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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm looking for women who want a surprise, professionally filmed solo video for their partners.
I'm an avid film maker and photographer and really want to do this as a bit of a sexy hobby, just to see if there's some potential for more serious work.
So basically you bring the toys and I'll bring my lights and camera.
Think of it as a bit of a boudoir shoot but with loads of naughtiness going on.
There'd be a confidentiality agreement in place so it only ends up with you and not on some dodgy porn site (unless you're a budding porn star of course!)
Drop me a message if you're interested and in Lancashire.
Daytime filming preferred.  |
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"Practise a bit on your pictures first
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They're only phone photos on here."
Your profile is your shop window, if you want people to take you serious, then every picture you show should be demonstrating your abilities.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Practise a bit on your pictures first
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They're only phone photos on here.
Your profile is your shop window, if you want people to take you serious, then every picture you show should be demonstrating your abilities.
Cal"
I'll take that  It's good advice. Thankyou |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can film me having a wank if you want. Actually, gimme your number and I can send you the vid. Winner winner sausage dinner, I save on the travel and you get to wank watching me cum!  "
Haha I'll send you my landline |
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Plenty of guys offering that 'service' on here as a way to get a meet. You need to convince people to take you seriously and I'm surprised some of your better work was not uploaded originally or since you've been advised by other comments.
It only takes a few minutes and I would assume you have a portfolio to choose from, as there are guys on here who take absolutely wonderful selfies, the very least a good photographer is able to achieve.
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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When I see offers like this from professionals I always wonder why it’s only open to women and not men. If it’s not just a rouse to get a naked woman on her own. So many self proclaimed professional photographers on here same as the amount of people offering professional massages but only to women. Red flags all round for most people. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"When I see offers like this from professionals I always wonder why it’s only open to women and not men. If it’s not just a rouse to get a naked woman on her own. So many self proclaimed professional photographers on here same as the amount of people offering professional massages but only to women. Red flags all round for most people. "
SJ I agree with you. I would never risk it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I see offers like this from professionals I always wonder why it’s only open to women and not men. If it’s not just a rouse to get a naked woman on her own. So many self proclaimed professional photographers on here same as the amount of people offering professional massages but only to women. Red flags all round for most people. "
I'm David Bailey .. Lol.
Ladies please feel free to have me take some photos of you in very provocative positions. Inbox me for more details.. He he he. God loves a tryer SJ x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP why are you only interested in filming women and not couples ?"
I'd happily film couples. I originally said women because it seems like it could be nice thing to receive as a partner, as a surprise.
I'm absolutely not interested in meeting women for sex but I do love watching a woman masturbating. It's like a sacred event.
Not too sure there's much of a market for guys masturbating though is there?? I might be wrong though! |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"When I see offers like this from professionals I always wonder why it’s only open to women and not men. If it’s not just a rouse to get a naked woman on her own. So many self proclaimed professional photographers on here same as the amount of people offering professional massages but only to women. Red flags all round for most people.
I'm David Bailey .. Lol.
Ladies please feel free to have me take some photos of you in very provocative positions. Inbox me for more details.. He he he. God loves a tryer SJ x "
God maybe does but you know the ladies of the fab forums are far more canny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm looking for women who want a surprise, professionally filmed solo video for their partners.
I'm an avid film maker and photographer and really want to do this as a bit of a sexy hobby, just to see if there's some potential for more serious work.
So basically you bring the toys and I'll bring my lights and camera.
Think of it as a bit of a boudoir shoot but with loads of naughtiness going on.
There'd be a confidentiality agreement in place so it only ends up with you and not on some dodgy porn site (unless you're a budding porn star of course!)
Drop me a message if you're interested and in Lancashire.
