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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only have the one which is hidden since the couple I met don’t meet single males usually, so to stop the unwanted attention or on their part. But I like to have a wee read of others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it gives me a little snippet into their personality so yes, I tend to read them.
I also find if a person has met someone I respect it can go a long way
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So do you prefer to read peoples verifications or not.
Should I display mine?"
I think guys have a better chance of meeting, with those veris showing. Don't think you need to show them all though x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I also find if a person has met someone I respect it can go a long way.
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 Yes, it sounds a bit odd possibly but there are a couple of people who have sound judgement (to me anyway) and if I found out they'd met x, I'd think they can't be that much of a bellend.
I like reading veris, curiosity mainly. I go through phases of displaying different ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, because I'm nosey. And a hypocrite because I hide mine. They do often put me off someone though. "
I’m the same, however there are certain profiles if I see as a verification I won’t entertain the profile, when someone has hundreds Of them all having fun (unprotected) I won’t take that risk no thanks |
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I don't like them, don't give them and don't ask for them. I find them impersonal.
I do understand that it's needed, particularly by ladies who need reassurance you're not a nutter. And if that stops me meeting some people, so be it.
However, who and what I do hasn't got anything to do with anyone else. Just between me and the lady I see. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like to read them, gives you a little more insight to the person/people "
I’ve activated mine but they don’t show when I go to my profile???
Can anyone see them? |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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I'm not bothered about reading them and to me it makes no difference if they're displayed or not. My opinion on the person is formed through my interaction with them and my gut instincts which are usually sharp and on point. |
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"I like to see some for reassurance that the guy isn't an axe murderer, but I form my own opinion of people based on chatting to them - my gut instinct is usually spot on."
Yeah, it's very much about the axe murderer thing for me, too.
The first few guys I met, the sex stuff was neither here nor there, but reading friendly, respectful, helping nervous newbies, etc, over and over really helped me. It reduced the leap of faith in meeting someone on Fab for the first time. |
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Verifications are a double edged sword, you need them to show your genuine and it can give an idea if what they're like. Alternatively having too many can put people off. Displaying some of your verifications I find strange, what are they hiding? Has anyone ever received a uncomplimentary verification. We haven't but we sure would love to be able to give one if they had to show them lol. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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"Verifications are a double edged sword, you need them to show your genuine and it can give an idea if what they're like. Alternatively having too many can put people off. Displaying some of your verifications I find strange, what are they hiding? Has anyone ever received a uncomplimentary verification. We haven't but we sure would love to be able to give one if they had to show them lol."
We have a lot of verifications but lots are socials, never had a bad veri (do people leave them lol) but we have had veris from people we never spoke to only been in the same club, obviously we didn’t display. We are cautious if people only have one and it’s hidden |
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"Verifications are a double edged sword, you need them to show your genuine and it can give an idea if what they're like. Alternatively having too many can put people off. Displaying some of your verifications I find strange, what are they hiding? Has anyone ever received a uncomplimentary verification. We haven't but we sure would love to be able to give one if they had to show them lol.
We have a lot of verifications but lots are socials, never had a bad veri (do people leave them lol) but we have had veris from people we never spoke to only been in the same club, obviously we didn’t display. We are cautious if people only have one and it’s hidden "
If you could leave a bad veri and it had to be shown, there would be some very short lived profiles lol |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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"Verifications are a double edged sword, you need them to show your genuine and it can give an idea if what they're like. Alternatively having too many can put people off. Displaying some of your verifications I find strange, what are they hiding? Has anyone ever received a uncomplimentary verification. We haven't but we sure would love to be able to give one if they had to show them lol.
We have a lot of verifications but lots are socials, never had a bad veri (do people leave them lol) but we have had veris from people we never spoke to only been in the same club, obviously we didn’t display. We are cautious if people only have one and it’s hidden
If you could leave a bad veri and it had to be shown, there would be some very short lived profiles lol"
Very true lol, we saw one on a profile once it was that bad it had to be a wind up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like to read them, especially from newer profiles as we can see if verified my a longer term member with a few more verifications we can be sure the profile isn't a fake. |
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We read veri’s.... but as someone said they can be a double edged sword!
I (MrsG) don’t have much confidence so when I see that the guy has met women with amazing figures that’s that for me, no way I can compete and would feel Like they would be sorely disappointed when they met me.........And also if they have met certain others that have hundreds of veri’s that’s also a done job. Some people on here I just don’t want to be sharing bodily fluids with!!
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"We read veri’s.... but as someone said they can be a double edged sword!
I (MrsG) don’t have much confidence so when I see that the guy has met women with amazing figures that’s that for me, no way I can compete and would feel Like they would be sorely disappointed when they met me.........And also if they have met certain others that have hundreds of veri’s that’s also a done job. Some people on here I just don’t want to be sharing bodily fluids with!!
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You should have all the confidence in the world with a figure like yours. |
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"So do you prefer to read peoples verifications or not.
Should I display mine?"
We prefer to see veri’s and see who people have previously meet etc. Don’t really take much notice of what’s been said as we’ve met some people that aren’t stunning or very attractive, but that’s what people have written about them so we just take most veri’s with a pinch of salt! For us we sometimes show them all, we sometimes hide them all and sometimes just show a handful. It’s completely up to young you show them, just do what feels right which might change from one week to the other. |
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