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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Like the title says - what actually brought you to fab? Like how did you stumble across this site?
For me I had just split from my ex gf and a good friend I know suggested I should go on here as I’d enjoy it this was about 4 years ago now!
So what brought you here? I’m assuming most of you a recommendation through a friend? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had spoken about it before and decided to join after talking about what we would hope to achieve. Whether or not anything happens is yet to be seen but a night at one of the Clubs is certainly going to be better than a night up town which neither of us are a fan off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I migrated from another site. What brought me to swinging? I had got out of a damaging relationship and met a much older fuck buddy. He opened my eyes to swinging and fet. We were more along the fetish lines than swinging. |
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We had a 4some with a couple in La Chambre many years ago, just after we'd started clubbing. They asked if we were on Fab and we said "what's that?" When we got home we looked and have been here ever since. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was aware of Fab but was put off by the name thinking it would just be for couples. Followed a fwb on here in the end and was surprised to find people i knew. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was working in an office late one night and one of the guys hadnt logged out so thought id do the right thing and switch off. He hadnt shut the screen down. Was curious so when i got home had a look myself. So here i am x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After accidentally falling into soft swinging on hols and visiting a club in Spain, looked to visits uk club and kept seeing “fab” on messages...joined following that ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Was working in an office late one night and one of the guys hadnt logged out so thought id do the right thing and switch off. He hadnt shut the screen down. Was curious so when i got home had a look myself. So here i am x"
What!? Hahahha - browsing on a work computer! I don’t even think my laptop would go through the work servers before getting blocked! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A d*unken conversation with another couple we're friends with - we haven't looked back since!
Mrs TMN x"
Question is - did you ever play with the friends?... |
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I was in a sexless marriage (living separate lives to my then husband too and feeling very lonely) a friend recommended it to me for NSA sex with guys (Mrs here!)
I was on the site for about 4 months when I met what turned out to be the love of my life. 3 and half years later here we still are. Been living together for 3 years and just had our first year wedding anniversary. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A d*unken conversation with another couple we're friends with - we haven't looked back since!
Mrs TMN x
Question is - did you ever play with the friends?...
Well that would be telling... "
I respect that - don’t kiss & tell... say no more! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was in a sexless marriage (living separate lives to my then husband too and feeling very lonely) a friend recommended it to me for NSA sex with guys (Mrs here!)
I was on the site for about 4 months when I met what turned out to be the love of my life. 3 and half years later here we still are. Been living together for 3 years and just had our first year wedding anniversary. "
What!?! That’s crazy. Well congrats! & you found someone that obviously shares a joint passion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like the title says - what actually brought you to fab? Like how did you stumble across this site?
For me I had just split from my ex gf and a good friend I know suggested I should go on here as I’d enjoy it this was about 4 years ago now!
So what brought you here? I’m assuming most of you a recommendation through a friend? "
I was frog marched here kicking and screaming! I thought it was a shoe shop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was in a sexless marriage (living separate lives to my then husband too and feeling very lonely) a friend recommended it to me for NSA sex with guys (Mrs here!)
I was on the site for about 4 months when I met what turned out to be the love of my life. 3 and half years later here we still are. Been living together for 3 years and just had our first year wedding anniversary. "
Awww, how lovely |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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I met a guy on pof where I was looking for young guys as I was in a sort of cuckold relationship with my ex. He told me about fab and helped my set up my profile. In the meantime I became single so decided to stay as I’d met some great people and made some lovely friends. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like the title says - what actually brought you to fab? Like how did you stumble across this site?
For me I had just split from my ex gf and a good friend I know suggested I should go on here as I’d enjoy it this was about 4 years ago now!
So what brought you here? I’m assuming most of you a recommendation through a friend?
I was frog marched here kicking and screaming! I thought it was a shoe shop. "
Question is - did you find what you were looking for in the ‘shop’!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over 5 years ago since the break up of my marriage. It was a way of meeting new people without the emotion baggage in a relationship. I've met some wonderful people that most have become good friends and I love the club and social scene |
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"A d*unken conversation with another couple we're friends with - we haven't looked back since!
