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What do you think of me? - Debrief
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
After my thread last night and today, for those of you who took part, do you think that the impressions that others have of you are fair? Do you think that they reflect you as a person/people and did some people surprise you with how much they read into your posts?
Was it a positive or negative experience for you?
Pop your thoughts and reactions down here folks.
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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
I think from the comments I’m highly misunderstood and the perception of me is based purely in a sexual way. I’m not a piece of meat , I don’t go down on just anyone. I have feeling you know
Now
Could Bigjimmy69 and Mandingo2 message me  |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Personally I think the point of the thread isn't to get unmitigated praise or to get egos stroked (although undoubtedly some will use it as an opportunity to fawn) it's to recognise the difference between what we think we're doing or saying and what is being seen.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I think the point of the thread isn't to get unmitigated praise or to get egos stroked (although undoubtedly some will use it as an opportunity to fawn) it's to recognise the difference between what we think we're doing or saying and what is being seen.
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Well I don't messages anyway.
I know I'm a delight!   |
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Had a lovely message off a lady I didn’t know that really made my night 
I used mine as an icebreaker to be frank about something that was bothering me where I knew I was wrong and needed to say it. I’m grateful for that. Sometimes it good to talk without agenda.. just chat as people. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Zero messages here x"
I tended to only message people where I felt that I could give real insight rather than vague platitudes.
I guess in that way its not very inclusive, apologies for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a couple but one in particular blew me away as we ve never met, chatted etc but have been on same threads..let's just say what they wrote sent me to my sleep smiling on what was a hard day for me..let's just say their message will be kept as a pick me up as my personal opinion of myself is not the best...so very very positiveasy. .for me it's not how many messages, complements etc you may receive but it's those few or individual ones that says wow..I never saw that or wow this is written by someone who is/are total strangers but have really understood you just through words...words..often mightier than the sword  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Truth is tho i know my strengths and weaknesses those who like me and i like say nice things what we pick up on
Those who dont will normally only focus on the neggy stuff or not say anything
Altho i must say compared to real life people seem more expressive and happy to say noce things here i couldnt imagine real life friends and family being so honest with what they think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Truth is tho i know my strengths and weaknesses those who like me and i like say nice things what we pick up on
Those who dont will normally only focus on the neggy stuff or not say anything
Altho i must say compared to real life people seem more expressive and happy to say noce things here i couldnt imagine real life friends and family being so honest with what they think"
You’re one of those people (probably a bit like me) that unless you know you properly you come across as a bit of an arse. (Meant in a nice way! Haha). I know you and I know what you’re really like. I won’t ruin your street cred though by saying! No different to me though, I probably don’t show much of the real me on here to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I think the point of the thread isn't to get unmitigated praise or to get egos stroked (although undoubtedly some will use it as an opportunity to fawn) it's to recognise the difference between what we think we're doing or saying and what is being seen.
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Its a great thread..it's purpose had insight..we all could do with opinions of how we appear..me probably more than most lol..I'm like a born again christIan on speed in sense that I ve just discovered who I am and what it's like to walk out of the shadows but I do worry sometimes that my fk it do it lifestyle can come across wrong or maybe even manic...your thread may have encouraged a strength to say to someone xyz knowing no offence should be taken if one has declared themselves in..loved it and will end my waffling by saying to you yourself...you seem an honest guy that looks beyond surface and thinks about who you are and your impact on others...honourable is the word
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I had a couple but one in particular blew me away as we ve never met, chatted etc but have been on same threads..let's just say what they wrote sent me to my sleep smiling on what was a hard day for me..let's just say their message will be kept as a pick me up as my personal opinion of myself is not the best...so very very positiveasy. .for me it's not how many messages, complements etc you may receive but it's those few or individual ones that says wow..I never saw that or wow this is written by someone who is/are total strangers but have really understood you just through words...words..often mightier than the sword "
That's great, kind of the point really. It's amazing how insightful folks can be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nobody messaged so haven't got a scoobies. It's probably my age, you become invisible "
This is maybe another thread but my attention would be snapped to an older woman quicker than a lass my age, also you look amazing |
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