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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

We all have those days when something just makes us feel a bit rubbish...

All it takes is a lovely word and things suddenly look much better.

If you’re having a moment and just need a nice word say you’re in on the thread...

Let’s take a moment and just send a little love and a kind word to someone who needs it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm feeling like shit. I'm not sure why, nothing has happened but I'm not in a happy place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm feeling like shit. I'm not sure why, nothing has happened but I'm not in a happy place.

When your as beautiful and nice as you, you should always be happy x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We all have those days when something just makes us feel a bit rubbish...

All it takes is a lovely word and things suddenly look much better.

If you’re having a moment and just need a nice word say you’re in on the thread...

Let’s take a moment and just send a little love and a kind word to someone who needs it.

X"
Boris youre the best prime minister since teresa may

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm feeling like shit. I'm not sure why, nothing has happened but I'm not in a happy place.

When your as beautiful and nice as you, you should always be happy x"

Thanks but it's not as easy as that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lornajo please don't feel like that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lornajo please don't feel like that

OK then I won't.

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm feeling like shit. I'm not sure why, nothing has happened but I'm not in a happy place.

Sending virtual hugs and kisses as well as positive vibes. Hope you feel back to yourself soon x

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Feeling crappy, have done for a few weeks. Can't seem to pull myself out of it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lornajo please don't feel like that

OK then I won't. "

I knew it would work X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I could do with some love and cuddles! X

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"I'm feeling like shit. I'm not sure why, nothing has happened but I'm not in a happy place.

Lorna

boobie hugs for you xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I could do with some love and cuddles! X"

Sending you loads x

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I'm in

I'm in need...

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'm feeling great but i'll extend my well wishes to anyone who isn't and remember, better days lie ahead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I could do with some love and cuddles! X

Sending you loads x"

Thanks gorgeous x

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By *hromosexualsCouple over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"Feeling crappy, have done for a few weeks. Can't seem to pull myself out of it

Do you think it might be related to the change in the season?

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I may not be one of the hunks, but I'm a great listener and always available to anyone if you want to chat.

Big hugs and handshakes to all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We all have those days when something just makes us feel a bit rubbish...

All it takes is a lovely word and things suddenly look much better.

If you’re having a moment and just need a nice word say you’re in on the thread...

Let’s take a moment and just send a little love and a kind word to someone who needs it.

X"
What a real nice heart felt post

If anyone’s struggling mentally or maybe your just struggling to cope at the moment just reach out and talk

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Feeling crappy, have done for a few weeks. Can't seem to pull myself out of it

Do you think it might be related to the change in the season?"

It could be, I feel like a hormonal teenager again

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I'm feeling like shit. I'm not sure why, nothing has happened but I'm not in a happy place.

Awe Lorna

sending you hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I could do with some love and cuddles! X"

You know my arms are always open to you. X

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

I've had a really shitty day...i've had some lovely messages from a friend already, but I could do with some more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I could do with some love and cuddles! X

You know my arms are always open to you. X"

And back to my lovely, hugs all round x

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm in

I'm in need..."

A big manly hug for you matey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thank you all for the love. I'm OK and will back to form soon. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I could do with some love and cuddles! X

Sending you loads x

Thanks gorgeous x"

In fact I’m within 30 miles so if I reach out I can almost touch you x

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I've had a really shitty day...i've had some lovely messages from a friend already, but I could do with some more

Oh no

hope tonight you forget your day and smile a little x

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan over a year ago

Seen in far off places

"I'm in

I'm in need...

A big manly hug for you matey "

You're not in Kent by any chance?!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I could do with some love and cuddles! X

Sending you loads x

Thanks gorgeous x

In fact I’m within 30 miles so if I reach out I can almost touch you x"

Ahhhhh if only x

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman over a year ago

somewhere

Sending big hugs to all feeling abit meh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I may not be one of the hunks, but I'm a great listener and always available to anyone if you want to chat.

