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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
Yes I’m pondering... 
Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile..
I wonder how much it differs between sexes..
If not does anything put you off asking??
Are you up for a brew with people local to you?
Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get!
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"Yes I’m pondering...
Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile..
I wonder how much it differs between sexes..
If not does anything put you off asking??
Are you up for a brew with people local to you?
Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get!
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I'm always up for a panad (Welsh for cuppa  )
I'm just as "up" for meeting someone, with no strings attached in the purest sense 
Perhaps it's because I'm just a nosey bugger at heart  |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
stockport |
"Yes I’m pondering...
Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile..
I wonder how much it differs between sexes..
If not does anything put you off asking??
Are you up for a brew with people local to you?
Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get!
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I’m at yours now having a brew!!!
Infact my cups empty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Reason being i have what i want here and respect that, its a sex based site and wouldnt want to potentially put myself in a awkward position. "
Yes same. I love socialising and would happily meet people just for a cuppa and a chat and I can do that but would other people just take it as that? That’s the problem. |
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"No. Reason being i have what i want here and respect that, its a sex based site and wouldnt want to potentially put myself in a awkward position. "
But iv found it can be whatever you want it to be.
I would only meet people from the forums and chat with regularly in a non sexual way. |
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"Yes I’m pondering...
Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile..
I wonder how much it differs between sexes..
If not does anything put you off asking??
Are you up for a brew with people local to you?
Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get!
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I would love one! |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"No. Reason being i have what i want here and respect that, its a sex based site and wouldnt want to potentially put myself in a awkward position.
But iv found it can be whatever you want it to be.
I would only meet people from the forums and chat with regularly in a non sexual way. "
I agree nobody ever pushes boundaries with me! I’m very clear on how I am and everyone I’ve met has respected that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. Reason being i have what i want here and respect that, its a sex based site and wouldnt want to potentially put myself in a awkward position.
Yes same. I love socialising and would happily meet people just for a cuppa and a chat and I can do that but would other people just take it as that? That’s the problem. "
From experience when i had a fwb on here before ive found when i have met just for a social brew more is wanted.. even try and kiss.
Ive got lots of 'internet friends' on here some ive been chatting to non sexually for 6 years.. i just wont meet, my life here is private if i want a brew ill meet a real friend for one.
Of course everyones different and here for their own reasons.. just for me its a firm no. |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
stockport |
I’ve made some amazing friends on here.
I have so many of my needs met in so many different ways which I didn’t think would happen.
Yes you can get sex but there’s a whole lot more I have found.
Don’t get me wrong it definitely fills my greedy needs too!! 
So cuppas/lunch/pure filthy sex who could ask for anything more??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I’m pondering...
Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile..
I wonder how much it differs between sexes..
If not does anything put you off asking??
Are you up for a brew with people local to you?
Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get!
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I'm always happy to meet for coffee with no expectations or promises, just as friends xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Reason being i have what i want here and respect that, its a sex based site and wouldnt want to potentially put myself in a awkward position.
Yes same. I love socialising and would happily meet people just for a cuppa and a chat and I can do that but would other people just take it as that? That’s the problem.
From experience when i had a fwb on here before ive found when i have met just for a social brew more is wanted.. even try and kiss.
Ive got lots of 'internet friends' on here some ive been chatting to non sexually for 6 years.. i just wont meet, my life here is private if i want a brew ill meet a real friend for one.
Of course everyones different and here for their own reasons.. just for me its a firm no."
I've said I'll meet men just for a coffee and then a few messages later they start with the innuendo.
"It's a sex site". 
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Yes I’m pondering...
Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile..
I wonder how much it differs between sexes..
If not does anything put you off asking??
Are you up for a brew with people local to you?
Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get!
I'm always happy to meet for coffee with no expectations or promises, just as friends xxx"
Next trip to Mancunia! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I love meeting people for cake/hot drinks - I've made some wonderful friends through just doing that, men and women who haven't expected/thought there would be anything more.
I guess sometimes I'd like to ask a few people but they might think I'm a proper throbber and it's a bit... well. I talk myself out of it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone is too far north! 
A hell yes I agree to that!!
