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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn’t mean you’re ugly, it just means she isn’t attracted to you. We can’t be attractive to everyone can we? Try not to dwell on it OP  "
Babs is wise. I wouldn’t take it personally, OP! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It doesn’t mean you’re ugly, it just means she isn’t attracted to you. We can’t be attractive to everyone can we? Try not to dwell on it OP "
Yeah but when they clearly keen on the body and then block you afterwards send a pretty clear message
Not the first time that's happened |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It doesn’t mean you’re ugly, it just means she isn’t attracted to you. We can’t be attractive to everyone can we? Try not to dwell on it OP
Babs is wise. I wouldn’t take it personally, OP!"
How else can you take it ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When someone messages you all keen, asks for a face pic and then blocks you once she's seen it "
to one woman youre handsome to another youre not its life
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure you'd probably do the same.
Some people find rejecting someone because they're not attracted to their face quite difficult.
Also on here women often get abuse if they reject someone with a polite message so its easier to just block.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always want to see a face picture first when I start chatting. Attraction must be there. Good body is nice to look at but if I'm not attracted to the facial features then meet is not gonna happen. And just to add, I always meet socially first. So even if they're good looking, if we don't click and there's no chemistry, there won't be any sex.
I know I'm fussy.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sure you'd probably do the same.
Some people find rejecting someone because they're not attracted to their face quite difficult.
Also on here women often get abuse if they reject someone with a polite message so its easier to just block.
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Again I didn't approach this person..they were all keen on my body..and then get outright blocked me a second later
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"It doesn’t mean you’re ugly, it just means she isn’t attracted to you. We can’t be attractive to everyone can we? Try not to dwell on it OP
Babs is wise. I wouldn’t take it personally, OP!
How else can you take it ??"
That she isn’t attracted to you. It happens like that sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It doesn’t mean you’re ugly, it just means she isn’t attracted to you. We can’t be attractive to everyone can we? Try not to dwell on it OP
Babs is wise. I wouldn’t take it personally, OP!
Easy for women to say...you've got another 100 option's..
It's like telling a homeless person money isn't everything, when your off to buy a car
How else can you take it ??
That she isn’t attracted to you. It happens like that sometimes. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It doesn’t mean you’re ugly, it just means she isn’t attracted to you. We can’t be attractive to everyone can we? Try not to dwell on it OP
Babs is wise. I wouldn’t take it personally, OP!
How else can you take it ??
That she isn’t attracted to you. It happens like that sometimes. "
Easy for women to say..you have another 100 options.
It's like telling a homeless person money isn't everything, as your off to buy a new car
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or she has recognised you, or you look like her ex. Blocking is easier for most women as you don’t have to explain or face abuse or have someone trying to convince you. It’s a clear answer but the answer isn’t that you’re ugly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn’t mean you’re ugly, it just means she isn’t attracted to you. We can’t be attractive to everyone can we? Try not to dwell on it OP
Babs is wise. I wouldn’t take it personally, OP!
How else can you take it ??
That she isn’t attracted to you. It happens like that sometimes.
Easy for women to say..you have another 100 options.
It's like telling a homeless person money isn't everything, as your off to buy a new car
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Might have another 100 options but could be attracted to zero and 86 of them could have been horribly behaved they got blocked for that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There can be a lack of common courtesy on here, social skills. "
Agreed which is why a polite no thanks can lead to abuse.
Im not here to be abused which is why on my profile it says if i dont reply then its a no thanks. If people cant be courteous enough to read my profile, not my problem |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There can be a lack of common courtesy on here, social skills.
Agreed which is why a polite no thanks can lead to abuse.
Im not here to be abused which is why on my profile it says if i dont reply then its a no thanks. If people cant be courteous enough to read my profile, not my problem"
Again this person approached me, perhaps you could have been courteous enough to read my initial post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly it doesnt mean youre ugly at all. Ive seen people on here i think makes quasamodo look attractive but they have verified meets.
Each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There can be a lack of common courtesy on here, social skills.
Agreed which is why a polite no thanks can lead to abuse.
Im not here to be abused which is why on my profile it says if i dont reply then its a no thanks. If people cant be courteous enough to read my profile, not my problem
Again this person approached me, perhaps you could have been courteous enough to read my initial post."
I did read your initial post and dont understand why them contacting you first has any relevance.