Big hugs and handshakes to all. "

Dude... don’t put yourself down! Noticed your posts on here a few times, if more blokes on here carried themselves like you do! Well let’s just say the fab world would certainly be a better place

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I could do with some love and cuddles! X

Sending you loads x

Thanks gorgeous x

In fact I’m within 30 miles so if I reach out I can almost touch you x

Depending on angle... I might touch high or low x

Ahhhhh if only x"

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I've had a really shitty day...i've had some lovely messages from a friend already, but I could do with some more

Here if you need a shoulder x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your all going to think am being silly ! But sometimes when am a little down or have to much on with my business and feeling stressed,

Either have a bar of chocolate which is good when your trying to lose weight ! Or o sneak of for a W..k ! Yes I really do, oh and on the very odd occasion I’ve done one after the other

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"Sending big hugs to all feeling abit meh

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I could do with some love and cuddles! X

Sending you loads x

Thanks gorgeous x

In fact I’m within 30 miles so if I reach out I can almost touch you x

Depending on angle... I might touch high or low x

Ahhhhh if only x"

We can test out all angles x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Lovely thread Saffron

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your all going to think am being silly ! But sometimes when am a little down or have to much on with my business and feeling stressed,

Either have a bar of chocolate which is good when your trying to lose weight ! Or o sneak of for a W..k ! Yes I really do, oh and on the very odd occasion I’ve done one after the other "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your all going to think am being silly ! But sometimes when am a little down or have to much on with my business and feeling stressed,

Either have a bar of chocolate which is good when your trying to lose weight ! Or o sneak of for a W..k ! Yes I really do, oh and on the very odd occasion I’ve done one after the other "

Not both at the same time? Or is that classed as multitasking

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm in

I'm in need...

A big manly hug for you matey

You're not in Kent by any chance?!!

Doesn't Kelly live that way??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I could do with some love and cuddles! X

Sending you loads x

Thanks gorgeous x

In fact I’m within 30 miles so if I reach out I can almost touch you x

Depending on angle... I might touch high or low x

Ahhhhh if only x

We can test out all angles x"

Best to be on the safe side! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Weathers awful isn't it, doesn't do much for anyone's mood x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m guessing we all have our ‘meh’ days but sending love to those who’s feelings last longer

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

It’s good to talk

Not every day is a good day x

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By *r Potato HeadMan over a year ago

Manchester

Nothing worse than when the black dog comes to visit....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your all going to think am being silly ! But sometimes when am a little down or have to much on with my business and feeling stressed,

Either have a bar of chocolate which is good when your trying to lose weight ! Or o sneak of for a W..k ! Yes I really do, oh and on the very odd occasion I’ve done one after the other

Not both at the same time? Or is that classed as multitasking "
no thst would be to many endorphins at once

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I may not be one of the hunks, but I'm a great listener and always available to anyone if you want to chat.

Big hugs and handshakes to all.

Dude... don’t put yourself down! Noticed your posts on here a few times, if more blokes on here carried themselves like you do! Well let’s just say the fab world would certainly be a better place "

I'm a big chunky fella. I'm happy with myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing worse than when the black dog comes to visit....

But the dog is white so I guess it is okay?

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

"I've had a really shitty day...i've had some lovely messages from a friend already, but I could do with some more

Oh no

hope tonight you forget your day and smile a little x"

Thank you x I have wine to help make it go away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m exhausted. Baba is cluster feeding in his own unique way - every 45 minutes for an hour at a time. And he’s actually feeding the whole time. Just stops to shit and maybe burp (oh, and he has colic!) and maybe doze off for twenty minutes or so, then he’s back on it. Nipples are sore, I’m exhausted and drained and meh

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Nothing worse than when the black dog comes to visit....

You suffering?

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

hope you get a little respite!

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

"I've had a really shitty day...i've had some lovely messages from a friend already, but I could do with some more

Here if you need a shoulder x"

Thank you x

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I've had a really shitty day...i've had some lovely messages from a friend already, but I could do with some more

Oh no

hope tonight you forget your day and smile a little x

Thank you x I have wine to help make it go away

It would be even better with waitor service.

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By *wsw1londonMan over a year ago

London

What a lively thread! I hope anybody who has had a bad day feels better just by the very kind thought

Any big squezzy hugs to all that need one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve been reading this book for the last 6-7 days and am already feeling more positive abut life ! Try it The Miracle Morning

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Awww Lorna my love. Hugs to you.

I'm in a hole at the minute. Life can be shitty sometimes. But would like a break from the crap. Just a bit of good would be nice

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I’ve been reading this book for the last 6-7 days and am already feeling more positive abut life ! Try it The Miracle Morning "

I'll wait until they make a film about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you mind me asking if bottle or breast?

