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"Fatty here...i do ok...but you are right there are a few twats who feel the need to run someone down because of size" you look stunning in your photo’s duck so ignore the idiots x | |||
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"How anyone thinks sexiness is about size I'll never know. I personally don't go for skinny or pale and uninteresting. My girls have curves and my gay lover is a beautiful chunk of a guy. But each to their own. No need for insults, ever." Funny how some people thunk sexiness us about size and write off skinny pale women eh? | |||
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"How anyone thinks sexiness is about size I'll never know. I personally don't go for skinny or pale and uninteresting. My girls have curves and my gay lover is a beautiful chunk of a guy. But each to their own. No need for insults, ever. Funny how some people thunk sexiness us about size and write off skinny pale women eh?" Think you've spotted hypocrisy eh? Nothing said about women specifically, so wind yer neck in. | |||
"You can be the ripest peach in the world but there will always be someone who doesn't like peaches That applies regardless of size, shape , hair or eye colour,where we live , what we do , what we drive and genuinely all the things that make a person who they are. I am a bigger lady but I am so much more than my dress size and I absolutely refuse to be defined by it. I also think there is far too much berating and insulting language used towards slimmer women too. Beauty and sex appeal ,attraction and style are all individual. I hate that we as a species constantly want to put people in to little boxes "  | |||
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"Isn't it about preference? Or is that just a whole other can of worms? "Preferences are great and everyone has them. The issue comes when you try to impose those preferences on others or when you slate those who aren't your preference | |||
"Big girl here I actually got trolled yesterday, called a ugly fat lump, by a woman, can you believe. It's really not a nice feeling when you are just quietly minding your own business on here " that sounds like a jealous woman | |||
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"Big girl here I actually got trolled yesterday, called a ugly fat lump, by a woman, can you believe. It's really not a nice feeling when you are just quietly minding your own business on here that sounds like a jealous woman" or a man pretending to be a woman | |||
"Isn't it about preference? Or is that just a whole other can of worms?
Preferences are great and everyone has them. The issue comes when you try to impose those preferences on others or when you slate those who aren't your preference"I wholeheartedly agree Some people like large, some slim, some dark, some pale To criticise anyone for any part of their anatomy / looks it's hateful and says more about the criticised, rather than the person being criticised | |||
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"My friend on here is a size 8 she gets awful comments directed at her usually at the moment she declines an offer. It really doesn’t matter what size you are on Fab as some rejected/jealous butthurt arse hat is going to send shit your way at some point. People just need to be nice. "i get some very nasty message im a size 6/8 but i no longer give a toss im me thats it ...its normally after i say no thanks anyway but i really do believe that every woman is beautiful and i wont hear anyone slag a woman off because of size or looks on here or in normal life or a guy for that matter | |||
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"You can be the ripest peach in the world but there will always be someone who doesn't like peaches That applies regardless of size, shape , hair or eye colour,where we live , what we do , what we drive and genuinely all the things that make a person who they are. I am a bigger lady but I am so much more than my dress size and I absolutely refuse to be defined by it. I also think there is far too much berating and insulting language used towards slimmer women too. Beauty and sex appeal ,attraction and style are all individual. I hate that we as a species constantly want to put people in to little boxes " Well put! | |||
"I actually find it so funny when I politely decline someone’s offer and they start insulting me for my size... I was fat when you wanted some! "  nice bum | |||
"Isn't it about preference? Or is that just a whole other can of worms? "Yeah preference but if somebody isnt your preference then theres no need to abuse them and make them feel like shit is there | |||
"Isn't it about preference? Or is that just a whole other can of worms?
