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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just needed to have a moan, I’m feeling grumpy.
How many profiles do you see where men write something along the lines of ‘safe sex only but have been known to bareback if that’s what the lady wants/husband wants a cream pie leaving’
Why bull shit, why not just say I’ll stick it in any disease riddled hole but I know it loses me meets so I’m going to say safe sex only!
It makes no difference to me right now anyway, I’m not meeting atm but I notice it quite a lot when I look at profiles that wink or message and it irritates me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you do all of the things you say you do on your profile every time?
I'm guessing not?
The answer to your question is the same. They may state safe sex only, but then do something different.
Best not to let it get your knickers in a knot, and hit the go back button when you come across those.
All women who have had bareback sex have "diseased ridden holes"? A bit sweeping don't you think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you do all of the things you say you do on your profile every time?
I'm guessing not?
The answer to your question is the same. They may state safe sex only, but then do something different.
Best not to let it get your knickers in a knot, and hit the go back button when you come across those.
All women who have had bareback sex have "diseased ridden holes"? A bit sweeping don't you think. "
My profile says ‘safe sex only’ but I’ve had bareback sex, and I’m completely clean. Whoopsies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"....
All women who have had bareback sex have "diseased ridden holes"? A bit sweeping don't you think.
This
Bit of an inflammatory statement"
Their vaginas are inflamed too |
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"....
All women who have had bareback sex have "diseased ridden holes"? A bit sweeping don't you think.
This
Bit of an inflammatory statement
Their vaginas are inflamed too"
I have a hose to put the flames out   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"....
All women who have had bareback sex have "diseased ridden holes"? A bit sweeping don't you think.
This
Bit of an inflammatory statement
Their vaginas are inflamed too
I have a hose to put the flames out "
Ooooft you’re getting me all hot and bothered  |
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"....
All women who have had bareback sex have "diseased ridden holes"? A bit sweeping don't you think.
This
Bit of an inflammatory statement
Their vaginas are inflamed too
I have a hose to put the flames out
Ooooft you’re getting me all hot and bothered "
With the safety on only of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair, safe sex could be bareback if both parties are disease free !!"
Don't let a thing like talking sense get in the way of a hand grenade statement like the opener. |
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"I just needed to have a moan, I’m feeling grumpy.
How many profiles do you see where men write something along the lines of ‘safe sex only but have been known to bareback if that’s what the lady wants/husband wants a cream pie leaving’
Why bull shit, why not just say I’ll stick it in any disease riddled hole but I know it loses me meets so I’m going to say safe sex only!
It makes no difference to me right now anyway, I’m not meeting atm but I notice it quite a lot when I look at profiles that wink or message and it irritates me."
But rude isn’t it? People can have as much bareback sex as they like, it’s not my business or yours tbh!!!
As a woman myself some of you make me hang my head in shame, bemoaning others for no reason is not becoming at all  |
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Well if it's hard enough for men on FAB now imagine how hard it would be if we were compelled to be completely honest? In generally honesty and integrity are rare commodities on FAB. Good Spidey senses are essential here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's the point in having a profile if you can't write what you see fit on it....?
I'd just worry about your own hole I guess and avoid the ppl you're not interested in. Safe sex attitudes confuse me at times because if you're using protection YOURSELF then it's relatively (yes relatively) safe regardless of who you're shagging  |
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People forget what they say so many just don't read their own profile and just add to it.
The positive is threads like this do point out things and make you think again about your safety and reassess who to avoid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm having safe sex I'm also having bareback sex but it's all safe as we are exclusive and tests are all clear.
By that statement OP is there is no such thing as safe sex. There is safer sex. Look after your own sexual health, get regular testing use the protection that your happy with and meet people you are happy are doing the same as you. You can still catch STIs through oral sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I’m sorry if what I wrote offended anyone, I was having a really sh*tty day, feeling angry with everyone and everything and it just really annoyed me.
To clarify where I was coming from, I wouldn’t meet someone who regularly had unprotected sex with random strangers as their chances of having an std are massively inflated. Swinging by nature puts you in a vulnerable position and the dozens of men that lie about things like that make that vulnerability even worse. It makes me mad. I wasn’t suggesting that I should have any control over what they do or say, I just wanted to vent my frustration somewhere I thought I was safe to do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"....
All women who have had bareback sex have "diseased ridden holes"? A bit sweeping don't you think.
This
Bit of an inflammatory statement
Their vaginas are inflamed too"
Omg just spat my coffee out
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I mentioned the exact same thing a couple of months ago, got the usual comments in reply, then admin closed the topic.
The amount of time I`ve seen women with numerous pics of them receiving creampies, often with numerous vari`s, yet stating "safe sex" on their profiles, its a joke, & slightly scary..
As someone who loves eating pussy, its massively off putting. (yes, I understand its a swinging site & some people are quite happy eating an unknown next mans cum!) |
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"I’m sorry if what I wrote offended anyone, I was having a really sh*tty day, feeling angry with everyone and everything and it just really annoyed me.
To clarify where I was coming from, I wouldn’t meet someone who regularly had unprotected sex with random strangers as their chances of having an std are massively inflated. Swinging by nature puts you in a vulnerable position and the dozens of men that lie about things like that make that vulnerability even worse. It makes me mad. I wasn’t suggesting that I should have any control over what they do or say, I just wanted to vent my frustration somewhere I thought I was safe to do it."
I feel the same, the fact people put safe sex on their profile bareback strangers isn't being honest.
I don't want to have sex with barebackers even if they will use a condom. They should be honest and respect that. So I get where you're coming from. You want control over your body to make an informed choice. Not control who people bareback but that you don't want sex with those who do. |
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