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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

Do you actually have a type.. is anything an absolute dealbreaker for you?!?

If I line up my ex’s in my head it looks like the usual suspects.. not a thing in common!!

I’ve no idea what I like until I see it in the flesh..

So how do you select who to approach online?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m the same, my ex’s don’t look the same, it’s generally something about the person I’m attracted to, makes it difficult

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t have a type. I tend to go on their humour and whether they get mine. If the conversation flows easy or if it’s like pulling teeth, that sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tall, other than that... I don’t have a type

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Usually I go for dark hair, athletic, tall-ish, I do have a thing for blue or green eyes too

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

No set type. It’s there personality that catches me

Everyone from the past looks so different

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The most I can narrow it down to is dark or red hair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you’re talking physically then yes I like tall, broad shouldered men with nice eyes. A beard would be a deal breaker for me. I really do think I have a beard phobia!

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By *ensualguy70TV/TS over a year ago

paisley

same here not one of my exes look the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought I had a type , I’ve always gone for shaven headed and tattoos but since being on fab I’ve realised that I don’t have a type at all , I’m just attracted to the person and someone who has a naughty sparkle in their eyes !

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

Actually likes me, other then that I'm easy.

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

What are your dealbreakers?!?

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By *illy 00001Man over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Slim build and long hair. After that, it's all about who they are and the 'click'

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Tall

Dark

Handsome

Hairy chest

Nice eyes

Good fun

A great laugh

Nice feet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What are your dealbreakers?!? "

A bad personality.

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Tall

Dark

Handsome

Hairy chest

Nice eyes

Good fun

A great laugh

Nice feet"

Do you inspect the feet first?!?

feet make me cringe..

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"What are your dealbreakers?!?

A bad personality."

Is that easy to spot online though?

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"What are your dealbreakers?!? "
Arrogance

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Physically I don't have one type that I always go for, personality wise I like a similar sense of humour to me. If they're easy to get on with that's half the battle.

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I thought I had a type , I’ve always gone for shaven headed and tattoos but since being on fab I’ve realised that I don’t have a type at all , I’m just attracted to the person and someone who has a naughty sparkle in their eyes !"

That’s my type on paper... yet I’ve never actually been attracted to someone like that in the flesh...

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By *illy 00001Man over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"What are your dealbreakers?!? "

Bad personal hygiene

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"What are your dealbreakers?!? "

Arrogance, no sense of humour, alot of body hair, genital afro

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I know what attracts me and I know what I don’t like. It’s a bit like window shopping... it depends what I’m looking for at time but I have my ‘go to list’ of must have’s

I’d say I’m always at the Waitrose end of what goes in my basket

Tesco? Only in the fridge

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"same here not one of my exes look the same "

How do you know what to look for online?

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"What are your dealbreakers?!?

Bad personal hygiene "

Definitely this too. No knob cheese please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What are your dealbreakers?!?

A bad personality.

Is that easy to spot online though? "

Sometimes it can be. The way someone words their messages, not once or twice but consistently. Admittedly it is a lot easier face to face as text messaging is difficult to convey tone in.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Tall

Dark

Handsome

Hairy chest

Nice eyes

Good fun

A great laugh

Nice feet

Do you inspect the feet first?!?

feet make me cringe.. "
lol no I don't but I do like nice feet x

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

I have a thing for nerdy looks.

But I also adore beard and bald guys.

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"If you’re talking physically then yes I like tall, broad shouldered men with nice eyes. A beard would be a deal breaker for me. I really do think I have a beard phobia!"

I said that.. then married a shorty..

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By *ocketman100Man over a year ago

blackpool

Silent but violent in bed for bad naughty sub girl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep I have a type for fab purposes. It's on my profile and I don't bend. It's fab. Not the love of my life.

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"No set type. It’s there personality that catches me

Everyone from the past looks so different "

Do you find it easy to click online with no set type?

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Actually, scratch that.

I tend to go for men that are fragile in some way.

First fella was a secret alcoholic.

Second fella suffers with depression and attempted suicide twice (not whilst with me).

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Silent but violent in bed for bad naughty sub girl

No thanks

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Usually I go for dark hair, athletic, tall-ish, I do have a thing for blue or green eyes too

My eyes are a huge thing for me!

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"What are your dealbreakers?!?

Bad personal hygiene

Definitely this too. No knob cheese please

Eeeeew

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"What are your dealbreakers?!?