Yeah preference but if somebody isnt your preference then theres no need to abuse them and make them feel like shit is there"I never said it was ok to abuse them  | |||
"Big girl here I actually got trolled yesterday, called a ugly fat lump, by a woman, can you believe. It's really not a nice feeling when you are just quietly minding your own business on here " You are from any of those things...probably bitter and jealous your sex appeal due to your amazing curves | |||
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"women are women each and every single one of us are beautiful and unique " | |||
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"I have had a couple of nasty messages about my pics. Told i am fuckin fat and ugly and wont get anywhere on here so just do everyone a favour and just delete my account x" All you can do with these people is report, block, move on | |||
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"I used to be a size 20 on here and actually found that I got more attention and I probably had more confidence! I’ve found that men on here who insult you are actually the ones who want to fuck you but you’ve let them down gently x" The mask of anonymity turns people to real ass holes unfortunately | |||
"You can be the ripest peach in the world but there will always be someone who doesn't like peaches That applies regardless of size, shape , hair or eye colour,where we live , what we do , what we drive and genuinely all the things that make a person who they are. I am a bigger lady but I am so much more than my dress size and I absolutely refuse to be defined by it. I also think there is far too much berating and insulting language used towards slimmer women too. Beauty and sex appeal ,attraction and style are all individual. I hate that we as a species constantly want to put people in to little boxes " Love this
T xx | |||
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"Oh. This pale stick thin skinny model feels really sad now. Because not just one person put her down because of her size, a whole bunch of you did. Fucking hypocrites. " Comments I've seen seem to promote the beauty of women of all shapes and sizes, rather than putting down anyone? | |||
"Oh. This pale stick thin skinny model feels really sad now. Because not just one person put her down because of her size, a whole bunch of you did. Fucking hypocrites. " Where? | |||
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"Big girl here I actually got trolled yesterday, called a ugly fat lump, by a woman, can you believe. It's really not a nice feeling when you are just quietly minding your own business on here You are from any of those things...probably bitter and jealous your sex appeal due to your amazing curves" Thank you  | |||
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"Big girl here I actually got trolled yesterday, called a ugly fat lump, by a woman, can you believe. It's really not a nice feeling when you are just quietly minding your own business on here " No no no xx | |||
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"I used to be a size 20 on here and actually found that I got more attention and I probably had more confidence! I’ve found that men on here who insult you are actually the ones who want to fuck you but you’ve let them down gently x The mask of anonymity turns people to real ass holes unfortunately" | |||
"So come on lets see all these sexy bigger women! Messaged a women yesterday after seeing her rather sad status update.....long story short was some arsehole had taken the time to message her telling her she was discusting, didnt belong on here, didnt deserve to get any meets all because shes not some stick thin model How fucking awful is that So come on ladies be proud of every lump bump and curve you have "Whilst I agree larger ladies can be just as beautiful as there slimmer counterparts - I think referring to ‘stick thin’ models is just as derogatory to slim ladies! Everyone has their preferences and that’s totally fine - but please let’s not compliment one body type by insulting another! Big hugs Peachy | |||
"So come on lets see all these sexy bigger women! Messaged a women yesterday after seeing her rather sad status update.....long story short was some arsehole had taken the time to message her telling her she was discusting, didnt belong on here, didnt deserve to get any meets all because shes not some stick thin model How fucking awful is that So come on ladies be proud of every lump bump and curve you have
Whilst I agree larger ladies can be just as beautiful as there slimmer counterparts - I think referring to ‘stick thin’ models is just as derogatory to slim ladies!
Everyone has their preferences and that’s totally fine - but please let’s not compliment one body type by insulting another!
Big hugs
Peachy "*their slimmer counterparts | |||
"I have had a couple of nasty messages about my pics. Told i am fuckin fat and ugly and wont get anywhere on here so just do everyone a favour and just delete my account x" I've looked at your pics before and they make me smile. x | |||
"Folk on here will make bitchy comments about anything given half a chance if they think it will upset you and empower them. Why? Cos they’re sad fucks with no emotional depth or feeling. Take no notice, carry on as you are and more importantly, have fun " | |||
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"I've had shitty messages but it's genuinely just water off a fat duck's back. If someone has the time or inclination to message just to point out they're not attracted to me, they're clearly not having as good a time as I am. Poor souls." Whats not to like about you? From what i see a truly stunning figure | |||
"How anyone thinks sexiness is about size I'll never know. I personally don't go for skinny or pale and uninteresting. My girls have curves and my gay lover is a beautiful chunk of a guy. But each to their own. No need for insults, ever. Funny how some people thunk sexiness us about size and write off skinny pale women eh? Think you've spotted hypocrisy eh? Nothing said about women specifically, so wind yer neck in." Well take gender out of it so... You express bewliderment at how anyone can equate sexiness to someones size and then say you dont go for skinny people? | |||
the issue I find being on here and being bigger is that a few men think because they are the typical underwear model looking man that I should be grateful they are even messaging me!  I also hate when I'm treated like an experiment because someone has never been with a bigger woman before.. | |||
"Hello the issue I find being on here and being bigger is that a few men think because they are the typical underwear model looking man that I should be grateful they are even messaging me! I also hate when I'm treated like an experiment because someone has never been with a bigger woman before.. "Mmmm Bunny Kisses everywhere cutie, you have amazing curves and a lovely tongue too! Sadly I am 10 years out of your age range.... Come and say hi sometime, you'll have to message me first though. Kisses everywhere Bunny | |||
"Whilst I agree larger ladies can be just as beautiful as there slimmer counterparts - I think referring to ‘stick thin’ models is just as derogatory to slim ladies! "
People insult you regardless of your size - my friends who go from a size 6 to a 28 have all received crap about their body size and shape. I think the best thing you can do (as much as possible) is to ignore the negative and focus on loving yourself. I'm fat and have never been short of attention on or off of fab. Confidence and being happy with who you are is the attractive thing. | |||
"Whilst I agree larger ladies can be just as beautiful as there slimmer counterparts - I think referring to ‘stick thin’ models is just as derogatory to slim ladies!
People insult you regardless of your size - my friends who go from a size 6 to a 28 have all received crap about their body size and shape. I think the best thing you can do (as much as possible) is to ignore the negative and focus on loving yourself. I'm fat and have never been short of attention on or off of fab. Confidence and being happy with who you are is the attractive thing."Yup. This. | |||
