If you put minimal effort in you can't expect much in return. Is this so difficult to understand?
Not that isn't difficult to understand. However it isnt easy to meet women and from what I've read it isn't easy for women to meet men either.
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"For the life of me Op, I fail to understand how you and others think it's so difficult to get meets here as men. It's not rocket science nor exploring the mysteries of the universe by any stretch! A bit of common sense goes a long way! Respect people's preferences, be polite and engaging, put out a positive vibe. Approach women as people and not as just someone to be fucked. Play to your strengths (if any!) and stop lamenting your luck as it gets you nowhere. If you put minimal effort in you can't expect much in return. Is this so difficult to understand? "Great advice! The men who speak to you like a person stand out a mile! | |||
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" Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. In your opinion and experience. Plenty of men disagree with you
Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you.
Maybe you would feel different then.
I do that daily and speak my mind in the forums and I'm more than happy with how far it takes me
Looks like you met almost everyone at socials.
What does that have to do with anything? What I get out of Fab, and who and how I meet, is between me and those people but doesn't escape the fact I'm happy with my experience.
Perhaps rather than worrying about the experience of others you should focus closer to home
I was talking about meeting people through this site and not at events.
The point still stands regardless of where and how I've met people (and despite what you may try and infer I've met people both through the site and at socials) I'm more than happy with my experience.
To come back to your OP though I stand by what I said earlier, it's just as hard or easy for women to find what they're looking for here as it is men."I still can't see how it can be just so easy or hard for ladies to find someone online who they would like to meet up with. No way I still have to disagree with that. For example I've been on here for around 4 hours on an off today and I haven't recieved any messages.. But just imagine if I had female gender on my profile and even no picture.... I would still get interest. I know not all would be welcome, but eventually someone would come along and click. Now compare that to using this app with male gender on the profile with or without pics still = 0 interest. So I really can't see how you can say its the same. | |||
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" Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. In your opinion and experience. Plenty of men disagree with you
Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you.
Maybe you would feel different then.
I do that daily and speak my mind in the forums and I'm more than happy with how far it takes me
Looks like you met almost everyone at socials.
What does that have to do with anything? What I get out of Fab, and who and how I meet, is between me and those people but doesn't escape the fact I'm happy with my experience.
Perhaps rather than worrying about the experience of others you should focus closer to home
I was talking about meeting people through this site and not at events.
The point still stands regardless of where and how I've met people (and despite what you may try and infer I've met people both through the site and at socials) I'm more than happy with my experience.
To come back to your OP though I stand by what I said earlier, it's just as hard or easy for women to find what they're looking for here as it is men.
I still can't see how it can be just so easy or hard for ladies to find someone online who they would like to meet up with.
No way I still have to disagree with that. For example I've been on here for around 4 hours on an off today and I haven't recieved any messages.. But just imagine if I had female gender on my profile and even no picture.... I would still get interest.
I know not all would be welcome, but eventually someone would come along and click.
Now compare that to using this app with male gender on the profile with or without pics still = 0 interest.
So I really can't see how you can say its the same.
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"It isn't easy for you to meet, OP. It isn't easy for me to meet because too many people treat me like a piece of meat and I won't tolerate it. " I can't see your profile but I think I can remember you having quite a few verifications. So it must be easy enough for you to find nice guys. | |||
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" Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you. Maybe you would feel different then. There are lots of very successful men on fab, I personally know loads. Maybe instead of blaming everyone else take a look at what YOU might be doing wrong. Like I said I could meet up with more women if I felt an attraction to everyone. Everyone could but not everyone has made multiple threads about it. You love having a go at me in the forums lol and you allways move the goal post. OP I had sympathy for you at first and tried to offer genuine assistance but you've just continued to be unpleasant about women on here and to men who have tried to tell you about how their experience has differed and it has become increasingly difficult to maintain any sympathy. I didn't mean to be unpleasant to anyone. Then I think you need to consider the way you write things as you come cross as very bitter and resentful towards the women on here." I know I'm not good with words. | |||
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"It isn't easy for you to meet, OP. It isn't easy for me to meet because too many people treat me like a piece of meat and I won't tolerate it. I can't see your profile but I think I can remember you having quite a few verifications. So it must be easy enough for you to find nice guys. " I haven't had a private meet since June | |||
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" Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. In your opinion and experience. Plenty of men disagree with you
Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you.