Daytime filming preferred. "
For someones partner who is a professional photographer who actually does boudoir and glamour photography. It makes me laugh just how many guys come on these sites, bought a digital camera and a few cheap lights off eBay use it as a door opener and call themselves a photographer with no kind of legal or moral protection to ensure the safety and privacy of their subjects. Best line I have seen is "I have this camera..........and anyone who knows is the best camera many can buy and I know hoe to use it". Rant over |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm looking for women who want a surprise, professionally filmed solo video for their partners.
I'm an avid film maker and photographer and really want to do this as a bit of a sexy hobby, just to see if there's some potential for more serious work.
So basically you bring the toys and I'll bring my lights and camera.
Think of it as a bit of a boudoir shoot but with loads of naughtiness going on.
There'd be a confidentiality agreement in place so it only ends up with you and not on some dodgy porn site (unless you're a budding porn star of course!)
Drop me a message if you're interested and in Lancashire.
Daytime filming preferred.
For someones partner who is a professional photographer who actually does boudoir and glamour photography. It makes me laugh just how many guys come on these sites, bought a digital camera and a few cheap lights off eBay use it as a door opener and call themselves a photographer with no kind of legal or moral protection to ensure the safety and privacy of their subjects. Best line I have seen is "I have this camera..........and anyone who knows is the best camera many can buy and I know hoe to use it". Rant over"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got a camera, its only 7.2mp and i have not lights but i am damn good at framing a good shot.
I better get some business cards made up.
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First of all he would not advertise on these sites. He would nether offer to meet alone. He will always have assistants for their protection and and his and not his mates. Takes more than business cards sorry to dissappoint. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I see offers like this from professionals I always wonder why it’s only open to women and not men. If it’s not just a rouse to get a naked woman on her own. So many self proclaimed professional photographers on here same as the amount of people offering professional massages but only to women. Red flags all round for most people. "
This ^^^^^^ rules.
1) Find out about them.
2) chat to them
3) Ask to see some of their work. Also ask to see signed release to prove they have permission to show the work
4) Foremost never offer to meet them privately or one on one unless you are sure. Most professionals and good amateurs will have your safely at top of the list and will always have a chaperone or welcome you to bring one.
4) Be sure your happy with how your pictures will be protected.
5) Again Be Safe
It is so easy to proclaim your your a photographer. Just because you have a snazzy camera doesn't make you a photographer.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got a camera, its only 7.2mp and i have not lights but i am damn good at framing a good shot.
I better get some business cards made up.
First of all he would not advertise on these sites. He would nether offer to meet alone. He will always have assistants for their protection and and his and not his mates. Takes more than business cards sorry to dissappoint."
Bugger....... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Wow! I didn't expect such a barrage of resistance to this, I thought it would be an appropriate thing to post up on here and something some people might like to do.
It's amazed me the most just how judgemental and assuming a lot of the responses are. Maybe this isn't the right place after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im also a professional photographer/videographer and have been lucky enough to do what your asking but the issue is theres too man "pros" offering this who arnt. And it can put people in a horrible situation if it all goes wrong.
If anyone is ever interested in doing this (as tbh it can be a hell of alot of fun for both parties) no matter what you sex m/f/ts/tv always... and i mean always check out there work first and meet them in a public place where its safe. Ive heard too many scary stories amd its just not worth it if it goes wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Surely you can see the risks of this with a stranger on a sex site? People have to use their noggin. "
Absolutely! It's not just going to be arriving in the bedroom and starting filming though, there'll be a meeting and signing of documents.
I'm sure I mentioned the confidentiality agreement in my original post, it's the people replying who have turned me into some weird negative psycho photographer.
If someone wants a chaperone, as someone mentioned, that's good.
I chose Fabswingers because I've seen a lot of people here up for this kind of thing. It should be fun and exciting, not all negative and sarcastic surely?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow! I didn't expect such a barrage of resistance to this, I thought it would be an appropriate thing to post up on here and something some people might like to do.
It's amazed me the most just how judgemental and assuming a lot of the responses are. Maybe this isn't the right place after all."
