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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone ever really leave fab or is it somewhere one will always come back too?"
To leave completely would be a change in lifestyle I would imagine most just take a break or hide their profile for a while  |
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Lots leave but some do come back many men get fed up and go to dating sites where they are more successful women leave due to getting fed up with harassment or abuse. Others though do keep returning and returning as it becomes big part of their life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone ever really leave fab or is it somewhere one will always come back too?"
If you are genuinely into the lifestyle then never actually leave. But may dip in activity from time to time.
If you're here for relationships then most likely leave if you find one.
Guys come and go.
It is the way it is |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve heard this so often now, you never really leave. I wonder how many really do though. Can’t be that hard once your needs change..."
Seems very hard for most. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have, I do, I will, and I sometimes just don't come on for a bit too if its not doing anything for me.....
Some of the real addicted and territorial folk in here serve as a reminder for me of what unhealthy online behaviour can become  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Some really have left fab over the years, some come back. I think it is possible to leave, it depends on what you get from the site as a whole.
I'm always a bit wary of saying people are addicted - you never quite know someone's experiences, their life etc. Personally I've been on a lot over the past couple days - I've been ill and not at work. Before that I went for a few days not logging on etc and when I did it wasn't for long or very often at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have, I do, I will, and I sometimes just don't come on for a bit too if its not doing anything for me.....
Some of the real addicted and territorial folk in here serve as a reminder for me of what unhealthy online behaviour can become "
This is sensible  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone ever really leave fab or is it somewhere one will always come back too?
To leave completely would be a change in lifestyle I would imagine most just take a break or hide their profile for a while "
And they deleted their profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone ever really leave fab or is it somewhere one will always come back too?
To leave completely would be a change in lifestyle I would imagine most just take a break or hide their profile for a while
And they deleted their profile "
Lolololol who was that? They thumbed me they must be brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone ever really leave fab or is it somewhere one will always come back too?
To leave completely would be a change in lifestyle I would imagine most just take a break or hide their profile for a while
And they deleted their profile
Lolololol who was that? They thumbed me they must be brilliant "
No idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone ever really leave fab or is it somewhere one will always come back too?"
I’m on and off it quite a bit. This time has been my longest spell with no breaks. It’s a profile I’ve had a while, just turn it of when I’ve had ‘enough’. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I left fab in November of last year I'm not intending to come back anytime soon
Oh why not? Your missing so much "
You know the script as the old saying goes how can you lose what you never had  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone ever really leave fab or is it somewhere one will always come back too?
I’m on and off it quite a bit. This time has been my longest spell with no breaks. It’s a profile I’ve had a while, just turn it of when I’ve had ‘enough’. "
Turn it off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I left fab in November of last year I'm not intending to come back anytime soon
Oh why not? Your missing so much "
Actually I'm coming back if you promise to post more photos of that quite incredible bottom x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I left fab in November of last year I'm not intending to come back anytime soon
Oh why not? Your missing so much
Actually I'm coming back if you promise to post more photos of that quite incredible bottom x"
Deal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I left fab in November of last year I'm not intending to come back anytime soon
Oh why not? Your missing so much
Actually I'm coming back if you promise to post more photos of that quite incredible bottom x
Deal "
Can we shake on it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I left fab in November of last year I'm not intending to come back anytime soon
Oh why not? Your missing so much
Actually I'm coming back if you promise to post more photos of that quite incredible bottom x
Deal
Can we shake on it "
Sure why not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I left fab in November of last year I'm not intending to come back anytime soon
Oh why not? Your missing so much
Actually I'm coming back if you promise to post more photos of that quite incredible bottom x
Deal
Can we shake on it
Sure why not "
Ok meet you halfway there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I left fab in November of last year I'm not intending to come back anytime soon
Oh why not? Your missing so much
Actually I'm coming back if you promise to post more photos of that quite incredible bottom x
Deal
Can we shake on it
Sure why not
Ok meet you halfway there"
Where would half way be? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I left fab in November of last year I'm not intending to come back anytime soon
Oh why not? Your missing so much
Actually I'm coming back if you promise to post more photos of that quite incredible bottom x
Deal
Can we shake on it
Sure why not
Ok meet you halfway there
Where would half way be?"
Damm good question
Somewhere in the Irish Sea would be my best guess probably a bit damp for handshakes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I left fab in November of last year I'm not intending to come back anytime soon
Oh why not? Your missing so much
Actually I'm coming back if you promise to post more photos of that quite incredible bottom x
Deal
Can we shake on it
Sure why not
Ok meet you halfway there
Where would half way be?
Damm good question
Somewhere in the Irish Sea would be my best guess probably a bit damp for handshakes "
Might not be the best idea unless you like it wet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I left fab in November of last year I'm not intending to come back anytime soon
Oh why not? Your missing so much
Actually I'm coming back if you promise to post more photos of that quite incredible bottom x
Deal
Can we shake on it
Sure why not
Ok meet you halfway there
Where would half way be?
Damm good question
Somewhere in the Irish Sea would be my best guess probably a bit damp for handshakes
Might not be the best idea unless you like it wet "
Well now you come to mention it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I left fab in November of last year I'm not intending to come back anytime soon
Oh why not? Your missing so much
Actually I'm coming back if you promise to post more photos of that quite incredible bottom x
Deal
Can we shake on it
Sure why not
Ok meet you halfway there
Where would half way be?
