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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nothing hurts more than when you are asked for a face pic then they read it but don't reply!
You are like "shit" I must be ugly!
A polite "not my type" would help wouldnt it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing hurts more than when you are asked for a face pic then they read it but don't reply!
You are like "shit" I must be ugly!
A polite "not my type" would help wouldnt it?
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Dont think ugly, just think "I mustn't be their type". I know it sucks but it's the way of things. You and I might reply with "I'm sorry" or whatever but not everyone does and no one actually has to reply so just take it on the chin(pardon the expression) and move on  |
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"Nothing hurts more than when you are asked for a face pic then they read it but don't reply!
You are like "shit" I must be ugly!
A polite "not my type" would help wouldnt it?
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Sending a no thanks gets the"but why not" reply do you really want a honest reply to that?
No reply = no thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing hurts more than when you are asked for a face pic then they read it but don't reply!
You are like "shit" I must be ugly!
A polite "not my type" would help wouldnt it?
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It’s a numbers game - just like in a bar. You approach a woman try your luck & gently wave her on her way when she kindly turns you down.
Everyone gets turned away - just think nothing of it & certainly don’t message them complaining. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s really hard to do though and why I stopped talking to people who don’t have a face pic or don’t send in first message. It’s so awkward to tell someone that you have exchanged several messages with that you don’t fancy them. |
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"It’s really hard to do though and why I stopped talking to people who don’t have a face pic or don’t send in first message. It’s so awkward to tell someone that you have exchanged several messages with that you don’t fancy them. "
That, and a significant minority respond to "not my type" with abuse. Unfortunately it's just the way it goes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing hurts more than when you are asked for a face pic then they read it but don't reply!
You are like "shit" I must be ugly!
A polite "not my type" would help wouldnt it?
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Then send it with your first message, then you won't know why they aren't interested nor got into conversation with anyone to make you think they might be, because you get on... Someone not being attracted to you doesn't make you ugly, just not for that person... And rejection isn't always taken well, so best avoiding that conversation... On here more than anywhere. |
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"It’s really hard to do though and why I stopped talking to people who don’t have a face pic or don’t send in first message. It’s so awkward to tell someone that you have exchanged several messages with that you don’t fancy them.
That, and a significant minority respond to "not my type" with abuse. Unfortunately it's just the way it goes. "
They are called "pricks" I believe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s really hard to do though and why I stopped talking to people who don’t have a face pic or don’t send in first message. It’s so awkward to tell someone that you have exchanged several messages with that you don’t fancy them.
That, and a significant minority respond to "not my type" with abuse. Unfortunately it's just the way it goes. "
This ^.
Just makes it harder & harder for actually decent single males. Just takes one woman to receive abuse and she’ll cut off single males..  |
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"Nothing hurts more than when you are asked for a face pic then they read it but don't reply!
You are like "shit" I must be ugly!
A polite "not my type" would help wouldnt it?
Sending a no thanks gets the"but why not" reply do you really want a honest reply to that?
No reply = no thanks"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing hurts more than when you are asked for a face pic then they read it but don't reply!
You are like "shit" I must be ugly!
A polite "not my type" would help wouldnt it?
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Doesn't mean your ugly, just means you might not be they type. |
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Despite what a lot of people say lots of us choose potential fab partners by looks. Therefore most of us will be rejected due to body or face type. It doesn't mean we're ugly it genuinely does mean we aren't their type.
We sent face pictures once and the couple immediately left the site  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s really hard to do though and why I stopped talking to people who don’t have a face pic or don’t send in first message. It’s so awkward to tell someone that you have exchanged several messages with that you don’t fancy them.
That, and a significant minority respond to "not my type" with abuse. Unfortunately it's just the way it goes.
This ^.
Just makes it harder & harder for actually decent single males. Just takes one woman to receive abuse and she’ll cut off single males.. "
Incorrect.
It makes it easier for the decent ones to stand out for me, because I can just block the eejits. |
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"Nothing hurts more than when you are asked for a face pic then they read it but don't reply!