Just saw the nipple bit! Ignore all above

I have a one year old who was on the bottle but my ex changed the level of teats and found that helped, faster flow than recommended and a dr brown anti colic bottle "

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Ach QL, it is exhausting. You're doing the best you can and that's more than enough. The cluster feeding does stop (even though it might not feel like that). Make sure you're being kind to yourself and look at getting energy bars, flapjacks in. You can get really good ones that help increase milk supply and also increasing energy supplies. If there's a local breastfeeding/la leche support group nearby, do pop along (not meant in a patronising way!).

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Sending a little hug and kiss to anyone that needs one.

Life can be trying at times.

I called in to see one of my best friends today, she's got a sick note so I knew she'd be bad (She's a nqt)

She told me that she crossed the road really slowly in the hope that a car would hit her the other day

I gave her a massive hug and we ended up both crying.

Fuck....I think I need another hug now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m all stocked up; got a massive bottle of water beside me at all times, and food beside me in the living room and in my bedside table

And I wish I could go to a breast feeding group - nearest one is an hour and a half away on the bus

he’s starting to settle on C so I’m just lying on the couch, tits under my armpits and chilling

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Sending a little hug and kiss to anyone that needs one.

Life can be trying at times.

I called in to see one of my best friends today, she's got a sick note so I knew she'd be bad (She's a nqt)

She told me that she crossed the road really slowly in the hope that a car would hit her the other day

I gave her a massive hug and we ended up both crying.

Fuck....I think I need another hug now

There's one here with your name on it. Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a shitt day every time I go to the toilet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you mind me asking if bottle or breast?

Just saw the nipple bit! Ignore all above

I have a one year old who was on the bottle but my ex changed the level of teats and found that helped, faster flow than recommended and a dr brown anti colic bottle "

He isn’t getting formula at the moment as formula makes him constipated, today alone he has gone through my pumped milk supply so I can’t even give him another bottle. And I have zero time to pump milk at the moment as he’s on me constant. I know it’ll pass, but I’m just so exhausted and sore!

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Sending a little hug and kiss to anyone that needs one.

Life can be trying at times.

I called in to see one of my best friends today, she's got a sick note so I knew she'd be bad (She's a nqt)

She told me that she crossed the road really slowly in the hope that a car would hit her the other day

I gave her a massive hug and we ended up both crying.

Fuck....I think I need another hug now

Jesus

sending love. I know from experience that’s a tough thing to hear.. and say. X

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By *r Potato HeadMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Nothing worse than when the black dog comes to visit....

You suffering?

I've had better days.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you thought about putting baby on the powdered stuff ?"

He gets it occasionally - he used to get a bottle during the day and maybe one at night if I was really tired (so my husband can do a feed). But it makes him constipated

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"Nothing worse than when the black dog comes to visit....

You suffering?

I've had better days."

Sending you a hug Tatts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a shitt day every time I go to the toilet! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sending a little hug and kiss to anyone that needs one.

Life can be trying at times.

I called in to see one of my best friends today, she's got a sick note so I knew she'd be bad (She's a nqt)

She told me that she crossed the road really slowly in the hope that a car would hit her the other day

I gave her a massive hug and we ended up both crying.

Fuck....I think I need another hug now

Hugs from here xx it's hard seeing someone breaking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had a really shitty day...i've had some lovely messages from a friend already, but I could do with some more

"
sending you some big hugs and a shoulder to cry on if needed and an ear you can pour your heart out to!! Your profile looks amazing!!

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Nothing worse than when the black dog comes to visit....

You suffering?

I've had better days."

Sorry to hear that. Fellow sufferer. It’s awful when they cloud reappears

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

All we can do is be there and support them. Even when they try to push you away (that's the natural thing to do)

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Sending a little hug and kiss to anyone that needs one.

Life can be trying at times.

I called in to see one of my best friends today, she's got a sick note so I knew she'd be bad (She's a nqt)

She told me that she crossed the road really slowly in the hope that a car would hit her the other day

I gave her a massive hug and we ended up both crying.