Bad personal hygiene

Definitely this too. No knob cheese please

Eeeeew"

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

"Silent but violent in bed for bad naughty sub girl

Silent but violent... sounds like a fart.

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By *eddyBearBazMan over a year ago

St Helens

Wouldnt say i have a type but do have a weakness for curves

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Actually, scratch that.

I tend to go for men that are fragile in some way.

First fella was a secret alcoholic.

Second fella suffers with depression and attempted suicide twice (not whilst with me).

Yeah had a few along these lines.. weird when I prefer dominant men..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t have a type anymore, it’s a case of does something click now x

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I know what attracts me and I know what I don’t like. It’s a bit like window shopping... it depends what I’m looking for at time but I have my ‘go to list’ of must have’s

I’d say I’m always at the Waitrose end of what goes in my basket

Tesco? Only in the fridge

Ha ha I could have guessed this was you! Love it.. wish I was as decisive!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A beard is a dealbreaker for me, hard to tell what they are like personality wise online, I generally only reply to messages where they say a bit about themselves and profiles are well written

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"A beard is a dealbreaker for me, hard to tell what they are like personality wise online, I generally only reply to messages where they say a bit about themselves and profiles are well written "

Ooh love a good beard!! I think my only absolute dealbreaker is married...

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Yep I have a type for fab purposes. It's on my profile and I don't bend. It's fab. Not the love of my life. "

love it.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"No set type. It’s there personality that catches me

Everyone from the past looks so different

Do you find it easy to click online with no set type? "

Yes as I talk to people first, if the conversation doesn’t flow easily then I imagine it won’t I’m meeting in person.

I can’t do things like T*nder etc just deciding on a face pic, find it so shallow

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Nice teeth

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't have a type per se. I have things which draw me in, and if I get a lot of them together I'm putty in his/ her hands.

Online it's very hard to pick.

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"No set type. It’s there personality that catches me

Everyone from the past looks so different

Do you find it easy to click online with no set type?

Yes as I talk to people first, if the conversation doesn’t flow easily then I imagine it won’t I’m meeting in person.

I can’t do things like T*nder etc just deciding on a face pic, find it so shallow "

Yeah I don’t get that! I don’t fancy photos.. I appreciate a nice one but can’t ‘fancy’ anything if it’s not in the flesh.. it’s a right pain!

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I don't have a type per se. I have things which draw me in, and if I get a lot of them together I'm putty in his/ her hands.

Online it's very hard to pick. "

No dealbreakers?

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Tall, other than that... I don’t have a type

Tall is good.. though I’ve dated more shortys...

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I don't have a type per se. I have things which draw me in, and if I get a lot of them together I'm putty in his/ her hands.

Online it's very hard to pick.

No dealbreakers? "

Extremely tall, smoking, bad hygiene (not linking smoking to bad hygiene).

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I don't really have a type either to be honest. Much the same as you OP, if you lined up all of my partners there really wouldn't be anything to unify them!

I do have a weakness for nice eyes and red hair but those aren't deal breakers. I generally find that certain turns of phrase or a type of personality will attract me as much as looks.

Guys on the other hand, I have a very certain type!

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

I didn't think I did but a friend pointed out I do. I go for guys with beards and/or glasses. Not always but quite frequently x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I need to get on with them. Relaxed conversation, laughs ... the rest follows.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"No set type. It’s there personality that catches me

Everyone from the past looks so different

Do you find it easy to click online with no set type?

Yes as I talk to people first, if the conversation doesn’t flow easily then I imagine it won’t I’m meeting in person.

I can’t do things like T*nder etc just deciding on a face pic, find it so shallow

Yeah I don’t get that! I don’t fancy photos.. I appreciate a nice one but can’t ‘fancy’ anything if it’s not in the flesh.. it’s a right pain! "

Precisely, it’s just a photo and we all know everyone takes their best angles haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I notice eyes, personality, and just generally decide at random. I do find commonalities, but what catches my eye is often varied

- Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Beautiful curvy redheads!

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By *ewspinMan over a year ago

Aberdeen

Politeness is a good start and not just one word answers

Height,build doesn’t phase me,if there hygiene is good and they like a good laugh it’s a winner

I do like nice hands/nails

I know I know I’m a freak lol

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I don't really have a type either to be honest. Much the same as you OP, if you lined up all of my partners there really wouldn't be anything to unify them!

