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Right do men/women really care if people are carrying a bit of extra weight?
I am do eager to experience more but after 3 kids, youngest being 4 months my body isn't what it used to be. Should I just fuck it, it doesn't matter and try and be confident. Lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've spent a few years back and forth on fab and the thing I've found is that confidence is the sexiest of traits.
Different bodies are appreciated by different people differently, I'm carrying some excess currently id love to shift but I also love lager and pie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of people have body type preferences, but they can see that from your pictures so won't message you if they're not interested. You look great! "
Agreed. However if you fancy someone and they haven’t had contact etc etc then just go for it. No point thinking ‘what if’ and if you don’t ask then the answer will always be a no haha |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"A lot of people have body type preferences, but they can see that from your pictures so won't message you if they're not interested. You look great!
Agreed. However if you fancy someone and they haven’t had contact etc etc then just go for it. No point thinking ‘what if’ and if you don’t ask then the answer will always be a no haha"
Exactly, you can't predict what someone's type will be unless you talk to them and find out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right do men/women really care if people are carrying a bit of extra weight?
I am do eager to experience more but after 3 kids, youngest being 4 months my body isn't what it used to be. Should I just fuck it, it doesn't matter and try and be confident. Lol x"
Say what? I just checked out your profile and you’ve got nothing to worry...believe me! 
Stay beautiful and be happy! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Some do, others really don't.
Be proud of you as you are right now and work on loving yourself, current extra weight or not. Confidence and living in the moment is attractive - I've found that people who look like they are happy and enjoying life far more sexually attractive than those who don't.
I'm fat and I've never been short of attention on fab or otherwise, even when I was a good 9 stones heavier than I am currently. So I wouldn't put too much weight on it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right do men/women really care if people are carrying a bit of extra weight?
I am do eager to experience more but after 3 kids, youngest being 4 months my body isn't what it used to be. Should I just fuck it, it doesn't matter and try and be confident. Lol x"
Nobody that I've met seems to care that I'm carrying extra. I appear to be body confident, so maybe that makes a difference. |
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"Right do men/women really care if people are carrying a bit of extra weight?
I am do eager to experience more but after 3 kids, youngest being 4 months my body isn't what it used to be. Should I just fuck it, it doesn't matter and try and be confident. Lol x"
Try me and find out if I say yes 
I’m kidding, you look great and in my experience most people won’t care |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I think a strong stomach is needed by anyone who sees me naked. It's not pretty and I would understand if someone said.. no thanks and left ... "
I'm still waiting to see you dressed, never mind naked.  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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It's all going to be down the the individual that you meet, or approach. Some it won't appeal to, some it will greatly appeal to. To most it won't be a factor either way.
It works just the same as who is attracted to certain facial features, or large/small other parts of the body. |
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Well for a lady that’s had four children, your body is looking amazing !
I have what I call the baby smile shelf, I’m honest about it and those I’ve met have not been bothered about it
Just be confident in who you are x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just looked at your photos and you look bloody good! You seriously have nothing to worry about. It's just some confidence that's needed is all. If men don't like the look of you, you'll know! If they are interested believe them. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"Right do men/women really care if people are carrying a bit of extra weight?
I am do eager to experience more but after 3 kids, youngest being 4 months my body isn't what it used to be. Should I just fuck it, it doesn't matter and try and be confident. Lol x"
You are kidding - you look fantastic. I bet you turn heads (for the right reasons). X  |
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"Right do men/women really care if people are carrying a bit of extra weight?
I am do eager to experience more but after 3 kids, youngest being 4 months my body isn't what it used to be. Should I just fuck it, it doesn't matter and try and be confident. Lol x"
Just be confident.
Why worry? Everyone who's had kids will know the changes that happen anyway and let's face it, we are all getting older.
Some will want to meet some won't. Stop worrying and go out and enjoy. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Only a few are new and don't show the belly very well new ones going up tonight hopefully. Don't get me wrong I'm not huge but also not in great shape around the middle either lol "
Stand next to me - you'll look a million bucks. Lol |
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"Only a few are new and don't show the belly very well new ones going up tonight hopefully. Don't get me wrong I'm not huge but also not in great shape around the middle either lol "
Motherhood.... carry it with pride of four beautiful lives |
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By *uriousk22Couple
over a year ago
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had a quick look at your profile and you have nothing to worry about, you have a gorgeous body.
I would say be confident, i’m a bigger lady as you can see from my pics but i’m confident with it and i find that catches guys eyes.
Good luck x |
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"I think a strong stomach is needed by anyone who sees me naked. It's not pretty and I would understand if someone said.. no thanks and left ... "
From the pic I can see I would have to disagree. I think you look fab. But it comes down to how we see ourselves I think. And I would be mortified if we arranged a meet and they didnt realise this is actually how my belly wiggles ect. But my husband thinks I'm far too critcle of myself and see myself in a different light.
So I think I need to learn to jiggle away happily. Lol  |
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"Right do men/women really care if people are carrying a bit of extra weight?
I am do eager to experience more but after 3 kids, youngest being 4 months my body isn't what it used to be. Should I just fuck it, it doesn't matter and try and be confident. Lol x"
I prefer to carry as little fat as my body finds sustainable
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Only a few are new and don't show the belly very well new ones going up tonight hopefully. Don't get me wrong I'm not huge but also not in great shape around the middle either lol "
Same here, and nobody has ever fled in terror when I got naked. Yet anyway 
I think we are our own worst critics sometimes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only a few are new and don't show the belly very well new ones going up tonight hopefully. Don't get me wrong I'm not huge but also not in great shape around the middle either lol
Same here, and nobody has ever fled in terror when I got naked. Yet anyway
I think we are our own worst critics sometimes! "
I would run . . . Towards you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You look amazing and like everyone said, engage with who you are and love yourself and that is super sexy.
Im a 14 and love how i look ,yes i have the odd confidence crisis but we are women.
You're rocking it beautiful x |
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Thanks every one. I'm going to put new photos on tonight and embrace the body I have currently if a jiggle a bit who cares.
Have a great weekend everyone. My husband is just home so I know I will. X |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Thanks every one. I'm going to put new photos on tonight and embrace the body I have currently if a jiggle a bit who cares.
Have a great weekend everyone. My husband is just home so I know I will. X "
Big hugs. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sasha prefers a dad bod or below, Sam likes size 18-20 or below. It's more to do with us both being of small frame and fairly short height wise and not wanting to be overly dominated physically than anything visually against a larger build. |
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"Right do men/women really care if people are carrying a bit of extra weight?
I am do eager to experience more but after 3 kids, youngest being 4 months my body isn't what it used to be. Should I just fuck it, it doesn't matter and try and be confident. Lol x"
The only person it really matters to is you I've been lighter but much less body confident than I am now. Sure, you won't be some people's type, but that works both ways. If you feel confident in yourself, you go for it! I've always been told confidence is an attractive quality
Mrs TMN x |
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"Right do men/women really care if people are carrying a bit of extra weight?
I am do eager to experience more but after 3 kids, youngest being 4 months my body isn't what it used to be. Should I just fuck it, it doesn't matter and try and be confident. Lol x"
I love women having a bit extra. It's normal and sexy. Luke |
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"Right do men/women really care if people are carrying a bit of extra weight?
I am do eager to experience more but after 3 kids, youngest being 4 months my body isn't what it used to be. Should I just fuck it, it doesn't matter and try and be confident. Lol x"
Looking like you do I'd be extremely confident |
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