"I've just come out as bi at 40.any advice? "
Good on you, for years I (bobby) lived 2 lives, the best thing I did was be true to myself and others and feel better for it, I have the love of a good women now, and as I don't lie I know she loves me for me,
my advice is.. be true and own yourself, ull find life is simpler and more rewarding |
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Take things gradually, as I'm guessing it could be like finding a new sweetshop, with lots to gorge yourself on. That may apply if you've only just realised yourself and not really had bi sex before, rather than just made things public but have known and participated for some time.
Many people don't understand that well, so you've setup possibly a tough job - there is still some prejudice out there. I don't think most people of your age are out in public, perhaps unlike much younger people who identify as straight less than before.
Everyone is bi in a different way - Some may have romantic relationships with multiple genders, others just have the sex flexibility. You'll find your way. |
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Love it..live it..be who you are and not what others expect..heed not other opinions..be YOU...I wouldn't be any other way..be happy in your skin and your mind  |
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"Take things gradually, as I'm guessing it could be like finding a new sweetshop, with lots to gorge yourself on. That may apply if you've only just realised yourself and not really had bi sex before, rather than just made things public but have known and participated for some time.
Many people don't understand that well, so you've setup possibly a tough job - there is still some prejudice out there. I don't think most people of your age are out in public, perhaps unlike much younger people who identify as straight less than before.
Everyone is bi in a different way - Some may have romantic relationships with multiple genders, others just have the sex flexibility. You'll find your way. "
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"Love it..live it..be who you are and not what others expect..heed not other opinions..be YOU...I wouldn't be any other way..be happy in your skin and your mind "
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"I've just come out as bi at 40.any advice? "
Be prepared to have people tell you how brave you are and how they are so accepting of anothers sexuality, then have them slag you off behind your back and never talk to you again. |
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