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over a year ago
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After a discussion with a close friend on here we realised our messaging styles are completely opposite.... I go in with humour, for example 'do you want to plough me?' Or 'I enjoy your man nips', whereas she is alluring and sexual. Obviously she does better than me, so what is your messaging style? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends.
My opening messages are generally inquiring, factual, something to try and start a conversation but generally ineffective.
FPF normally involves a self depracating health warning.
A response to a forum post will normally follow on from a comment or observation.
Messages to friends will allow me to open up more, may be more tongue in cheek, or if required a sympathetic unjudgemental shoulder to unburden on to.
I'm a complex beast so there is no size fits all.
Although I normally use too many words or get friendzoned early on  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I usually start with dry humour with a smattering of sarcasm, then can degenerate from there"
I'm shit at small talk in real life haha I've tried all the usual messaging styles but decided to just be me  |
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"I usually start with dry humour with a smattering of sarcasm, then can degenerate from there
I'm shit at small talk in real life haha I've tried all the usual messaging styles but decided to just be me "
I'm the same in real life as my messaging style on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I usually start with dry humour with a smattering of sarcasm, then can degenerate from there
I'm shit at small talk in real life haha I've tried all the usual messaging styles but decided to just be me
I'm the same in real life as my messaging style on here "
I dont think we have ever messaged lol |
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"After a discussion with a close friend on here we realised our messaging styles are completely opposite.... I go in with humour, for example 'do you want to plough me?' Or 'I enjoy your man nips', whereas she is alluring and sexual. Obviously she does better than me, so what is your messaging style? "
I've often thought about this.
I'm polite, I compliment their profile and ask about their day and FAB experience...
I've got to be honest, I'm not having much luck this way .....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After a discussion with a close friend on here we realised our messaging styles are completely opposite.... I go in with humour, for example 'do you want to plough me?' Or 'I enjoy your man nips', whereas she is alluring and sexual. Obviously she does better than me, so what is your messaging style?
I've often thought about this.
I'm polite, I compliment their profile and ask about their day and FAB experience...
I've got to be honest, I'm not having much luck this way ..... "
Try my way and go in hard  |
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"I usually start with dry humour with a smattering of sarcasm, then can degenerate from there
I'm shit at small talk in real life haha I've tried all the usual messaging styles but decided to just be me
I'm the same in real life as my messaging style on here
I dont think we have ever messaged lol"
Could be remedied .. and that wasn't dry sarcasm |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I usually start with dry humour with a smattering of sarcasm, then can degenerate from there
I'm shit at small talk in real life haha I've tried all the usual messaging styles but decided to just be me
I'm the same in real life as my messaging style on here
I dont think we have ever messaged lol
Could be remedied .. and that wasn't dry sarcasm "
Warning though if you start with me I bring incandescent along for the ride |
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"I usually start with dry humour with a smattering of sarcasm, then can degenerate from there
I'm shit at small talk in real life haha I've tried all the usual messaging styles but decided to just be me
I'm the same in real life as my messaging style on here
I dont think we have ever messaged lol
Could be remedied .. and that wasn't dry sarcasm
Warning though if you start with me I bring incandescent along for the ride "
Winner winner chicken dinner  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I usually start with dry humour with a smattering of sarcasm, then can degenerate from there
I'm shit at small talk in real life haha I've tried all the usual messaging styles but decided to just be me
I'm the same in real life as my messaging style on here
I dont think we have ever messaged lol
Could be remedied .. and that wasn't dry sarcasm
Warning though if you start with me I bring incandescent along for the ride
Winner winner chicken dinner "
Are you reading this incandescent? I've pulled for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually start with dry humour with a smattering of sarcasm, then can degenerate from there
I'm shit at small talk in real life haha I've tried all the usual messaging styles but decided to just be me
I'm the same in real life as my messaging style on here
I dont think we have ever messaged lol
Could be remedied .. and that wasn't dry sarcasm
Warning though if you start with me I bring incandescent along for the ride
Winner winner chicken dinner
Are you reading this incandescent? I've pulled for us "
He couldn’t cope with the both of us sweetheart. Could any man? |
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"I usually start with dry humour with a smattering of sarcasm, then can degenerate from there
I'm shit at small talk in real life haha I've tried all the usual messaging styles but decided to just be me
I'm the same in real life as my messaging style on here
I dont think we have ever messaged lol
Could be remedied .. and that wasn't dry sarcasm
Warning though if you start with me I bring incandescent along for the ride
Winner winner chicken dinner
Are you reading this incandescent? I've pulled for us
He couldn’t cope with the both of us sweetheart. Could any man?"
