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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Clubs are great. Why not join in?"
I didn't know it was such a thing until I joined here to be honest.
There are none close to where I live and I don't feel the urge to travel to one.
I don't know anyone in the scene either. |
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"I'm going to one this Friday but I'm a bit nervous as I'll be going alone. Do people talk to you?? "
YES! absolutely. They are fun places to go at your own pace. Never feel pressured (and if so, contact staff--they are always there to help).
Just go and enjoy (and no, I don't work for any club, I just have been and have had some great times). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm going to one this Friday but I'm a bit nervous as I'll be going alone. Do people talk to you??
YES! absolutely. They are fun places to go at your own pace. Never feel pressured (and if so, contact staff--they are always there to help).
Just go and enjoy (and no, I don't work for any club, I just have been and have had some great times)."
 thank you |
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I wouldnt got because i dont drink, i stopped going out with mates clubbing because you get asked if your a alcoholic if you drink non alcoholic drinks lol strange coming from people who are mortal talking to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never been to one. Was all set to go to a Greedy Girls night at The Annex when back in UK.
Had a guy lined up to go with me, but babysitter fell through at last minute.
No club here  |
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All depends what you are expecting to get out of going to a club
We haven’t been to one for ages
Last one was attic.....reminds of a little nightclub but being followed about by single guys does my head in
Love the atmosphere but not the expectations |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldnt got because i dont drink, i stopped going out with mates clubbing because you get asked if your a alcoholic if you drink non alcoholic drinks lol strange coming from people who are mortal talking to you "
We don’t drink at them most of the time. We drink tea coffee and cola. Sometimes water. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alas no...but then there ain't one closer than a 3 hour drive and reet now I can t get outta working 6 day weeks...we re talking about it..me now wee lassie   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love to go to a club night, see what it's all about. I'm searching for new experiences and sound like something I want to do, I will be nervous but again being on here is helping me to ease them nerves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not been to a club for several reasons,not confident enough to go alone,not a late night person,but the main reason being the high price clubs charge solo men to get in. |
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"Not been to a club for several reasons,not confident enough to go alone,not a late night person,but the main reason being the high price clubs charge solo men to get in."
All of the above, and the horror stories you hear, rather not take the risk of a costly flop of an evening. Plus I'm more sensual than just gratuitous fucking someone that's just been ridden lol |
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There seems to be recurrent themes stopping people going to clubs. Some of these can be addressed by going to the right club AND the right event. Townhouse Milf Mon is on today, daytime event, people aren't rolling round d*unk as most drive, it's very social and friendly and its's free for fems and £10 for single men. There's d*unks, the fear of being ignored and cost sorted. The rest.....is up to you.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/934349 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldnt got because i dont drink, i stopped going out with mates clubbing because you get asked if your a alcoholic if you drink non alcoholic drinks lol strange coming from people who are mortal talking to you "
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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Before I had been to one they frightened the life out of me. My image of what it was like was completely wrong.
The social side alone is amazing. Everyone is so friendly and it’s liberating dressing down into sexy underwear with ALL shapes and sizes.
Even if you went and didn’t play you would still have an amazing time. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Definitely worth going to ...meeting new people..relaxed atmosphere..joining in the fun if you want to.i think people have this idea of what it will be like well we did.. but its not .only been to chameleons Darleston but so glad we joined and no one judges you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There seems to be recurrent themes stopping people going to clubs. Some of these can be addressed by going to the right club AND the right event. Townhouse Milf Mon is on today, daytime event, people aren't rolling round d*unk as most drive, it's very social and friendly and its's free for fems and £10 for single men. There's d*unks, the fear of being ignored and cost sorted. The rest.....is up to you.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/934349"
This is where I will be later. Brilliant club, great atmosphere. No issues in going alone there |
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Personally clubs are our preference. Read so many threads about time wasters, let downs etc so am glad this isn't the route we take.
Always enjoy ourselves and go without any expectations.
Understand those who feel nervous about attending but they really are friendly fun places in our experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before I had been to one they frightened the life out of me. My image of what it was like was completely wrong.
The social side alone is amazing. Everyone is so friendly and it’s liberating dressing down into sexy underwear with ALL shapes and sizes.
Even if you went and didn’t play you would still have an amazing time. X"
When did you go for the first time? |
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"Before I had been to one they frightened the life out of me. My image of what it was like was completely wrong.
The social side alone is amazing. Everyone is so friendly and it’s liberating dressing down into sexy underwear with ALL shapes and sizes.
Even if you went and didn’t play you would still have an amazing time. X"
I totally agree with Lexi. What you think it's going to be like compared to the actual experience is very different.
Although I haven't been to a club for a while or by myself. I'd definitely go again |
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We haven't, just a little apprehensive about it all really. We wouldn't want to go and come across pushy people who can't understand our particular preferences in what we are looking for, we would find it very uncomfortable if we had to keep explaining ourselves. I'm sure it's all in our heads and there are probably lovley understanding and respectful people there but wouldn't want to put ourselves in a uncomfortable position and have to take ourselves away for a situation if it arose, it would just spoil our night S |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To all the nervous guys. Until recently I probably had more confidence issues than all of you put together. Won't go into specifics but this year my life changed along with my attitude. I went to a club alone 2 weeks ago with the attitude of what's the worst that can happen? I had fun,I chatted to people,I made new friends,enjoyed my very first jacuzzi and just enjoyed the atmosphere. Oh and all the beautiful ladies dressed to impress was the best part. Pluck up the courage and have fun guys. |
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You don’t know what you are missing ! Great social atmosphere , get to meet people properly in a no pressure environment and of course you may even get an invite to play there or get an invite for another time
Be brave and explore  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You don’t know what you are missing ! Great social atmosphere , get to meet people properly in a no pressure environment and of course you may even get an invite to play there or get an invite for another time
Be brave and explore "
It's actually easier talking to people in a swingers club than going to the pub or nightclub because everyone is there for the same thing(more or less) |
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"You don’t know what you are missing ! Great social atmosphere , get to meet people properly in a no pressure environment and of course you may even get an invite to play there or get an invite for another time
Be brave and explore
It's actually easier talking to people in a swingers club than going to the pub or nightclub because everyone is there for the same thing(more or less)"
Exactly right and I’ve always found men don’t take offence at a swinging club if you are polite and say no thanks
Men at normal clubs pester way more
I’ve made some great friends literally just partying at a club |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wahr is the dress code at these clubs? I don't like the idea of being naked with a load of people around me.
Is it okay to go dressed and have a drink at the bar? Or what |
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"Wahr is the dress code at these clubs? I don't like the idea of being naked with a load of people around me.
Is it okay to go dressed and have a drink at the bar? Or what "
Some clubs you can stay dressed, some are immediate dress down. Dress down for guys is boxers or a towel x |
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