Im pointing out that a polite no thanks leads to abuse for females and then just explain how i approach it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am i missing something here or people don't look at faces when speaking or fucking? Face, body and personality all helps when having s good time??"
I like to keep my eyes closed when in the company of women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes one guy we met had revolting teeth but lots of verification s
Another man we would not play with needed two chairs to sit on .... and his wife was ignorant and did not speak we just said politely not for us .... yet they have glowing verification s
However they would not exchange face photos before we met ...and we took a chance but never again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes one guy we met had revolting teeth but lots of verification s
Another man we would not play with needed two chairs to sit on .... and his wife was ignorant and did not speak we just said politely not for us .... yet they have glowing verification s
However they would not exchange face photos before we met ...and we took a chance but never again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to send a short reply saying not for me, sorry rather than blocking. I would only block if they messaged back saying "why, what's wrong with me"? I wouldn't want to get into a conversation and have to tell someone I don't find them attractive. That makes me feel bad.
Try to let it go Op, move on and find someone who does appreciate you. |
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"It doesn’t mean you’re ugly, it just means she isn’t attracted to you. We can’t be attractive to everyone can we? Try not to dwell on it OP
Yeah but when they clearly keen on the body and then block you afterwards send a pretty clear message
Not the first time that's happened"
So, like men, women are very different, what they're attracted to and not. For me the face is a lot less important than the attitude. For some women the look is what they like whether they're a Viking n tats lover or a fan of dad bods or ripped GQ types it is vastly different from one to another.
Probably the best way to approach the fact that some people will be into you and some won't is to remove your ego from the equation. That way a refusal will not affect you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She wasn’t attracted to you.
It doesn’t mean you’re ugly, it just means she didn’t fancy you.
No big deal, there will be other women who do.
Many of times I’ve received messages from guys and been attracted to the body and then they send a face picture and I’m not attracted to them.
In this case she messaged you because she was attracted to your body, you sent a face picture and she was no longer interested. Don’t take it to heart. |
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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago
quite close to you |
"I tend to send a short reply saying not for me, sorry rather than blocking. I would only block if they messaged back saying "why, what's wrong with me"? I wouldn't want to get into a conversation and have to tell someone I don't find them attractive. That makes me feel bad.
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I think that is the best way, I have bern knocked back loads of times (shocker I know!) But never once been abusive if someone was like 'no thanks' or even if they just stop communicating. It is very annoying after a while you get ghosted. |
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I disagree op. Rejection just means that they are not proceeding with things from that point. There are countless reasons why this may be the case. It may be due to attraction but we all have different tastes - some aren't interested in what you may label as good looking. It's realistic that people men are interested in also have limited time to discuss and meet others, so they limit interaction, if things are too much to manage - sometimes bulk inbox message deletes are done.
The only thing to take personally is where you are going to put your attention next. Decide and move on.
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
Or, as the late great Les Dawson would describe his wife- "I wouldn't say she was ugly, but when applying her make-up, the lipstick backs into the tube!" OR
"She's not what you'd call fat, but it helps with her job - she kick starts Jumbo Jets!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It stopped bothering me a long time agi I know I'm not everyone's taste I'm proberbly not gonna attract anyone on this site I come in cos I enjoy it if I get blocked or rejected it like water of a ducks back it just rolls off me don't take it to heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gotta know your worth.
Let them block you I chat with a few people regularly on and off that are well above where i punch. Bit we enjoy a bit of banter. We never gonna meet but we still enjoy a bit of banter. I suppose it depends how thirsty you are sometimes I can imagine this can come across quite strong with initial messages and can put people off. I like the banter with people more than anything and it either does or doesnt lead to anything more. |
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"I always want to see a face picture first when I start chatting. Attraction must be there. Good body is nice to look at but if I'm not attracted to the facial features then meet is not gonna happen. And just to add, I always meet socially first. So even if they're good looking, if we don't click and there's no chemistry, there won't be any sex.
I know I'm fussy.
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Same here x |
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"I always want to see a face picture first when I start chatting. Attraction must be there. Good body is nice to look at but if I'm not attracted to the facial features then meet is not gonna happen. And just to add, I always meet socially first. So even if they're good looking, if we don't click and there's no chemistry, there won't be any sex.
I know I'm fussy.
Same here x"
Me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t sweat it. It’s happened to me loads of times
#FaceThatLaunched1000Blocks"
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Lmao.
Its happened to me before and I'm a woman so cheer up op and move forward not back! |
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