My profile states that I don't accommodate or travel. When I say I don't travel I mean out of my local area. So I meet guys within my local town that can accommodate me. I'm my case it doesn't mean I meet outdoors. But everyone's different.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That the meet can accommodate or hotels I got it on my profile for now! as I have a grown up son that’s back & fore all hours hopefully it will change tho (Fingers crossed) I love him really

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Swinger club?"

Of course.

Guess I'm having an off day!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can’t accom nor travel..so look for locals only, preferrably guys who can accom and are happy to come pick me up..most are fine. Hotels, clubs...where there’s a will there’s a way

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That the meet can accommodate or hotels I got it on my profile for now! as I have a grown up son that’s back & fore all hours hopefully it will change tho (Fingers crossed) I love him really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me, it means I’m not meeting.

It tends to mean hotel meets though. Or clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me it means very local only

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

no it means you go to them and book a room

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By *ilth500Man over a year ago

Merseyside

"Probably means only meets local people.

That's my interpretation "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me it means very local only"
if i put travel people expect me to travel far i can't

I dont accom as i have kids living here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for the clarification everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for the clarification everyone."
no worries

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Glad to be of service.

The invoice is in the post. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me it means very local only"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When my profile is showing I have that backed up by my profile text ... if you can't travel neither can I, if you cant accommodate neither can I and I only accommodate friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

People on here are so nice. All the advice is well noted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does this mean outdoor fun,dogging or hotels?"

This is done by many women for a specific reason.

If you un-tick the boxes you will not appear on many peoples searches and you can cut down on the number of messages.

For example the married men who are on a small budget always look for people who can accommodate so un tick this and bingo you half the hows u messages.

I thought everyone realised this maybe I am crediting people with more intelligence than I should.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Glad to be of service.

The invoice is in the post. Lol"

I'm skint so please don't send the baliffs round lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Does this mean outdoor fun,dogging or hotels?

This is done by many women for a specific reason.

If you un-tick the boxes you will not appear on many peoples searches and you can cut down on the number of messages.

For example the married men who are on a small budget always look for people who can accommodate so un tick this and bingo you half the hows u messages.

I thought everyone realised this maybe I am crediting people with more intelligence than I should.

I like to think I'm reasonably intelligent but as the whole lifestyle is new to me I thought the best option was to ask.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I interpret it as meaning that they don't meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does this mean outdoor fun,dogging or hotels?

This is done by many women for a specific reason.

If you un-tick the boxes you will not appear on many peoples searches and you can cut down on the number of messages.

For example the married men who are on a small budget always look for people who can accommodate so un tick this and bingo you half the hows u messages.

I thought everyone realised this maybe I am crediting people with more intelligence than I should.

"
you answered your own question

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does this mean outdoor fun,dogging or hotels?

This is done by many women for a specific reason.

If you un-tick the boxes you will not appear on many peoples searches and you can cut down on the number of messages.

For example the married men who are on a small budget always look for people who can accommodate so un tick this and bingo you half the hows u messages.

I thought everyone realised this maybe I am crediting people with more intelligence than I should.

I like to think I'm reasonably intelligent but as the whole lifestyle is new to me I thought the best option was to ask."

Think about it when you do and look at how the accom and travel are just tick boxes you will think Ahhhhh. People on here complain about too many messages so it reduces them.

Now a smart man would take this into account and possibly mail these people as they will be getting far less messages and more likley to have messages read.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Does this mean outdoor fun,dogging or hotels?

This is done by many women for a specific reason.

If you un-tick the boxes you will not appear on many peoples searches and you can cut down on the number of messages.

For example the married men who are on a small budget always look for people who can accommodate so un tick this and bingo you half the hows u messages.

I thought everyone realised this maybe I am crediting people with more intelligence than I should.

I like to think I'm reasonably intelligent but as the whole lifestyle is new to me I thought the best option was to ask.

Think about it when you do and look at how the accom and travel are just tick boxes you will think Ahhhhh. People on here complain about too many messages so it reduces them.

Now a smart man would take this into account and possibly mail these people as they will be getting far less messages and more likley to have messages read. "

Thank you for the advice even though I think you are trying to insult my intelligence a little by insinuating I'm not a smart man. I suffer from self esteem and confidence issues and I'm quite inexperienced. Just recently started to really get out there and live life and claw some confidence back. If I'm not sure about something I ask doesn't mean I am not intelligent.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I don't ever want myself or the kids to feel unsafe in our home because I trusted someone to be a normal human being and they turned into a weirdo stalker, etc. So nobody comes in my house unless I know them very well, and I wouldn't let someone pick me up outside my house either. Also my dogs are dicks and not trusted around strangers.

As far as travel goes, I have bugger all spare time, and even less money, so driving for ages and spending loads on petrol just really does not appeal at all. Unless it was for someone very very special.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does this mean outdoor fun,dogging or hotels?

This is done by many women for a specific reason.

If you un-tick the boxes you will not appear on many peoples searches and you can cut down on the number of messages.

For example the married men who are on a small budget always look for people who can accommodate so un tick this and bingo you half the hows u messages.

I thought everyone realised this maybe I am crediting people with more intelligence than I should.

I like to think I'm reasonably intelligent but as the whole lifestyle is new to me I thought the best option was to ask.

Think about it when you do and look at how the accom and travel are just tick boxes you will think Ahhhhh. People on here complain about too many messages so it reduces them.

Now a smart man would take this into account and possibly mail these people as they will be getting far less messages and more likley to have messages read.

Extremely touchy aren't you. The reality is its simple to work out many guys have already done that on here.

Now if you read I said "maybe I am crediting people with more intelligence than I should" not that you weren't intelligent so you need to actually read things.

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