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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know women and couples get lots of attention and messages and the fakes are dick heads who make it impossible for me to get noticed while wanting to be discreet on my public profile.
I’m never pushy or disrespectful and that’ll never change if I don’t know you enough
How can I get noticed even for a chat |
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Definitely a few pics. You don’t have to reveal anything about who you are in the photos, but something to pique the curiosity. Same goes for your profile text.
When you message someone, read their profile carefully and show genuine interest in who that person is.
Use these forums. People will come to know you (we’re new on the forums - been on Fab for ages but a bit backward with all social media so didn’t realise they were here. Talked to lots more lovely people since we’ve been posting). |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I know women and couples get lots of attention and messages and the fakes are dick heads who make it impossible for me to get noticed while wanting to be discreet on my public profile.
I’m never pushy or disrespectful and that’ll never change if I don’t know you enough
How can I get noticed even for a chat"
Stop being negative and blaming other men for your lack of success. Nobody likes a debbie downer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very good point actually, I should not rant about fakes I should beat them by standing out more.
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Exactly. Blaming others for your failures is a very unattractive trait and will put people off |
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Hi
You’ve put “photos on request” but no one will request them. If an online shop said “you can view our products on request”, would you bother?
There are several typos in your profile text.
Best of luck. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
Look at what others have suggested.
Plus, as said, don't have every sentence starting with a Capital I. Instead, bunch separate similar sentences into short paragraphs.
Proof your text as there are a few spelling errors; eg, instead of Il, use I'll.
Yes the Grammar Police will say something, but it's all about putting over a good profile image to draw in potential meets.
The fact is you've only been on a week or so. It is a vicious circle, as you have to compete against so many other single guys, but it is a case of getting yourself noticed!
Perseverance and Patience are key but the more you put in, the better the result. It does work but it can take time!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know women and couples get lots of attention and messages and the fakes are dick heads who make it impossible for me to get noticed while wanting to be discreet on my public profile.
I’m never pushy or disrespectful and that’ll never change if I don’t know you enough
How can I get noticed even for a chat"
A blank avatar will put most women off you need pics even if body or a suit, a good write up with checked grammar and some personality count for a lot, if youve been here before you know that surely  |
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And off topic... oh wow you have a photo with a book 
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