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Take some time out today to read all your messages.
Us single men do write some good ones occasionally 
Even tho most get lost to the unread fab library.
So please please read them all you never know you might find your perfect partner
Ps just delete the message if not interested then at least we know where we stand 
Thankyou
Turning the kink xx |
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over a year ago
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Why You don't you just delete the message once you have sent it, then it won't matter.
Feels like that's what I do sometimes "
Well if you did you would not know if it had been read or not or deleted. |
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"Take some time out today to read all your messages.
Us single men do write some good ones occasionally
Even tho most get lost to the unread fab library.
So please please read them all you never know you might find your perfect partner
Ps just delete the message if not interested then at least we know where we stand
Thankyou
Turning the kink xx"
No problem!
Since I changed all my filters, the only messages I get are from friends
So they all get read & replied too |
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"Take some time out today to read all your messages.
Us single men do write some good ones occasionally
Even tho most get lost to the unread fab library.
So please please read them all you never know you might find your perfect partner
Ps just delete the message if not interested then at least we know where we stand
Thankyou
Turning the kink xx
No problem!
Since I changed all my filters, the only messages I get are from friends
So they all get read & replied too "
Perfect
At least everyone knows well done xx
Can I be your friend ( worth a shot ) |
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"Only the gorgeous ones tho right?
Everyone's gormless loo not everyone thats harsh
How did you change my message loo ?
I did say gormless not gorgeous"
i know |
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"Only the gorgeous ones tho right?
Everyone's gormless loo not everyone thats harsh
How did you change my message loo ?
I did say gormless not gorgeousi know"
Fuck I fucked up again
Gorgeous not gormless ffs
I'll get me coat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only the gorgeous ones tho right?
Everyone's gormless loo not everyone thats harsh
How did you change my message loo ?
I did say gormless not gorgeousi know
Fuck I fucked up again
Gorgeous not gormless ffs
I'll get me coat "
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When I get a 'nice tits' message or 'wanna fuck?' Or 'wanna suck my dick' message I delete. When there is no avatar and no pic attached... I delete. A message with words and sentences, punctuation, i always read and reply. |
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"Sorry but I have to delete messages unread from people with either dick pics or gaping holes as their profile pics. I just know we won’t get along..."
But all your pics are of your bum... |
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"Only the gorgeous ones tho right?
Everyone's gormless loo not everyone thats harsh
How did you change my message loo ?
I did say gormless not gorgeousi know
Fuck I fucked up again
Gorgeous not gormless ffs
I'll get me coat "
Ooohhhh just realised how you changed my messages LOO
that's sneaky as fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've got 6 messages during the night. I've read them all already without opening them. Can't be bothered opening them right now to acknowledge I've read them and delete. |
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If they haven't taken the time to read my profile (and I can tell), I don't take the time to read their message (which is generally copy and paste or a one liner anyway).
I don't have the time or energy to read them all. But I do delete them, so they know I'm not interested.
And if I catch them messages me more than once without reading my profile, or they bitch about being deleted, they get blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only the gorgeous ones tho right?
Everyone's gormless loo not everyone thats harsh
How did you change my message loo ?
I did say gormless not gorgeousi know
Fuck I fucked up again
Gorgeous not gormless ffs
I'll get me coat
Ooohhhh just realised how you changed my messages LOO
that's sneaky as fuck "
Mu |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I read them when I feel like it. I delete them when I feel like it. I reply when I feel like it. There are no rules to follow with regards to dealing with messages and no amount of pressure from guys who don't like the way I manage my inbox will make me change my ways.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Take some time out today to read all your messages.
Us single men do write some good ones occasionally
Even tho most get lost to the unread fab library.
So please please read them all you never know you might find your perfect partner
Ps just delete the message if not interested then at least we know where we stand
Thankyou
Turning the kink xx"
It saves time if a guy reads a profile before sending a message first. I get countless from attached or bi guys ir those who lives miles away. Reading my profile before sending a message saves everyone time (profiles currently hidden) |
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"If they haven't taken the time to read my profile (and I can tell), I don't take the time to read their message (which is generally copy and paste or a one liner anyway).
I don't have the time or energy to read them all. But I do delete them, so they know I'm not interested.
And if I catch them messages me more than once without reading my profile, or they bitch about being deleted, they get blocked."
Totally agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Take some time out today to read all your messages.
Us single men do write some good ones occasionally
Even tho most get lost to the unread fab library.
So please please read them all you never know you might find your perfect partner
Ps just delete the message if not interested then at least we know where we stand
Thankyou
Turning the kink xx
It saves time if a guy reads a profile before sending a message first. I get countless from attached or bi guys ir those who lives miles away. Reading my profile before sending a message saves everyone time (profiles currently hidden)"
I totally agree but even if they Do read the profile, write a good message and attach a pic, if we don't fancy them, it's Delete also. Poor, poor men, they just can't win |
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"If you’re profile is anything to go by OP your message would certainly be filed as ‘delete’! "
Thought I wrote a genuine thread here that was nice and not horrible in anyway.
