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has anyone hooked up via the forums?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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asking for a friend.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"asking for a friend.."
Tell your friend, yeah  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite a few I would imagine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
Yes. I saw a fella regularly for a year that i got chatting to via the forums. Local fella mind, he wasn’t from afar. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
Not yet but mainly because of distance. But I have a few hopefuls (and a few more I'd love to hook up with) |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
Yes, but far more outwith the forum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah. I spotted him being weird and thought ooooooo I like that one!
He spotted my ass.
The rest is history. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did once. Never again.
People do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah. I spotted him being weird and thought ooooooo I like that one!
He spotted my ass.
The rest is history. "
I knew it would pay to be weird!! There's hope for me too then  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I did once. Never again.
People do. "
Always on the side of caution when it comes to forum guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes . A few times |
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By *ycallMan
over a year ago
Dorking |
I have had offers and got a good few messages through using the forums
Don’t use it as a way to try and get sex though. Just like chatting, flirting and having a bit of a laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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yeah...thanks guys. Interesting to hear your stories. I was sort of thinking it might be a better way to make a mental connection in advance of a physical one... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many many many times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did once. Never again.
People do.
Always on the side of caution when it comes to forum guys "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"asking for a friend.."
I have yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we have x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup. Generally when I'm looking to meet it's forum guys that I prefer to meet as you can see their personalities more. Some have been mistakes 
Some have become really good friends.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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for me, it's a recently discovered side to Fab, and infinitely more interesting than just messaging based on physical appearances. Good to hear what makes people tick.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many of us. He offered to be my cream applier after my holiday a couple of years ago...he kept his word this year when we went on a vacation together |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"Not yet "
I can hear the stampede to your inbox from here! |
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It's as good a place as any to find a connection. I've met mostly forum folk for social times. Even going on holibobs with a lady I met through forums. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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oh lordy.... look at you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"oh lordy.... look at you... "
i do every time i look in the mirror but you cannot yave my penis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, SC is being stubborn... And I got a sh1tload of vodka in too! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"oh lordy.... look at you... "
You can look |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Yes me (male) in a stunning dynamic.
Met a few off other sites as well.
L prefers club meets and we have developed great friends this way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't be silly, forums are for talking  |
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"asking for a friend.."
Couple of nice coffee and cake meets. But not that special connection yet. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
I might have, once or twice, |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Don't be silly, forums are for talking "
Oh okay, got wrong. You’re right, no one has met. Silly me. Everyone else is right.
Must be a figment of imagination.
Oh its is me I will sit back in the corner with a smile on my face from stunning memories.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't be silly, forums are for talking
Oh okay, got wrong. You’re right, no one has met. Silly me. Everyone else is right.
Must be a figment of imagination.
Oh its is me I will sit back in the corner with a smile on my face from stunning memories.
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I was joking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep. It's the place to meet ... |
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It's a great way as you get to see peoples true behaviour a lot of the time.
Are they a bully, have they got a soh etc etc.
Mind you I've seen quite a few knobs and whatever the female version is with plenty of veris so maybe my theory doesn't work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not yet ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, many but the ones I meet privately now are secret squirrel because guess what, people bitch and gossip about Forumites |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Yes, indeed, ofc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't be silly, forums are for talking
Oh okay, got wrong. You’re right, no one has met. Silly me. Everyone else is right.
Must be a figment of imagination.
Oh its is me I will sit back in the corner with a smile on my face from stunning memories.
I was joking "
Yeah this is an example of why I won't... I'm assuming this is a joke! |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Yes. A guy put up on a forum post that due to a mix up with his baby sitter he could only go to our local swingers club on the Friday night. I arranged to meet him and we became good friends.
We’ve had good banter on the forums too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, many but the ones I meet privately now are secret squirrel because guess what, people bitch and gossip about Forumites "
I've seen secret squirrel. He's quite a catch |
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"It's a great way as you get to see peoples true behaviour a lot of the time.
