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Do women really seek men on here?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've read so many profiles on Fab (I like to ensure I get an understanding of womens' wants and wantnots) and every so often a woman will say "don't message me, if I want a man I will seek him"..
I've had a girlfriend on here before and she would get inundated with messages on a daily. She never had to seek a man.
So it makes me wonder: how often do
the fairer sex actually cast their net and approach men on fab? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've read so many profiles on Fab (I like to ensure I get an understanding of womens' wants and wantnots) and every so often a woman will say "don't message me, if I want a man I will seek him"..
I've had a girlfriend on here before and she would get inundated with messages on a daily. She never had to seek a man.
So it makes me wonder: how often do
the fairer sex actually cast their net and approach men on fab?"
I've had a few messages/approaches from women, and regardless of my level of interest, I'm always happy and flattered to receive them, and respond a such |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've read so many profiles on Fab (I like to ensure I get an understanding of womens' wants and wantnots) and every so often a woman will say "don't message me, if I want a man I will seek him"..
I've had a girlfriend on here before and she would get inundated with messages on a daily. She never had to seek a man.
So it makes me wonder: how often do
the fairer sex actually cast their net and approach men on fab?"
On the forum they do. On wider Fab they also do, but the difference in number, by comparison, given the difference in number, is remarkable.
On the forum you are given the opportunity to prove you are who you say you are. That you can communicate effectively and build up a rapport.
In wider Fab, you've only your photos, your profile and the messages you send.
The messages men send usually start "Hello my name is" Or "I want to *horrific acts of some descrption* to you".
So if you're going to send them, make it STAND OUT.
If your not, expect a quiet life on Fab. Though, with a good variety of photos, spaced out regularly, over time and profile text that STANDS OUT from the crowd of cock.
Then you might just get a message. Though it's not going to happen very quickly. A lot of people like to watch on Fab, they Lurk, Lust and Lie in wait to make their move. Maybe hoping you'll make yours first?
I like to wait for them  If you do too, try to use the Forum to show people who YOU are. |
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Yes. It's good to make contact with someone I like, as it's pot luck for who makes contact with me. Both bring success. Guys, keep up your hard work - we appreciate it and love you for your determination to satisfy us all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was on a single profile I would, and I’ve messaged men I find attractive if I’m doing a bukkake meet. I don’t tend to otherwise, as I don’t meet men as a rule, so that would be misleading, and as such not fair nor honest. Viv xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't read messages I only go after who I want. It's easier that way. I'm looking for something specific though. I also won't approach anyone that regularly uses the forum. There is a whole big world outside of the forum. That's where the true gems that meet my search criteria lie. |
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It is surely about having respect but there are a lot of pervs or fakes who ruin it, mind you wherever you go it will happen, I have some female friends on here who spot the odd ones straight away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been successful by chasing interesting people around the forum threads and starting something from there.
In the real world it's the actual flirting and twinkle in somebodys eye that starts the ball rolling. When you see that twinkle, you both just know...
Looking for people on FAB profiles and sending a first message, just doesn't work for me.
Put me in a room with somebody..
And the basic instinct...guys chase girls..girls play hard to get, but not too hard when somebody shows them the right attention..
Hard to replicate on forums, but not impossible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never - Women get bombarded with messages on here and I’ve never had the need to go looking
I don’t open many messages as the few words shown in the preview is often enough to know that it’s going nowhere e.g. one word messages like ‘hello’
Also I check profiles before opening messages so if I don’t like the profile I don’t open the message.
I reply to about 1% of messages I receive and usually then it is only to men I chat with regularly
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you misunderstand their point. They don’t like to be swamped with messages so they’d rather not be messaged at all and if they want a man they will do the messaging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples..... "
Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....
Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples "
My nipples are dripping with inbox from messages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....
Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples
My nipples are dripping with inbox from messages "
Hang on a second! messages can't send inboxes! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....
Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples
My nipples are dripping with inbox from messages
Hang on a second! messages can't send inboxes!"
It doesn't concern you that my nipples are dripping with inbox? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you misunderstand their point. They don’t like to be swamped with messages so they’d rather not be messaged at all and if they want a man they will do the messaging. "
Wasn't the point he was making that if you don't try you might miss out and fall to the bottom of the pile? I kinda get that, and I've had dates from being proactive and messaging people or couples who apparently do their own seeking.... (maybe I've lost dates with that same approach too, but fuck it....) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....
Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples "
Bitty.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....
Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples
My nipples are dripping with inbox from messages
Hang on a second! messages can't send inboxes!
It doesn't concern you that my nipples are dripping with inbox? "
Initially? Very much so, till I realised messages can't send inboxes and therefore your nipples simply can't be dripping with inbox. The lengths some people go to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been approached more times than I can believe!