Fuck....I think I need another hug now

Jesus

sending love. I know from experience that’s a tough thing to hear.. and say. X"

I know, I have family history and she knows that but I'm glad she's opened up to me. She's always been a tough cookie but to hear her say that and admit that she's so ashamed about it and wouldn't want her kids to see it on her medical notes was heartbreaking.

Thanks btw x

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Come on, who else needs a chat.

Uncke chunky is here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sending lots of love, hugs and strength to anyone struggling. Those days are tough, but our survival rate is getting through these days are 100%. I think that's makes us awesome

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Sending a little hug and kiss to anyone that needs one.

Life can be trying at times.

I called in to see one of my best friends today, she's got a sick note so I knew she'd be bad (She's a nqt)

She told me that she crossed the road really slowly in the hope that a car would hit her the other day

I gave her a massive hug and we ended up both crying.

Fuck....I think I need another hug now

Jesus

sending love. I know from experience that’s a tough thing to hear.. and say. X

Thanks btw x "

She obviously thinks a lot of you. So hard to hear but amazing she’s reached out. That was the point I started getting better.. hope she’s turning a corner too x

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Getting friends to talk about difficult times is the first step to recovery.

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Getting friends to talk about difficult times is the first step to recovery. "

Totally.. you only have to scroll up to see how many others are having a tough time. Not every day is a good day.. sometimes we all need to talk about it.

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By *r Potato HeadMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Nothing worse than when the black dog comes to visit....

You suffering?

I've had better days.

Sorry to hear that. Fellow sufferer. It’s awful when they cloud reappears

Especially when you've no idea why.

Big hugs to you and anyone else who needs one.

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Getting friends to talk about difficult times is the first step to recovery.

Totally.. you only have to scroll up to see how many others are having a tough time. Not every day is a good day.. sometimes we all need to talk about it."

But some find it difficult to open up.

Seeing the releice is someone's face once they do is nice.

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm in, I have tea & galaxy. I'm sat all comfy and ready to share some love with you all.

Jo.Xx

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm in, I have tea & galaxy. I'm sat all comfy and ready to share some love with you all.

Jo.Xx "

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I'm in, I have tea & galaxy. I'm sat all comfy and ready to share some love with you all.

Jo.Xx "

Ahh the inspiration for my thread

Thankyou x your words always make me smile!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self "

I couldn't agree more.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I couldn't agree more. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I couldn't agree more. "

No one knew the state I was in until I actually had a breakdown x

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self "

It’s not easy at all.. but with the right people it can be such a relief. It’s finding those people x

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Nothing worse than when the black dog comes to visit....

He's always in the shadows waiting to pounce.

The best thing to do is talk.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's normally the ones that appear the most jolly that are struggling the most.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I couldn't agree more.

No one knew the state I was in until I actually had a breakdown x"

Same here... 3 years on they still don’t get it !

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

It’s not easy at all.. but with the right people it can be such a relief. It’s finding those people x"

True !

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It's normally the ones that appear the most jolly that are struggling the most. "

It’s easier to put on a face that’s why

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's normally the ones that appear the most jolly that are struggling the most.

It’s easier to put on a face that’s why "

Oh yes.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It's normally the ones that appear the most jolly that are struggling the most.

It’s easier to put on a face that’s why

Oh yes. "

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self "

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I couldn't agree more.

No one knew the state I was in until I actually had a breakdown x

Same here... 3 years on they still don’t get it ! "

I don’t think many people do unless they’ve also been that low , sadly it’s one of those things in my opinion that can only be truly understood if you’ve suffered too x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My throat feels like barbed wire and I'm at work till 4pm tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx "

But its easy to start a conversation like that. Where do you start when you don't understand it yourself.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I couldn't agree more.

No one knew the state I was in until I actually had a breakdown x

Same here... 3 years on they still don’t get it !

I don’t think many people do unless they’ve also been that low , sadly it’s one of those things in my opinion that can only be truly understood if you’ve suffered too x"

Too true x

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I couldn't agree more.

No one knew the state I was in until I actually had a breakdown x

Same here... 3 years on they still don’t get it ! "

Finding those with common ground can be enlightening though. I went from running big bars to not leaving my house for over a year.. only started to live the last year.. chatting to those who’ve been through similar has been such a weight lifted!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx "

Always here whenever you need it Jo xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx

But its easy to start a conversation like that. Where do you start when you don't understand it yourself. "

Not easy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hugs from Canada, and I'm super warm too in front of the fireplace so come cuddle if you need it!