What did you expect if you come on to the site and say you want to take pictures and videos of women. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Wow! I didn't expect such a barrage of resistance to this, I thought it would be an appropriate thing to post up on here and something some people might like to do.
It's amazed me the most just how judgemental and assuming a lot of the responses are. Maybe this isn't the right place after all.
What did you expect if you come on to the site and say you want to take pictures and videos of women."
Something more positive and people up for it? More questions? Less assumptions?
Am I the only one who still lives in hope that society still has some trust left in others??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow! I didn't expect such a barrage of resistance to this, I thought it would be an appropriate thing to post up on here and something some people might like to do.
It's amazed me the most just how judgemental and assuming a lot of the responses are. Maybe this isn't the right place after all.
What did you expect if you come on to the site and say you want to take pictures and videos of women.
Something more positive and people up for it? More questions? Less assumptions?
Am I the only one who still lives in hope that society still has some trust left in others?? "
For something like this yes I think you probably are. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Surely you can see the risks of this with a stranger on a sex site? People have to use their noggin.
Absolutely! It's not just going to be arriving in the bedroom and starting filming though, there'll be a meeting and signing of documents.
I'm sure I mentioned the confidentiality agreement in my original post, it's the people replying who have turned me into some weird negative psycho photographer.
If someone wants a chaperone, as someone mentioned, that's good.
I chose Fabswingers because I've seen a lot of people here up for this kind of thing. It should be fun and exciting, not all negative and sarcastic surely?!"
I personally wouldn’t do it but I’m not a fan of negativity so I will wish you the best of luck |
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Speaking as one of those who replied in a less than positive fashion, my judgement was not made on your offer to photograph or video women. It was based purely on the fact that you claimed to be an avid photographer but your shop window display says something completely different.
If I was asking strangers to accept that I was genuine I would at least make an effort with my own profile pics.
It shouldn't matter that they are"only" phone pics.
They do not present an image of an avid photographer and would immediately put me off contacting you regardless of any confidential agreement or documents. |
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"Speaking as one of those who replied in a less than positive fashion, my judgement was not made on your offer to photograph or video women. It was based purely on the fact that you claimed to be an avid photographer but your shop window display says something completely different.
If I was asking strangers to accept that I was genuine I would at least make an effort with my own profile pics.
It shouldn't matter that they are"only" phone pics.
They do not present an image of an avid photographer and would immediately put me off contacting you regardless of any confidential agreement or documents. "
Photos of myself though?? It's not the same thing is it? |
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"Speaking as one of those who replied in a less than positive fashion, my judgement was not made on your offer to photograph or video women. It was based purely on the fact that you claimed to be an avid photographer but your shop window display says something completely different.
If I was asking strangers to accept that I was genuine I would at least make an effort with my own profile pics.
It shouldn't matter that they are"only" phone pics.
They do not present an image of an avid photographer and would immediately put me off contacting you regardless of any confidential agreement or documents.
Photos of myself though?? It's not the same thing is it?"
The subject isn't the issue. It's the quality of the finished product. Your profile is your shop window whether you are here to meet others or photograph others. Would you go into a professional establishment if the windows were dirty or the the paint peeling and a lazy or tired display?
If you want to sell you or your hobby you have to make an effort. It's all about presentation.
I'm not saying my pics are better because they aren't at all but I'm not offering to photograph others. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Speaking as one of those who replied in a less than positive fashion, my judgement was not made on your offer to photograph or video women. It was based purely on the fact that you claimed to be an avid photographer but your shop window display says something completely different.
If I was asking strangers to accept that I was genuine I would at least make an effort with my own profile pics.
It shouldn't matter that they are"only" phone pics.
They do not present an image of an avid photographer and would immediately put me off contacting you regardless of any confidential agreement or documents.
Photos of myself though?? It's not the same thing is it?
The subject isn't the issue. It's the quality of the finished product. Your profile is your shop window whether you are here to meet others or photograph others. Would you go into a professional establishment if the windows were dirty or the the paint peeling and a lazy or tired display?