Are they a bully, have they got a soh etc etc.
Mind you I've seen quite a few knobs and whatever the female version is with plenty of veris so maybe my theory doesn't work "
It's called a vagina. You're welcome |
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"Yes, many but the ones I meet privately now are secret squirrel because guess what, people bitch and gossip about Forumites "
Slagging of my dick pics I bet *shakes fist* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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It happens but I would say tread carefully |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No comment. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"It happens but I would say tread carefully "
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness. "
is that when the whips and chains stuff starts |
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness. is that when the whips and chains stuff starts "
*ears prick up* |
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness. "
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off |
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Forum cockblocking happens, too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off "
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness. is that when the whips and chains stuff starts
*ears prick up*"
settle down you cannot have my penis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I do my own thing in my own way. People don’t know anything from me unless I want them to. There is a whole world of fab outside of the forums and that’s where most of my interact is but I do love the forums and the MLS |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though "
Is that from meeting on the fora?
I've honestly been quite lucky - I've heard and know of several people who have experienced unpleasant things as a result of meeting from the fora and others getting their knickers in a twist about people having the audacity to meet others.
It's a tricky one because it can be public knowledge I guess.
Not belittling anyone's experiences here by the way. Treading carefully is wise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, many but the ones I meet privately now are secret squirrel because guess what, people bitch and gossip about Forumites
Slagging of my dick pics I bet *shakes fist*"
I have actually that same deodorant |
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though "
Jesus that's bloody awful. People have sent you abuse and threats for meeting someone off here? Isn't that kind of what 99% of us are here for? Why are they so bothered who other people are meeting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Rage rant at muppets abusing mate removed by poster do to explosive nature at 13/09/19 20:46:46]"
huuuuulk smaaaaaash  |
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though "
Wow I’m sorry to hear that Nora. Absolutely no need for that kind of behaviour.
We are supposed to be in a fun place, where people are free to be who they want to be and see who they desire and enjoy that moment together.
I’m glad it didn’t stop you coming back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got caught on the hook, does that count? |
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though
Is that from meeting on the fora?
I've honestly been quite lucky - I've heard and know of several people who have experienced unpleasant things as a result of meeting from the fora and others getting their knickers in a twist about people having the audacity to meet others.
It's a tricky one because it can be public knowledge I guess.
Not belittling anyone's experiences here by the way. Treading carefully is wise."
It’s only public knowledge if you choose it to be |
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness. is that when the whips and chains stuff starts
*ears prick up*settle down you cannot have my penis "
I don't want that thing. I want to find out where this nasty whips and chains business is going on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though
Wow I’m sorry to hear that Nora. Absolutely no need for that kind of behaviour.
We are supposed to be in a fun place, where people are free to be who they want to be and see who they desire and enjoy that moment together.
I’m glad it didn’t stop you coming back "
they were dickheads who il stop just smaaaaaaash |
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"Yes, many but the ones I meet privately now are secret squirrel because guess what, people bitch and gossip about Forumites
Slagging of my dick pics I bet *shakes fist*
I have actually that same deodorant "
I know. I was imagining I was holding yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though
Is that from meeting on the fora?
I've honestly been quite lucky - I've heard and know of several people who have experienced unpleasant things as a result of meeting from the fora and others getting their knickers in a twist about people having the audacity to meet others.
It's a tricky one because it can be public knowledge I guess.
Not belittling anyone's experiences here by the way. Treading carefully is wise.
It’s only public knowledge if you choose it to be "
Exactly. And a lesson was learnt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness. is that when the whips and chains stuff starts
*ears prick up*settle down you cannot have my penis
I don't want that thing. I want to find out where this nasty whips and chains business is going on."
phew |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though
Is that from meeting on the fora?
I've honestly been quite lucky - I've heard and know of several people who have experienced unpleasant things as a result of meeting from the fora and others getting their knickers in a twist about people having the audacity to meet others.
