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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Does anyone ever put honest verifications if things were not great? "Met and they were stinking.... worst blow job ever..."?"
No, that's another reason why verifications are kind of pointless. You have to read between the lines, if the verification states 'was on time, nice shoes' then you know it wasn't great... |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes, sometimes people do. I know a lot of people shy away from being too honest - veris are as much of a reflection of the person who leaves them as they are the recipient. Probably more so actually. Ones that are negative etc won't reflect well on the person who leaves them. |
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I think you need to read between the lines to see anything negative, although that can be hit and miss. I was told by a guy that "gives great oral" means "has a small penis", for example. I'm not sure that's true, so trying to read things in is risky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once put in a verification ' nice blow job's. What I didn't want to say which may of hurt her feelings was " so much teeth during her blow job that she turned my foreskin into a twoskin" |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
Once after a really awful first meet i did verify saying "yes i can verify this man is an absolute wanker with the social skills of a sewer rat and lives in a house that Stig of the Dump wouldnt even stay in" he was rather proud of it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Once after a really awful first meet i did verify saying "yes i can verify this man is an absolute wanker with the social skills of a sewer rat and lives in a house that Stig of the Dump wouldnt even stay in" he was rather proud of it "
Lol did he display it? |
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Whilst they're only optionally displayed, they are only really useful to develop your confidence that they do exist as a real human and meet.
Obviously we all read between the lines, so will interpret to some extent what's being said. If the raters appear OK, it adds some weight too.
As we're all different, only our own experience with them will truly count.
It's also feasible that someone may write coded messages to jog their own memories, should those people contact them again. 'Hands off, he's all mine', might mean anything, including Never, ever again'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always wanted someone to leave me a jokey bad verification, I've never managed to convince any of them to do it though! "
I have jokey bad verifications.
Well I think they're jokey.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone asks for one then it is polite to be respectful but would you meet someone with over 50 verifications?"
Yes I would because many people get verifications that are simply because they chatted at a club or attend social gatherings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would just leave none if things were bad. I think it’s nice to leave them and I dislike very graphic ones, personally or that mention names. We don’t show all of ours because some have details we don’t want out but if someone was worried about the hidden ones I’d show them privately. - Mrs |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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Some of the people with over 50 veris are regular club goers. Plus a lot of people will ask you not to verify them to keep their number down. If they have a lot of verifications they are more than likely genuine.
I am quite reluctant to give verifications these days unless it was a really good meet, in which case I would ask whether they want one or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone asks for one then it is polite to be respectful but would you meet someone with over 50 verifications?"
Well I have 33 but only fucked 2 of those.... One is my regular partner and I only show his. So 50 veris can mean nothing. A lot of people go to socials such as the MLS which is in a vanilla location.
Further to the OP yes I've left a negative veri once- a very long one, he didn't show it but it made me feel a hell of a lot better writing it |
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"If someone asks for one then it is polite to be respectful but would you meet someone with over 50 verifications?"
Yes. Does shaming people for being perceived to be having a lot of sex belong on a swinging site?
(I have over 100) |
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"If someone asks for one then it is polite to be respectful but would you meet someone with over 50 verifications?
Yes. Does shaming people for being perceived to be having a lot of sex belong on a swinging site?
(I have over 100)"
Perish the thought that verifications could come from social meets where clothes remain on and the biggest thing you share is a drink and conversation
What's the world coming to??   |
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"If someone asks for one then it is polite to be respectful but would you meet someone with over 50 verifications?
Yes. Does shaming people for being perceived to be having a lot of sex belong on a swinging site?
(I have over 100)
Perish the thought that verifications could come from social meets where clothes remain on and the biggest thing you share is a drink and conversation
What's the world coming to?? "
Or perish the thought that people on a site geared towards having sex... Do. |
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"If someone asks for one then it is polite to be respectful but would you meet someone with over 50 verifications?
Yes. Does shaming people for being perceived to be having a lot of sex belong on a swinging site?
(I have over 100)
Perish the thought that verifications could come from social meets where clothes remain on and the biggest thing you share is a drink and conversation
What's the world coming to??
Or perish the thought that people on a site geared towards having sex... Do. "
That too... it's just the assumption that some people are prone to that 50 veris mean you've snagged 50 people in your time here |
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