If you want to sell you or your hobby you have to make an effort. It's all about presentation.
I'm not saying my pics are better because they aren't at all but I'm not offering to photograph others."
I see your point and I agree. I'll work on it |
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"Speaking as one of those who replied in a less than positive fashion, my judgement was not made on your offer to photograph or video women. It was based purely on the fact that you claimed to be an avid photographer but your shop window display says something completely different.
If I was asking strangers to accept that I was genuine I would at least make an effort with my own profile pics.
It shouldn't matter that they are"only" phone pics.
They do not present an image of an avid photographer and would immediately put me off contacting you regardless of any confidential agreement or documents.
Photos of myself though?? It's not the same thing is it?"
Negative person - Sorry nothing in your profile or in your original post gives any indication there is a genuine desire or passion for photography, that for you and many others on these sites it is just a means to an end.
Sorry if people think that comments are negative but have been on the scene for many years and have seen hundreds of posts like this.
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"Speaking as one of those who replied in a less than positive fashion, my judgement was not made on your offer to photograph or video women. It was based purely on the fact that you claimed to be an avid photographer but your shop window display says something completely different.
If I was asking strangers to accept that I was genuine I would at least make an effort with my own profile pics.
It shouldn't matter that they are"only" phone pics.
They do not present an image of an avid photographer and would immediately put me off contacting you regardless of any confidential agreement or documents.
Photos of myself though?? It's not the same thing is it?
The subject isn't the issue. It's the quality of the finished product. Your profile is your shop window whether you are here to meet others or photograph others. Would you go into a professional establishment if the windows were dirty or the the paint peeling and a lazy or tired display?
If you want to sell you or your hobby you have to make an effort. It's all about presentation.
I'm not saying my pics are better because they aren't at all but I'm not offering to photograph others.
I see your point and I agree. I'll work on it "
Oh don't forget your insurance, your GDPR policy, health and safety policies. |
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"Speaking as one of those who replied in a less than positive fashion, my judgement was not made on your offer to photograph or video women. It was based purely on the fact that you claimed to be an avid photographer but your shop window display says something completely different.
If I was asking strangers to accept that I was genuine I would at least make an effort with my own profile pics.
It shouldn't matter that they are"only" phone pics.
They do not present an image of an avid photographer and would immediately put me off contacting you regardless of any confidential agreement or documents.
Photos of myself though?? It's not the same thing is it?
The subject isn't the issue. It's the quality of the finished product. Your profile is your shop window whether you are here to meet others or photograph others. Would you go into a professional establishment if the windows were dirty or the the paint peeling and a lazy or tired display?
If you want to sell you or your hobby you have to make an effort. It's all about presentation.
I'm not saying my pics are better because they aren't at all but I'm not offering to photograph others.
I see your point and I agree. I'll work on it
Oh don't forget your insurance, your GDPR policy, health and safety policies."
I've got all those things in place x |
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"Speaking as one of those who replied in a less than positive fashion, my judgement was not made on your offer to photograph or video women. It was based purely on the fact that you claimed to be an avid photographer but your shop window display says something completely different.
If I was asking strangers to accept that I was genuine I would at least make an effort with my own profile pics.
It shouldn't matter that they are"only" phone pics.
They do not present an image of an avid photographer and would immediately put me off contacting you regardless of any confidential agreement or documents.
Photos of myself though?? It's not the same thing is it?
The subject isn't the issue. It's the quality of the finished product. Your profile is your shop window whether you are here to meet others or photograph others. Would you go into a professional establishment if the windows were dirty or the the paint peeling and a lazy or tired display?
If you want to sell you or your hobby you have to make an effort. It's all about presentation.
I'm not saying my pics are better because they aren't at all but I'm not offering to photograph others.
I see your point and I agree. I'll work on it
Oh don't forget your insurance, your GDPR policy, health and safety policies.