You are like "shit" I must be ugly!
A polite "not my type" would help wouldnt it?
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It could but then you'd be wondering the same
Why aren't I your type? What's wrong with me?
Some men, even send another message asking those things.
Some men, even respond with abuse.
The things I've been called, just because I politely declined someone's offer - it's a good job I'm thick skinned
You maybe a really nice bloke, who would never dream of such, but the lady in question doesn't know that.
So rather than risk an inbox full of nasty words, we chose just to delete, not reply
There is another factor, she may have recognised you, someone local, from work etc
How does she explain that, if she wants to stay anonymous? |
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"Nothing hurts more than when you are asked for a face pic then they read it but don't reply!
You are like "shit" I must be ugly!
A polite "not my type" would help wouldnt it?
Doesn't mean your ugly, just means you might not be they type."
Not much of a consolation but we all have been in that position and rejected or just ignored..
No stress pal .. NEXT please |
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"It’s really hard to do though and why I stopped talking to people who don’t have a face pic or don’t send in first message. It’s so awkward to tell someone that you have exchanged several messages with that you don’t fancy them.
That, and a significant minority respond to "not my type" with abuse. Unfortunately it's just the way it goes.
This ^.
Just makes it harder & harder for actually decent single males. Just takes one woman to receive abuse and she’ll cut off single males..
Incorrect.
It makes it easier for the decent ones to stand out for me, because I can just block the eejits. "
Oh it does!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing hurts more than when you are asked for a face pic then they read it but don't reply!
You are like "shit" I must be ugly!
A polite "not my type" would help wouldnt it?
Sending a no thanks gets the"but why not" reply do you really want a honest reply to that?
No reply = no thanks
Agreed "
^^^ this all day long. We’ve had to block people after a polite no thank you. 12 messages after that and it’s a case of “you’re really not getting the hint are you !” Why not, am I not your type , what is your type.....Site rules clearly state no reply should be taken as a polite no thank you. We always reply, politely, but any more than two messages after that I’m afraid it’s easier to just block |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to reply,but some Guys get abusive if you dare to say sorry your not for me
I must admit I hate being rude and not reply but abuse isn't nice either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing hurts more than when you are asked for a face pic then they read it but don't reply!
You are like "shit" I must be ugly!
A polite "not my type" would help wouldnt it?
It could but then you'd be wondering the same
Why aren't I your type? What's wrong with me?
Some men, even send another message asking those things.
Some men, even respond with abuse.
The things I've been called, just because I politely declined someone's offer - it's a good job I'm thick skinned
You maybe a really nice bloke, who would never dream of such, but the lady in question doesn't know that.
So rather than risk an inbox full of nasty words, we chose just to delete, not reply
There is another factor, she may have recognised you, someone local, from work etc
How does she explain that, if she wants to stay anonymous? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No response is in fact a response, it means not for me thanks.
You just have to smile and try someone else.
Set your expectations to zero and carry on trying bud. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm still smiling. Always smiling.
Just don't like the thought of having a face like a dropped pie!
I wouldn't care but she won't see my face when she's sat on it!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Worst is a rejection the see a new verification shortly afterwards from someone that looks like they’ve spent a century on smack. There’s some sordid types on here, on both sides |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Worst is a rejection the see a new verification shortly afterwards from someone that looks like they’ve spent a century on smack. There’s some sordid types on here, on both sides "
Don’t be comparing yourself to someone else mate. Maybe they connected better? - I’d rather have sex with a 6/10 with banter than a 10/10 woman that can’t handle a joke. |
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"Despite what a lot of people say lots of us choose potential fab partners by looks. Therefore most of us will be rejected due to body or face type. It doesn't mean we're ugly it genuinely does mean we aren't their type.
