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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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How many real friends do you think you have? And I dont mean on here.
True friends are hard to find in my opinion. I wish I had a good friend. "
i have 3.... im alot closer to my brothers and cousins than my 'friends'
hope your ok OP X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many real friends do you think you have? And I dont mean on here.
True friends are hard to find in my opinion. I wish I had a good friend.
i have 3.... im alot closer to my brothers and cousins than my 'friends'
hope your ok OP X"
Im fine, thanks for asking.. Just get lonely sometimes. Dont have any real friends all my past friendships have fizzled out like a bonfire in the rain. |
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I’m lucky I have one know known since I was 10 and one since I was 20 and both have stepped up in times of need without question and I also have one other that I’ve know for 5 years and I know she will always be there regardless of what’s needed, and there is always my big brother who is my hero!
Mrs x |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
Merseyside |
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How many real friends do you think you have? And I dont mean on here.
True friends are hard to find in my opinion. I wish I had a good friend.
i have 3.... im alot closer to my brothers and cousins than my 'friends'
hope your ok OP X
Im fine, thanks for asking.. Just get lonely sometimes. Dont have any real friends all my past friendships have fizzled out like a bonfire in the rain."
haha at least your in good spirits and can joke about it... xxx you tried local groups? any hobbys? contacting old school or work colleagues? pm if you ever fancy a chat x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How many real friends do you think you have? And I dont mean on here.
True friends are hard to find in my opinion. I wish I had a good friend.
i have 3.... im alot closer to my brothers and cousins than my 'friends'
hope your ok OP X
Im fine, thanks for asking.. Just get lonely sometimes. Dont have any real friends all my past friendships have fizzled out like a bonfire in the rain."
I totally get that. I know lots of people and consider a few friends but I don't really have any that I feel really close too. |
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"Just the two, and frankly that's enough
Wish I even had that amount.. But nope! "
You never know who you got out there. You'd be surprised.
I'd say I will be your friend but:
a) you're not that desperate
b) I don't take friendship lightly
c) I it have 2 fingers left. Long story
Chin up OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How many real friends do you think you have? And I dont mean on here.
True friends are hard to find in my opinion. I wish I had a good friend. " true friends really are hard to find i have two that i trust implicitly |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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One really close friend who I have been best mates with for over 25 years. And a couple of good friends who know a lot about me but but not half as much as my best mate does. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive got 1 real friend i could tell anything to and he would do anything for me. And a circle of around 7 others that are real good friends but i know i couldnt tell them cirtain things.
I used to have a massive circle but found that many were hangers on, just used me for the partys i had and name dropping to get in cirtain places ect.
I deleted everyone out my phone a year ago and saved peoples numbers as they contacted me on a friend front not a 'wanting' front |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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I have got one very best friend who I can talk to about anything and she is someone I met on here
We are real world friends too and I consider myself lucky to have found her.
I also have MrLicka of course but it’s good to have a girlfriend too
Sometimes people just turn up and you don’t realise how important they are to you at first but they quickly become so close you feel you have known them a lifetime - I hope you find your someone special soon x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apart from gf..just one..total..I'm not one for acquaintances etc..funny because she s a 75 year old..friends for me are very difficult as I m looking for open minded talk about anything, dress how they wanna dress..non conformist such as myself...I ve given up trying lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have so many who think they’re my friends but I don’t. Actually got 2 who know virtually everything about me. Have met a couple of others on here who are also on the way to becoming very close |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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How many real friends do you think you have? And I dont mean on here.
True friends are hard to find in my opinion. I wish I had a good friend. true friends really are hard to find i have two that i trust implicitly "
Thankyou x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1, and that’s how I like it.
I’m like the Lone Ranger and keep myself to myself a lot of the time.
I do have ‘acquaintances’ and family I socialise with when I’m in need to human contact |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loneliness can be awful I can relate, there’s been a study on it quite recently and was said to be more wide spread than people yhink and can be a major factor in mental health. I’ll see if I can find the link. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loneliness can be awful I can relate, there’s been a study on it quite recently and was said to be more wide spread than people yhink and can be a major factor in mental health. I’ll see if I can find the link. "
Loneliness is terrible but people can forget there are many attached loved people who, in themselves, still feel loneliness..this can come about thru a shift in their thinking, or a change in their lifes wants, wishes, dreams...in fact though living a so called perfect life some people can inwardly and without knowing disconnect and feel they no longer belong, don t feel they can change their life and so live it whilst slipping into isolation and loneliness |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loneliness can be awful I can relate, there’s been a study on it quite recently and was said to be more wide spread than people yhink and can be a major factor in mental health. I’ll see if I can find the link.
Loneliness is terrible but people can forget there are many attached loved people who, in themselves, still feel loneliness..this can come about thru a shift in their thinking, or a change in their lifes wants, wishes, dreams...in fact though living a so called perfect life some people can inwardly and without knowing disconnect and feel they no longer belong, don t feel they can change their life and so live it whilst slipping into isolation and loneliness"
Agree with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have two friends I speak with and see all the time
I have other friends who sadly I don't see very often but we know if I or they ever needed anything we would be there
For some reason my best friend and I drifted apart when she got married . I miss her terribly. Not sure what I did wrong. I try to keep in touch but never really gets much respond.
I then have other friends who I keep in touch with end see now and again.
I'm very lucky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have lost several people that I thought were friends over the last few years.
And now I have just one good friend that I've known forever.
I spend a lot of time alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One very close friends who knows everything about me and who's been my rock
A few casual friends ,and a sister and daughter who are also friends aswel as being family and that's all I need |
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"Loneliness can be awful I can relate, there’s been a study on it quite recently and was said to be more wide spread than people yhink and can be a major factor in mental health. I’ll see if I can find the link. " I saw a program on it in Japan .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No real true friends tbh.
I am a terrible friend, never contact them, never make plans. I like my evenings and weekends for me, selfish but true.
I am quite close to my daughter in laws Mum, we never arrange to do stuff though because she is the same as me. But I know she would be there if I needed her, and vice versa.
Though we are planning a a day in Liverpool looking for Wedding dresses for my Daughter in Law.
Good thing about being friends we can cook up plans |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No real true friends tbh.
I am a terrible friend, never contact them, never make plans. I like my evenings and weekends for me, selfish but true.
I am quite close to my daughter in laws Mum, we never arrange to do stuff though because she is the same as me. But I know she would be there if I needed her, and vice versa.
Though we are planning a a day in Liverpool looking for Wedding dresses for my Daughter in Law.
Good thing about being friends we can cook up plans "
I locked myself away from the world for a long time and pushed my friends away but the real ones stuck by me.
Sending hugs x |
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