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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I’ve had a cpl of guys wanting meet which is fine, but they have asked me not have sex with anyone else or have been funny about it?? I’m not being funny but you met me on a swinging website I’m on here because I’m not quite ready for a relationship but I want sex  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tell them to sod off. Just to balance the view the more sex with men women have the better I like it. I like women who are confident enough to get what they want and go for it. "
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"Tell them to sod off. Just to balance the view the more sex with men women have the better I like it. I like women who are confident enough to get what they want and go for it. . Good to know "
I need to go to stroke on Trent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before you meet that's a no go.
However I can't talk as I am being exclusive with my guy but to be honest we both have our own families and it suits us both due to lack of time. And the sex is out of this world so who needs more |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tell them to sod off. Just to balance the view the more sex with men women have the better I like it. I like women who are confident enough to get what they want and go for it. . Good to know I need to go to stroke on Trent. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Before you meet that's a no go.
However I can't talk as I am being exclusive with my guy but to be honest we both have our own families and it suits us both due to lack of time. And the sex is out of this world so who needs more "
and I could maybe get to that stage with the right person but I’ve come out of a 22 year abusive relationship and I won’t let any man tell me what to do again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like they are clingy so maybe distance yourself from them. Or if they are fun to meet tell them that but be clear on your terms and if they don't like it then they need to find someone else. It all depends on what you really want though as you are already saying that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds like they are clingy so maybe distance yourself from them. Or if they are fun to meet tell them that but be clear on your terms and if they don't like it then they need to find someone else. It all depends on what you really want though as you are already saying that. "
I’ve not met him yet not sure if I will now
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Or .. tell them fine ... but ...
You expect the same such that they must wear a cock cage all the time and you hold the key "
oh god yeah might do that lol |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"If they're trying to dictate to you before you've even met, they're bad news. Run, don't walk. "
Sounds like coercive/ controlling behaviour, which is a form of domestic abuse. Please, please don't go there. The number of domestic violence homicide is increasing. Please don't become another victim xxx
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"If they're trying to dictate to you before you've even met, they're bad news. Run, don't walk.
Sounds like coercive/ controlling behaviour, which is a form of domestic abuse. Please, please don't go there. The number of domestic violence homicide is increasing. Please don't become another victim xxx
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I’ve literally just come out of a domestic abuse relationship so I know the signs but I hear you |
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"So tell them that I have hun he’s now saying he was joking and obviously can’t tell me what to do but prob cos I called him out on it "
Oh no ... couldn't possibly be that ... total knob, and not in a good way |
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"So I’ve had a cpl of guys wanting meet which is fine, but they have asked me not have sex with anyone else or have been funny about it?? I’m not being funny but you met me on a swinging website I’m on here because I’m not quite ready for a relationship but I want sex "
Tell them to fuck off and move onto the next 1000  |
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Had a guy say this to me. After lots of messages we arranged to meet but he was out of town so meet was a couple of weeks away.
He asked me not to see anyone else in the meantime. He knew I had a fwb and a Dom I see regularly so I told him no.
He called me a slag and blocked me.
I was laughing to start with but after a while I realised I'd probably had a lucky escape. |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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"So I’ve had a cpl of guys wanting meet which is fine, but they have asked me not have sex with anyone else or have been funny about it?? I’m not being funny but you met me on a swinging website I’m on here because I’m not quite ready for a relationship but I want sex "
Waaaaaaay too much control freakery |
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