Maybe you would feel different then.
I do that daily and speak my mind in the forums and I'm more than happy with how far it takes me
Looks like you met almost everyone at socials.
What does that have to do with anything? What I get out of Fab, and who and how I meet, is between me and those people but doesn't escape the fact I'm happy with my experience.
Perhaps rather than worrying about the experience of others you should focus closer to home
I was talking about meeting people through this site and not at events.
The point still stands regardless of where and how I've met people (and despite what you may try and infer I've met people both through the site and at socials) I'm more than happy with my experience.
To come back to your OP though I stand by what I said earlier, it's just as hard or easy for women to find what they're looking for here as it is men.
I still can't see how it can be just so easy or hard for ladies to find someone online who they would like to meet up with.
No way I still have to disagree with that. For example I've been on here for around 4 hours on an off today and I haven't recieved any messages.. But just imagine if I had female gender on my profile and even no picture.... I would still get interest.
I know not all would be welcome, but eventually someone would come along and click.
Now compare that to using this app with male gender on the profile with or without pics still = 0 interest.
So I really can't see how you can say its the same.
I would take a good look at myself to discover why that might be the case- the answer is within, not out there."Do that mean you and other blokes are getting bombed with messages? | |||
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" Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you. Maybe you would feel different then. There are lots of very successful men on fab, I personally know loads. Maybe instead of blaming everyone else take a look at what YOU might be doing wrong. Like I said I could meet up with more women if I felt an attraction to everyone. Everyone could but not everyone has made multiple threads about it. You love having a go at me in the forums lol and you allways move the goal post. I hate the way you always blame everyone else for the fact that you have no luck, loads of other people do well so maybe the issue is with you, not everyone else. Moved the goal posts in what way? I'm answering your original question in a calm and polite manner. No point sugar coating things. I don't want to go into that now, because il probably get banned. Funny that
Multiple people have tried to answer your question but you just get stroppy and unpleasant. If you can't get meets, that's on you, not anyone else and it's definitely not the women on fabs fault."This is all your fault | |||
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" Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you. Maybe you would feel different then. There are lots of very successful men on fab, I personally know loads. Maybe instead of blaming everyone else take a look at what YOU might be doing wrong. Like I said I could meet up with more women if I felt an attraction to everyone. Everyone could but not everyone has made multiple threads about it. You love having a go at me in the forums lol and you allways move the goal post. I hate the way you always blame everyone else for the fact that you have no luck, loads of other people do well so maybe the issue is with you, not everyone else. Moved the goal posts in what way? I'm answering your original question in a calm and polite manner. No point sugar coating things. I don't want to go into that now, because il probably get banned. Funny that
Multiple people have tried to answer your question but you just get stroppy and unpleasant. If you can't get meets, that's on you, not anyone else and it's definitely not the women on fabs fault.
