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I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.
One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.
Which camp are you in?
I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could not fuck just for the sake of it i find it hollow feel like shit after rather wank about someone i actually like"
Unfortunately a lot see it as they’re saving a tenner on a prostitute rather than being genuine swingers |
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Bit of both? A place to make connections, but with a sex orientation.
I hate the "but it's a sex site" argument because it's so often used to try to negate my standards, preferences, or the fact I do other things with my life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.
One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.
Which camp are you in?
I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it. "
It's what you want it to be. Find someone to fuck. Find someone to talk to. Find a life partner. Find a distraction. Find a gardener. Find someone to eat meatballs at Ikea with. Or be all of the above for someone else. |
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I actually think it's a bit of both tbh for me anyway...
I won't have sex unless there is a connection and whether it takes a week or a couple of months to make that connection, its definitely worth the effort that results in fabulous sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love meeting like minded people before retirement I loved socials gatherings and clubs more than the sex to be honest. But when the sex was good ***** it was wild lol x |
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over a year ago
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"I could not fuck just for the sake of it i find it hollow feel like shit after rather wank about someone i actually like
Unfortunately a lot see it as they’re saving a tenner on a prostitute rather than being genuine swingers "
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A Tenner lady ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.
One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.
Which camp are you in?
I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it.
It's what you want it to be. Find someone to fuck. Find someone to talk to. Find a life partner. Find a distraction. Find a gardener. Find someone to eat meatballs at Ikea with. Or be all of the above for someone else."
I want meatballs from Ikea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.
One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.
Which camp are you in?
I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it. "
Completely agree, why would anyone have sex without a connection |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I could not fuck just for the sake of it i find it hollow feel like shit after rather wank about someone i actually like
Unfortunately a lot see it as they’re saving a tenner on a prostitute rather than being genuine swingers "
woah im no swinger either dont paint me with that brush |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could not fuck just for the sake of it i find it hollow feel like shit after rather wank about someone i actually like
Unfortunately a lot see it as they’re saving a tenner on a prostitute rather than being genuine swingers woah im no swinger either dont paint me with that brush "
I did say “a lot”, not “all” |
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I was thinking about this earlier. I joined thinking about / hoping for uncomplicated slightly kinky sex. I now am using it as somewhere I can find like minded and open people, where I realise I am not alone with some of my ‘unusual’ tastes, E.g. pegging, being switch. |
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"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.
One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.
Which camp are you in?
I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it. "
I'd say its both for me, I need some sort of connection to have sex.
Finding someone to laugh, chat absolute rubbish, drink rum, eat cake with then great sex follows. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.
One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.
Which camp are you in?
I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it.
It's what you want it to be. Find someone to fuck. Find someone to talk to. Find a life partner. Find a distraction. Find a gardener. Find someone to eat meatballs at Ikea with. Or be all of the above for someone else.
I want meatballs from Ikea "
Pop over. I've got a bag in the freezer and an unassembled Billy bookcase.  |
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"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.
One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.
Which camp are you in?
I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it.
It's what you want it to be. Find someone to fuck. Find someone to talk to. Find a life partner. Find a distraction. Find a gardener. Find someone to eat meatballs at Ikea with. Or be all of the above for someone else.
I want meatballs from Ikea "
can i join in for the meatballs for ikea aswell they are the dogs ..erm well they are amazing |
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"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.
One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.
Which camp are you in?
I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it. "
Yes,make connections and social like minded friends that like to swing .... which normally ends up as sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's hard to say it's not got a rather strong sexual element to the site! But it's also about meeting people you get on with, can have a laugh, and perhaps enjoy some other extra-curricular activities ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say its both for me, I need some sort of connection to have sex.
Finding someone to laugh, chat absolute rubbish, drink rum, eat cake with then great sex follows. "
This exactly!!!! |
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"Well it’s debatable how many on here are actually swingers or just here to get laid or pictures fabbed. "
How is ‘swinger’ defined? We will each have our own definition, which can be a whole new thread. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Ultimately in it's most basic sense it IS undeniably a sex site as it's basic premise is underpinned by sex.
How each of us define our use of it however is where opinions differ - some will see it as a place to meet like minded others for uncomplicated NSA encounters (and even within that you have those that look for a connection and chemistry and those that want to just meet, have sex and leave) - then you have those that take the more traditional "swinging" view of swapping partners etc, those that just want to talk sex, those that want to post pics, those looking for a relationship and many more varieties.
I personally fall into the meet "likeminded others for uncomplicated NSA encounters (with a connection and chemistry)" category - how others choose to use the site is up to them and really no concern of mine unless it impacts me somehow, which invariably it doesn't. |
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
Wiltshire and London |
"I could not fuck just for the sake of it i find it hollow feel like shit after rather wank about someone i actually like
Unfortunately a lot see it as they’re saving a tenner on a prostitute rather than being genuine swingers "
A tenner? And the provincials moan about londoners having it easy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.
One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.
Which camp are you in?
I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it. "
Swinging is an umbrella term has many different facets. It is not a sex site .. it is adult lifestyle site that may or may not include sexual experiences and shared with others l, |
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"I could not fuck just for the sake of it i find it hollow feel like shit after rather wank about someone i actually like
Unfortunately a lot see it as they’re saving a tenner on a prostitute rather than being genuine swingers ..
A Tenner lady ?"
funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The latter. I've mad wonderful friends here. I have a high sex drive but for me to actually have sex with someone I have to really trust them. So I need connections |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well it’s debatable how many on here are actually swingers or just here to get laid or pictures fabbed. "
I’m none of those and I’m here. It’s whatever you want it to be |
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