Mrs TMN x
Question is - did you ever play with the friends?...
Well that would be telling...
I respect that - don’t kiss & tell... say no more! "
Well to be fair, we sometimes do kiss and tell. Our veris will show you that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like the title says - what actually brought you to fab? Like how did you stumble across this site?
For me I had just split from my ex gf and a good friend I know suggested I should go on here as I’d enjoy it this was about 4 years ago now!
So what brought you here? I’m assuming most of you a recommendation through a friend?
I was frog marched here kicking and screaming! I thought it was a shoe shop.
Question is - did you find what you were looking for in the ‘shop’!? "
Yes but I had to return it because it was faulty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After a strained marriage break up, I tried get in touch with previous work friends, one I hooked up told me he used the site and once I was set up, I found it hooking me and met a few good meets last year... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like the title says - what actually brought you to fab? Like how did you stumble across this site?
For me I had just split from my ex gf and a good friend I know suggested I should go on here as I’d enjoy it this was about 4 years ago now!
So what brought you here? I’m assuming most of you a recommendation through a friend?
I was frog marched here kicking and screaming! I thought it was a shoe shop.
Question is - did you find what you were looking for in the ‘shop’!?
Yes but I had to return it because it was faulty "
And here you are still browsing the ‘shoe shop’ obviously a very comfortable brand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have everything I want on life except sex. I don't enjoy random encounters, nor do I wish to become a couple again to achieve regular sex with one man. Fab allows me the discretion to find a regular playmate. If I went into town searching for sexual based relations, I would soon acquire a reputation I would never lose. Fab gives me a broad search base with discretion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like the title says - what actually brought you to fab? Like how did you stumble across this site?
For me I had just split from my ex gf and a good friend I know suggested I should go on here as I’d enjoy it this was about 4 years ago now!
So what brought you here? I’m assuming most of you a recommendation through a friend?
I was frog marched here kicking and screaming! I thought it was a shoe shop.
Question is - did you find what you were looking for in the ‘shop’!?
Yes but I had to return it because it was faulty
And here you are still browsing the ‘shoe shop’ obviously a very comfortable brand "
I can feel a line from Good Morning Vietnam in there somewhere! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I thought it was a cooking site!
My playmate cooks better than myself "
Aye - I’d consider myself an excellent cook. Could deliver orgasms through food (probably only way I can ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought it was a cooking site!
My playmate cooks better than myself
Aye - I’d consider myself an excellent cook. Could deliver orgasms through food (probably only way I can )"
Orgasms through food |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I thought it was a cooking site!
My playmate cooks better than myself
Aye - I’d consider myself an excellent cook. Could deliver orgasms through food (probably only way I can )
Orgasms through food "
I may not look it - but I’m mixed race.
Flavours are always there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was working in an office late one night and one of the guys hadnt logged out so thought id do the right thing and switch off. He hadnt shut the screen down. Was curious so when i got home had a look myself. So here i am x
What!? Hahahha - browsing on a work computer! I don’t even think my laptop would go through the work servers before getting blocked!"
Wasnt a big company or anything like that just a couple of guys. No thrills. Suppose thats why its not around now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought it was a cooking site!
My playmate cooks better than myself
Aye - I’d consider myself an excellent cook. Could deliver orgasms through food (probably only way I can )
Orgasms through food
I may not look it - but I’m mixed race.
Flavours are always there! "
Nah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend in our local kink scene told us about fab, knowing we were looking for another lady to join us.
We are also on FL as a couple which we actually enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We’d been to the VA a couple of times...met a couple and played with them (first time we’d played). Agreed to stay in touch and they suggested messaging via Fab...set up an account the next day!"
So how did you come across VA? There must of been something that triggered that - was it random googling or a friend suggesting it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone on mumsnet recommended fab, very glad she did!
On mumsnet!? Wow hahaha - I thought that was a very PG forum! "
That’s where I had my first experience with a woman. And what made me google bi curious and end up here! |
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"Someone on mumsnet recommended fab, very glad she did!
On mumsnet!? Wow hahaha - I thought that was a very PG forum!
