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breaking the ice

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi so I'm pretty new here and everywhere I go there seems to be the obvious walls of experience nobody wants to meet unverified people,and this begets a closed community to newcomers and I havent really had any luck even just having a conversation:/ wondered If anyone had any advice or tips? Thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here’s a wee secret; nine times out of ten, people don’t care about verifications

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By *ngelina4uWoman over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

Venture into the chatrooms and say hello for a start.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Hi so I'm pretty new here and everywhere I go there seems to be the obvious walls of experience nobody wants to meet unverified people,and this begets a closed community to newcomers and I havent really had any luck even just having a conversation:/ wondered If anyone had any advice or tips? Thanks in advance."

Be patient and just try to get involved. It took 3 years for me to get a meet so just keep at it. The forums a very good to build up rapports.

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By *atisfying jackMan over a year ago

Hereford

Call yourself the titanic and just barrel on in there!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

Get in to the club's and social events will get 10 time's the fun than just doing the fab ...

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

I think yr username may put some people off much more than your lack of verifications

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Half a charley works well breaking ice (disclaimer this is a half house brick not a drug reference

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I have, and would again meet someone with no veris.

It's not the lack of them that would put me off meeting someone

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