It's a tricky one because it can be public knowledge I guess.
Not belittling anyone's experiences here by the way. Treading carefully is wise.
It’s only public knowledge if you choose it to be "
Or if the person you’ve met then meets someone else from the forums and isn’t so concerned about privacy and so it goes on ... |
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"Forum cockblocking happens, too. "
Well unless your clearly the wife / husband, gf / bf, and made it clear both of the cards. No one should be cock or pussy blocking, nobody owns anybody |
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though
Is that from meeting on the fora?
I've honestly been quite lucky - I've heard and know of several people who have experienced unpleasant things as a result of meeting from the fora and others getting their knickers in a twist about people having the audacity to meet others.
It's a tricky one because it can be public knowledge I guess.
Not belittling anyone's experiences here by the way. Treading carefully is wise.
It’s only public knowledge if you choose it to be
Or if the person you’ve met then meets someone else from the forums and isn’t so concerned about privacy and so it goes on ... "
I understand that, that’s where trust comes in and the people I meet I trust and are not braggers, our time is private |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though
Is that from meeting on the fora?
I've honestly been quite lucky - I've heard and know of several people who have experienced unpleasant things as a result of meeting from the fora and others getting their knickers in a twist about people having the audacity to meet others.
It's a tricky one because it can be public knowledge I guess.
Not belittling anyone's experiences here by the way. Treading carefully is wise.
It’s only public knowledge if you choose it to be
Or if the person you’ve met then meets someone else from the forums and isn’t so concerned about privacy and so it goes on ... "
. Yep. Anyway it’s history! And it’s all good now. Just people need to be careful that’s all and friends on here aren’t always friends!
Having said that I’ve some wonderful friends I’d have never met but for this place so I can’t leave x |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though
Is that from meeting on the fora?
I've honestly been quite lucky - I've heard and know of several people who have experienced unpleasant things as a result of meeting from the fora and others getting their knickers in a twist about people having the audacity to meet others.
It's a tricky one because it can be public knowledge I guess.
Not belittling anyone's experiences here by the way. Treading carefully is wise.
It’s only public knowledge if you choose it to be
Or if the person you’ve met then meets someone else from the forums and isn’t so concerned about privacy and so it goes on ...
I understand that, that’s where trust comes in and the people I meet I trust and are not braggers, our time is private "
And that’s the ideal. I haven’t had an issue but I know plenty that have, on occasion it ends up all over the forums.
There are lots of wonderful people on here and I love being part of it |
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though "
WTF, people getting on jealousy rages on here... how bizarre on a swinging site. But some people are fuckwits both on and off Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, many but the ones I meet privately now are secret squirrel because guess what, people bitch and gossip about Forumites
Slagging of my dick pics I bet *shakes fist*
I have actually that same deodorant
I know. I was imagining I was holding yours "
Now I'm curious how mine compares
*Nips off to the washroom* |
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I haven’t, but it’s probably because I use the incorrect plural of forum! |
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"It’s only public knowledge if you choose it to be
Or if the person you’ve met then meets someone else from the forums and isn’t so concerned about privacy and so it goes on ...
. Yep. Anyway it’s history! And it’s all good now. Just people need to be careful that’s all and friends on here aren’t always friends!
Having said that I’ve some wonderful friends I’d have never met but for this place so I can’t leave x"
Of course if anything you should be more cautious here than out of here, a broken trust is damage enough but to do it publicly well, is just cruel.
As you say some friendships are strong and will survive anything, even the nonsense here. Don’t be going anywhere xx |
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"Yes, many but the ones I meet privately now are secret squirrel because guess what, people bitch and gossip about Forumites
Slagging of my dick pics I bet *shakes fist*
I have actually that same deodorant
I know. I was imagining I was holding yours
Now I'm curious how mine compares
*Nips off to the washroom*"
Yours might be bigger but only because you keep playing with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though
Is that from meeting on the fora?