I do have a weakness for nice eyes and red hair but those aren't deal breakers. I generally find that certain turns of phrase or a type of personality will attract me as much as looks.

Guys on the other hand, I have a very certain type! "

It’s weird you have a type in one and not the other.. I find it all fascinating!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No pulse is a deal breaker.

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I didn't think I did but a friend pointed out I do. I go for guys with beards and/or glasses. Not always but quite frequently x"

Any dealbreakers?

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I notice eyes, personality, and just generally decide at random. I do find commonalities, but what catches my eye is often varied

- Mrs "

Think that’s the problem.. catching eyes is my thing! It’s hard to do online..

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Politeness is a good start and not just one word answers

Height,build doesn’t phase me,if there hygiene is good and they like a good laugh it’s a winner

I do like nice hands/nails

I know I know I’m a freak lol "

Not at all! I’ve weird things I like and dislike.. but I’ve no idea what the trigger is to attraction!

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

i got told last time round my type seems to be fat old munters off a guy who couldn't get a meet in 2 yrs of being on fab i told him actually the people i meet have a personality and like to have a laugh unlike him who needed to remove the stick from his arse but then again best leave it in as it was the only fuck he was getting this century

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can’t believe so many people mention bad hygiene! Surely that’s a given. Have people met stinky people?

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"I didn't think I did but a friend pointed out I do. I go for guys with beards and/or glasses. Not always but quite frequently x

Any dealbreakers? "

Crudeness in messaging me. Instant turn off. No I don't want to be destroyed thank you. I quite like my lady bits as they are x

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Beautiful curvy redheads!"

Nice! Do love a red headed male actually..

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"No set type. It’s there personality that catches me

Everyone from the past looks so different

Do you find it easy to click online with no set type?

Yes as I talk to people first, if the conversation doesn’t flow easily then I imagine it won’t I’m meeting in person.

I can’t do things like T*nder etc just deciding on a face pic, find it so shallow

Yeah I don’t get that! I don’t fancy photos.. I appreciate a nice one but can’t ‘fancy’ anything if it’s not in the flesh.. it’s a right pain!

Precisely, it’s just a photo and we all know everyone takes their best angles haha "

Hell yes!! God I used to have a disclaimer on mine stating I don’t photograph my belly!!

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I didn't think I did but a friend pointed out I do. I go for guys with beards and/or glasses. Not always but quite frequently x

Any dealbreakers?

Crudeness in messaging me. Instant turn off. No I don't want to be destroyed thank you. I quite like my lady bits as they are x"

Yup.. straight delete!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In the age group I seek I'm lucky if they have hair. I hope for that and their own teeth. Personal hygiene, must smell nice and if they are a dead ringer for Jason Statham then life is good.

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

personally i prefer someone who has a personality and is easy on the eye and helps if they find me attractive lol

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"i got told last time round my type seems to be fat old munters off a guy who couldn't get a meet in 2 yrs of being on fab i told him actually the people i meet have a personality and like to have a laugh unlike him who needed to remove the stick from his arse but then again best leave it in as it was the only fuck he was getting this century"

Surely only you get to decide your type.. haters gonna hate and all that..

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"In the age group I seek I'm lucky if they have hair. I hope for that and their own teeth. Personal hygiene, must smell nice and if they are a dead ringer for Jason Statham then life is good.

Ooooshhhh now you’re talking!!

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By *irlintheRedRed dressWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow

Black,tall,facial hair. Gym body.

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

Ermmmmm

Talk, dark, dominant........

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Can’t believe so many people mention bad hygiene! Surely that’s a given. Have people met stinky people?

Unfortunately...

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

it was one of those forum posts wqhy cant i get a meet i gave him a few pointers along with others but he singled me out for abuse but low and behold 24hrs later he was unlos

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"I didn't think I did but a friend pointed out I do. I go for guys with beards and/or glasses. Not always but quite frequently x

Any dealbreakers?

Crudeness in messaging me. Instant turn off. No I don't want to be destroyed thank you. I quite like my lady bits as they are x

Yup.. straight delete!! "

Or lying to me. Be upfront and let me make my own choice. Lie to me and I'm done x

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Ermmmmm

Talk, dark, dominant........

Mmmmm yum

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I didn't think I did but a friend pointed out I do. I go for guys with beards and/or glasses. Not always but quite frequently x

Any dealbreakers?