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"My throat feels like barbed wire and I'm at work till 4pm tomorrow

Can't you get something for it?

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By *irlintheRedRed dressWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow

I thought I had met someone special on here but turns out not

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx

But its easy to start a conversation like that. Where do you start when you don't understand it yourself. "

That’s why the can of worms opens

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx

But its easy to start a conversation like that. Where do you start when you don't understand it yourself.

That’s why the can of worms opens "

But you ask because you care.

That's all they need really - a friend to listen.

You don't have to have all the answers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx

But its easy to start a conversation like that. Where do you start when you don't understand it yourself.

That’s why the can of worms opens "

That's why I keep the lid closed.

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx

Always here whenever you need it Jo xx "

Thank you S, and me you too. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My throat feels like barbed wire and I'm at work till 4pm tomorrow

Can't you get something for it? "
I've got paracetamol and soothers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought I had met someone special on here but turns out not

"
oh pants.. that's the worst feeling ever

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By *ipmannMan over a year ago

Cahir

If anyone feels they need to talk to someone that wont judge and get it off their chest feel free to contact me and indont mean in any sexual way. If you need an ear to bend feel free.

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By *lienrockMan over a year ago

Fife

"I'm feeling like shit. I'm not sure why, nothing has happened but I'm not in a happy place.

When your as beautiful and nice as you, you should always be happy x

Thanks but it's not as easy as that! "

Its not easy to always be happy but it will come back. You do have a very pretty smile on your pics so I hope you get it back soon. Just remember everyone has good & bad times. smile for a minute if you can as it often helps x

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx

But its easy to start a conversation like that. Where do you start when you don't understand it yourself.

That’s why the can of worms opens

That's why I keep the lid closed. "

I know what you're saying, but you know we all have our limits and if we don't release the pressure by letting some stuff out it will increase until you explode and have a breakdown. And I know non of us want that so we owe it to ourselves and the people we love to just talk. About anything. Because it's better to communicate than lock your own feelings away.

Jo.Xx

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

Sending out loads of huggles to those that need one......

I’ve had plenty this week and kinda smitten

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

im sending hugs to beautiful sexy women only hope thats ok

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I may not be one of the hunks, but I'm a great listener and always available to anyone if you want to chat.

Big hugs and handshakes to all. "

You're a hunk to some, don't put yourself down. You seem like a nice bloke. X

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"im sending hugs to beautiful sexy women only hope thats ok

No!! Platonic hugs to all or you’re evicted...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im sending hugs to beautiful sexy women only hope thats ok

No!! Platonic hugs to all or you’re evicted...

"
cani hug your cheeks

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"im sending hugs to beautiful sexy women only hope thats ok

No!! Platonic hugs to all or you’re evicted...

cani hug your cheeks

Absolutely not.. out!!

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Lovely thread Saffron.

Some of you know I have had one of the hardest weeks in a while. I've been very lucky to have the support and love from friends here. Dad came out of hospital today and it seems here is where the hard work really begins!

I always have time to pay it forward. My inbox is just below.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im sending hugs to beautiful sexy women only hope thats ok

No!! Platonic hugs to all or you’re evicted...

cani hug your cheeks

Absolutely not.. out!! "
damn its raining

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Lovely thread Saffron.

I always have time to pay it forward. My inbox is just below. "

Sorry to hear that

x hope things turn around for you!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought I had met someone special on here but turns out not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is where being a former rugby player is a curse as like most rugby lads id take out my weekly frustrations on the field big hits and legalized violence but since stopping playing they have nowhere to go but inwards but the forum is a good place to shout it out of ya

Even virtual screams help

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx

Always here whenever you need it Jo xx

Thank you S, and me you too. Xx"

Thanks Jo

I’m just not a great talker xx

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx

But its easy to start a conversation like that. Where do you start when you don't understand it yourself.

That’s why the can of worms opens

That's why I keep the lid closed. "

I hear you... Mr S is my friend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx

Always here whenever you need it Jo xx

Thank you S, and me you too. Xx

Thanks Jo

I’m just not a great talker xx "
im a great talker you could just sit and listen to me

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Sending out loads of huggles to those that need one......

