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By *orenzoVonMatterhorn OP Man over a year ago

Lincoln

You've seen them, I've seen them, everyone on Fab has seen them.

Profiles that describe themselves as "attractive" or "hot" in their text.

Now the question is, if beauty is in the eye of the beholder, is putting this on your profile going to make a difference?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, I'm fabulous and everyone should know that and cheerish that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only women do this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only women do this."

Ermmm...no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only women do this."

So not true! Loads of guys write attractive or handsome... I don’t mind, shows self confidence

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t describe myself as anything in my profile text

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only women do this.

So not true! Loads of guys write attractive or handsome... I don’t mind, shows self confidence

Or alpha

Or Dom's

Or athletic

Or athletic Dom alphas

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only women do this.

So not true! Loads of guys write attractive or handsome... I don’t mind, shows self confidence

Or alpha

Or Dom's

Or athletic

Or athletic Dom alphas "

The athletic alpha doms are the worst

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only women do this.

So not true! Loads of guys write attractive or handsome... I don’t mind, shows self confidence

Or alpha

Or Dom's

Or athletic

Or athletic Dom alphas

The athletic alpha doms are the worst "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You've seen them, I've seen them, everyone on Fab has seen them.

Profiles that describe themselves as "attractive" or "hot" in their text.

Now the question is, if beauty is in the eye of the beholder, is putting this on your profile going to make a difference?

Well no other bugger is going to tell me! Mwah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only women do this.

So not true! Loads of guys write attractive or handsome... I don’t mind, shows self confidence

Or alpha

Or Dom's

Or athletic

Or athletic Dom alphas "

Your list is more wishful thinking though...

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By *STWO65Couple over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"Only women do this."

We find that a lot of men do this.

And for some of them obviously they have no mirrors in their home!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only women do this.

So not true! Loads of guys write attractive or handsome... I don’t mind, shows self confidence

Or alpha

Or Dom's

Or athletic

Or athletic Dom alphas

Your list is more wishful thinking though..."

What do you mean?

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

I only see it as someone who to focus on the outside rather then the inside and will only look for people who meet there high standards or so they think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only women do this.

So not true! Loads of guys write attractive or handsome... I don’t mind, shows self confidence

Or alpha

Or Dom's

Or athletic

Or athletic Dom alphas

Your list is more wishful thinking though...

What do you mean?"

Guys think they are one of the types on your list. If they’ve written one, it usually means they aren’t

. Perhaps with the exception of athlete.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only women do this."

I'm hot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s not something I would put in my profile, as attraction is quite subjective, even if I have received compliments.

I prefer others to tell me how they perceive me rather than self-promote.

I value modesty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No different from half the people on here describing them selves as intelligent or professional or single or honest when they are clearly not.

It helps you get a good idea what someone is like when they do these things and you thin k otherwise so you can just pass them by.

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By *ilveryFoxMan over a year ago

Midlothian

I think I’m fairly decent looking for my age but wouldn’t put that on my profile. That’s for others to judge, preferably not harshly though

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

"It’s not something I would put in my profile, as attraction is quite subjective, even if I have received compliments.

I prefer others to tell me how they perceive me rather than self-promote.

I value modesty"

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

It’s never true either!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it sounds presumptuous. These people don't know what I find attractive, let's face it, we all find different things attractive.

Personally I find honesty, time, respect and the value placed on the trust between people far more appealing and attractive than a pretty face and body.

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By *STWO65Couple over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"It’s not something I would put in my profile, as attraction is quite subjective, even if I have received compliments.

I prefer others to tell me how they perceive me rather than self-promote.

I value modesty"

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You've seen them, I've seen them, everyone on Fab has seen them.

Profiles that describe themselves as "attractive" or "hot" in their text.

Now the question is, if beauty is in the eye of the beholder, is putting this on your profile going to make a difference?

Surely it's how a person feels about themselves that is most important? I like when people have a certain level of confidence. If they feel attractive, then that is great. If someone disagrees, it's of no consequence. People get berated for having confidence at times, especially on here, yet when they behave all insecure and keep saying they are ugly, they are told they are gorgeous and should believe in themselves. Go figure.

Holly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s never true either!!! "

It is today, i'm digging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I see

I'm attractive or professional or anything that's modest on a profikle it makes me cringe and think why are you looking for others when you clearly want to fuck yourself

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Yes, I'm fabulous and everyone should know that and cheerish that

can't read the rest of the thread..I'm stuck, stuck on your fabulousness

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You've seen them, I've seen them, everyone on Fab has seen them.

Profiles that describe themselves as "attractive" or "hot" in their text.

Now the question is, if beauty is in the eye of the beholder, is putting this on your profile going to make a difference?

Holly"

However how I feel about myself and what I choose to express can be two different things.

I value both self- confidence and modesty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My old username was foxy_foreigner but I kind of misunderstood word foxy...I thought it means being sly as a fox rather than being attractive. I would never call myself foxy if I knew what it means

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My old username was foxy_foreigner but I kind of misunderstood word foxy...I thought it means being sly as a fox rather than being attractive. I would never call myself foxy if I knew what it means

But you fit that definition perfectly.

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

There’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance. I’d avoid anyone who told me they were attractive. I decide that for myself as I have particularly weird tastes.

Attractive to me, is not necessarily attractive to someone else. I prefer more substance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance. I’d avoid anyone who told me they were attractive. I decide that for myself as I have particularly weird tastes.

Attractive to me, is not necessarily attractive to someone else. I prefer more substance."

This is what I tried to say.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only women do this.

So not true! Loads of guys write attractive or handsome... I don’t mind, shows self confidence

Or alpha

Or Dom's

Or athletic

Or athletic Dom alphas

Your list is more wishful thinking though...

