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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Apologies if this seems a little garbled, I'm on my lunch break and posting on the fly...
I've recently posted a new set of pictures and I've found it interesting how genders fab the different styles of image. Obviously this isn't a new revelation, however I'd forgotten how stark the contrast can be.
I'm interested to know what kind of images you 'enjoy' and if it makes a difference to your interest level in a person? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like arty shots, stuff that you can see has taken effort.
On the flip side I also like stuff that looks natural and effortless, yet the picture quality needs to be good. An effortless effort if that makes sense.
I like stuff that shows personality and emotion
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
For me creative, teasing, tasteful and sensual will always get my attention over blatant in your face - and I can appreciate a well taken pic regardless of my level of interest in someone, in fact a large number of my hotlisters are there purely because I like their pics.
That said my initial interest in talking to someone with a view to meeting can certainly be piqued by pics - although the real interest comes from finding a connection and chemistry and interaction. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I like arty shots, stuff that you can see has taken effort.
On the flip side I also like stuff that looks natural and effortless, yet the picture quality needs to be good. An effortless effort if that makes sense.
I like stuff that shows personality and emotion
P
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That's the toughie! I disposed of loads because I was 'posing', half were blurred and many just looked weird 
Getting the goldilocks images was tough! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like pics where the person has thought about it, that you can tell they know how to hold themselves or how to express themselves and have an idea of what they want to portray.
It's hard to define what catches my eye, one of my favourite pics of J is his neck because I get the urge to kiss it. I guess that's what makes a good photo, it makes you want to get involved. That teasing/tempting thing to me is more attractive than a close up of your genitals or the gangbang you had last weekend.
Rubi xx |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"I like arty shots, stuff that you can see has taken effort.
On the flip side I also like stuff that looks natural and effortless, yet the picture quality needs to be good. An effortless effort if that makes sense.
I like stuff that shows personality and emotion
P
That's the toughie! I disposed of loads because I was 'posing', half were blurred and many just looked weird
Getting the goldilocks images was tough! "
I take one then, I’ve had enough, don’t want to look at that mug any longer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like arty shots, stuff that you can see has taken effort.
On the flip side I also like stuff that looks natural and effortless, yet the picture quality needs to be good. An effortless effort if that makes sense.
I like stuff that shows personality and emotion
P
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Effortless effort is exactly what I like, for guys particularly. That's the perfect way to describe it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like all sorts of different pictures but on the whole I prefer those that are more artistically posed, show more of the person rather than just focusing on one body part and i find that person attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often fab pics because of the photo rather than the subject, if that makes sense. Whether it be form, just-perfect lighting, composition, a beautiful angle, these are the things that catch my eye. Sometimes we both like a photo because of what it depicts, something we've previously enjoyed or would like to 
Not sure how much it affects our actual interest in a person although a dreadful photo might influence us adversely
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I like ones where you can imagine the person has enjoyed taking the photo; where you can see the fun/tongue in cheek side of it. I like the effortlessy effort sort as mentioned above. I like a good dick pic, I like the arse in the air and glimpse of vag ones.
I don't know if photos have that much of an effect on my interest in a person - it might pique it briefly but I place far more onus on words. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I like arty shots, stuff that you can see has taken effort.
On the flip side I also like stuff that looks natural and effortless, yet the picture quality needs to be good. An effortless effort if that makes sense.
I like stuff that shows personality and emotion
P
Effortless effort is exactly what I like, for guys particularly. That's the perfect way to describe it. "
Interesting way of putting it, the impression that it's natural? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Variety.
Playful, artsy, unusual detail, nonchalant, vintage, oozing with erotic imagination.
That's quite a list, especially for saying that most guys seem to go with 'naked' "
A bit of a scan in my head happened of things i enjoyed seeing here and those would be one word captions.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like arty shots, stuff that you can see has taken effort.
On the flip side I also like stuff that looks natural and effortless, yet the picture quality needs to be good. An effortless effort if that makes sense.
I like stuff that shows personality and emotion
P
Effortless effort is exactly what I like, for guys particularly. That's the perfect way to describe it.
Interesting way of putting it, the impression that it's natural? "
Yes, exactly that.
A great example of this is PBs come ere finger.
Pics that make me feel as though I could just fall into the photo and fit right in.
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Variety.
Playful, artsy, unusual detail, nonchalant, vintage, oozing with erotic imagination.
That's quite a list, especially for saying that most guys seem to go with 'naked'
A bit of a scan in my head happened of things i enjoyed seeing here and those would be one word captions.
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I'm not criticising, I'm impressed and intrigued. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Effortless effort is exactly what I like, for guys particularly. That's the perfect way to describe it.