Ladies do make the first move. I am amazed and stunned when someone does, I must stand out from the crowd more than I realise |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....
Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples
My nipples are dripping with inbox from messages
Hang on a second! messages can't send inboxes!
It doesn't concern you that my nipples are dripping with inbox?
Initially? Very much so, till I realised messages can't send inboxes and therefore your nipples simply can't be dripping with inbox. The lengths some people go to "
What if you're sending a copy of an inbox in a message? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....
Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples
My nipples are dripping with inbox from messages
Hang on a second! messages can't send inboxes!
It doesn't concern you that my nipples are dripping with inbox?
Initially? Very much so, till I realised messages can't send inboxes and therefore your nipples simply can't be dripping with inbox. The lengths some people go to
What if you're sending a copy of an inbox in a message? "
I'd get down the local GUM Clinic, that sounds nasty |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....
Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples
My nipples are dripping with inbox from messages
Hang on a second! messages can't send inboxes!
It doesn't concern you that my nipples are dripping with inbox?
Initially? Very much so, till I realised messages can't send inboxes and therefore your nipples simply can't be dripping with inbox. The lengths some people go to
What if you're sending a copy of an inbox in a message?
I'd get down the local GUM Clinic, that sounds nasty "
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"They don’t. That would require a bit of effort
They do, maybe just not you.
I message/wink quite often. "
I always avoided winking as it felt lazy... but I am a single man who can construct a sentence which I understand is a rarity on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will occasionally look for men, but I won't wink or message if there's no face pic, however good their body or profile might be. "
Not every good guy wants to be recognised locally.. just a thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only come on here when I have had a drink. I treat it like a game. No women on here could ever convince me to meet them in a million years. I have a beautiful wife and intend to keep it that way. Haha. Good luck though dick pic guys. Haha |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I only come on here when I have had a drink. I treat it like a game. No women on here could ever convince me to meet them in a million years. I have a beautiful wife and intend to keep it that way. Haha. Good luck though dick pic guys. Haha"
I'm not sure your wife would be happy you're on here exchanging pics with women  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I only come on here when I have had a drink. I treat it like a game. No women on here could ever convince me to meet them in a million years. I have a beautiful wife and intend to keep it that way. Haha. Good luck though dick pic guys. Haha"
Wait, your profile says you're looking for fun with women |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only come on here when I have had a drink. I treat it like a game. No women on here could ever convince me to meet them in a million years. I have a beautiful wife and intend to keep it that way. Haha. Good luck though dick pic guys. Haha
I'm not sure your wife would be happy you're on here exchanging pics with women "
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"I will occasionally look for men, but I won't wink or message if there's no face pic, however good their body or profile might be.
Not every good guy wants to be recognised locally.. just a thought. "
Oh I'm well aware, I just don't want to open myself up to a torrent of abuse, because heaven forbid I might not be attracted to someone once I've seen their face |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only come on here when I have had a drink. I treat it like a game. No women on here could ever convince me to meet them in a million years. I have a beautiful wife and intend to keep it that way. Haha. Good luck though dick pic guys. Haha"
The first line of this post makes the thread you started a whole lot clearer.
You're not sober.
P |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only come on here when I have had a drink. I treat it like a game. No women on here could ever convince me to meet them in a million years. I have a beautiful wife and intend to keep it that way. Haha. Good luck though dick pic guys. Haha
The first line of this post makes the thread you started a whole lot clearer.
You're not sober.
P"
And every post on every thread tonight.
Have a kip bum. It will be better in the morning |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only come on here when I have had a drink. I treat it like a game. No women on here could ever convince me to meet them in a million years. I have a beautiful wife and intend to keep it that way. Haha. Good luck though dick pic guys. Haha
The first line of this post makes the thread you started a whole lot clearer.
You're not sober.
P
Thanks doll. Means a lot.
And every post on every thread tonight.
Have a kip bum. It will be better in the morning"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had quite a few women make the first contact over the 2 profiles I've had in about 10 years ish!!! 
quite lucky maybe, or maybe because I engage in forums I don't know?!  . Maybe it’s just that snappy name you mustered up???
maybe your right...
It must be good if you say....especially as you quoted/messaged me twice!!!   "
Love you jiz monkey! I know you are probably a real straight shooter. I tail chaser of the highest order |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had quite a few women make the first contact over the 2 profiles I've had in about 10 years ish!!!
quite lucky maybe, or maybe because I engage in forums I don't know?! . Maybe it’s just that snappy name you mustered up???
maybe your right...
It must be good if you say....especially as you quoted/messaged me twice!!!
Have you pulled jizzy?  "
Forum bants!! Amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only come on here when I have had a drink. I treat it like a game. No women on here could ever convince me to meet them in a million years. I have a beautiful wife and intend to keep it that way. Haha. Good luck though dick pic guys. Haha
The first line of this post makes the thread you started a whole lot clearer.