What do you mean?

Guys think they are one of the types on your list. If they’ve written one, it usually means they aren’t

. Perhaps with the exception of athlete."

I very much doubt there are many athletes on this site

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"My old username was foxy_foreigner but I kind of misunderstood word foxy...I thought it means being sly as a fox rather than being attractive. I would never call myself foxy if I knew what it means

But you fit that definition perfectly. "

I like it too..for me it denotes a bit of sassiness..naughtiness

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My old username was foxy_foreigner but I kind of misunderstood word foxy...I thought it means being sly as a fox rather than being attractive. I would never call myself foxy if I knew what it means

But you fit that definition perfectly. "

Not from my point of view. I don't love myself enough to publicly call myself foxy. At least not anymore, now when I know what it means

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You've seen them, I've seen them, everyone on Fab has seen them.

Profiles that describe themselves as "attractive" or "hot" in their text.

Now the question is, if beauty is in the eye of the beholder, is putting this on your profile going to make a difference?

Holly

However how I feel about myself and what I choose to express can be two different things.

I value both self- confidence and modesty

I think if someone feels that they are attractive, then there is no harm in them saying it. I don't see it as arrogant either. Merely another positive trait that someone sees within themselves. If other people see them as arrogant, then that is their choice. Just like we all have differing opinions, we all make our own choices on how we percieve certain profiles. Some will be drawn to it, some will be put off. The joys of fab

Holly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only women do this."
nope loads of men do too

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Only women do this.

So not true! Loads of guys write attractive or handsome... I don’t mind, shows self confidence

Or alpha

Or Dom's

Or athletic

Or athletic Dom alphas

Your list is more wishful thinking though...

What do you mean?

Guys think they are one of the types on your list. If they’ve written one, it usually means they aren’t

. Perhaps with the exception of athlete.

I very much doubt there are many athletes on this site

Not professional ones...

Personally I know several people who are long distance runners and train hard, if you meet the criteria then why not?

Oh and darts players and sumo wrestlers don't really apply...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You've seen them, I've seen them, everyone on Fab has seen them.

Profiles that describe themselves as "attractive" or "hot" in their text.

Now the question is, if beauty is in the eye of the beholder, is putting this on your profile going to make a difference?

Holly

However how I feel about myself and what I choose to express can be two different things.

I value both self- confidence and modesty

Holly"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only women do this."

Loads of guys do this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only women do this.

So not true! Loads of guys write attractive or handsome... I don’t mind, shows self confidence

Or alpha

Or Dom's

Or athletic

Or athletic Dom alphas

Your list is more wishful thinking though...

What do you mean?

Guys think they are one of the types on your list. If they’ve written one, it usually means they aren’t

. Perhaps with the exception of athlete.

I very much doubt there are many athletes on this site

Not professional ones...

Personally I know several people who are long distance runners and train hard, if you meet the criteria then why not?

Oh and darts players and sumo wrestlers don't really apply...

Criteria? If you're not a professional athlete then the word athlete becomes very ambiguous.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people will find me attractive. Others won't and so it would hardly be right for me to make any such assumptions of my attractiveness on my profile.

Mind you, I do have a fabulous looking cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What ia worse is people looking for someone hot.

How am I to know if I am hot or not to that person/couple?

I'm just an average guy, not sure if I'm hot. Definitely haven't just fallen out of the ugly tree hitting every branch on the way down either.

Anyone with any common sense knows beauty isn't just skin deep.

I'm attracted to all sorts, but it's usually a quirky or cheeky personality that wins me over.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Only women do this.

So not true! Loads of guys write attractive or handsome... I don’t mind, shows self confidence

Or alpha

Or Dom's

Or athletic

Or athletic Dom alphas

Your list is more wishful thinking though...

What do you mean?

Guys think they are one of the types on your list. If they’ve written one, it usually means they aren’t

. Perhaps with the exception of athlete.

I very much doubt there are many athletes on this site

Not professional ones...

Personally I know several people who are long distance runners and train hard, if you meet the criteria then why not?

Oh and darts players and sumo wrestlers don't really apply...

Criteria? If you're not a professional athlete then the word athlete becomes very ambiguous."

I generally go by the resting heart rate perimeters and recovery times when I'm training.

I agree though, the term can be ambiguous and is often open to interpretation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My old username was foxy_foreigner but I kind of misunderstood word foxy...I thought it means being sly as a fox rather than being attractive. I would never call myself foxy if I knew what it means

But you fit that definition perfectly.

Not from my point of view. I don't love myself enough to publicly call myself foxy. At least not anymore, now when I know what it means

Then allow me to do it for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only women do this.

So not true! Loads of guys write attractive or handsome... I don’t mind, shows self confidence

Or alpha

Or Dom's

Or athletic

Or athletic Dom alphas

Your list is more wishful thinking though...

What do you mean?

Guys think they are one of the types on your list. If they’ve written one, it usually means they aren’t

. Perhaps with the exception of athlete.

I very much doubt there are many athletes on this site

Not professional ones...

Personally I know several people who are long distance runners and train hard, if you meet the criteria then why not?

Oh and darts players and sumo wrestlers don't really apply...

Criteria? If you're not a professional athlete then the word athlete becomes very ambiguous.

I generally go by the resting heart rate perimeters and recovery times when I'm training.

I agree though, the term can be ambiguous and is often open to interpretation. "

Takes me ages to recover from a game of darts

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

I was gonna post this topic earlier when I saw a lad make a ‘I’m not getting any meets’ post that said something like ‘I’m a good looking lad’. Ffs. As if you say that about yourself, like.

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