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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you ever burn out? When you're planning to meet someone, the teasing is going on forth and back, build up and expectations high, you almost feel like you're going to get fever due to sexual tension and for whatever reason it's all off, cancelled. The build up deflates like a let out balloon. And then at some other time the same or other person attempts to create the same build-up but it does nothing for you. Like you're burned out on that and there's no spark left to light the fire again? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fortunately I've never had that. I guess if that happens then he's the wrong guy to meet. "
He was the wrong guy and I was the one who cancelled. But since I find it hard to get excited about a meet and turned "maybe" a bit too sceptical about things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fortunately I've never had that. I guess if that happens then he's the wrong guy to meet.
He was the wrong guy and I was the one who cancelled. But since I find it hard to get excited about a meet and turned "maybe" a bit too sceptical about things."
Ah there's your mistake. A maybe is never good enough imo. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fortunately I've never had that. I guess if that happens then he's the wrong guy to meet.
He was the wrong guy and I was the one who cancelled. But since I find it hard to get excited about a meet and turned "maybe" a bit too sceptical about things.
Ah there's your mistake. A maybe is never good enough imo."
Ok, I'll drop the "maybe"... |
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"Fortunately I've never had that. I guess if that happens then he's the wrong guy to meet.
He was the wrong guy and I was the one who cancelled. But since I find it hard to get excited about a meet and turned "maybe" a bit too sceptical about things.
Ah there's your mistake. A maybe is never good enough imo."
I never know until I meet in person. I have what on paper looks amazing and turns out mediocre whilst others have looked ok but unspectacular before the meet and have had fireworks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It happens too often, I love the build up to a meet, the messages the lust but sadly of late they cancel last min with no reason and think why bother 
But hey ho clam down and carry on lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fortunately I've never had that. I guess if that happens then he's the wrong guy to meet.
He was the wrong guy and I was the one who cancelled. But since I find it hard to get excited about a meet and turned "maybe" a bit too sceptical about things.
Ah there's your mistake. A maybe is never good enough imo.
I never know until I meet in person. I have what on paper looks amazing and turns out mediocre whilst others have looked ok but unspectacular before the meet and have had fireworks! "
Yeah. I think I'm unique in that I can tell before meeting. I always know from messaging and I reject any nigglers. I don't meet any I'm not sure about. And I have a 100% success rate. |
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"I find all the ‘build up’ messages a bit cringey. I just want someone to talk normally so I can see if I think there’s more to look forward to. So far, so good  "
That's how I feel about them now - cringey. But at the same time I'm missing when they used to work on me and I'd feel almost electric before the meet. |
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By *abs..Woman
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"I find all the ‘build up’ messages a bit cringey. I just want someone to talk normally so I can see if I think there’s more to look forward to. So far, so good
That's how I feel about them now - cringey. But at the same time I'm missing when they used to work on me and I'd feel almost electric before the meet."
Oh I’m sorry to read that. You need to find another way of getting that spark. Sometimes less is more  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fortunately I've never had that. I guess if that happens then he's the wrong guy to meet.
He was the wrong guy and I was the one who cancelled. But since I find it hard to get excited about a meet and turned "maybe" a bit too sceptical about things.
Ah there's your mistake. A maybe is never good enough imo.
I never know until I meet in person. I have what on paper looks amazing and turns out mediocre whilst others have looked ok but unspectacular before the meet and have had fireworks!
Yeah. I think I'm unique in that I can tell before meeting. I always know from messaging and I reject any nigglers. I don't meet any I'm not sure about. And I have a 100% success rate. "
I can only imagine you're spoilt for choice, allowing you to use your instinct more. (Not a line, merely a complement.) Us mere mortals need to roll the dice occasionally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find all the ‘build up’ messages a bit cringey. I just want someone to talk normally so I can see if I think there’s more to look forward to. So far, so good
That's how I feel about them now - cringey. But at the same time I'm missing when they used to work on me and I'd feel almost electric before the meet."
It’s ok for your sex drive to lessen sometimes. Someone will fire your imagination soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fortunately I've never had that. I guess if that happens then he's the wrong guy to meet.
He was the wrong guy and I was the one who cancelled. But since I find it hard to get excited about a meet and turned "maybe" a bit too sceptical about things.
Ah there's your mistake. A maybe is never good enough imo.
I never know until I meet in person. I have what on paper looks amazing and turns out mediocre whilst others have looked ok but unspectacular before the meet and have had fireworks!
Yeah. I think I'm unique in that I can tell before meeting. I always know from messaging and I reject any nigglers. I don't meet any I'm not sure about. And I have a 100% success rate.
I can only imagine you're spoilt for choice, allowing you to use your instinct more. (Not a line, merely a complement.) Us mere mortals need to roll the dice occasionally."
I'm really not spoilt for choice.
I'd rather not meet. And have gone years without meeting for that very reason. Fab really isn't my raison d'être |
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