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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Men..it's real. Please don't underestimate it and our ability to expose a fake.
Women..I'm annoyed at those men who are clearly not the men in their photos (I realise women probably do it too...)!!
Why do they do it?! Grrr... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its really not a thing at all just some are more suspicious than others its like a cop saying he trusts his gut in past decades when so many innocent people were jailed |
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It's obviously a self-confidence issue if someone feels that the only way they can get any interest is by using someone else's photos. But it really doesn't solve anything, as they'll either never have the confidence to meet anyone in person (and get found out), or... They assume that if you turn up for coffee you must be so horny anyway that you won't care that they've lied...
As someone who once met a guy who was in fact using pics of himself... But of when he was 20 years younger, I can tell you nothing kills a libido quicker than a liar. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's obviously a self-confidence issue if someone feels that the only way they can get any interest is by using someone else's photos. But it really doesn't solve anything, as they'll either never have the confidence to meet anyone in person (and get found out), or... They assume that if you turn up for coffee you must be so horny anyway that you won't care that they've lied...
As someone who once met a guy who was in fact using pics of himself... But of when he was 20 years younger, I can tell you nothing kills a libido quicker than a liar. "
Certainly some will not be confident about themselves and I sympathise to some extent but for others it's just pure deception. These guys probably never have the intention of meeting and just want vids or photos with which to wank off too!!
Using someone else's photos to deceive a woman is never justifiable...
My point is I'm glad I have a gut instinct/intuition, call it what you will...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They just want wank chat.
The sweetest ones are the '19 year old hot girlies' who want sex chat. Of course I believe they are real, nothing would make me think it's a 56 year old man sweating in his mummy's spare room. |
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Unfortunately I think there will always be an element in here who will attempt to deceive, I have given up in trying to figure out why as I will never understand their reasoning!! I think the most obvious lead quite sad little lives, and have no intention of meeting and only really lack love and attention in their homes lives and seek to ‘manufacture’ something on line.
There will always be the pic collectors too, and other oddity really when you consider how much open there is out there!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Met a guy.... I saw him walking towards me... this 5ft 7in tall man.. who had shrunk easy 4 or 5 inches in height since writing his profile... and aged 15 years easy!!!!  "
Oh no Sylvie that stinks!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its really not a thing at all just some are more suspicious than others its like a cop saying he trusts his gut in past decades when so many innocent people were jailed"
It really is a thing - it's about lots of information from different sources that equals alarm bells ringing. |
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time for spec savers me thinks. 