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Does anyone just chat anymore?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I chat all the time haha but I don’t like chatting about what I’m wearing or constant sex chat, a balanced pile of chat  - Mrs
PS. I’m wearing joggers and a hoody. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love nattering and being social, as a tv free household we talk pretty much about anything and everything ... am finding it a lost art tbh
I like the bib and brace pic Amy xx"
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I love having a good chat with someone - I always get this daft smile on my face when a few message me. If I'm not really interested though the conversation draaaags and my replies are banal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"TV free household: can't be many of them around...
More than you think tbh
Thought everyone had a TV....??"
Omg no!!!! Some of us don't have time for a tv ... though am having a sofa/film day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a natter, the usual day to day stuff like hows your day going, blah blah blah. I enjoy these conversations, can spend hours talking about nothing in particular with the right person |
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"TV free household: can't be many of them around...
More than you think tbh
Thought everyone had a TV....??
Omg no!!!! Some of us don't have time for a tv ... though am having a sofa/film day "
I have one but do not watch it so much.... |
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"TV free household: can't be many of them around...
More than you think tbh
Thought everyone had a TV....??
Omg no!!!! Some of us don't have time for a tv ... though am having a sofa/film day
I have one but do not watch it so much...."
So not a TV free household? |
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"TV free household: can't be many of them around...
More than you think tbh
Thought everyone had a TV....??
Omg no!!!! Some of us don't have time for a tv ... though am having a sofa/film day
I have one but do not watch it so much....
So not a TV free household?"
Use radio much more..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love a natter, the usual day to day stuff like hows your day going, blah blah blah. I enjoy these conversations, can spend hours talking about nothing in particular with the right person "
I love doing that |
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We like to chat but 99.9999recurring % of the people who contact us to "just chat" really want more so we're very wary of just chatting.
There is one exception and we have really nice conversations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many have declined the offer of a good decent chat with me so I would say. It's a dying practice 1-2-1 chatting and talking on the phone.
Someone will prove me wrong one day |
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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago
Stockport |
"in person I can chat for hours on fab I struggle as it just doesn't 'flow'for me"
Same.
Person, natter away, message system, just cant really put the emotion behind it can you?
And my conversations can be very random  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"in person I can chat for hours on fab I struggle as it just doesn't 'flow'for me
Same.
Person, natter away, message system, just cant really put the emotion behind it can you?
And my conversations can be very random "
Very random |
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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago
Stockport |
"in person I can chat for hours on fab I struggle as it just doesn't 'flow'for me
Same.
Person, natter away, message system, just cant really put the emotion behind it can you?
And my conversations can be very random
Very random "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"in person I can chat for hours on fab I struggle as it just doesn't 'flow'for me
Same.
Person, natter away, message system, just cant really put the emotion behind it can you?
And my conversations can be very random
Very random
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Let me think of the last one.....
Oh yeah.... custard  |
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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago
Stockport |
"in person I can chat for hours on fab I struggle as it just doesn't 'flow'for me
Same.
Person, natter away, message system, just cant really put the emotion behind it can you?
And my conversations can be very random
Very random
Let me think of the last one.....
Oh yeah.... custard "
Should hear the safety brief I have given this group haha
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"in person I can chat for hours on fab I struggle as it just doesn't 'flow'for me
Same.
Person, natter away, message system, just cant really put the emotion behind it can you?
And my conversations can be very random
Very random
Let me think of the last one.....
Oh yeah.... custard
Should hear the safety brief I have given this group haha
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What group ? |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
The problem I have with chatting on fab is that most people who contact me to 'chat' send little more than one word messages. If someone wants to chat to me, they should be the ones putting the effort or emotional labour in. When you get many messages a day you're not going to want to put effort in when it's like getting blood out of a stone. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"The problem I have with chatting on fab is that most people who contact me to 'chat' send little more than one word messages. If someone wants to chat to me, they should be the ones putting the effort or emotional labour in. When you get many messages a day you're not going to want to put effort in when it's like getting blood out of a stone. "
It should be a two way street. If I feel like I'm doing all the work I lose interest fast. Or if they quickly turn the chat to wanting to meet. |
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By *entleRMan
over a year ago
Telford |
Always love a good chat, always reply to messages and try and engage with people even if a meet is not on the cards.
I understand some of the gems and couples get hundreds if replies though so that's not always possible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like scanning the forums but what I would like to find is someone to chat with. Anyone interested?"
Ill chat but there has to be tea and cake involved. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"The problem I have with chatting on fab is that most people who contact me to 'chat' send little more than one word messages. If someone wants to chat to me, they should be the ones putting the effort or emotional labour in. When you get many messages a day you're not going to want to put effort in when it's like getting blood out of a stone.
It should be a two way street. If I feel like I'm doing all the work I lose interest fast. Or if they quickly turn the chat to wanting to meet. "
Oh indeed. But two messages of one word answers when I've sent a decent thought out reply and I'm done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem I have with chatting on fab is that most people who contact me to 'chat' send little more than one word messages. If someone wants to chat to me, they should be the ones putting the effort or emotional labour in. When you get many messages a day you're not going to want to put effort in when it's like getting blood out of a stone.
It should be a two way street. If I feel like I'm doing all the work I lose interest fast. Or if they quickly turn the chat to wanting to meet. "
If I feel like I'm doing all the work I think any short answers are just to be polite, and I'm actually now just pestering, so I leave them alone for a while. Fab life, eh? |
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