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someone I was seeing ( even though we weren't a couple ) - see status - basically he's threatening to tell my parents that I'm on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why? |
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The main question is , are you bothered if they know anyway ?? |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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I cheated on him even though we weren't together. A friend of his sent him a screenshot of my profile.
And yes I would be worried if they found out :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That’s a shit thing to do. He may not. Could be just a threat. If you don’t want anyone to know maybe don’t mix the two. Nobody would ever even know who my mum was or the actual village I live in. Fab and real life don’t mix for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What a Sh*t, report him! I also believe it's against the law in the UK to send things about others without their permission. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get revenge |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
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Sorry I thought you meant he was threatening in his status update.  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Take screenshot of him and tell him you'll post them on his social media, or alternatively tell him you'll contact the police. He has everything to lose and nothing to gain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell his mates mum or put posters of him nude on lamp posts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell his mates mum or put posters of him nude on lamp posts "
This
I bloody would |
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"That’s a shit thing to do. He may not. Could be just a threat. If you don’t want anyone to know maybe don’t mix the two. Nobody would ever even know who my mum was or the actual village I live in. Fab and real life don’t mix for me. "
this
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Take screenshot of him and tell him you'll post them on his social media, or alternatively tell him you'll contact the police. He has everything to lose and nothing to gain. "
this. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"someone I was seeing ( even though we weren't a couple ) - see status - basically he's threatening to tell my parents that I'm on here "
I would remove that status and not give the person the satisfaction of knowing you’re bothered. Warn your parents that someone is trying to cause trouble and then if someone does tell them, say it’s a set up and fake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe do a gareth thomas and get out in front of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"someone I was seeing ( even though we weren't a couple ) - see status - basically he's threatening to tell my parents that I'm on here "
I'm pretty sure that's against the law. |
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"I cheated on him even though we weren't together. A friend of his sent him a screenshot of my profile.
And yes I would be worried if they found out :/"
If you were not together it's not cheating?
I'm assuming he just wants you to himself? Is he in here? Does he meet other people?
Hopefully he is all mouth, however it is bl*ck mail which is a criminal offense.
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"I cheated on him even though we weren't together. A friend of his sent him a screenshot of my profile.
And yes I would be worried if they found out :/
If you were not together it's not cheating?
I'm assuming he just wants you to himself? Is he in here? Does he meet other people?
Hopefully he is all mouth, however it is bl*ck mail which is a criminal offense.
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Pretty much him wanting me all to himself even though he has a girlfriend. Ah the joys |
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1 hide your profile
2 put any photos to private
3 change the location on your profile
4 take advice from the police
5 dump the guy
6 go and see your mum, tell her a guy is causing you trouble and might tell her some stuff that isn't true.
In short take charge of the situation.
A guy our daughter was seeing kept telling her he was going to tell us what she was "really like" when she finished with him. We advised her to tell him to bring it on because it was unlikely she'd done anything worse than either of us. |
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Have hidden my profile and all pictures are private. Still dont know who sent him the screen shot. |
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"That’s a shit thing to do. He may not. Could be just a threat. If you don’t want anyone to know maybe don’t mix the two. Nobody would ever even know who my mum was or the actual village I live in. Fab and real life don’t mix for me. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell his gf |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just tell him if he does you will tell everyone he has a tiny cock that will the end of his threat |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
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"I cheated on him even though we weren't together. A friend of his sent him a screenshot of my profile.
And yes I would be worried if they found out :/"
How can you cheat on someone if you are not part of a couple and why say you cheated it makes no sense if you are not being honest.
Anyway contact the police though if he hasn't told your parents then they may not be interested its hard to say as I don't think we have all the real facts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Block him and extricate yourself from the drama |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cheated on him even though we weren't together. A friend of his sent him a screenshot of my profile.
And yes I would be worried if they found out :/
How can you cheat on someone if you are not part of a couple and why say you cheated it makes no sense if you are not being honest.
Anyway contact the police though if he hasn't told your parents then they may not be interested its hard to say as I don't think we have all the real facts. "
I was just thinking this
How can she cheat on him if they are not an item |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Tell his gf
Have done..."
That was a bit silly. Now he has nothing to lose by telling your parents. |
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How would you best react if someone suggested you were paying men for sex on swingers site. And other similar names ?
I know we weren't together as a couple hence why I dont feel bad for being on here. My concern was about him telling my parents |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile does not give out your date of birth and address. It could be anyone. Deny it and make your profile blocked for a while |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"How would you best react if someone suggested you were paying men for sex on swingers site. And other similar names ?
I know we weren't together as a couple hence why I dont feel bad for being on here. My concern was about him telling my parents "
I would be mad as hell, and id tell him if he did spill to my parents I'd be right round at his, telling his girlfriend. But you can't do that because you've already told her. You've lost the only leverage you had. |
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True. But she lives in Scotland
Plus when he was married he cheated on her with the now girlfriend. I know how pick them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a crime to show intimate images or videos, send them to another person, upload them to a website, or threaten to do this, without your consent. This includes so called 'revenge porn'.
If you do the same, you are just as guilty.
Report the person who sent the profile to Admin. And the police if you are confident enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"someone I was seeing ( even though we weren't a couple ) - see status - basically he's threatening to tell my parents that I'm on here "
Deny it
Deny everything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Deny deny deny then post his profile in his mates social media win win |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plausible deniability! Tell them he made the profile....easy to do!
Or tell him you told them! Remove his power... dont let the coward bully you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell his gf "
If he has a gf it’s just a threat. Be glad he’s gone and block him totally ans move on. Best of luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think your parents will see him for the gobshite he is ?? |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
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"Deny deny deny then post his profile in his mates social media win win"
Typical scouser giving information that will get the OP arrested. Calm down and engage brain before posting. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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There was more than one person who was saying out the man on social media...as normal only the male seems to be being pulled up on it
I say anyone who said out the man on social media can't then complain that he was saying he would do it to the OP...it is doing the same thing  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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To the OP, report on here if he threatened you on here |
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