I've got all those things in place x"
Then I wish you luck |
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"Wow! I didn't expect such a barrage of resistance to this, I thought it would be an appropriate thing to post up on here and something some people might like to do.
It's amazed me the most just how judgemental and assuming a lot of the responses are. Maybe this isn't the right place after all."
What you have to remember is that people have seen this approach hundreds of times before, right back to when Polaroid cameras first came about (and probably before).
It's the photographic equivalent of the female of a couple asking for another woman to shag their partner.
I.E. it could be genuine but the chances are pretty slim.
If you are genuine offer people a chance to see your portfolio. That's always a good start. |
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"Wow! I didn't expect such a barrage of resistance to this, I thought it would be an appropriate thing to post up on here and something some people might like to do.
It's amazed me the most just how judgemental and assuming a lot of the responses are. Maybe this isn't the right place after all.
What you have to remember is that people have seen this approach hundreds of times before, right back to when Polaroid cameras first came about (and probably before).
It's the photographic equivalent of the female of a couple asking for another woman to shag their partner.
I.E. it could be genuine but the chances are pretty slim.
If you are genuine offer people a chance to see your portfolio. That's always a good start."
Agreed. I'd do that anyway once they were interested but only if the photos were given permission to be seen by the subject, otherwise it's trust alone needed. |
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"Wow! I didn't expect such a barrage of resistance to this, I thought it would be an appropriate thing to post up on here and something some people might like to do.
It's amazed me the most just how judgemental and assuming a lot of the responses are. Maybe this isn't the right place after all.
What you have to remember is that people have seen this approach hundreds of times before, right back to when Polaroid cameras first came about (and probably before).
It's the photographic equivalent of the female of a couple asking for another woman to shag their partner.
I.E. it could be genuine but the chances are pretty slim.
If you are genuine offer people a chance to see your portfolio. That's always a good start.
Agreed. I'd do that anyway once they were interested but only if the photos were given permission to be seen by the subject, otherwise it's trust alone needed. "
Trust has to be earned it is as simple as that hun. How many people/guys on these sites say trust me, I'm genuine. Trust has to be built.
Sorry you're not helping your case, a portfolio contains not just pictures but everything about you and how you run your business or intend to. Can't go to an interview and say I have never done this before or I have no proof of my ability but trust me
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"Wow! I didn't expect such a barrage of resistance to this, I thought it would be an appropriate thing to post up on here and something some people might like to do.
It's amazed me the most just how judgemental and assuming a lot of the responses are. Maybe this isn't the right place after all.
What you have to remember is that people have seen this approach hundreds of times before, right back to when Polaroid cameras first came about (and probably before).
It's the photographic equivalent of the female of a couple asking for another woman to shag their partner.
I.E. it could be genuine but the chances are pretty slim.
If you are genuine offer people a chance to see your portfolio. That's always a good start.
Agreed. I'd do that anyway once they were interested but only if the photos were given permission to be seen by the subject, otherwise it's trust alone needed.
Trust has to be earned it is as simple as that hun. How many people/guys on these sites say trust me, I'm genuine. Trust has to be built.
Sorry you're not helping your case, a portfolio contains not just pictures but everything about you and how you run your business or intend to. Can't go to an interview and say I have never done this before or I have no proof of my ability but trust me
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This is very true x I appreciate your voice of reason too, it's helpful and reassuring.
It's a tough one here because I don't want to come across like I'm advertising and also can't put pictures up on a single male profile of others. How do you think I would go about this? |
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"Wow! I didn't expect such a barrage of resistance to this, I thought it would be an appropriate thing to post up on here and something some people might like to do.
It's amazed me the most just how judgemental and assuming a lot of the responses are. Maybe this isn't the right place after all.
What you have to remember is that people have seen this approach hundreds of times before, right back to when Polaroid cameras first came about (and probably before).
It's the photographic equivalent of the female of a couple asking for another woman to shag their partner.