We sent face pictures once and the couple immediately left the site "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Worst is a rejection the see a new verification shortly afterwards from someone that looks like they’ve spent a century on smack. There’s some sordid types on here, on both sides "
Don’t always assume that they had sex with the person unless it’s written there and maybe if they did, they had a better connection. I’ve had people insult some of my verifications when they were just people I met at a social event. I don’t have sex verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Worst is a rejection the see a new verification shortly afterwards from someone that looks like they’ve spent a century on smack. There’s some sordid types on here, on both sides
Don’t always assume that they had sex with the person unless it’s written there and maybe if they did, they had a better connection. I’ve had people insult some of my verifications when they were just people I met at a social event. I don’t have sex verifications. "
no there very much sexually veris. I’m not bitter...much |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Worst is a rejection the see a new verification shortly afterwards from someone that looks like they’ve spent a century on smack. There’s some sordid types on here, on both sides "
Hahahaha FFS |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's because you're better looking than they are and they realise they're punching above their weight so would rather just ignore you. Be thankful."
Haha...I love a positive outlook on every situation!
You are right...I'm a stud! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At least you got to the face pic stage. People see our bodies and don’t want to converse any further!  "
Nothing wrong with your bodies?! All personal preference...
I’d personally prefer a softer woman to a gym gym fit woman - sex just feels better. |
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I don't care about I am ugly or not their type. But it's so not polite to not get a reply.
Especially in some cases, they will ask "you go first then I will show mine." And then completely blank you. |
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"I don't care about I am ugly or not their type. But it's so not polite to not get a reply.
Especially in some cases, they will ask "you go first then I will show mine." And then completely blank you. "
Politeness in the normal sense doesn't always work here |
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Learned early on you need a thick skin to be on here and able to take rejection and move on ,spoke to some lovely guys but their pic just wasnt my type ,no ones fault ,just suck it up buttercup and move on ...  |
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"Despite what a lot of people say lots of us choose potential fab partners by looks. Therefore most of us will be rejected due to body or face type. It doesn't mean we're ugly it genuinely does mean we aren't their type.
We sent face pictures once and the couple immediately left the site
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We are now used as a deterrent |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing hurts more than when you are asked for a face pic then they read it but don't reply!
You are like "shit" I must be ugly!
A polite "not my type" would help wouldnt it?
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How does a “Not my type” help?
Maybe the face picture isn’t what put them off? |
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"Despite what a lot of people say lots of us choose potential fab partners by looks. Therefore most of us will be rejected due to body or face type. It doesn't mean we're ugly it genuinely does mean we aren't their type.
We sent face pictures once and the couple immediately left the site
We are now used as a deterrent "
Sorry I shouldn't have laughed but that was funny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's because you're better looking than they are and they realise they're punching above their weight so would rather just ignore you. Be thankful."
I definitely think that sometimes especially in a minority of couple profiles the male might read a message with a face pic and delete maybe because they feel threatened that the person contacting them is a lot better looking,the wife need not know as the hubby has deleted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always respond with thank you for taking the time to message us, however, we are not a match..
We do not respond if they come across as a dick with a dick..don't respond to inane one liners either, but our profile does state that.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah it isn’t a good feeling, same as being blocked once they’ve seen them. Try to pretend they just recognise you or that you look like their brother or something lol - Mrs |
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"It's because you're better looking than they are and they realise they're punching above their weight so would rather just ignore you. Be thankful.
I definitely think that sometimes especially in a minority of couple profiles the male might read a message with a face pic and delete maybe because they feel threatened that the person contacting them is a lot better looking,the wife need not know as the hubby has deleted."
I have heard this before, but it really isn’t the case. Most couples who are in this lifestyle have excellent communication. If Mr Cagey saw someone he thought I would fancy, he’d be excited for me! We both also have a rule of veto power, if either of us don’t feel comfortable that person isn’t an option. It isn’t about a husband’s insecurity because couples with insecurity for how they look to their partners don’t last in this lifestyle. - Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And sometimes we ask for a face pic first, because the people messaging are already saying they are willing to meet and we have to see if we are as well. If someone has nothing but dick pics I don’t know if I will meet or like them. |
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