Well I will up north too soon! . Everywhere is north or Southampton. "
Yay you’ll be up north in that London place near me! |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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"I meet Lex most weeks for a coffee
I’ve got the other Lex.. the feral one
We need a four way coffee
Defo!!! That would be hilarious!!! "
A four way. Dear god, don’t get her brain working overtime |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I’m pondering...
Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile..
I wonder how much it differs between sexes..
If not does anything put you off asking??
Are you up for a brew with people local to you?
Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get!
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I often suggest a social for coffee,dobt always get one lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone is too far north!
A hell yes I agree to that!!
Well I will up north too soon! . Everywhere is north or Southampton.
Yay you’ll be up north in that London place near me! "
Yay.
The other reason I think I great to have friends on here is that I can talk about the "swinging" side of my life and don't have lie about were I met Ash. |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Yes I’m pondering...
Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile..
I wonder how much it differs between sexes..
If not does anything put you off asking??
Are you up for a brew with people local to you?
Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get!
I often suggest a social for coffee,dobt always get one lol"
It’s nice if you get to know people though.. sometimes just putting a face to a name is fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I’m pondering...
Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile..
I wonder how much it differs between sexes..
If not does anything put you off asking??
Are you up for a brew with people local to you?
Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get!
I often suggest a social for coffee,dobt always get one lol
It’s nice if you get to know people though.. sometimes just putting a face to a name is fun. "
Well if im in manchester lol would you fancy one? |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Yes I’m pondering...
Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile..
I wonder how much it differs between sexes..
If not does anything put you off asking??
Are you up for a brew with people local to you?
Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get!
I often suggest a social for coffee,dobt always get one lol
It’s nice if you get to know people though.. sometimes just putting a face to a name is fun.
Well if im in manchester lol would you fancy one?"
Sure.. I’m nosy and I Love brews. It’s a win win! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would gladly meet just coffee and banter. Would bother me at all. I disagree that this is just a sex site though. It's a social site where sex is one of the things on offer but you've only got to look at the forums to see it's a community. A veritable melting pot of tastes, styles and delinquents, all finding common ground and support from each other over more than just sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I’m pondering...
Do you ever meet fellow fabsters just for a brew.. just for friendship and putting a face to a profile..
I wonder how much it differs between sexes..
If not does anything put you off asking??
Are you up for a brew with people local to you?
Speak up.. if you don’t ask you don’t get!
I'm always happy to meet for coffee with no expectations or promises, just as friends xxx
Next trip to Mancunia! "
You betcha.... looking forward to it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would gladly meet just coffee and banter. Would bother me at all. I disagree that this is just a sex site though. It's a social site where sex is one of the things on offer but you've only got to look at the forums to see it's a community. A veritable melting pot of tastes, styles and delinquents, all finding common ground and support from each other over more than just sex. "
Some people use it as a sex site. Some use it for the social side too. Neither are wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, always happy to meet for a chat over a cup or glass or two of something. The better you get to know someone the better the sex, assuming it gets that far. |
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Hi OP and thank you for your question
I don't see the harm in meeting as friends for a drink, that's what friends do. I'd happily meet any of my friends for a coffee and a chin wag.
Unfortunately there isn't anyone that local to me, but with planning anything can happen |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Hi OP and thank you for your question
I don't see the harm in meeting as friends for a drink, that's what friends do. I'd happily meet any of my friends for a coffee and a chin wag.
Unfortunately there isn't anyone that local to me, but with planning anything can happen "
Coffee two poppet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi OP and thank you for your question
I don't see the harm in meeting as friends for a drink, that's what friends do. I'd happily meet any of my friends for a coffee and a chin wag.
Unfortunately there isn't anyone that local to me, but with planning anything can happen "
I'm sort of local. and I love coffee. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had lots of coffees with fab people. All of our single guy meets start off as socials.
I also have a lot of guys i literally just meet for coffee now as they have got girlfriends. One guy i never actually played but now we meet for coffee most weeks as we are great friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d happily meet for a coffee and cake, maybe a bite to eat. Always happy to expand my social circle, an echo chamber rarely challenges your thoughts and opinions. |
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