I.E. it could be genuine but the chances are pretty slim.
If you are genuine offer people a chance to see your portfolio. That's always a good start.
Agreed. I'd do that anyway once they were interested but only if the photos were given permission to be seen by the subject, otherwise it's trust alone needed.
Trust has to be earned it is as simple as that hun. How many people/guys on these sites say trust me, I'm genuine. Trust has to be built.
Sorry you're not helping your case, a portfolio contains not just pictures but everything about you and how you run your business or intend to. Can't go to an interview and say I have never done this before or I have no proof of my ability but trust me
This is very true x I appreciate your voice of reason too, it's helpful and reassuring.
It's a tough one here because I don't want to come across like I'm advertising and also can't put pictures up on a single male profile of others. How do you think I would go about this?"
Do you not have a portfolio already? |
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"Wow! I didn't expect such a barrage of resistance to this, I thought it would be an appropriate thing to post up on here and something some people might like to do.
It's amazed me the most just how judgemental and assuming a lot of the responses are. Maybe this isn't the right place after all.
What you have to remember is that people have seen this approach hundreds of times before, right back to when Polaroid cameras first came about (and probably before).
It's the photographic equivalent of the female of a couple asking for another woman to shag their partner.
I.E. it could be genuine but the chances are pretty slim.
If you are genuine offer people a chance to see your portfolio. That's always a good start.
Agreed. I'd do that anyway once they were interested but only if the photos were given permission to be seen by the subject, otherwise it's trust alone needed.
Trust has to be earned it is as simple as that hun. How many people/guys on these sites say trust me, I'm genuine. Trust has to be built.
Sorry you're not helping your case, a portfolio contains not just pictures but everything about you and how you run your business or intend to. Can't go to an interview and say I have never done this before or I have no proof of my ability but trust me
This is very true x I appreciate your voice of reason too, it's helpful and reassuring.
It's a tough one here because I don't want to come across like I'm advertising and also can't put pictures up on a single male profile of others. How do you think I would go about this?"
All photographers of any level would have examples of their work and a start of their portfolio. Showing how they use composition, perspective, light shade it wouldn't be nudes or boudoir just simple photography. If you're into modelling/portrait photography you'd have engaged professional models and signed release and terms (license) on how both are allowed to USE the photographs. This is how you develop trust and showing that you are genuine (not just saying it) or not using it as a vehicle to get laid as most on here are
You don't come on a site like this "I want to take photo's of women playing, are you up for it?"
Oh one further point being on an adult/swinging site will not protect you from ending in court. get it wrong and you could be honing your skills at Her Majesty's Pleasure |
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Moral of this, To all guys that come on here full of bullshit but forget there are a lot of people from all walks and diversity of life. If you are pretending to be something you're not just to get laid. Someone will come along who is, and rip you to shreds. So it's better to be who you are and not someone who you hope get you into the bedroom |
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"Moral of this, To all guys that come on here full of bullshit but forget there are a lot of people from all walks and diversity of life. If you are pretending to be something you're not just to get laid. Someone will come along who is, and rip you to shreds. So it's better to be who you are and not someone who you hope get you into the bedroom"
It's a good job I'm not here pretending to get laid and offering something genuine and fun for folk then I'd say.  |
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Just have a body of work uploaded to an image hosting site, or your own website.
My OH has photographed a few fabbers in the past, simply as a result of showing he genuinely makes his living from photography. A business that can be researched, a website showing portfolios of all photographic genres, t's&c's, privacy policies, agreements in place for use and final disposal of files. |
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"Moral of this, To all guys that come on here full of bullshit but forget there are a lot of people from all walks and diversity of life. If you are pretending to be something you're not just to get laid. Someone will come along who is, and rip you to shreds. So it's better to be who you are and not someone who you hope get you into the bedroom
It's a good job I'm not here pretending to get laid and offering something genuine and fun for folk then I'd say. "
Then do the ground work like anyone else if you're serious, and not just another trier. Nothing you have said in your profile or any of your posts/threads has convinced anyone I fear. You have 2 choices - yes it's hard work but it is essential if you want to be taken seriously. Or change you profile name and reinvent yourself as a music producer. |
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"Just have a body of work uploaded to an image hosting site, or your own website.