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"Seriously! Dry your eyes! You are really not doing yourself any favours at all, you are coming across as self entitled to have sex with whoever you want on here, and finding out the hard way that they don't want to have sex with you, so just get over yourself!" This has escalated too much from my original question. | |||
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"Seriously! Dry your eyes! You are really not doing yourself any favours at all, you are coming across as self entitled to have sex with whoever you want on here, and finding out the hard way that they don't want to have sex with you, so just get over yourself! This has escalated too much from my original question. " Because you have chosen to resist and ignore any bodies answers except you own. | |||
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"OP, what are you not understanding here? Women find it hard to find suitable meets, men do too, it's not rocket science. Only about 1% of my messages are suitable men, just because I get messages, doesn't mean I'll want to fuck the sender. It's that simple. And again I'll say, take a long hard look at how YOU are acting, the problem isn't anyone else's fault. " I'm not understanding how it can be the same for women and men. I'm not saying it's anyone's problem either. | |||
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"Perhaps you are mixing up ‘able to meet’ with ‘meeting the right person? It is easier for women to find a meet, absolutely. But it is probably equally hard for men and women looking for more than just another fuck to find someone of a similar mind to them. Women have to deal with lots of chaff to find the kernels of wheat, in the time available to them to be on fab, men have to deal with getting attention from women overwhelmed with messages. Is that any clearer?" Sums it up perfectly! | |||
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"OP, what are you not understanding here? Women find it hard to find suitable meets, men do too, it's not rocket science. Only about 1% of my messages are suitable men, just because I get messages, doesn't mean I'll want to fuck the sender. It's that simple. And again I'll say, take a long hard look at how YOU are acting, the problem isn't anyone else's fault. I'm not understanding how it can be the same for women and men. I'm not saying it's anyone's problem either. " Loads of women and men have told you, you're just choosing to ignore the answers because you're so blinded by your bitterness. | |||
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"Easy. They own the vagina "Do you want to own mine, for a night? | |||
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"Seriously! Dry your eyes! You are really not doing yourself any favours at all, you are coming across as self entitled to have sex with whoever you want on here, and finding out the hard way that they don't want to have sex with you, so just get over yourself! This has escalated too much from my original question. Because you have chosen to resist and ignore any bodies answers except you own." Not agreeing with people's messages isn't ignore them. | |||
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" Because it doest work like that. It's almost impossible to get messages, nevermind meet the woman of my dreams who wants to have sex with me. I guess by speaking my mind in the forums isn't doing me any favours, but my mates use sites and apps like this and they tell me it's impossible. In your opinion and experience. Plenty of men disagree with you
Sign in with male gender and see how far it takes you.
Maybe you would feel different then.
I do that daily and speak my mind in the forums and I'm more than happy with how far it takes me
Looks like you met almost everyone at socials.
What does that have to do with anything? What I get out of Fab, and who and how I meet, is between me and those people but doesn't escape the fact I'm happy with my experience.
Perhaps rather than worrying about the experience of others you should focus closer to home
I was talking about meeting people through this site and not at events.
The point still stands regardless of where and how I've met people (and despite what you may try and infer I've met people both through the site and at socials) I'm more than happy with my experience.
To come back to your OP though I stand by what I said earlier, it's just as hard or easy for women to find what they're looking for here as it is men.
I still can't see how it can be just so easy or hard for ladies to find someone online who they would like to meet up with.
No way I still have to disagree with that. For example I've been on here for around 4 hours on an off today and I haven't recieved any messages.. But just imagine if I had female gender on my profile and even no picture.... I would still get interest.
I know not all would be welcome, but eventually someone would come along and click.
Now compare that to using this app with male gender on the profile with or without pics still = 0 interest.
So I really can't see how you can say its the same.
I would take a good look at myself to discover why that might be the case- the answer is within, not out there.
Do that mean you and other blokes are getting bombed with messages? "No I’m not bombarded but the answers to my success or lack of it are within me, not out there. | |||
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"Easy. They own the vagina
Do you want to own mine, for a night?
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"It's as easy or hard as it is for men to find the "right" woman to be honest - yes the ladies may have the plethora of choice but when the majority of that choice can be immediately discounted finding the "right" one may not be as easy as a lot perceive it to be Are you being serious? It's much harder for men to find a woman. It might be harder for men to find any woman, but most women aren't looking for and won't accept just any man. Exactly because women have so much choice, so can afford to be choosy. If many of the men online wouldn't accept just any woman.. Then most wouldnt ever meet anyone. " Once you've shagged one or two wrong uns, as a bloke on here you soon discover your value and self worth and become fussier than the women... there is absolutely nobody in fab that I'm desperate to shag rn, nobody at all..... | |||
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