On my first profile it took a few months but I also didn't go to any clubs or socials for a long while. I'd say that they're very important for a guy as it helps show you're not going to ghost people or not show up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On my first profile it took a few months but I also didn't go to any clubs or socials for a long while. I'd say that they're very important for a guy as it helps show you're not going to ghost people or not show up."
Yeah that's what I was thinking. I've seen many proliles stating that they won't reply to men who haven't got verification meets on the profile.
What annoyed me about it though.. Was the ones who assumed I had to intention of meeting, because I had no veris for months.
It's not that easy for men though. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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It took me a while to get my first veri because I took my time getting to that point. I’m happy I did it the way I did.
I like to display the MLS veris but everything else is private. I like to read veris and I love mine. Like little snippets of memories  |
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"It took me a while to get my first veri because I took my time getting to that point. I’m happy I did it the way I did.
I like to display the MLS veris but everything else is private. I like to read veris and I love mine. Like little snippets of memories "
I do like looking back on them for the memories myself, I also look at the ones I've sent |
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"I try to get at least one a year, just to prove that I'm still alive "
I probably won't get one for another year. Knowing my luck she might leave the app soon and il he left with none again lol |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Go you OP! It didn't take me that long at all. I love veris, it's nice to read what others think of you (not questioning accuracy/validity of them here) and it makes me smile reading them back. Like a little snapshot. |
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"I try to get at least one a year, just to prove that I'm still alive
I probably won't get one for another year. Knowing my luck she might leave the app soon and il he left with none again lol"
I think the number stays but the veri will disappear |
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"It took me a while to get my first veri because I took my time getting to that point. I’m happy I did it the way I did.
I like to display the MLS veris but everything else is private. I like to read veris and I love mine. Like little snippets of memories "
Hmm i thought you had the naughty ones hidden, Babs  |
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"I try to get at least one a year, just to prove that I'm still alive
I probably won't get one for another year. Knowing my luck she might leave the app soon and il he left with none again lol
I think the number stays but the veri will disappear "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not long. I don't collect them and rarely read them on other's profiles. I have my own brain and don't need others comments to help make my mind up. "
Congrats though OP! |
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I had my first within a couple of minutes
Was told about the site by someone already in here
As for how important they are?
I rarely leave one from a 1:1 social meet anymore
I'm not fussed if I don't get one either
I've been here long enough, I don't need them and as I've found they often cause more harm than good |
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Wahoo!
My first profile was set up for me and verified by him straight away. I deleted it in horror 
Then I snuck back on a new profile and had a social with someone who didn't veri me then a few lovely meets with other unverified folk so probably took a month or so. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"I had my first within a couple of minutes
Was told about the site by someone already in here
As for how important they are?
I rarely leave one from a 1:1 social meet anymore
I'm not fussed if I don't get one either
I've been here long enough, I don't need them and as I've found they often cause more harm than good "
I agree with the harm statement. I'm not playing the 'veri game' as people often use them as a stick to beat you with or collect them.
Getting your first one does carry a degree of value though as people can see that you're genuine.
Congratulations OP, I remember telling you when you were 2 weeks in that it would take about 6 months... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not got one yet .
Not bothered about it but understand some look upon it as a badge of integrity.
Would never display them ,some have 100+ wtf !!!!
Always a social first then move forward.
If not trusted for a second meet don't invite me .... |
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"Not sure how long it took me, maybe 4 months? To me they are not important, I'd only leave someone if they asked for one... Noone needs to know my business 
Oh yes we do  "
Oh but my business is super boring, but I'll update you if anything exciting happens  |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"Verification woohoo!
How long did it take you to get your first veri and how important are they on a profile? "
My 1st very took over a year to get. And it was just a social.
Since then I've got a lot more verys.
And all social only. |
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