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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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do you feel you can deal with it? how do you deal with it? Do you feel youre worthy of it?or does it just skim off the top of your recently conditioned hair into the galactoral abyss?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what they're criticising. If it's something personal then I think that's fine, not everyone will like me.
If it's something I've made a conscious decision of and believed it to be the right one then I'd be upset and want to know the reasons for their criticism. |
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Depends what it is and where it’s from. If it’s from someone I respect I’ll certainly consider the criticism as we all need self awareness. Both positive and negative can be a great learning curve. |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
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I could give less of a shit tbh. People will always judge and hate on others. It goes through one ear and out the other unless they're particularly nasty, in which case I rip them a new arsehole  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends who from people i like and respect il listen to maybe take on board from a stranger il not give a toss got better stuff to do than care if its hammered down my throat i may see it as a challenge and raise the decibels a little and my response and watch them shrink under the pressure
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't deal with criticism well. I find it really knocks my confidence "
yes i figure lots are like this, i myself prefer the give advice on how it could have been done approach |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I did a fashion degree. I'm used to having something I've put my heart a soul into for weeks and lost countless hours of sleep over ripped to shreds in a matter of minutes "
yes have really noticed this about the fashion and music industry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I work with Germans. Let’s just say they’re the masters of harsh criticism...
Me2 but I adore their humour!   "
Unfortunately lacking in the ones surrounding me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends. If it’s a friend or someone I care about I’d take their comments on board. Anyone else it would go over my head and wouldn’t bother me at all. "
over your recently conditioned head? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I work with Germans. Let’s just say they’re the masters of harsh criticism...
Me2 but I adore their humour!
Unfortunately lacking in the ones surrounding me."
I've found Germans to be the funniest nation, genuinely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I work with Germans. Let’s just say they’re the masters of harsh criticism...
Me2 but I adore their humour!
Unfortunately lacking in the ones surrounding me.
I've found Germans to be the funniest nation, genuinely!"
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As others have said, it very much depends on who it is coming from:
People who's opinion I respect - I will listen, probably ask for further details about the reasoning behind it, take it on board and learn from it.
Other people - I couldn't give a rats arse! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I work with Germans. Let’s just say they’re the masters of harsh criticism...
Me2 but I adore their humour!
Unfortunately lacking in the ones surrounding me.
I've found Germans to be the funniest nation, genuinely!"
Yep and that’s why we can never be friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I work with Germans. Let’s just say they’re the masters of harsh criticism...
Me2 but I adore their humour!
Unfortunately lacking in the ones surrounding me.
I've found Germans to be the funniest nation, genuinely!really "
Yes, I've found they're very self aware and always looking for a joke in things. Plus they have brilliant hahahahaha laughter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I work with Germans. Let’s just say they’re the masters of harsh criticism...
Me2 but I adore their humour!
Unfortunately lacking in the ones surrounding me.
I've found Germans to be the funniest nation, genuinely!
Yep and that’s why we can never be friends. "
I thought we were..... .....once..... 
(Does that rule out lovers too....? ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do you feel you can deal with it? how do you deal with it? Do you feel youre worthy of it?or does it just skim off the top of your recently conditioned hair into the galactoral abyss? "
If it’s deserved and I have done something to deserve it and can learn from it and so improve on something, then yes, if it’s just for the sake of criticising me to provoke a reaction or to hurt me then no. I’m a sensitive little flower at times xx Viv x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"do you feel you can deal with it? how do you deal with it? Do you feel youre worthy of it?or does it just skim off the top of your recently conditioned hair into the galactoral abyss?
If it’s deserved and I have done something to deserve it and can learn from it and so improve on something, then yes, if it’s just for the sake of criticising me to provoke a reaction or to hurt me then no. I’m a sensitive little flower at times xx Viv x"
yes i can take helpful criticism said in a genuinely helpful manner but to belittle no way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"do you feel you can deal with it? how do you deal with it? Do you feel youre worthy of it?or does it just skim off the top of your recently conditioned hair into the galactoral abyss?
If it’s deserved and I have done something to deserve it and can learn from it and so improve on something, then yes, if it’s just for the sake of criticising me to provoke a reaction or to hurt me then no. I’m a sensitive little flower at times xx Viv xyes i can take helpful criticism said in a genuinely helpful manner but to belittle no way "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I could give less of a shit tbh. People will always judge and hate on others. It goes through one ear and out the other unless they're particularly nasty, in which case I rip them a new arsehole "
You see, I would love to be like this, but I would crumble inside and lose sleep over it. Any tips on how to cope with it would be gratefully received. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I could give less of a shit tbh. People will always judge and hate on others. It goes through one ear and out the other unless they're particularly nasty, in which case I rip them a new arsehole
You see, I would love to be like this, but I would crumble inside and lose sleep over it. Any tips on how to cope with it would be gratefully received."
losing sleep easy stay up for 72 hours |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"do you feel you can deal with it? how do you deal with it? Do you feel youre worthy of it?or does it just skim off the top of your recently conditioned hair into the galactoral abyss? "
Criticism should always be constructive. Clearly on here at times it isn't. You could argue that some posters need a reality check; usually the guys who post another, 'Why am I not getting any replies' threads, but I don't see any reason to be unnecessarily cruel just because it's the internet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It depends who's dishing it out and if it's constructive, what the intentions are behind it?If it's to help me improve myself I can take it but if for instance a supposed friend were to critisize, I would definitely question if they had my best interest in mind. I accept that I'm not perfect, have flaws, therefore I accept criticism and rarely question it.
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