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over a year ago
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"Nope. Lots of people have very specific requirements when it comes to fantasy, bucket lists etc. The reaction you get will depend on how you express this and your gender. " |
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I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.
From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction. |
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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago
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This raises many questions !
Would a 20 that looked 18 do ?
Is it the number you have a thing for , like a lucky number?.
Is the age and number more important than the personality and look ?.
Are you just looking to see what judgmental comments you can get ?
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"I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.
From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction."
Yes, this. I'd advise anyone below 20 to steer clear of anyone over 25 because they have very different life experiences and I'd worry that the younger person would be vulnerable to manipulation. |
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Not totally weird. I do miss my old night clubbing days where I'd go out and pull a lovely young lady, so lately I've had the urge to repeat that one last time
Early 20s would be ideal though. |
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"I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.
From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction.
Yes, this. I'd advise anyone below 20 to steer clear of anyone over 25 because they have very different life experiences and I'd worry that the younger person would be vulnerable to manipulation. "
How about the young people who manipulate older people? |
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"I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.
From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction.
Yes, this. I'd advise anyone below 20 to steer clear of anyone over 25 because they have very different life experiences and I'd worry that the younger person would be vulnerable to manipulation.
How about the young people who manipulate older people? "
It exists, certainly. I speak somewhat from personal experience here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People like what they like and see what they seek and nothing wrong with that as long as its legal.
What is strange is for someone to ask if its wired and people give an opinion on it but for then for some sad people to slate people for giving an opinion as that's what the thread starter asked for.
Very trollish I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The fact you said 18 and not just "younger" makes it sound creepy. Yes most people have preferences but to make it so specific is fetishizing it a bit and that's weird.
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"Is it weird that I specifically want to fuck an 18 year old? "
Use of “specifically” makes it weird, yea. Least it wasn’t 16.
I’d fuck an 18 year old but actively looking for one nope. Scouring for 18 year olds sounds like a porn trope anyway. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Funny how it's only the women that have a problem with this."
I don't have a problem with it, I do find it a little weird though.18 is very young, if the person was mid twenties, the age gap wouldn't seem so big |
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"Funny how it's only the women that have a problem with this."
He asked for an opinion. I have a 23 year old daughter and the thought of someone her dads age being interested in her now makes me feel a bit queasy to be honest, let alone when she was 18! But like I said before it’s all perfectly legal and fine. |
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"I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.
From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction.
Yes, this. I'd advise anyone below 20 to steer clear of anyone over 25 because they have very different life experiences and I'd worry that the younger person would be vulnerable to manipulation.
How about the young people who manipulate older people?
It exists, certainly. I speak somewhat from personal experience here. "
It's interesting isn't it. I am inclined myself to wonder if there might be an element of manipulation when big age gaps exist either way. We were in a restaurant last week when a quite elderly guy around late 70s came in with a much younger woman. He was obviously quite deaf because he spoke very loudly and everyone could hear his side of the conversation. He gave her and the rest of us, his full address and detailed directions, asked her how long she'd been on the site, told her he knew she was different just from looking at her picture, told her about romantic holidays he'd had and how he missed his wife and basically laid himself bare. For her part she told him that she'd just sold something to give money to her son and generally chatted and laughed.
A woman at another table looked at me like .
I wonder just who was manipulating who there, if anyone and if they both got what they wanted if it was a problem. I did also want to tell him to get some damn hearing aids. |
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"So if a beautiful stunning girl came onto you but was 19 would you say sorry you're not the right age lol. "
Plenty of people say they aren't interested in slim women so I'm guessing they'd turn a beautiful, slim woman down. It's the same thing.
People want what they want. Not many of us are looking for long term on here so a specific age, size or look is acceptable in my opinion. |
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"I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.
From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction.
Yes, this. I'd advise anyone below 20 to steer clear of anyone over 25 because they have very different life experiences and I'd worry that the younger person would be vulnerable to manipulation.