Crudeness in messaging me. Instant turn off. No I don't want to be destroyed thank you. I quite like my lady bits as they are x

Yup.. straight delete!!

Or lying to me. Be upfront and let me make my own choice. Lie to me and I'm done x"

Affirmative.. delete and block!!

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By *irlintheRedRed dressWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow

"Ermmmmm

Talk, dark, dominant........

We have similiar tastes gorgeous lady...I wonder if we met some of same tall,dark men??

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

anyone like a shortish duracell bunny with good oral skills lol

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"No set type. It’s there personality that catches me

Everyone from the past looks so different

Do you find it easy to click online with no set type?

Yes as I talk to people first, if the conversation doesn’t flow easily then I imagine it won’t I’m meeting in person.

I can’t do things like T*nder etc just deciding on a face pic, find it so shallow

Yeah I don’t get that! I don’t fancy photos.. I appreciate a nice one but can’t ‘fancy’ anything if it’s not in the flesh.. it’s a right pain!

Precisely, it’s just a photo and we all know everyone takes their best angles haha

Hell yes!! God I used to have a disclaimer on mine stating I don’t photograph my belly!!

I’m honest if someone says cracking photos my first words are...

Good lightening and angles work wonders, lots of squidginess here and the baby belly smile (shelf is hidden)

Always got to be honest

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Now I’ve said it here I don’t need to say it again ??

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"No set type. It’s there personality that catches me

Everyone from the past looks so different

Do you find it easy to click online with no set type?

Yes as I talk to people first, if the conversation doesn’t flow easily then I imagine it won’t I’m meeting in person.

I can’t do things like T*nder etc just deciding on a face pic, find it so shallow

Yeah I don’t get that! I don’t fancy photos.. I appreciate a nice one but can’t ‘fancy’ anything if it’s not in the flesh.. it’s a right pain!

Precisely, it’s just a photo and we all know everyone takes their best angles haha

Hell yes!! God I used to have a disclaimer on mine stating I don’t photograph my belly!!

I’m honest if someone says cracking photos my first words are...

Good lightening and angles work wonders, lots of squidginess here and the baby belly smile (shelf is hidden)

Always got to be honest

Ha ha so do this too!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t have a type. I tend to go on their humour and whether they get mine. If the conversation flows easy or if it’s like pulling teeth, that sort of thing."
That’s my approach too x need to have a good laugh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Curvy.. cute... and makes an effort... personality is key though

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

You know my flavours Saff.

Jo.Xx

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

"Curvy.. cute... and makes an effort... personality is key though "

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

"Ermmmmm

Talk, dark, dominant........

We have similiar tastes gorgeous lady...I wonder if we met some of same tall,dark men??

Haha!! Probably x

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Hell yes!! God I used to have a disclaimer on mine stating I don’t photograph my belly!!

I’m honest if someone says cracking photos my first words are...

Good lightening and angles work wonders, lots of squidginess here and the baby belly smile (shelf is hidden)

Always got to be honest

It's the verandah above the toy shop! What I call mine now x

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

"You know my flavours Saff.

Jo.Xx "

Moi!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess my type 'on paper' would be:

Long hair

Big pretty eyes

Busty

Crazy sense of humour

Spontaneous

Fun loving

In reality, just someone I feel a vibe with. Of course, attraction is a must, so all the above still counts, but becomes much less important if there is that natural click.

Turn offs:

Arrogance, control freak, miserable, bad hygiene

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"You know my flavours Saff.

Jo.Xx

Moi!!!!

Nah.. no prefers manc

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"You know my flavours Saff.

Jo.Xx

Moi!!!!

You know.

Jo.Xx

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

"I guess my type 'on paper' would be:

Long hair

Big pretty eyes

Busty

Crazy sense of humour

Spontaneous

Fun loving

In reality, just someone I feel a vibe with. Of course, attraction is a must, so all the above still counts, but becomes much less important if there is that natural click.

Turn offs:

Arrogance, control freak, miserable, bad hygiene "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't have a physical type, but I do have attributes regarding morals/values/personality that I require.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Men, older than me generally. That's it as far as it goes aesthetically. Women, no physical. Both, intelligence and curiosity and openmindedness. I have a real wide on for people who are passionate - even if their passions don't match mine.

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"You know my flavours Saff.

Jo.Xx

Moi!!!!

Nah.. no prefers manc

Hahaha, I fucking love you!! Said in a Manc accent.

