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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few on my hotlist, I don’t stalk any one though.
I doubt they even know who I am. Well one might, I told her she was on my hotlist but then again she’s probably forgotten all about that now as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get the point of hot listing. Either engage with someone or don't. We're not 15 anymore!!"
I agree, and also with OP, its creepy ns cringy unless they know they're on it..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to have a little perve over my hotlisties
There are some I’m way too intimidated to actually message and I don’t dare if that makes me childish
I kinda like crushing on them  "
I know, thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't get the point of hot listing. Either engage with someone or don't. We're not 15 anymore!!
I agree, and also with OP, its creepy ns cringy unless they know they're on it....."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to have a little perve over my hotlisties
There are some I’m way too intimidated to actually message and I don’t dare if that makes me childish
I kinda like crushing on them "
This |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I like to have a little perve over my hotlisties
There are some I’m way too intimidated to actually message and I don’t dare if that makes me childish
I kinda like crushing on them
This "
You've just agreed with two opposite opinions  |
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I have a hot list, a tiny one. I keep it if I might want to contact them at some point in the future, if and when the timing is right for me.
They are people that I have really liked with a good vibe about them and I find attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been stalked on here, creepy, had to block a few. No one who has said they have me on their hotlist have messaged me to tell me what I was wearing, when and where- or to complain I don’t want to meet them. Stalkers have though- funny but they never mentioned I was on a hotlist.
Don’t see hot lists as the same, as they’re to admire images. I wouldn’t necessarily message someone because I liked an image, as sometimes the profiles don’t match either of our wants. I can admire a picture but they will hold no other interest to me than aesthetics.
Viv xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to have a little perve over my hotlisties
There are some I’m way too intimidated to actually message and I don’t dare if that makes me childish
I kinda like crushing on them
This
You've just agreed with two opposite opinions "
Woaah let’s get VAR on this, lol Ive liked their points of view , Noticed you love friction bit the good sort lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a hot list, a tiny one. I keep it if I might want to contact them at some point in the future, if and when the timing is right for me.
They are people that I have really liked with a good vibe about them and I find attractive."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to have a little perve over my hotlisties
There are some I’m way too intimidated to actually message and I don’t dare if that makes me childish
I kinda like crushing on them
This
You've just agreed with two opposite opinions "
That a perfectly ok possibility in my head......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to have a little perve over my hotlisties
There are some I’m way too intimidated to actually message and I don’t dare if that makes me childish
I kinda like crushing on them
This
You've just agreed with two opposite opinions
That a perfectly ok possibility in my head...... "
That's * |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Been stalked on here, creepy, had to block a few. No one who has said they have me on their hotlist have messaged me to tell me what I was wearing, when and where- or to complain I don’t want to meet them. Stalkers have though- funny but they never mentioned I was on a hotlist.
Don’t see hot lists as the same, as they’re to admire images. I wouldn’t necessarily message someone because I liked an image, as sometimes the profiles don’t match either of our wants. I can admire a picture but they will hold no other interest to me than aesthetics.
Viv xx"
Yikes, that doesn’t sound like fun, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a hot list, a tiny one. I keep it if I might want to contact them at some point in the future, if and when the timing is right for me.
They are people that I have really liked with a good vibe about them and I find attractive."
I also use this logical approach.
I'm too busy to meet anyone at the mo, but sometimes have a browse and add to my hotlist to possibly contact in the future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been stalked on here, creepy, had to block a few. No one who has said they have me on their hotlist have messaged me to tell me what I was wearing, when and where- or to complain I don’t want to meet them. Stalkers have though- funny but they never mentioned I was on a hotlist.
Don’t see hot lists as the same, as they’re to admire images. I wouldn’t necessarily message someone because I liked an image, as sometimes the profiles don’t match either of our wants. I can admire a picture but they will hold no other interest to me than aesthetics.
Viv xx
Yikes, that doesn’t sound like fun, "
Had better experiences, haha xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Question - following a profile activities on a hotlist is the same as stalking lol "
You spoke your mind but for me it’s keeping the precious things in a safe place to find again when needed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Been stalked on here, creepy, had to block a few. No one who has said they have me on their hotlist have messaged me to tell me what I was wearing, when and where- or to complain I don’t want to meet them. Stalkers have though- funny but they never mentioned I was on a hotlist.
Don’t see hot lists as the same, as they’re to admire images. I wouldn’t necessarily message someone because I liked an image, as sometimes the profiles don’t match either of our wants. I can admire a picture but they will hold no other interest to me than aesthetics.
Viv xx
Yikes, that doesn’t sound like fun,
Had better experiences, haha xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get the point of hot listing. Either engage with someone or don't. We're not 15 anymore!!"
True. That's why there are no frequent threads where people admit their secret crushes. *giggle* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a little hotlist but they're very exclusive... Doubt I'm on anyone's except my fab stalkers. Yes I have one but she means no harm. Hope others wouldn't find it creepy they were on mine....  |
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