How about the young people who manipulate older people?
It exists, certainly. I speak somewhat from personal experience here.
It's interesting isn't it. I am inclined myself to wonder if there might be an element of manipulation when big age gaps exist either way. We were in a restaurant last week when a quite elderly guy around late 70s came in with a much younger woman. He was obviously quite deaf because he spoke very loudly and everyone could hear his side of the conversation. He gave her and the rest of us, his full address and detailed directions, asked her how long she'd been on the site, told her he knew she was different just from looking at her picture, told her about romantic holidays he'd had and how he missed his wife and basically laid himself bare. For her part she told him that she'd just sold something to give money to her son and generally chatted and laughed.
A woman at another table looked at me like .
I wonder just who was manipulating who there, if anyone and if they both got what they wanted if it was a problem. I did also want to tell him to get some damn hearing aids."
I'm inclined to say that as long as neither party is being deceived or pressured and both are getting what they want/need from it then live and let live. |
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"I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.
From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction.
Yes, this. I'd advise anyone below 20 to steer clear of anyone over 25 because they have very different life experiences and I'd worry that the younger person would be vulnerable to manipulation.
How about the young people who manipulate older people?
It exists, certainly. I speak somewhat from personal experience here.
It's interesting isn't it. I am inclined myself to wonder if there might be an element of manipulation when big age gaps exist either way. We were in a restaurant last week when a quite elderly guy around late 70s came in with a much younger woman. He was obviously quite deaf because he spoke very loudly and everyone could hear his side of the conversation. He gave her and the rest of us, his full address and detailed directions, asked her how long she'd been on the site, told her he knew she was different just from looking at her picture, told her about romantic holidays he'd had and how he missed his wife and basically laid himself bare. For her part she told him that she'd just sold something to give money to her son and generally chatted and laughed.
A woman at another table looked at me like .
I wonder just who was manipulating who there, if anyone and if they both got what they wanted if it was a problem. I did also want to tell him to get some damn hearing aids.
I'm inclined to say that as long as neither party is being deceived or pressured and both are getting what they want/need from it then live and let live."
I'm inclined to say that too. |
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"So if a beautiful stunning girl came onto you but was 19 would you say sorry you're not the right age lol.
Plenty of people say they aren't interested in slim women so I'm guessing they'd turn a beautiful, slim woman down. It's the same thing.
People want what they want. Not many of us are looking for long term on here so a specific age, size or look is acceptable in my opinion." lol I was actually only joking. I dont think it should matter to anyone else what age anyone is looking for as long as they are looking for a legal age |
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"So if a beautiful stunning girl came onto you but was 19 would you say sorry you're not the right age lol.
Plenty of people say they aren't interested in slim women so I'm guessing they'd turn a beautiful, slim woman down. It's the same thing.
People want what they want. Not many of us are looking for long term on here so a specific age, size or look is acceptable in my opinion. lol I was actually only joking. I dont think it should matter to anyone else what age anyone is looking for as long as they are looking for a legal age "
Oh right lol. A bit slow on the uptake today |
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Thinking back to the quality of sex and my enjoyment at 18, poor.
I didn't really know what I was doing, what to expect, and the quality of the guys I was with.
That's why I wouldn't meet an 18 yo guy, sex is of poor quality compared to guys of my own age.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its each to their own, i wouldnt entertain under 25 i just generally find under that sort of age are too immature and not on or anywhere near my wavelength. Prefer around the same age or older |
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"I think it depends on your motivation. If it's purely that just find the age gap arousing and still see her as a person too then fine.
From my experience howver, when I was younger a lot of the men who specifically sought women the age I was did so because they thought they would automatically have an upper hand mentally and most of the control within the interaction."
This!
Same for me.
I’m 26 now and I find some still think I’m going to be a naive young girl.
But it was worse when I was 18/19 I was on dating sites and older men expected that I would go along with what they wanted because of my age etc.
It depends on the OP’s reason why, whether it’s weird or not for me. |
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