My OH has photographed a few fabbers in the past, simply as a result of showing he genuinely makes his living from photography. A business that can be researched, a website showing portfolios of all photographic genres, t's&c's, privacy policies, agreements in place for use and final disposal of files."
This ^^^ is a good starting place |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Moral of this, To all guys that come on here full of bullshit but forget there are a lot of people from all walks and diversity of life. If you are pretending to be something you're not just to get laid. Someone will come along who is, and rip you to shreds. So it's better to be who you are and not someone who you hope get you into the bedroom
It's a good job I'm not here pretending to get laid and offering something genuine and fun for folk then I'd say.
Then do the ground work like anyone else if you're serious, and not just another trier. Nothing you have said in your profile or any of your posts/threads has convinced anyone I fear. You have 2 choices - yes it's hard work but it is essential if you want to be taken seriously. Or change you profile name and reinvent yourself as a music producer. "
From what I can see, a decent photographer would be able to have far better photographs of themselves on their profile showing their ability. It just sounds like the OP wants to get off on watching and filming women masturbating. That’s how this all comes across to me anyway |
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"Moral of this, To all guys that come on here full of bullshit but forget there are a lot of people from all walks and diversity of life. If you are pretending to be something you're not just to get laid. Someone will come along who is, and rip you to shreds. So it's better to be who you are and not someone who you hope get you into the bedroom
It's a good job I'm not here pretending to get laid and offering something genuine and fun for folk then I'd say.
Then do the ground work like anyone else if you're serious, and not just another trier. Nothing you have said in your profile or any of your posts/threads has convinced anyone I fear. You have 2 choices - yes it's hard work but it is essential if you want to be taken seriously. Or change you profile name and reinvent yourself as a music producer. "
Now that's not a bad idea... |
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One last thread from me, scenario (real life):
About earned trust
I lady had some very erotic boudoir photos for a photoshoot she asked for. She met a guy that she fell in love with but was very conservative. She was sad, but she felt they were completely safe but just inappropriate in her new relationship. Asked for them to be deleted - would you ?. Not expecting an answer cos we all know what it will be. But would anyone who has contributed or read this post be 100% and without all reasonable doubt implicitly trust you to do it? - That's where you need to be - it's a tough road |
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"One last thread from me, scenario (real life):
About earned trust
I lady had some very erotic boudoir photos for a photoshoot she asked for. She met a guy that she fell in love with but was very conservative. She was sad, but she felt they were completely safe but just inappropriate in her new relationship. Asked for them to be deleted - would you ?. Not expecting an answer cos we all know what it will be. But would anyone who has contributed or read this post be 100% and without all reasonable doubt implicitly trust you to do it? - That's where you need to be - it's a tough road"
Absolutely. In fact the process would involve editing the photos on the day, directly on the memory card and then handing over the memory card to the client. |
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"One last thread from me, scenario (real life):
About earned trust
I lady had some very erotic boudoir photos for a photoshoot she asked for. She met a guy that she fell in love with but was very conservative. She was sad, but she felt they were completely safe but just inappropriate in her new relationship. Asked for them to be deleted - would you ?. Not expecting an answer cos we all know what it will be. But would anyone who has contributed or read this post be 100% and without all reasonable doubt implicitly trust you to do it? - That's where you need to be - it's a tough road
Absolutely. In fact the process would involve editing the photos on the day, directly on the memory card and then handing over the memory card to the client."
Of course you'd say that, That wasn't the question. Post processing of photos in any shape or form to any kind of standard is not something you could do in a day and hand them back. Always the same mistake guys make - sorry hun QED |
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