Love you too Lex.

Jo.Xx

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"Hell yes!! God I used to have a disclaimer on mine stating I don’t photograph my belly!!

I’m honest if someone says cracking photos my first words are...

Good lightening and angles work wonders, lots of squidginess here and the baby belly smile (shelf is hidden)

Always got to be honest

It's the verandah above the toy shop! What I call mine now x"

Haha love it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tall slim toned good looking green or blue eyes light skin nice teeth and a big dick lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't have a physical type, but I do have attributes regarding morals/values/personality that I require.

Oh, and turn offs:

Liars

Cheats

Game players

People pretending to be things they aren't

They can keep that shiz to themselves, I'm worth far far more than that

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Don't have a physical type, but I do have attributes regarding morals/values/personality that I require.

Not easy to spot on here though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men, older than me generally. That's it as far as it goes aesthetically. Women, no physical. Both, intelligence and curiosity and openmindedness. I have a real wide on for people who are passionate - even if their passions don't match mine."

Ah yes, passion, that's very important

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

Wide on!!

how do you select who to strike up conversation with?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't have a physical type, but I do have attributes regarding morals/values/personality that I require.

Not easy to spot on here though! "

It really isn't. The place is a muff minefield

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't have a single type. I have multiple. But one thing I noticed is that after I break out of a relationship, I tend to not like that type anymore. Maybe it is common and that's the reason why your ex's are so different.

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Don't have a physical type, but I do have attributes regarding morals/values/personality that I require.

Not easy to spot on here though!

It really isn't. The place is a muff minefield

‘Tis! Why do you think I only socialise 3 times a year!?! Crazy place x

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

i must admit just lately i have been looking at older ladies than myself as their are some really fit horny ones on here

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I don't have a single type. I have multiple. But one thing I noticed is that after I break out of a relationship, I tend to not like that type anymore. Maybe it is common and that's the reason why your ex's are so different."

I’d never thought of it like that!! You may have a point!

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By *ewspinMan over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Politeness is a good start and not just one word answers

Height,build doesn’t phase me,if there hygiene is good and they like a good laugh it’s a winner

I do like nice hands/nails

I know I know I’m a freak lol

Not at all! I’ve weird things I like and dislike.. but I’ve no idea what the trigger is to attraction!"

Nice kept hands are a sign of cleanliness for me

And the hygiene part well...I’ve not met anyone who has bad hygiene...yet lol...but if there pic looks like there hair has been dipped in a chip pan then that’s a no go or their pics show a house that is messy and like a bombs hit it then not for me

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"You know my flavours Saff.

Jo.Xx

Moi!!!!

Nah.. no prefers manc

Hahaha, I fucking love you!! Said in a Manc accent.

Love you too Lex.

Jo.Xx "

Mwahhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think so.

I'm attracted to the girl next door look as well as the alternative look.

Which are pretty much the complete opposite of each other

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This. I'd never go anywhere near anyone who looked like my ex lol

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Politeness is a good start and not just one word answers

Height,build doesn’t phase me,if there hygiene is good and they like a good laugh it’s a winner

I do like nice hands/nails

I know I know I’m a freak lol

Not at all! I’ve weird things I like and dislike.. but I’ve no idea what the trigger is to attraction!

Nice kept hands are a sign of cleanliness for me

Be thankful you’re not a woman looking at filthy bathroom pics with grubby hands!

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I don't think so.

I'm attracted to the girl next door look as well as the alternative look.

Which are pretty much the complete opposite of each other

Yup!! What about the middles?!?

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Wide on!!

how do you select who to strike up conversation with? "

I'm not sure. I like a quick wit and if some one displays that on the fora I'm more likely to talk to them. To be honest I strike up a conversation with any and everyone - the real thing is translating it to wanting to fuck them. Keeping an interest in them. Too often my vagina gets meh - through displays of arrogance, self centredness, 'isms...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probly only thing would be dark brown hair

But its not a conscious thing i never had a type so much

Iv always tried to look for humour but now i have humour wit beauty filthy mind as if custom made exactly

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

Wide on!!

how do you select who to strike up conversation with?

Do you not friend zone constantly?!? I do.. I’m hopeless at translating laughs to attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

some with a pulse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No real type but the kids is the dealbreaker for me...if the kiss isn’t good it won’t go further

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This. I'd never go anywhere near anyone who looked like my ex lol"

Absolutely, it would send me into a panic.