Try me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I usually start with dry humour with a smattering of sarcasm, then can degenerate from there
I'm shit at small talk in real life haha I've tried all the usual messaging styles but decided to just be me
I'm the same in real life as my messaging style on here
I dont think we have ever messaged lol
Could be remedied .. and that wasn't dry sarcasm
Warning though if you start with me I bring incandescent along for the ride
Winner winner chicken dinner
Are you reading this incandescent? I've pulled for us
He couldn’t cope with the both of us sweetheart. Could any man?
Try me "
12 men maybe |
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"I usually start with dry humour with a smattering of sarcasm, then can degenerate from there
I'm shit at small talk in real life haha I've tried all the usual messaging styles but decided to just be me
I'm the same in real life as my messaging style on here
I dont think we have ever messaged lol
Could be remedied .. and that wasn't dry sarcasm
Warning though if you start with me I bring incandescent along for the ride
Winner winner chicken dinner
Are you reading this incandescent? I've pulled for us
He couldn’t cope with the both of us sweetheart. Could any man?
Try me
12 men maybe "
How sexist!!! Women can by jurors too  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I usually start with dry humour with a smattering of sarcasm, then can degenerate from there
I'm shit at small talk in real life haha I've tried all the usual messaging styles but decided to just be me
I'm the same in real life as my messaging style on here
I dont think we have ever messaged lol
Could be remedied .. and that wasn't dry sarcasm
Warning though if you start with me I bring incandescent along for the ride
Winner winner chicken dinner
Are you reading this incandescent? I've pulled for us
He couldn’t cope with the both of us sweetheart. Could any man?
Try me
12 men maybe
How sexist!!! Women can by jurors too "
A few women can come too then |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"After a discussion with a close friend on here we realised our messaging styles are completely opposite.... I go in with humour, for example 'do you want to plough me?' Or 'I enjoy your man nips', whereas she is alluring and sexual. Obviously she does better than me, so what is your messaging style? "
There are message styles, I send the first thing that pops in my head. |
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"I usually start with dry humour with a smattering of sarcasm, then can degenerate from there
I'm shit at small talk in real life haha I've tried all the usual messaging styles but decided to just be me
I'm the same in real life as my messaging style on here
I dont think we have ever messaged lol
Could be remedied .. and that wasn't dry sarcasm
Warning though if you start with me I bring incandescent along for the ride
Winner winner chicken dinner
Are you reading this incandescent? I've pulled for us
He couldn’t cope with the both of us sweetheart. Could any man?
Try me
12 men maybe
How sexist!!! Women can by jurors too
A few women can come too then "
Oh yes ... heaven  |
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"After a discussion with a close friend on here we realised our messaging styles are completely opposite.... I go in with humour, for example 'do you want to plough me?' Or 'I enjoy your man nips', whereas she is alluring and sexual. Obviously she does better than me, so what is your messaging style?
I've often thought about this.
I'm polite, I compliment their profile and ask about their day and FAB experience...
I've got to be honest, I'm not having much luck this way .....
Try my way and go in hard "
Ha ha .... Well it can't be any worse |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had a amazing message of a woman telling me do I want to plough her..
She sounds like a right catch
She was ...
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Well Nevermind Aladdin, these things happen for a reason  maybe someone else will ask you to plough them soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a amazing message of a woman telling me do I want to plough her..
She sounds like a right catch
She was ...
Well Nevermind Aladdin, these things happen for a reason maybe someone else will ask you to plough them soon "
Who's knows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a amazing message of a woman telling me do I want to plough her..
She sounds like a right catch
She was ...
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So how did you mess it up Aladdin? Rub your lamp the wrong way? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"‘Plough’? ‘Man nips’?
