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I believe that sex is a natural thing between consenting partners and morals are merely a social or political construct to encourage people to behave in a certain way. Most males in the animal world have multiple partners and change each year. Morals seem to be a way of curtailing this. I think than males should do what they feel is natural and have as many encounters as they like and women the same |
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"I believe that sex is a natural thing between consenting partners and morals are merely a social or political construct to encourage people to behave in a certain way. Most males in the animal world have multiple partners and change each year. Morals seem to be a way of curtailing this. I think than males should do what they feel is natural and have as many encounters as they like and women the same"
Naturally speaking though females also are looking for a partner to help bring up children, men and women are actually (and always have been) instinctually different |
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"I believe that sex is a natural thing between consenting partners and morals are merely a social or political construct to encourage people to behave in a certain way. Most males in the animal world have multiple partners and change each year. Morals seem to be a way of curtailing this. I think than males should do what they feel is natural and have as many encounters as they like and women the same
Naturally speaking though females also are looking for a partner to help bring up children, men and women are actually (and always have been) instinctually different "
Like that 
Though as I'm past the reproductive stage...I'll do as I want using my own moral compass |
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"I believe that sex is a natural thing between consenting partners and morals are merely a social or political construct to encourage people to behave in a certain way. Most males in the animal world have multiple partners and change each year. Morals seem to be a way of curtailing this. I think than males should do what they feel is natural and have as many encounters as they like and women the same
Naturally speaking though females also are looking for a partner to help bring up children, men and women are actually (and always have been) instinctually different
Like that
Though as I'm past the reproductive stage...I'll do as I want using my own moral compass"
My morals are personal, and agree ^^ I'll do life, as well as fab my way  |
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We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases. |
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"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases."
Partnerships/marriages have been around a lot longer than cities! |
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"Why is it more socially accepted here for a woman to be bi-sexual and also for a woman to cheat on her partner than a man?  "
I don't think it is. Especially cheating (so bad) |
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"Why is it more socially accepted here for a woman to be bi-sexual and also for a woman to cheat on her partner than a man? "
Its not but for a guy to get a fuck on here some have to go the extra mile or 6 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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dont many women find the idea of two men together erotic in the same way as some men find two women together sexy, i dont find two women together a turn on myself |
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In regards to being bisexual I don’t know.
In regards to cheating, for me it’s not more acceptable it’s equally as despicable in my opinion.
The difference being that more single men care less about a woman’s marital status and single women care more. |
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"dont many women find the idea of two men together erotic in the same way as some men find two women together sexy, i dont find two women together a turn on myself "
The majority of women on here find the idea of 2 men together erotic from what I’ve read. It always seems to be just me who doesn’t on those threads. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In regards to being bisexual I don’t know.
In regards to cheating, for me it’s not more acceptable it’s equally as despicable in my opinion.
The difference being that more single men care less about a woman’s marital status and single women care more. "
yes i would agree with your last statement but i also think the state of matrimony, marriage is less important in general now people arent as religious as say 60 years ago and beyond so long term relationships where they might have been 40 years or more only last 10/12 years in fact people regard that as long term dont you think? |
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"Don't really think religion comes into it and I like being married "
lol yes i kinda guessed that of you, the guy I'm working with at the minute gets really excited about chatting to his wife of 35 years he calls her sexy on the phone |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Don't really think religion comes into it and I like being married lol yes i kinda guessed that of you, the guy I'm working with at the minute gets really excited about chatting to his wife of 35 years he calls her sexy on the phone "
Oh that is sweet |
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"dont many women find the idea of two men together erotic in the same way as some men find two women together sexy, i dont find two women together a turn on myself
The majority of women on here find the idea of 2 men together erotic from what I’ve read. It always seems to be just me who doesn’t on those threads. "
You're not the only one. |
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"I believe that sex is a natural thing between consenting partners and morals are merely a social or political construct to encourage people to behave in a certain way. Most males in the animal world have multiple partners and change each year. Morals seem to be a way of curtailing this. I think than males should do what they feel is natural and have as many encounters as they like and women the same"
There are ways to do it ethically though. Also it isn't just males who mate with multiple partners in the animal kingdom. Many female animals mate with multiple partners to maximise her chance of conception. |
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"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases."
Communal living and parenting would also be bad for our capitalism based economic model. |
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"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases.
Communal living and parenting would also be bad for our capitalism based economic model."
Not saying that's a bad thing by the way. I hate capitalism. Just that many would prefer to keep the status quo with every monogamous couple struggling to run their individual home full of their individual sets of possesions and own cars and paying for childcare for their 2.4 kids. |
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"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases.
Communal living and parenting would also be bad for our capitalism based economic model."
lol hey monogamy makes sense certainly where children are concerned but sustained relationships are difficult the grass is always greener on the other side |
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I can say I get a lot of messages, contacts with bi lads who are known as straight. They are in very masculine jobs or well known for being a ladies men. Think that bi males is more under the radar than you think. |
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"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases.