One of the reasons I get so fucked off by people telling fibs that they don't think will matter.

Certain things can be reminders to others of quite frankly traumatic times in their lives. Even now if I smell my exs aftershave I freeze for a second and go like a deer in the headlights, then the "you better fucking not be here ya cunt" pops into my head.

I imagine people won't meet others of a specific height, hairstyle, dress sense kinda thing, coz they may not be able to see the person for the person, but a reminder of that shit time in their life and that's not fair on either party. People have preferences for reasons, and some we may never understand or know about. It's not up to us to try to trick people, does nobody any good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My exes do have a lot in common physically. That’s why I’m on fab: find out why they’re exes, maybe it’s not my type in the first place! Maybe I prefer a different type?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kiss...not kids ffs

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Kiss...not kids ffs "

made me chuckle!!

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"My exes do have a lot in common physically. That’s why I’m on fab: find out why they’re exes, maybe it’s not my type in the first place! Maybe I prefer a different type?"

Maybe.. it’s weird when you think about it.. I’ve no idea how attraction works!!

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

Muscular bodies catch my attention on here, but even the body of a Greek god won't persuade me to meet if I don't like their face. I do prefer taller men (i'm not exactly a tiny, waif-like woman) - but I will make exceptions if I like everything else about them.

Other than that I don't really have any set criteria, I just know what I like when I see it.

The one thing guaranteed to put me off is a personality that I know I won't get along with.

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

This. I'd never go anywhere near anyone who looked like my ex lol

Absolutely, it would send me into a panic.

One of the reasons I get so fucked off by people telling fibs that they don't think will matter.

Proper wake up moment right there..

I need to turn it on it’s head..

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By *estman for the jobMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

one thing i do look for is honesty if your seeing someone be upfront as dont want to discover it halfway through a meet

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

This. I'd never go anywhere near anyone who looked like my ex lol

Absolutely, it would send me into a panic.

One of the reasons I get so fucked off by people telling fibs that they don't think will matter.

Agreed, I have some weird triggers with places, certain smells etc

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Muscular bodies catch my attention on here, but even the body of a Greek god won't persuade me to meet if I don't like their face. I do prefer taller men (i'm not exactly a tiny, waif-like woman) - but I will make exceptions if I like everything else about them.

Other than that I don't really have any set criteria, I just know what I like when I see it.

The one thing guaranteed to put me off is a personality that I know I won't get along with. "

Is body type your starting point then? Think I’ve realised I don’t know where to start..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I generally go for someone outdoorsy. Rugged, rough and ready. I'm attracted to a nice pair of eyes. Not too much facial hair but stubble is good.

Deal-breaker, hmmmmm someone that's shorter than me. I just can't do it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This. I'd never go anywhere near anyone who looked like my ex lol

Absolutely, it would send me into a panic.

One of the reasons I get so fucked off by people telling fibs that they don't think will matter.

Agreed, I have some weird triggers with places, certain smells etc "

Yep, sometimes you don't know of a trigger until it's triggered, then you learn to stay away from it/work on it etc. But the ones you are aware of you keep under control by protecting yourself as best as you can from those things. When people lie about stuff they run the risk of setting of a trigger, thinking it's just something small, it won't matter. Doofuses.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think so.

I'm attracted to the girl next door look as well as the alternative look.

Which are pretty much the complete opposite of each other

Yup!! What about the middles?!?"

What constitutes being a middle

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"To be honest I strike up a conversation with any and everyone - the real thing is translating it to wanting to fuck them. Keeping an interest in them. Too often my vagina gets meh - through displays of arrogance, self centredness, 'isms...

Do you not friend zone constantly?!? I do.. I’m hopeless at translating laughs to attraction. "

Ah fuck this is going to make me sound like a proper twat but I don't know how fully I believe in the friend zone idea. That concept aside, fuck do I ever.

Even people I've met before, it's like actually we're better as friends, I don't fancy you any more. How do you manage constantly wanting just friendship OP?

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I don't think so.

I'm attracted to the girl next door look as well as the alternative look.

Which are pretty much the complete opposite of each other

Yup!! What about the middles?!?

What constitutes being a middle

Ha ha anyone that doesn’t fall into with of those opposite brackets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What are your dealbreakers?!? "

Am sorry but if you can’t kiss that’s it for me..xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My exes do have a lot in common physically. That’s why I’m on fab: find out why they’re exes, maybe it’s not my type in the first place! Maybe I prefer a different type?

