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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night 
What a coincidence, I do the same! "
That I find hard to believe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use it as my favourite online social tool, to schedule meets, to amuse myself, to make friends. I’ve made a few really great friends here. It’s been good for my confidence and entertainment as I’ve less to do in the day these days. I like when it makes me laugh til my stomach hurts  - Mrs |
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe "
My shyness gets in the way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use it to look at women who live 200 miles whom im never gonna get to meet, then look at all the local women, whom im never going to get to meet.
Oh yeah, and to perve over the womens pics lol.
As a time filler.
And to hopefully find a fwb. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way "
Take it at your pace, I'm sure, with the right people, you'll find yourself and have lots of fun x |
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way "
I got over my shyness on Fab. It's been wild. |
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
I got over my shyness on Fab. It's been wild. "
I'm hoping too, I'm still new so I'll get there. Fingers crossed. |
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
Take it at your pace, I'm sure, with the right people, you'll find yourself and have lots of fun x"
Thank you! I'll try my best x |
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
I got over my shyness on Fab. It's been wild.
I'm hoping too, I'm still new so I'll get there. Fingers crossed. "
For me it's been about finding the right people to guide me and help me grow. There are some incredible human beings here (the problem is sorting them out from the snakes). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use it to meet Europeans visiting New York City . I also enjoy getting naked on cam and cumming for women and couples. It is more fun cumming for someone than just wanking alone . |
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
I got over my shyness on Fab. It's been wild.
I'm hoping too, I'm still new so I'll get there. Fingers crossed.
For me it's been about finding the right people to guide me and help me grow. There are some incredible human beings here (the problem is sorting them out from the snakes). "
Yeah, I think someones nice and then they change. Luckily they tend to show it fairly quickly so no harm I guess. |
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
Take it at your pace, I'm sure, with the right people, you'll find yourself and have lots of fun x
Thank you! I'll try my best x"
You two get a room lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
Take it at your pace, I'm sure, with the right people, you'll find yourself and have lots of fun x
Thank you! I'll try my best x
You two get a room lol."
I'm too old / too far away lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Original with an interest for out and out swinging but over the years it’s become more for the social side a regular fuck buddies. The occasional couple that ticks all the boxes.
I like the forums to but the moaning ones normally mean I ignore them for a few weeks at a time.
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
"keep in contact with Club friends"
Same. Plus occasional ventures into the forum.
In theory I could also use it for meets, but that would require putting effort into my profile. I'm happy enough not looking for meets here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me? Forums.
Every now n then bonds are formed and friendships are made.
I look at club events and social events to see if something interests me and would be suitable for us both.
B - pictures, forums, messages, looking for potential playmates, keeping up with friends and making new ones.
He uses far more of fab as a site, but I think what I get from it is worth more. That's not in a nasty way, but I do need the support that I get from people here whereas he is much more secure and doesn't need that level of reassurance or advice and people to listen.
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"Me? Forums.
Every now n then bonds are formed and friendships are made.
I look at club events and social events to see if something interests me and would be suitable for us both.
B - pictures, forums, messages, looking for potential playmates, keeping up with friends and making new ones.
He uses far more of fab as a site, but I think what I get from it is worth more. That's not in a nasty way, but I do need the support that I get from people here whereas he is much more secure and doesn't need that level of reassurance or advice and people to listen.
P"
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
Take it at your pace, I'm sure, with the right people, you'll find yourself and have lots of fun x
Thank you! I'll try my best x
You two get a room lol."
Nah, I'd prefer to make you all want to be sick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's Fab, to you? "
Ultimately to find another lady to join me and my partner. But more than that to reach out to the community and get to know people and hopefully build friendships. |
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
Take it at your pace, I'm sure, with the right people, you'll find yourself and have lots of fun x
Thank you! I'll try my best x
You two get a room lol.