Could I have an example of your friends alluring? "
Steve you are just bloody rude but I'll ask her to share her sexual messages.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a amazing message of a woman telling me do I want to plough her..
She sounds like a right catch
She was ...
So how did you mess it up Aladdin? Rub your lamp the wrong way?"
For one I didn't use any oil and it doesn't polish aswell and also I think my net wasn't strong enough
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I'm a bit of a social chameleon and adapt a little depending on who I'm talking to, fundamentally I stay the same though. Same views, same beliefs, hold fast. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a amazing message of a woman telling me do I want to plough her..
She sounds like a right catch
She was ...
So how did you mess it up Aladdin? Rub your lamp the wrong way?
For one I didn't use any oil and it doesn't polish aswell and also I think my net wasn't strong enough
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So learn from your mistakes Grasshopper.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"‘Plough’? ‘Man nips’?
Could I have an example of your friends alluring? "
She asked me to show you this...
Hey you. You are incredibly delicious and my tongue wants to work its way up and down the length of your body before it kisses you and fucks your mouth. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I'm a bit of a social chameleon and adapt a little depending on who I'm talking to, fundamentally I stay the same though. Same views, same beliefs, hold fast. "
So a little bit stubborn? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had a amazing message of a woman telling me do I want to plough her..
She sounds like a right catch
She was ...
So how did you mess it up Aladdin? Rub your lamp the wrong way?
For one I didn't use any oil and it doesn't polish aswell and also I think my net wasn't strong enough
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Maybe she was firmly in your net and you threw her out because she wasnt the one you were after  |
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"‘Plough’? ‘Man nips’?
Could I have an example of your friends alluring?
Steve you are just bloody rude but I'll ask her to share her sexual messages.... "
Could you ask her (politely) to make them detailed and really graphic? |
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It's possibly just a bit of over thinking but I find myself holding back from the type of messages you've mentioned (even though I do find them funny) because I'm always concerned that the other person won't share my humour and will just assume I'm much cruder than I really am.
I suppose I shouldn't care, but still find myself playing it safe  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's possibly just a bit of over thinking but I find myself holding back from the type of messages you've mentioned (even though I do find them funny) because I'm always concerned that the other person won't share my humour and will just assume I'm much cruder than I really am.
I suppose I shouldn't care, but still find myself playing it safe "
Just let it go and be you my friend! If they dont find it funny they probably wont get you haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I lack style
Still cant type
So messages, just something else new to learn
Off back to the cave wondering about all this evolution stuff...."
Shhhh we have spoken before and you send lovely messages |
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"It's possibly just a bit of over thinking but I find myself holding back from the type of messages you've mentioned (even though I do find them funny) because I'm always concerned that the other person won't share my humour and will just assume I'm much cruder than I really am.
I suppose I shouldn't care, but still find myself playing it safe
Just let it go and be you my friend! If they dont find it funny they probably wont get you haha"
Genuinely good advice that I couldn't help but hear in a Jerry Springer's final thought voice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I'm a bit of a social chameleon and adapt a little depending on who I'm talking to, fundamentally I stay the same though. Same views, same beliefs, hold fast.
So a little bit stubborn? "
Only a little. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's possibly just a bit of over thinking but I find myself holding back from the type of messages you've mentioned (even though I do find them funny) because I'm always concerned that the other person won't share my humour and will just assume I'm much cruder than I really am.
I suppose I shouldn't care, but still find myself playing it safe
Just let it go and be you my friend! If they dont find it funny they probably wont get you haha
Genuinely good advice that I couldn't help but hear in a Jerry Springer's final thought voice "
So are you saying I sound like a man....rude |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I'm a bit of a social chameleon and adapt a little depending on who I'm talking to, fundamentally I stay the same though. Same views, same beliefs, hold fast.
So a little bit stubborn?
Only a little."
I think probably a lot but hey we should all stand by our views! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No frills messages.
I've been told that I would do better if I came across more bubbly and cherfull but anyone can have a way with words and that's just being fake. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No frills messages.