That’s where I had my first experience with a woman. And what made me google bi curious and end up here!"
So mumsnet is a women only fab? Who knew! Ha ha
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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Got to be at least 20 years ago and finding contact magazines in a Soho bookshop (pre-internet days), then finding clubs through a DVD being sold at Erotica. One of those clubs in the DVD had links to A N Other site which at the time was the proverbial wotsits, but sadly then taken over and since rapidly gone downhill. One member of said other site started her own forum which was small but dragged a great load of people into it but it sadly had to close so lucked out and found Fab after a Google search. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone on mumsnet recommended fab, very glad she did!
On mumsnet!? Wow hahaha - I thought that was a very PG forum!
That’s where I had my first experience with a woman. And what made me google bi curious and end up here!"
WHAT!?! FROM MUMSNET!?! Oh fuck! Hahaha |
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I met a couple in a pub in London the lady spilt my drink with her handbag they offered to buy me another one got chatting to them ended up spending the weekend at theirs where they introduced me to fab was on it for 3 years had a break and came back on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone on mumsnet recommended fab, very glad she did!
On mumsnet!? Wow hahaha - I thought that was a very PG forum!
That’s where I had my first experience with a woman. And what made me google bi curious and end up here!
WHAT!?! FROM MUMSNET!?! Oh fuck! Hahaha"
Yeah. It was a bicurious post someone started and it was really popular! I got talking to a woman nearby and it progressed from there. I thought oh that was fun and googled haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone on mumsnet recommended fab, very glad she did!
On mumsnet!? Wow hahaha - I thought that was a very PG forum!
That’s where I had my first experience with a woman. And what made me google bi curious and end up here!
WHAT!?! FROM MUMSNET!?! Oh fuck! Hahaha
Yeah. It was a bicurious post someone started and it was really popular! I got talking to a woman nearby and it progressed from there. I thought oh that was fun and googled haha " whats mumsnet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone on mumsnet recommended fab, very glad she did!
On mumsnet!? Wow hahaha - I thought that was a very PG forum!
That’s where I had my first experience with a woman. And what made me google bi curious and end up here!
WHAT!?! FROM MUMSNET!?! Oh fuck! Hahaha
Yeah. It was a bicurious post someone started and it was really popular! I got talking to a woman nearby and it progressed from there. I thought oh that was fun and googled haha "
I need to join Mumsnet, also my gf on their should I be worried???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone on mumsnet recommended fab, very glad she did!
On mumsnet!? Wow hahaha - I thought that was a very PG forum!
That’s where I had my first experience with a woman. And what made me google bi curious and end up here!
WHAT!?! FROM MUMSNET!?! Oh fuck! Hahaha
Yeah. It was a bicurious post someone started and it was really popular! I got talking to a woman nearby and it progressed from there. I thought oh that was fun and googled haha whats mumsnet"
It’s like a forum for mums with all different subjects. Mostly boring but some of it’s ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone on mumsnet recommended fab, very glad she did!
On mumsnet!? Wow hahaha - I thought that was a very PG forum!
That’s where I had my first experience with a woman. And what made me google bi curious and end up here!
WHAT!?! FROM MUMSNET!?! Oh fuck! Hahaha
Yeah. It was a bicurious post someone started and it was really popular! I got talking to a woman nearby and it progressed from there. I thought oh that was fun and googled haha whats mumsnet
It’s like a forum for mums with all different subjects. Mostly boring but some of it’s ok " ok sounds shit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone on mumsnet recommended fab, very glad she did!
On mumsnet!? Wow hahaha - I thought that was a very PG forum!
That’s where I had my first experience with a woman. And what made me google bi curious and end up here!