I’ve had plenty this week and kinda smitten

Have one big hug from this cuddly guy. Xx

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

[Removed by poster at 09/10/19 21:28:37]

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx

Always here whenever you need it Jo xx

Thank you S, and me you too. Xx

Thanks Jo

I’m just not a great talker xx im a great talker you could just sit and listen to me

Mama B always here to listen xx "
how old is your mum?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in you lovely people xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is where being a former rugby player is a curse as like most rugby lads id take out my weekly frustrations on the field big hits and legalized violence but since stopping playing they have nowhere to go but inwards but the forum is a good place to shout it out of ya

Even virtual screams help "

Could you do boxing or lift weights? Get a punch bag and beat the shit out of it.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

We all have shitty days, or days where we feel blue - we each of us deal with them in our own way, but threads like this are always a joy, always let you know that there are people there rooting for you even if you don't want to open up - just that knowledge can sometimes be enough.

Sending positivity to anyone that needs it

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Big hugs to all x we are have our down dog days.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

a friend in need

is a friend indeed

a friend with is better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even virtual screams help

Could you do boxing or lift weights? Get a punch bag and beat the shit out of it. "
i do rage pushups too but gym bores me too much recovery time for combat sports cant go selling with a shiner and unable to walk for a week

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Even virtual screams help

Could you do boxing or lift weights? Get a punch bag and beat the shit out of it. "

Go girl, go girl, go girl....

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By *orraine999Woman over a year ago

Somewhere

I was having a horrible, depressing day yesterday and someone reached out and saved me. I want to pay it forward.

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I was having a horrible, depressing day yesterday and someone reached out and saved me. I want to pay it forward."

There's lots of people happy to listen, including me x

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By *izzymonkeyMan over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

My Shit times have been and gone a while ago now....so,I'm back to my happy go lucky self....always happy to spread some joy, love and happiness.....soooo.......

Sending ALL, Big Loves, Hugs & Kisses

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm always having a rubbish time. Depression is a bitch..but i always try to help others as i know what it's like to feel alone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even virtual screams help

Could you do boxing or lift weights? Get a punch bag and beat the shit out of it.

Go girl, go girl, go girl.... "
its ok she can stay

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"I'm in, I have tea & galaxy. I'm sat all comfy and ready to share some love with you all.

Jo.Xx

Ahh the inspiration for my thread

Thankyou x your words always make me smile! "

I'm pleased it's passed Saff for now at least. You know I'm always here for you.

Jo.Xx

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By *orraine999Woman over a year ago

Somewhere

"I'm feeling like shit. I'm not sure why, nothing has happened but I'm not in a happy place.

I'm sending you a hugh hug and letting you know We're all here for you.

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By *rtraymondo76Man over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Your all going to think am being silly ! But sometimes when am a little down or have to much on with my business and feeling stressed,

Either have a bar of chocolate which is good when your trying to lose weight ! Or o sneak of for a W..k ! Yes I really do, oh and on the very odd occasion I’ve done one after the other "

Chocolate first to build up the energy, or afterwards to help recovery?

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm always having a rubbish time. Depression is a bitch..but i always try to help others as i know what it's like to feel alone "

Sending a big hug for you an another one for beemibg there for someone else. Xx

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx

Always here whenever you need it Jo xx

Thank you S, and me you too. Xx

Thanks Jo

I’m just not a great talker xx "

Still, I'm here all the same.Xx

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By *thena123Woman over a year ago

Swansea

"I could do with some love and cuddles! X"

Nothing feels as good as a cwtch from someone who when they wrap their arms around you,you feel yourself melting into their arms,safe and protected....i love cwtches.... Mwah...big hugs.xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Remember those days, sending you all hugs! I ended up using nipple shields in the end, as was so sore. Hope his colic settles soon and you get some rest x Viv x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sending everyone who needs it a big virtual, friendly and healing hug. We all need one sometimes x Viv xx

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

Remember those days, sending you all hugs! I ended up using nipple shields in the end, as was so sore. Hope his colic settles soon and you get some rest x Viv x"

Oh yes, I remember it well.

I also used nipple shields, I had no choice my son took a chunk out of mine.