Maybe.. it’s weird when you think about it.. I’ve no idea how attraction works!!"

Feels a bit like Groundhog Day for me. I may not be adventurous enough!

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By *isser36Man over a year ago

fylde Coast

Looks wise I don't think I have a "type" as long as am attracted to them and they have a certain....Something about them.. Definite no goes are bad teeth and big feet! Personality wise someone who can have a laugh and doesn't take themselves too seriously or is to full of themselves, she could be the hottest girl ever but if she dull as dish water it's just not going to work... I mean I'd still fuck her but I wouldn't enjoy it.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"What are your dealbreakers?!?

Am sorry but if you can’t kiss that’s it for me..xxx"

Ohhhh yeah, this is for me too, I had a major lady boner for this guy, I finally got my claws into him and he slobbered on me when trying to kiss. My lady boner deflated rather rapidly.

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

Do you not friend zone constantly?!? I do.. I’m hopeless at translating laughs to attraction.

Ah fuck this is going to make me sound like a proper twat but I don't know how fully I believe in the friend zone idea. That concept aside, fuck do I ever.

Even people I've met before, it's like actually we're better as friends, I don't fancy you any more. How do you manage constantly wanting just friendship OP?

Badly!!

shittest meeter on here for a reason! Got lots of mates though..

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Looks wise I don't think I have a "type" as long as am attracted to them and they have a certain....Something about them.. Definite no goes are bad teeth and big feet! Personality wise someone who can have a laugh and doesn't take themselves too seriously or is to full of themselves, she could be the hottest girl ever but if she dull as dish water it's just not going to work... I mean I'd still fuck her but I wouldn't enjoy it.

Ha ha

so it’s far from a dealbreaker!!!

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

I seriously have no clue about the 'friend zone' I feel I may have given some the wrong impression...

I guess communication is key.

Jo.Xx

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By *an_LexaCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

It’s something in what they say or do.

I like someone who is passionate in “stuff” someone who motivates, encourages and works out how to entice the excitement in me.

I like someone who’s not afraid that when they do that it means I’m going to fight back.

And I like someone who doesn’t think that means I want to totally dominate them. Maybe a little.

I like someone who wants to know me as much as I want to know them.

Fussy bitch really

Lex

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I seriously have no clue about the 'friend zone' I feel I may have given some the wrong impression...

I guess communication is key.

Jo.Xx "

You’re a cracking flirt

I’m a sarcastic bugger.. I end up being mates with people I get on with then can’t go back

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"It’s something in what they say or do.

I like someone who is passionate in “stuff” someone who motivates, encourages and works out how to entice the excitement in me.

I like someone who’s not afraid that when they do that it means I’m going to fight back.

And I like someone who doesn’t think that means I want to totally dominate them. Maybe a little.

I like someone who wants to know me as much as I want to know them.

Fussy bitch really

Lex

I imagine you need someone feisty to challenge you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely, it would send me into a panic.

One of the reasons I get so fucked off by people telling fibs that they don't think will matter.

Exactly. My ex is a social media addict and posts heavily edited selfies of herself with some totally unrelated tagline regularly. Now I try to find social media profiles of women I tend to like and filter them out before anything even starts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A woman with a vagina

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"I seriously have no clue about the 'friend zone' I feel I may have given some the wrong impression...

I guess communication is key.

Jo.Xx

You’re a cracking flirt

I’m a sarcastic bugger.. I end up being mates with people I get on with then can’t go back

Flirt maybe but that's because I've worked in customer service.

And I'm a natural people pleaser.

Because I flirt does that mean I want to fuck them?

See it's a minefield.

Jo.Xx

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By *an_LexaCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

"It’s something in what they say or do.

I like someone who is passionate in “stuff” someone who motivates, encourages and works out how to entice the excitement in me.

I like someone who’s not afraid that when they do that it means I’m going to fight back.

And I like someone who doesn’t think that means I want to totally dominate them. Maybe a little.

I like someone who wants to know me as much as I want to know them.

Fussy bitch really

Lex

I imagine you need someone feisty to challenge you

You could say that, they’ll end up wrapped in cling film or tied to a chair otherwise

But I need challenging as well

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I seriously have no clue about the 'friend zone' I feel I may have given some the wrong impression...

I guess communication is key.