Nah, I'd prefer to make you all want to be sick "
Those photos don't make me feel sick!!! |
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
Take it at your pace, I'm sure, with the right people, you'll find yourself and have lots of fun x
Thank you! I'll try my best x
You two get a room lol.
Nah, I'd prefer to make you all want to be sick "
I’m sure that won’t happen....x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
Take it at your pace, I'm sure, with the right people, you'll find yourself and have lots of fun x
Thank you! I'll try my best x
You two get a room lol.
Nah, I'd prefer to make you all want to be sick "
Hardly! You look great  |
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
Take it at your pace, I'm sure, with the right people, you'll find yourself and have lots of fun x
Thank you! I'll try my best x
You two get a room lol.
Nah, I'd prefer to make you all want to be sick
Hardly! You look great "
Thank you! |
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"I use it for
Meets
Interesting conversations
Playing with pictures
Most importantly Perving  "
i must admit thats what i did in the beginning when i joined fab now ots gone stale lots of attention seeking like Instagram |
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
Take it at your pace, I'm sure, with the right people, you'll find yourself and have lots of fun x
Thank you! I'll try my best x
You two get a room lol.
Nah, I'd prefer to make you all want to be sick
I’m sure that won’t happen....x"
Must try harder x |
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
Take it at your pace, I'm sure, with the right people, you'll find yourself and have lots of fun x
Thank you! I'll try my best x
You two get a room lol.
Nah, I'd prefer to make you all want to be sick
I’m sure that won’t happen....x
Must try harder x"
With your figure you shouldn’t need to try that hard xx |
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
Take it at your pace, I'm sure, with the right people, you'll find yourself and have lots of fun x
Thank you! I'll try my best x
You two get a room lol.
Nah, I'd prefer to make you all want to be sick
I’m sure that won’t happen....x
Must try harder x
With your figure you shouldn’t need to try that hard xx "
Aw, thank you! xx |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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It has many uses for me - first and foremost is it provides a means to talk to likeminded people with a view to meeting them if we find a connection and chemistry.
Then in no particular order it allows me to discuss sex and sexuality openly and honestly both via messages and on the forums, gives me an avenue to post pics that I have taken, and to talk to friends I have made (something I never thought I'd find when I signed up).
Finally it provides an social media platform to an extent.
Some of the above intertwines of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use it for the social side more than Anything. The chatting/forums group socials
Then on the odd occasion of chatting someone shines through and I want to sink my teeth in to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently i’m using it to cross reference local POF profiles
Checking height is the same, age etc.
Plus on here i get to see their knob so...who said romance was dead  "
I swear POF is absolutely dead in my age group |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"Currently i’m using it to cross reference local POF profiles
Checking height is the same, age etc.
Plus on here i get to see their knob so...who said romance was dead "
Should do up a spreadsheet so people can share it. |
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"Currently i’m using it to cross reference local POF profiles
Checking height is the same, age etc.
Plus on here i get to see their knob so...who said romance was dead
I swear POF is absolutely dead in my age group "
Try hinge or bumble maybe? I know a lot of young people use those. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently i’m using it to cross reference local POF profiles
Checking height is the same, age etc.
Plus on here i get to see their knob so...who said romance was dead
I swear POF is absolutely dead in my age group
Try hinge or bumble maybe? I know a lot of young people use those."
It's not that I don't find people, it's just all they have is their insta on profile and never talk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We use it to keep in touch with existing friends, to keep tabs on club events and for party invites. We don't use it to meet anyone new because we prefer clubs/parties for that.
(3rd time lucky - tired ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like to meet more often, but it doesn't feel like a priority at the moment.
Very happy to read what others are thinking in the forums, add the odd thought and.... of course... perve a little bit  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I use it to meet people. I also use the chat rooms and forums and it's a handy way to spend a few hours just reading the stuff posted on here. I have learnt some interesting things just from reading on here. Some I wish I hadn't learnt lol I've also made some friends so it's good to chat with them as well if they are on. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"I'd like to meet more often, but it doesn't feel like a priority at the moment.