You're not sober.
P
Thanks doll. Means a lot.
And every post on every thread tonight.
Have a kip bum. It will be better in the morning"
No worries, but do have a rest x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thankfully my nipples arent dripping...
I’m sad my nipples aren’t dripping.
its overrated "
Trying my hardest to be upbeat and nice. You should be the same. It costs nothing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thankfully my nipples arent dripping...
I’m sad my nipples aren’t dripping.
its overrated
Trying my hardest to be upbeat and nice. You should be the same. It costs nothing?"
R u ok hun? You seem very angry at someone/something
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"Thankfully my nipples arent dripping...
I’m sad my nipples aren’t dripping.
its overrated
Trying my hardest to be upbeat and nice. You should be the same. It costs nothing?"
Sorry, we'll make Genghis use a cover when breastfeeding in future. That's what's offending you right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thankfully my nipples arent dripping...
I’m sad my nipples aren’t dripping.
its overrated
Trying my hardest to be upbeat and nice. You should be the same. It costs nothing?
Sorry, we'll make Genghis use a cover when breastfeeding in future. That's what's offending you right?"
Not speaking to you anyway babe! I messaged you two months ago inviting you to spain! We are done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really? Please let me know where I have been angry! If you can quote one angry statement of mine I will give you a prize! Hurry up!! 3"
Erm this comes across as quite angry. You are scaring me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really? Please let me know where I have been angry! If you can quote one angry statement of mine I will give you a prize! Hurry up!! 3
Erm this comes across as quite angry. You are scaring me "
You win. Let’s make sure people aren’t subjected to that sort of anger again. You should report me. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fuck I wish I had the energy to stay up, this could be quite a funny thread..... "
Imagine wanting to stay up to witness the sex site banter. Real hoot you are buddy!!! |
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"Thankfully my nipples arent dripping...
I’m sad my nipples aren’t dripping.
its overrated
Trying my hardest to be upbeat and nice. You should be the same. It costs nothing?
Sorry, we'll make Genghis use a cover when breastfeeding in future. That's what's offending you right?
Not speaking to you anyway babe! I messaged you two months ago inviting you to spain! We are done. "
Wow... clearly I didn't want to go to Spain soz |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fuck I wish I had the energy to stay up, this could be quite a funny thread.....
Imagine wanting to stay up to witness the sex site banter. Real hoot you are buddy!!!"
Whatcha doooooiiinnnnnn..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi we have had more than one contact us but we are a couple try be your self in the forum...
I try not to pull to many punches .. "
You really don’t want that my friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really? Please let me know where I have been angry! If you can quote one angry statement of mine I will give you a prize! Hurry up!! 3
Erm this comes across as quite angry. You are scaring me
You win. Let’s make sure people aren’t subjected to that sort of anger again. You should report me. X"
Nah I dont report chicken pie. I like the bantz too much  |
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Its fairly easy once you think about it.
A confident woman who knows what she wants will browse profiles look to see what she likes and mails them.
A less confident/lazy/less switched on one will just pick from what she is offered not realising there is better out there!
If you went into tescos you wouldn't pick from 10 trolleys of shopping already bagged up and take one you would go round and pick exactly what you want not make do with whats pushed on you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its fairly easy once you think about it.
A confident woman who knows what she wants will browse profiles look to see what she likes and mails them.
A less confident/lazy/less switched on one will just pick from what she is offered not realising there is better out there!
If you went into tescos you wouldn't pick from 10 trolleys of shopping already bagged up and take one you would go round and pick exactly what you want not make do with whats pushed on you. "
You have just hit the nail on the head! I agree with everything you are saying. But you are
Posting pics on a sex site. The nice girls are all in bed getting their shopping delivered from Waitrose. Lol |
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"Its fairly easy once you think about it.
A confident woman who knows what she wants will browse profiles look to see what she likes and mails them.
A less confident/lazy/less switched on one will just pick from what she is offered not realising there is better out there!
If you went into tescos you wouldn't pick from 10 trolleys of shopping already bagged up and take one you would go round and pick exactly what you want not make do with whats pushed on you. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've read so many profiles on Fab (I like to ensure I get an understanding of womens' wants and wantnots) and every so often a woman will say "don't message me, if I want a man I will seek him"..
I've had a girlfriend on here before and she would get inundated with messages on a daily. She never had to seek a man.
So it makes me wonder: how often do
the fairer sex actually cast their net and approach men on fab?"
No. I act like every other woman in here. I like the attention and to see who would fuck me. There's no chance I would meet the desperate idiots it's just a way to pass my boring day and get a ego boost and blow up my ego |
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