You can give baby some cool boiled water or gripe water in a bottle. It will give your boobs a little break and time to produce enough milk to podge him. Also look up 'baby massage' on you tube it will show you some tips on how to get rid of baby's wind.

Jo.Xx

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

Thanks to all those that have spoken out and offered an ear and some love. We all have bad days/weeks/months and years and sometimes it’s good to just say it out loud.

Anyone needs an ear my inbox is always open.

Off to rest the eyes and brain.

Much love

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By *rtraymondo76Man over a year ago

Cheltenham

"We all have those days when something just makes us feel a bit rubbish...

All it takes is a lovely word and things suddenly look much better.

If you’re having a moment and just need a nice word say you’re in on the thread...

Let’s take a moment and just send a little love and a kind word to someone who needs it.

Things go up and down for all of us. To keep equilibrium remember "This too shall pass". Your down? This will help you look upwards. Your riding high? Keep your feet on the ground.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx

Always here whenever you need it Jo xx

Thank you S, and me you too. Xx

Thanks Jo

I’m just not a great talker xx im a great talker you could just sit and listen to me

Mama B always here to listen xx how old is your mum?

I’m 48

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It’s not easy to talk, as opens a whole can of worms.... definitely easier to keep one self to one self

I'm a better listener than speaker. But when I do need to talk there has been a few forum Women who have supported me when I've needed it, yourself included S.

I hope they all know how thankful I am for their friendship and guidance.

Jo.Xx

Always here whenever you need it Jo xx

Thank you S, and me you too. Xx

Thanks Jo

I’m just not a great talker xx

Still, I'm here all the same.Xx

Thanks, appreciate that xx

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Thanks to all those that have spoken out and offered an ear and some love. We all have bad days/weeks/months and years and sometimes it’s good to just say it out loud.

Anyone needs an ear my inbox is always open.

Off to rest the eyes and brain.

Much love

Good night beautiful sweet dreams.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lovely thread

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By *ullpa72Man over a year ago

Isle of Arran

"I’m exhausted. Baba is cluster feeding in his own unique way - every 45 minutes for an hour at a time. And he’s actually feeding the whole time. Just stops to shit and maybe burp (oh, and he has colic!) and maybe doze off for twenty minutes or so, then he’s back on it. Nipples are sore, I’m exhausted and drained and meh"
We had twin boys so I feel your pain you need some me time and a good uninterrupted sleep .can anyone help you so that you can get a rest .my late wife and I used to take turns so once we got used to it all it was not too bad .you have my heartfelt good wishes and I hope you can get a good rest soon. Chris

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By *ullpa72Man over a year ago

Isle of Arran

"Thanks to all those that have spoken out and offered an ear and some love. We all have bad days/weeks/months and years and sometimes it’s good to just say it out loud.

Anyone needs an ear my inbox is always open.

Off to rest the eyes and brain.

Much love

"
Well-done saffron this is a well thought out and inspiring thread.lets keep it going .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It may that you may feel like your climbing a mountain every day but what goes up has to come down..

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It may that you may feel like your climbing a mountain every day but what goes up has to come down.. "

Aye with a big crash

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"It may that you may feel like your climbing a mountain every day but what goes up has to come down..

Aye with a big crash "

But hopefully someone will be there to catch you.

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By *cottish guy 555Man over a year ago

London

Not in a good place at the moment. Work and life are rather difficult at the moment

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've not been in a good place recently, dealing with some serious health issues.

Fair few times I've hit rock bottom.

If it wasn't for a few very wonderful friends, I'm not sure where I'd be right now.

They've been absolute bloody stars who've got me through my darkest moments

No names mentioned, but they know who are they are x

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I've not been in a good place recently, dealing with some serious health issues.

Fair few times I've hit rock bottom.

If it wasn't for a few very wonderful friends, I'm not sure where I'd be right now.

They've been absolute bloody stars who've got me through my darkest moments

No names mentioned, but they know who are they are x "

That's when you see true friends

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"It may that you may feel like your climbing a mountain every day but what goes up has to come down..

Aye with a big crash

But hopefully someone will be there to catch you. "

Haha not bloody likely

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"Not in a good place at the moment. Work and life are rather difficult at the moment

One day at a time, one problem at a time

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

This has been one of my favourite threads. Thanks OP. XX

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