Jo.Xx

You’re a cracking flirt

I’m a sarcastic bugger.. I end up being mates with people I get on with then can’t go back

Flirt maybe but that's because I've worked in customer service.

And I'm a natural people pleaser.

Because I flirt does that mean I want to fuck them?

See it's a minefield.

Jo.Xx "

And this is why I stay indoors!!

I’m 43 and still clueless!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

a smile a woman who smiles a lot for me, no particular type just a great personality

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

Other than that I don't really have any set criteria, I just know what I like when I see it.

The one thing guaranteed to put me off is a personality that I know I won't get along with.

Is body type your starting point then? Think I’ve realised I don’t know where to start.. "

On here I suppose it is...you've only got limited information to go on when browsing profiles, and a good picture of a nice body will make me want to find out more

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"How do you manage constantly wanting just friendship OP?

Badly!!

shittest meeter on here for a reason! Got lots of mates though..

Haha! Yes. I have an abundance of those.

Sometimes I worry I'm a bit hasty with my nope but other times I think I'd rather not meet a person unless I'm into them properly, warts and all.

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"How do you manage constantly wanting just friendship OP?

Badly!!

shittest meeter on here for a reason! Got lots of mates though..

Haha! Yes. I have an abundance of those.

Sometimes I worry I'm a bit hasty with my nope but other times I think I'd rather not meet a person unless I'm into them properly, warts and all."

Yeah I’m very black and white so if I don’t think yes I’ll assume it’s a no.. it’s a nightmare!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm quite flexible on my type if I like someone I like them. But I love tall guys with nice eyes. If he's broad shouldered even better.

If I had a tick box then whatsmyname69 does tick every box though

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"I'm quite flexible on my type if I like someone I like them. But I love tall guys with nice eyes. If he's broad shouldered even better.

If I had a tick box then whatsmyname69 does tick every box though "

Ah cute!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm quite flexible on my type if I like someone I like them. But I love tall guys with nice eyes. If he's broad shouldered even better.

If I had a tick box then whatsmyname69 does tick every box though "

Tell me about it’

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By *ookie46Woman over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Physically I like good shoulders and strong forearms

I need someone who can make me laugh and keep me interested

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Curves, short ish, with blue or green eyes that sparkle..... long hair is a bonus too but I like all colours....

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Curves, short ish, with blue or green eyes that sparkle..... long hair is a bonus too but I like all colours....

Lucky girl

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"Physically I like good shoulders and strong forearms

I need someone who can make me laugh and keep me interested "

Mmm big arms are lush

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm quite flexible on my type if I like someone I like them. But I love tall guys with nice eyes. If he's broad shouldered even better.

If I had a tick box then whatsmyname69 does tick every box though

Tell me about it’"

Sorry podrick you know I adore you but even you said you understood when you saw him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm quite flexible on my type if I like someone I like them. But I love tall guys with nice eyes. If he's broad shouldered even better.

If I had a tick box then whatsmyname69 does tick every box though

Tell me about it’

Sorry podrick you know I adore you but even you said you understood when you saw him

Yeah! I wanted to snog him!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like a woman with a vagine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like a woman with a vagine "

Not fussy huh...?

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By *izzymonkeyMan over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

A/My Type.....hmmmmm

I really don't have one I don't think...

For me I need to obviously find some sort of physical attraction, but the biggest thing is a personality and mental attraction, I'm far more attracted to people who are funny, engaging and who I can bounce off....

A deal breaker would be along the lines of = personality of a stone, no fun, no humour, really straight laced, struggle to hold a conversation...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not being a swinger is the dealbreaker

Then bad hygiene and height

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By *irthandgirthMan over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

A positive.

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By *affron40 OP Woman over a year ago

manchester

"A/My Type.....hmmmmm

I really don't have one I don't think...

A deal breaker would be along the lines of = personality of a stone, no fun, no humour, really straight laced, struggle to hold a conversation...

And most appreciate a love of sepia...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like a woman with a vagine

Not fussy huh...?"

Must be a vagine. I like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like a woman with a vagine

Not fussy huh...?

Must be a vagine. I like that. "

A fanny or a virgin......?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My exes don’t look the same either, apart from being tall!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve looked through the thread and 15 people have said ‘_rightonsteve’ so that’s a good, happy end to the thread, ain’t it just?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nice feet

Good sized nipples

About a size 12-14

A kinky mind

A passionate kisser.

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