Interesting way of putting it, the impression that it's natural? "
Pretty much yeah. I can appreciate a good picture in it's own right but I'm not turned on by someone's photography skills. I just want to see their body showcased in a good way.
I have a friend who takes the most unbelievably erotic pictures that drive me crazy. He doesn't use b&w, props, unnatural poses. Just shows enough of what I like in a very sensual way. I'm always trying to introduce him to the forum, you guys would love him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh loving the new pics OP. Definitely into the more arty ones personally as they let my imagination take over. However I also believe variety is the key, something for everyone.  |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Oh loving the new pics OP. Definitely into the more arty ones personally as they let my imagination take over. However I also believe variety is the key, something for everyone. "
I was told that I needed more variety, I'm interested by the reactions to the results! |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
I like pictures where some thought has gone into them. Creative, arty, teasing, sexy but actually showing very little gets the mind thinking. Ooft ooft ooft....
Yes different levels of interest come from profile pictures. The more clothes you take off the more interest you normally get as a woman I've found. The quality of that interest definitely normally does down in messages received. But I'm not trying it to see.
Great pictures OP. Especially the avatar one. X
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Pictures that make you think ‘hmm they look interesting/sexy/intriguing’ without having to try too hard at the finished picture.
That could be a well thought out pose and definitely without having the phone in the middle of the frame.
Use the timer. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I like pictures where some thought has gone into them. Creative, arty, teasing, sexy but actually showing very little gets the mind thinking. Ooft ooft ooft....
Yes different levels of interest come from profile pictures. The more clothes you take off the more interest you normally get as a woman I've found. The quality of that interest definitely normally does down in messages received. But I'm not trying it to see.
Great pictures OP. Especially the avatar one. X
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I think what you've written is very true, Im almost wondering if the opposite is true with guys pictures for ladies; the fewer clothes you take off, the more alluring the image... |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I like pictures where some thought has gone into them. Creative, arty, teasing, sexy but actually showing very little gets the mind thinking. Ooft ooft ooft....
Yes different levels of interest come from profile pictures. The more clothes you take off the more interest you normally get as a woman I've found. The quality of that interest definitely normally does down in messages received. But I'm not trying it to see.
Great pictures OP. Especially the avatar one. X
I think what you've written is very true, Im almost wondering if the opposite is true with guys pictures for ladies; the fewer clothes you take off, the more alluring the image..."
To me yes. But we are all differant. Find your audience, find your type thought visual matching |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I like pictures where some thought has gone into them. Creative, arty, teasing, sexy but actually showing very little gets the mind thinking. Ooft ooft ooft....
Yes different levels of interest come from profile pictures. The more clothes you take off the more interest you normally get as a woman I've found. The quality of that interest definitely normally does down in messages received. But I'm not trying it to see.
Great pictures OP. Especially the avatar one. X
I think what you've written is very true, Im almost wondering if the opposite is true with guys pictures for ladies; the fewer clothes you take off, the more alluring the image...
To me yes. But we are all differant. Find your audience, find your type thought visual matching "
That's a good point really. It's the most effort I've put into a set of photos since Christmas, I guess effort is key really.
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
"Apologies if this seems a little garbled, I'm on my lunch break and posting on the fly...
I've recently posted a new set of pictures and I've found it interesting how genders fab the different styles of image. Obviously this isn't a new revelation, however I'd forgotten how stark the contrast can be.
I'm interested to know what kind of images you 'enjoy' and if it makes a difference to your interest level in a person? "
Mmmm my interest has been piqued |
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I'm fairly broad in my tastes, and fabbing pics depends on my motivation. Sometimes it's the equivalent of smiling at someone, showing appreciation. Other times I'd potentially like to explore mutual interest. I especially like a really unusual photo where I'm astounded - it's unlikely to be a cock pic. A certain expression, an impressive and visually great full body, a guys back or chest. I like a few cocks.
The winners are usually shots including the face. I'd give multiple fabs for these if I could.
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I'm fairly broad in my tastes, and fabbing pics depends on my motivation. Sometimes it's the equivalent of smiling at someone, showing appreciation. Other times I'd potentially like to explore mutual interest. I especially like a really unusual photo where I'm astounded - it's unlikely to be a cock pic. A certain expression, an impressive and visually great full body, a guys back or chest. I like a few cocks.
The winners are usually shots including the face. I'd give multiple fabs for these if I could.
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That's a really interesting comment. I think that for many people (born out by the comments on this thread) it's a unique moment that's been caught that they like. A natural gesture or movement that shows something more than just the pose, it's not going to be false or affected. It's *that* which people look for or find attractive. |
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I like your new pictures op youve worked well on your physique. Personally i have zero interest in arty photos. Bodies dont really turn me on im a person who is more attracted to a mind. Give me a picture of a happy smiling face over all the other types of picture. However, i do know im in the minority |
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