I've been told that I would do better if I came across more bubbly and cherfull but anyone can have a way with words and that's just being fake. "
You could maybe let some of your personality shine through though? |
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"It's possibly just a bit of over thinking but I find myself holding back from the type of messages you've mentioned (even though I do find them funny) because I'm always concerned that the other person won't share my humour and will just assume I'm much cruder than I really am.
I suppose I shouldn't care, but still find myself playing it safe
Just let it go and be you my friend! If they dont find it funny they probably wont get you haha
Genuinely good advice that I couldn't help but hear in a Jerry Springer's final thought voice
So are you saying I sound like a man....rude "
Haha. It's a compliment. I'm comparing you to the wisest person ever to have lived |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's possibly just a bit of over thinking but I find myself holding back from the type of messages you've mentioned (even though I do find them funny) because I'm always concerned that the other person won't share my humour and will just assume I'm much cruder than I really am.
I suppose I shouldn't care, but still find myself playing it safe
Just let it go and be you my friend! If they dont find it funny they probably wont get you haha
Genuinely good advice that I couldn't help but hear in a Jerry Springer's final thought voice
So are you saying I sound like a man....rude
Haha. It's a compliment. I'm comparing you to the wisest person ever to have lived "
I'll take it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After a discussion with a close friend on here we realised our messaging styles are completely opposite.... I go in with humour, for example 'do you want to plough me?' Or 'I enjoy your man nips', whereas she is alluring and sexual. Obviously she does better than me, so what is your messaging style? "
A comedic message wins me over every time. I’d probably reply with something like “I’d plough you til it broke” or something. I dunno, its pretty much contextual anyway. PM me something funny and see what happens haha |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Not sure I have a "style" as such, I'm just me and type as I would speak if we were face to face - any style normally comes from finding someone likeminded and on the same wavelength that you find a style with that just sees messages flowing naturally and without real pause for thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feed off someone's energy and adapt, but still true to myself. So usually pretty witty, able to drop sensual or kinky bomb here and there. I don't know if i do well. I am happy.
You be you x |
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"After a discussion with a close friend on here we realised our messaging styles are completely opposite.... I go in with humour, for example 'do you want to plough me?' Or 'I enjoy your man nips', whereas she is alluring and sexual. Obviously she does better than me, so what is your messaging style? "
Initially I try to be respectful and to show that I’m keen with some self deprecating humour. If the bio shows a very clear sense of humour then I try to match the vibe of it. I often think I come over better after 3/4 messages than just one |
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By *oleydelMan
over a year ago
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"‘Plough’? ‘Man nips’?
Could I have an example of your friends alluring?
She asked me to show you this...
Hey you. You are incredibly delicious and my tongue wants to work its way up and down the length of your body before it kisses you and fucks your mouth."
Genuine lol at the image of how a tongue fucking a mouth would look like. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oi oi, show us your monkey. I find this approach to work. Followed by a picture of my john Thomas, always gets a reply. "
I might try show us your monkey |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After a discussion with a close friend on here we realised our messaging styles are completely opposite.... I go in with humour, for example 'do you want to plough me?' Or 'I enjoy your man nips', whereas she is alluring and sexual. Obviously she does better than me, so what is your messaging style? "
Honesty about who we are, why we are here and what we are looking for. Few no's unsolicited FR, send message not a wink etc.
All of which is ignored or unread. Those that do read are scared off - guess they don like honesty  |
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Every message is personal & they differ according to who i`m sending it to & what it says in their profile.
The hardest part is being creative & messaging someone with a profile that`s almost blank. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just press the middle button on my word suggestion bar until a semi coherent sentence pops out!
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Well I went for the ....do you need any help...kind of message for you |
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"I just press the middle button on my word suggestion bar until a semi coherent sentence pops out!
Well I went for the ....do you need any help...kind of message for you "
And then it degenerated into a long conversation about a severed foot (still in a boot)..... oh the flirting was intense!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I just press the middle button on my word suggestion bar until a semi coherent sentence pops out!
Well I went for the ....do you need any help...kind of message for you
And then it degenerated into a long conversation about a severed foot (still in a boot)..... oh the flirting was intense!
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Married within 3 hours and now floating out to sea. Luv ya betty |
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