Communal living and parenting would also be bad for our capitalism based economic model.lol hey monogamy makes sense certainly where children are concerned but sustained relationships are difficult the grass is always greener on the other side "
Nah, the more parents the better  |
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Cheating isnt acceptable at all no matter who.
As for the Bi thing, women certainy arent as open minded to male as female bi, probably 20% of womes profiles state no bi males. An not that i look at blokes profiles, but im guessing it would be a much lower number saying no bi women. |
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"Cheating isnt acceptable at all no matter who.
As for the Bi thing, women certainy arent as open minded to male as female bi, probably 20% of womes profiles state no bi males. An not that i look at blokes profiles, but im guessing it would be a much lower number saying no bi women."
Your opinion on cheating I find it highly acceptable !!! |
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"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases.
Communal living and parenting would also be bad for our capitalism based economic model.lol hey monogamy makes sense certainly where children are concerned but sustained relationships are difficult the grass is always greener on the other side
Nah, the more parents the better "
why? the more picnics?  |
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"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases.
Communal living and parenting would also be bad for our capitalism based economic model.lol hey monogamy makes sense certainly where children are concerned but sustained relationships are difficult the grass is always greener on the other side
Nah, the more parents the better why? the more picnics? "
More people to share childcare and pooled resources. |
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"We were never really meant to be monogamous in the first place. Monogamy only became the socially acceptable way when we started living in cities as it helped to curtail the spread of venereal diseases.
Communal living and parenting would also be bad for our capitalism based economic model.lol hey monogamy makes sense certainly where children are concerned but sustained relationships are difficult the grass is always greener on the other side
Nah, the more parents the better why? the more picnics?
More people to share childcare and pooled resources."
ahhhh ok I'm Great with kids..... lol |
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"Cheating isnt acceptable at all no matter who.
As for the Bi thing, women certainy arent as open minded to male as female bi, probably 20% of womes profiles state no bi males. An not that i look at blokes profiles, but im guessing it would be a much lower number saying no bi women.
Your opinion on cheating I find it highly acceptable !!! "
Having been cheated on, I know it is.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cheating isnt acceptable at all no matter who.
As for the Bi thing, women certainy arent as open minded to male as female bi, probably 20% of womes profiles state no bi males. An not that i look at blokes profiles, but im guessing it would be a much lower number saying no bi women.
Your opinion on cheating I find it highly acceptable !!!
Having been cheated on, I know it is. "
Refer you to my earlier comment purely your opinion !! |
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"Reading some of these responses just makes me shake my head and worry about the world. So disappointing!!! Education and common sense is a luxury it seems. Wow."
i shake my head at Brexit  |
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"Reading some of these responses just makes me shake my head and worry about the world. So disappointing!!! Education and common sense is a luxury it seems. Wow."
Stick with it world peace and brexit are resolved on a daily basis !! |
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"Reading some of these responses just makes me shake my head and worry about the world. So disappointing!!! Education and common sense is a luxury it seems. Wow.
Stick with it world peace and brexit are resolved on a daily basis !! "
Turkey are setting a fine example |
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"Reading some of these responses just makes me shake my head and worry about the world. So disappointing!!! Education and common sense is a luxury it seems. Wow.
Stick with it world peace and brexit are resolved on a daily basis !! Turkey are setting a fine example "
They’re just nervous with Christmas coming and all that !! |
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"Reading some of these responses just makes me shake my head and worry about the world. So disappointing!!! Education and common sense is a luxury it seems. Wow.
Stick with it world peace and brexit are resolved on a daily basis !! Turkey are setting a fine example
They’re just nervous with Christmas coming and all that !! "
lol yes syrian pilots are saying I'll have a turkey wing |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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Whether you like it or not, the rules are gender specific. You can call it double standards, hypocrisy whatever you want. That the way it is baby.
The biggest taboo is saying them out loud.
I read women here complaining of some men slut shaming. I see more slut shaming from other women here. I'm not saying that men don't but it comes from a different place, typically sour grapes or rejection.
Joseph Heller in Catch 22 describe a man as
"He advocated thrift and hard work and disapproved of loose women who turned him down"
I have seen status updates from women that don't want to sleep with a guy because he has a veri from a 'community bike" |
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"Whether you like it or not, the rules are gender specific. You can call it double standards, hypocrisy whatever you want. That the way it is baby.
The biggest taboo is saying them out loud.
I read women here complaining of some men slut shaming. I see more slut shaming from other women here. I'm not saying that men don't but it comes from a different place, typically sour grapes or rejection.
Joseph Heller in Catch 22 describe a man as
"He advocated thrift and hard work and disapproved of loose women who turned him down"
I have seen status updates from women that don't want to sleep with a guy because he has a veri from a 'community bike""
i agree but boris put the community bikes there for tourists |
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