WHAT!?! FROM MUMSNET!?! Oh fuck! Hahaha
Yeah. It was a bicurious post someone started and it was really popular! I got talking to a woman nearby and it progressed from there. I thought oh that was fun and googled haha whats mumsnet
It’s like a forum for mums with all different subjects. Mostly boring but some of it’s ok ok sounds shit"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend suggested it to me after going to a swingers club with him for the 1st time but i didn't pay it no mind at the time. Then another friend told me a few months later and i realised this must bd the go to place as both of them are always fucking. Now i have been on and off here for the past 3-4yrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of the men at me works was showing off this site to him so googled it and joined, didn’t use it at first but then got into it and had our first meet and still here almost 3 years later x |
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By *rank40Man
over a year ago
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Funny story short- was banging girls from adultwork, I tried to bang a girl for free and she replied “this is not fabswinger” I was confused and googled what fabswinger was and signed up, a year later I’m still here and have not paid for pussy ever since hahahaha |
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Started looking for some female company through local newspaper columns, pointed me at another expensive subscription site. A year or more on there netted me one highly successful meet, and one possible that I still talk to on kik. She has yet to bite the bullet, but we live in hopes. Stumbled onto fab swingers and have never looked back. My verifications will tell you it's been a very good year. |
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Some years ago while with friends the discussion on you would like another guy or lady to join a couple come up we talked about keeping it between us and then someone mentioned this site we decided that one couple would pick someone each week we tossed a coin it was us to go first we then tossed a coin for guy or lady me and my wife wanted a lady but the toss went for a guy my wife and friends started to look they found a guy who we met at a friend's house the following weekend we then we're hooked |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Funny story short- was banging girls from adultwork, I tried to bang a girl for free and she replied “this is not fabswinger” I was confused and googled what fabswinger was and signed up, a year later I’m still here and have not paid for pussy ever since hahahaha "
Hahahahaha - if that’s true. That’s one of the best stories I’ve heard... recommendation from an escort - she played herself. |
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By *rank40Man
over a year ago
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"Funny story short- was banging girls from adultwork, I tried to bang a girl for free and she replied “this is not fabswinger” I was confused and googled what fabswinger was and signed up, a year later I’m still here and have not paid for pussy ever since hahahaha
Hahahahaha - if that’s true. That’s one of the best stories I’ve heard... recommendation from an escort - she played herself. "
Played herself for sure |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Partner suggested it, "OK" I said, so here I am....
Hopefully, with me being a virgin, will experience a new beginning to some fun, and some great sex "
Well welcome to the world of fab! I hope you find the ultimate pleasure here! Don’t be afraid to socialise at clubs too! Can meet some great people there!
Happy fabbing |
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Lying naked on the beach with my wife and our best female friend in Cap D'Agde and they decided to take a dip in the sea. Couple next to me leaned forward and asked what my secret is, as they're both stunning. They gave me a card with their Fab details, we registered and now count this very same couple as good friends.
We've met on holiday every year since with the exception of this year and we miss them x |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
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"We’d been to the VA a couple of times...met a couple and played with them (first time we’d played). Agreed to stay in touch and they suggested messaging via Fab...set up an account the next day!
So how did you come across VA? There must of been something that triggered that - was it random googling or a friend suggesting it? "
We discussed the option of Mrs T playing with another woman whilst I watched, researched it. Found the VA (it’s not very far away from us) and decided to go and see what all the fuss was about...it did take us 18 months to pluck up the courage though |
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"Partner suggested it, "OK" I said, so here I am....
Hopefully, with me being a virgin, will experience a new beginning to some fun, and some great sex "
Can't PM, so a 4'9" pocket rocket it would seem. |
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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago
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"Partner suggested it, "OK" I said, so here I am....
Hopefully, with me being a virgin, will experience a new beginning to some fun, and some great sex
Well welcome to the world of fab! I hope you find the ultimate pleasure here! Don’t be afraid to socialise at clubs too! Can meet some great people there!
Happy fabbing "
Thks |
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An ex had told me about it years ago then I heard people from the kink scene talking about it. I didn't join for years as I'm not really one for totally no strings attached sex but then I met someone on Feeld who used it and what he said changed my mind so I decided to give it a try. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The promise of cake
Ohhhh there’s plenty of cake, peaches. Whatever you want the acronym to be oh Victoria sponge, I really ment cake
I want real cake too!" and ice cream oh and tea , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy (part of a couple) that I meet told me all about it.. This was 3 years ago, somewhere in that time I deleted my 1st single profile but hey ho here i am again |
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