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If you told your vanilla friends and colleagues about your lifestyle and sexuality.......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Friends we trust know, the others wouldn't be surprised.
I'm not fussed tbh
I don't tell others how to act in their marriages, who's to say what's right or wrong
We are happy enough, by the looks of some of the married couples we know we are much happier than them stuck in a vanilla marriage ha |
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Family would never know
Friends, just the odd thing I drop in to conversation in order to shut them up about trying to “find someone to look after me”  is enough to make them run for the hills
If they really knew they’d probably have me locked up haha  |
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"Family would never know
Friends, just the odd thing I drop in to conversation in order to shut them up about trying to “find someone to look after me” is enough to make them run for the hills
If they really knew they’d probably have me locked up haha "
Locked or looked you up ? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Friends we trust know, the others wouldn't be surprised.
I'm not fussed tbh
I don't tell others how to act in their marriages, who's to say what's right or wrong
We are happy enough, by the looks of some of the married couples we know we are much happier than them stuck in a vanilla marriage ha "
Maybe they just prefer to be discreet about what they get up to |
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"Family would never know
Friends, just the odd thing I drop in to conversation in order to shut them up about trying to “find someone to look after me” is enough to make them run for the hills
If they really knew they’d probably have me locked up haha
Locked or looked you up ? X "
The girls would definitely have me locked up and some of the lads to be far.... some of the lads maybe look up, but I wouldn’t, never sh*t on your own doorstep” haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Friends we trust know, the others wouldn't be surprised.
I'm not fussed tbh
I don't tell others how to act in their marriages, who's to say what's right or wrong
We are happy enough, by the looks of some of the married couples we know we are much happier than them stuck in a vanilla marriage ha
Maybe they just prefer to be discreet about what they get up to "
Good for them. I don't shove our lifestyle in their faces, they just know we are swingers. Same way I know they aren't.
No big deal to us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was my sister that told us about Fab! She knows we are on here still (she isn't nowadays) but has no idea what floats our boat... Thankfully! Our friends who may know do so as we have seen them on here ; 
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"I'd probably get some shit for a while but I imagine after that I'd get some curious questions "
I found that all my friends were massively curious to be fair LvM!!
Good to educate folk I find....life can be so mundane if you don't open your eyes and mind...Haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I told my Mum and Sister over a year ago!
All they said was to be careful!
They know i play safe and I have a person who gets all my meet details etc.
I think as long as i’m happy then they are happy 
I have 4 Nilla friends that have known about my lifestyle since I started 4 years ago.
They dont judge and do ask questions.
I’m glad the people around me are supportive and open minded as I wouldn’t feel so comfortable if I couldn’t tell anyone x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many of my friends and colleagues are just as pervy and kinky as people on here, although most would be surprised that I am. I must give off vanilla essence... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ended up introducing someone to here after ‘coming Clean’ as it were, about here and past shenanigans. She also had similar.
Neither of us were overly surprised I don’t think.
Previously told someone I used to work with and he was pretty much ‘meh’ about it.
There’s so much more of it going on than we think. Just the ‘Brit’ prudish mentality makes it an issue.
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I think they’d be shocked. Probably not so much about me, but you’d never guess Mrs fakename would do this.
We keep it secret because it’s ‘our secret’. There are only one or two friends I’d even consider mentioning it to. Our best vanilla friends would be horrified as they aren’t sexy people in the slightest (which I think is way weirder than swinging, but each to their own). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I think they’d be shocked. Probably not so much about me, but you’d never guess Mrs fakename would do this.
We keep it secret because it’s ‘our secret’. There are only one or two friends I’d even consider mentioning it to. Our best vanilla friends would be horrified as they aren’t sexy people in the slightest (which I think is way weirder than swinging, but each to their own). "
That seems a really unkind thing to say about friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just do it to intentionally make idiots feel uncomfortable....I have nothing to hide  "
Most people would feel uncomfortable by someone being brash about their unusual sex life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I live a vanilla lifestyle anyway so nothing exciting for my friends to hear about.
I'm just a user of this site who is trying to click with none vanilla women. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"We were having a drink with a few of our neighbours who then brought up the subject of someone they knew who was a swinger ....what followed was an analysis of ... could you imagine ?? Do people actually do that .... What if there were swingers around here ........
Oh if only they knew what we were up to "
I've had this too, the mothers at the school brought up 'filthy swingers', the stuff they mentioned people doing was so tame, they'd have been horrified if I'd clued them in lol |
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