So delete away luvver |
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From the male perspective if I message a lady, actually anyone for that matter and they don’t reply it’s their choice, it says to me that I am not who they are interested in.
If my message is read and not deleted I don’t spend the next two hours in an agitated state imagining that they are going to get round to messaging me as soon as they have finished putting architrave round the hallway door. |
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I read all of ours. I answer the majority as well which gives me a headache 50-80% of the time. Sometimes I keep them unread/unanswered if I mean to reply when I have talked to Mr, or when I am sure of what I want to say. Sometimes then they get lost and I find them 3 weeks on and answer. Lol |
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"If you’re profile is anything to go by OP your message would certainly be filed as ‘delete’!
Thought I wrote a genuine thread here that was nice and not horrible in anyway.
So delete away luvver "
To be fair your thread was in no doubt well intentioned but if you deconstruct it, you are actually asking people to do something that they ordinarily wouldn’t, therefore you are implying that, that behaviour is not congruent with your own values and beliefs.
When we question somebody else’s viewpoint and then actually ask them to change their behaviour, there is obviously going to be a degree of push back. |
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"I read all of ours. I answer the majority as well which gives me a headache 50-80% of the time. Sometimes I keep them unread/unanswered if I mean to reply when I have talked to Mr, or when I am sure of what I want to say. Sometimes then they get lost and I find them 3 weeks on and answer. Lol "
You’re too nice for your own good.  |
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"I’m old so I only get three messages a day from men who just want a wet dick and don’t give a fuck about my preferences.
Then there are the sycophants..."
You’re absolutely gorgeous you surely get hundreds of messages from people thinking you’re in your 20s.  |
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"I’m old so I only get three messages a day from men who just want a wet dick and don’t give a fuck about my preferences.
Then there are the sycophants..."
I would definitely send you a message but I’m just slightly out off your age x |
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"I’m old so I only get three messages a day from men who just want a wet dick and don’t give a fuck about my preferences.
Then there are the sycophants...
You’re absolutely gorgeous you surely get hundreds of messages from people thinking you’re in your 20s. "
Yeah, the usual compliments with a ‘for your age’ caveat. Drives me nuts. |
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"I’m old so I only get three messages a day from men who just want a wet dick and don’t give a fuck about my preferences.
Then there are the sycophants... I would definitely send you a message but I’m just slightly out off your age x"
Why would you bother sending a message to someone who only meets locally? |
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"I’m old so I only get three messages a day from men who just want a wet dick and don’t give a fuck about my preferences.
Then there are the sycophants..."
Beautiful photos though.you love amazing |
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"I’m old so I only get three messages a day from men who just want a wet dick and don’t give a fuck about my preferences.
Then there are the sycophants...
Beautiful photos though.you love amazing "
Thank you for that lovely compliment |
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It's easy to skim the first line of a message without opening, to have an idea of the type of message being recieved. I think a lot also look at the profile, before opening a message, to see if they like the look/sound of a message. If the profile is crap, the majority would likely leave the message unread or just delete. The good ones already stand out. Their profile is what swings it, not their message.
Holly |
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"I’m old so I only get three messages a day from men who just want a wet dick and don’t give a fuck about my preferences.
Then there are the sycophants... I would definitely send you a message but I’m just slightly out off your age x
Why would you bother sending a message to someone who only meets locally?"
because I’m willing too travel distance isn’t an issue in my eyes |
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"I’m old so I only get three messages a day from men who just want a wet dick and don’t give a fuck about my preferences.
Then there are the sycophants... I would definitely send you a message but I’m just slightly out off your age x
Why would you bother sending a message to someone who only meets locally? because I’m willing too travel distance isn’t an issue in my eyes "
I don’t accommodate and although it isn’t on my profile, I don’t do hotels either. |
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"I read all of ours. I answer the majority as well which gives me a headache 50-80% of the time. Sometimes I keep them unread/unanswered if I mean to reply when I have talked to Mr, or when I am sure of what I want to say. Sometimes then they get lost and I find them 3 weeks on and answer. Lol
You’re too nice for your own good. "
Yes this is correct. But sometimes I get feisty and just write “no”
I always answer people I like talking to! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Take some time out today to read all your messages.
Us single men do write some good ones occasionally
Even tho most get lost to the unread fab library.
So please please read them all you never know you might find your perfect partner
Ps just delete the message if not interested then at least we know where we stand
Thankyou
Turning the kink xx
No problem!
Since I changed all my filters, the only messages I get are from friends
So they all get read & replied too "
Great answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always read a profile before messaging. It gives me a topic of conversation to talk to them about
The problem on here for a lot of men including me is its all rejection, failure and disappointment. I put a lot of thought into my messages and im never rude but very few ever bother to read them let alone respond. I think in this modern life of equality something on this site needs to change. Maybe after a lady has received 5 messages she then has to message a man. I.e. take the initiative. |
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"If you’re profile is anything to go by OP your message would certainly be filed as ‘delete’!
Thought I wrote a genuine thread here that was nice and not horrible in anyway.
So delete away luvver "
I was referring to your profile write up |
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