Very happy to read what others are thinking in the forums, add the odd thought and.... of course... perve a little bit "
Never change that profile photo. Ever. |
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"Currently i’m using it to cross reference local POF profiles
Checking height is the same, age etc.
Plus on here i get to see their knob so...who said romance was dead
I swear POF is absolutely dead in my age group
Try hinge or bumble maybe? I know a lot of young people use those.
It's not that I don't find people, it's just all they have is their insta on profile and never talk "
Ohh, yeah I struggle with people our age to be honest too. |
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"I'd like to meet more often, but it doesn't feel like a priority at the moment.
Very happy to read what others are thinking in the forums, add the odd thought and.... of course... perve a little bit
Never change that profile photo. Ever."
Seconded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to meet more often, but it doesn't feel like a priority at the moment.
Very happy to read what others are thinking in the forums, add the odd thought and.... of course... perve a little bit
Never change that profile photo. Ever.
Seconded."
Thirded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hoped to use it for meets.
I use it to torture myself by hoping to get meets then crywanking myself to sleep at night
What a coincidence, I do the same!
That I find hard to believe
My shyness gets in the way
I got over my shyness on Fab. It's been wild.
I'm hoping too, I'm still new so I'll get there. Fingers crossed.
For me it's been about finding the right people to guide me and help me grow. There are some incredible human beings here (the problem is sorting them out from the snakes). "
Well said OP. Difficult to get a meet then get let down last minute, no shows or messages stop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to meet more often, but it doesn't feel like a priority at the moment.
Very happy to read what others are thinking in the forums, add the odd thought and.... of course... perve a little bit
Never change that profile photo. Ever."
Thanks, Button  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I'd like to meet more often, but it doesn't feel like a priority at the moment.
Very happy to read what others are thinking in the forums, add the odd thought and.... of course... perve a little bit
Never change that profile photo. Ever.
Seconded.
Thirded."
Yep I'd agree with that. Fourth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to meet more often, but it doesn't feel like a priority at the moment.
Very happy to read what others are thinking in the forums, add the odd thought and.... of course... perve a little bit
Never change that profile photo. Ever.
Seconded.
Thirded.
Yep I'd agree with that. Fourth "
oh my.. but just look at you.. |
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"I use it to meet, find out about club events, make like minded friends, and talk on the forum. "
Basically - this! Finding out about events, making connections who are also going and chatting in the forum. One to one meets too but they’re getting harder to find I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stave off the boredom in work.
The forums keep me entertained on long night shifts.
The very beautiful ladies keep me perked up all shift.
I have made some really good friends just through chatting on here.
Oh now and again stumbling across a profile of someone I know and thinking....."well I never would of thought you'd be on here" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right now just for the forum's and the MLS. I don't think I can ever see myself meeting again If he decides to stop seeing me. "
The same for me. Although mine is going nowhere, he's not allowed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To wank over pictures of heterosexual men who avoid replying to men on the forums. you cannot have my penis "
Too late dude. I printed a picture of your ass, did a hole in the it and fuck it every night !
You really are the lord of orgasm after all!
Thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To wank over pictures of heterosexual men who avoid replying to men on the forums. you cannot have my penis
Too late dude. I printed a picture of your ass, did a hole in the it and fuck it every night !
You really are the lord of orgasm after all!
Thank you x"
never felt a thing you must have used a chair leg to make the hole |
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"I use it to meet, find out about club events, make like minded friends, and talk on the forum. "
I guess I use it for the same as you my lovely - though for the moment I’m not meeting someone knew as I’m still getting to know my new fwb/boyfriend better and would rather spend my free time with him (helps that he’s very local and bloody good in bed!)
So for me now it’s just the forums, occasional messages from people I already know, and potential club events!
All good really! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not very much any more. Just the occasional wander from the cave, the odd post on a thread, and somewhere to pass a minute or too before...
I wander back into the cave |
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really?
but mainly entertaining. 