Damm good question
Somewhere in the Irish Sea would be my best guess probably a bit damp for handshakes
Might not be the best idea unless you like it wet
Well now you come to mention it "
Some like it wet or so I'm told |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I left fab in November of last year I'm not intending to come back anytime soon
Oh why not? Your missing so much
Actually I'm coming back if you promise to post more photos of that quite incredible bottom x
Deal
Can we shake on it
Sure why not
Ok meet you halfway there
Where would half way be?
Damm good question
Somewhere in the Irish Sea would be my best guess probably a bit damp for handshakes
Might not be the best idea unless you like it wet
Well now you come to mention it
Some like it wet or so I'm told "
Did the person who told you like it wet  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I left fab in November of last year I'm not intending to come back anytime soon
Oh why not? Your missing so much
Actually I'm coming back if you promise to post more photos of that quite incredible bottom x
Deal
Can we shake on it
Sure why not
Ok meet you halfway there
Where would half way be?
Damm good question
Somewhere in the Irish Sea would be my best guess probably a bit damp for handshakes
Might not be the best idea unless you like it wet
Well now you come to mention it
Some like it wet or so I'm told
Did the person who told you like it wet "
He did |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I left fab in November of last year I'm not intending to come back anytime soon
Oh why not? Your missing so much
Actually I'm coming back if you promise to post more photos of that quite incredible bottom x
Deal
Can we shake on it
Sure why not
Ok meet you halfway there
Where would half way be?
Damm good question
Somewhere in the Irish Sea would be my best guess probably a bit damp for handshakes
Might not be the best idea unless you like it wet
Well now you come to mention it
Some like it wet or so I'm told
Did the person who told you like it wet
He did "
Ok I'm jealous you win |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't leave, I hide my profile for a bit.
Same here
Didn't know you could that.
If I want some quiet time as I call it, I just hide my profile. It works perfectly for me. "
Great idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wanted a break until after Christmas to focus on myself but I came back after 5 weeks 
I was tempted to hide my profile but I just deleted it as I know I'd still have logged on otherwise. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I have been on here about 10 years. Hidden my profile when I wanted a break , but can't see me ever leaving . I enjoy the social side, chatting, forums , clubs.
As regards if I find a lovely man, and form a relationship I would leave , nah. I found one on here and we continue with the lifestyle for a bit of extra fun.
I have known a few people leave for good. But most reappear. |
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This is my first time on here & I haven`t thought about leaving yet.
Every day more people join & all over the forum are unlos posts. There may also be profiles on here that belong to deceased members who never shared their password. |
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"This is my first time on here & I haven`t thought about leaving yet.
Every day more people join & all over the forum are unlos posts. There may also be profiles on here that belong to deceased members who never shared their password."
Yes.... thats probably it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is my first time on here & I haven`t thought about leaving yet.
Every day more people join & all over the forum are unlos posts. There may also be profiles on here that belong to deceased members who never shared their password."
Oh there's a thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I vowed to leave last month on my birthday but I appear to still be here. If I do finally leave, it will mean I no longer want sex and therefore, I definitely won't return. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I vowed to leave last month on my birthday but I appear to still be here. If I do finally leave, it will mean I no longer want sex and therefore, I definitely won't return. "
Until you want sex again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the past I used to leave for a few months when I had enough of idiots or time wasters. But now if I want a break I just hide my profile or don't log in for a few days. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"From what i've been able to observe most of the people whom i've seen leaving return at some stage. I suppose the lure is strong to stay away for too long  "
Yah it certainly is |
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"In the past I used to leave for a few months when I had enough of idiots or time wasters. But now if I want a break I just hide my profile or don't log in for a few days."
Surely this has got to be better that deleting you profile over and over again. |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
I had a month break recently and fab didn't even cross my mind once. That's the longest I've been off since I joined and it was kind of reassuring to know that if I did leave I wouldn't really miss it much. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In the past I used to leave for a few months when I had enough of idiots or time wasters. But now if I want a break I just hide my profile or don't log in for a few days.
Surely this has got to be better that deleting you profile over and over again. "
Yah it is really. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"In the past I used to leave for a few months when I had enough of idiots or time wasters. But now if I want a break I just hide my profile or don't log in for a few days.
Surely this has got to be better that deleting you profile over and over again. "
There’s a guy in my local updates has a new profile every couple of weeks. Same name or a variation but using the same numbers, same pics, same person verifies him. Can’t imagine why. I tend to block him otherwise he messages me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Criminals always return to the scene of the crime and same goes to swingers too .. once a swingers always a swingers - it’s hard to get away from naughty habits for too long |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone ever really leave fab or is it somewhere one will always come back too?"
I left for about 5 months but this place is like an addiction, just draws you back in haha |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
We've hidden our profile for a while before & have said we won't renew our site supporter in december.
If we find what we are looking for which tbh isn't swinging & probably is more intune with what many singles want really then we will leave anyway.
We'll see how our current situation develops as it's early days yet.
Hopefully one day someone on here might think "Where did they go?" but we doubt it
S |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I stay because putting your penis as a profile picture on Facebook is "frowned upon" apparently 
Have you ever tried ?"
Touche. I'll report back... probably within thirty seconds |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've hidden our profile for a while before & have said we won't renew our site supporter in december.
If we find what we are looking for which tbh isn't swinging & probably is more intune with what many singles want really then we will leave anyway.
We'll see how our current situation develops as it's early days yet.
Hopefully one day someone on here might think "Where did they go?" but we doubt it
S"
I hope it works out well for you. I don’t think you are alone in having similar aims. Enjoy! |
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It’s a lifestyle. You can leave the site but probably not change the lifestyle choice. You can leave but never actually leave. 
so I had to start again the mind boggles