I've honestly been quite lucky - I've heard and know of several people who have experienced unpleasant things as a result of meeting from the fora and others getting their knickers in a twist about people having the audacity to meet others.
It's a tricky one because it can be public knowledge I guess.
Not belittling anyone's experiences here by the way. Treading carefully is wise.
It’s only public knowledge if you choose it to be
Or if the person you’ve met then meets someone else from the forums and isn’t so concerned about privacy and so it goes on ...
I understand that, that’s where trust comes in and the people I meet I trust and are not braggers, our time is private "
Just to clarify, it wasn’t the person I met. It was other people. He left because of it too but didn’t come back. Ive trusted everyone I met x |
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"for me, it's a recently discovered side to Fab, and infinitely more interesting than just messaging based on physical appearances. Good to hear what makes people tick.."
Same, only stumbled upon the forums a few days ago...very entertaining! Mrs x |
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"for me, it's a recently discovered side to Fab, and infinitely more interesting than just messaging based on physical appearances. Good to hear what makes people tick..
Same, only stumbled upon the forums a few days ago...very entertaining! Mrs x "
Welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one we can think of... |
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"No one we can think of... "
Sorry to go off topic but your new profile picture is amazing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, many but the ones I meet privately now are secret squirrel because guess what, people bitch and gossip about Forumites
Slagging of my dick pics I bet *shakes fist*
I have actually that same deodorant
I know. I was imagining I was holding yours
Now I'm curious how mine compares
*Nips off to the washroom*
Yours might be bigger but only because you keep playing with it."
It's actually quite similar |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"asking for a friend.."
Yes but only cuz he was crazy enough to travel 300 miles, fortunately chemistry was there in person would of felt so bad if it wasn't  |
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"Yes, many but the ones I meet privately now are secret squirrel because guess what, people bitch and gossip about Forumites
Slagging of my dick pics I bet *shakes fist*
I have actually that same deodorant
I know. I was imagining I was holding yours
Now I'm curious how mine compares
*Nips off to the washroom*
Yours might be bigger but only because you keep playing with it.
It's actually quite similar "
Twinsies! |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
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Most of my meets have been via forums |
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over a year ago
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though
Is that from meeting on the fora?
I've honestly been quite lucky - I've heard and know of several people who have experienced unpleasant things as a result of meeting from the fora and others getting their knickers in a twist about people having the audacity to meet others.
It's a tricky one because it can be public knowledge I guess.
Not belittling anyone's experiences here by the way. Treading carefully is wise.
It’s only public knowledge if you choose it to be
Or if the person you’ve met then meets someone else from the forums and isn’t so concerned about privacy and so it goes on ...
I understand that, that’s where trust comes in and the people I meet I trust and are not braggers, our time is private
And that’s the ideal. I haven’t had an issue but I know plenty that have, on occasion it ends up all over the forums.
There are lots of wonderful people on here and I love being part of it "
Well, I just learnt something. Never crossed my mind people would do this. |
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"It happens but I would say tread carefully
True that. It can attract trouble causers and nastiness.
But rise above it, enjoy what you do with who you like. What happens with you and another is no one’s business but yours, don’t let it put you off
Depends how bad it gets and it can get bad. I’ve had abuse and threats and I left fab because of it. I’m pretty strong and it affected me. On the whole it’s not a bad place though
Is that from meeting on the fora?
I've honestly been quite lucky - I've heard and know of several people who have experienced unpleasant things as a result of meeting from the fora and others getting their knickers in a twist about people having the audacity to meet others.
It's a tricky one because it can be public knowledge I guess.
Not belittling anyone's experiences here by the way. Treading carefully is wise.
It’s only public knowledge if you choose it to be
Or if the person you’ve met then meets someone else from the forums and isn’t so concerned about privacy and so it goes on ...
I understand that, that’s where trust comes in and the people I meet I trust and are not braggers, our time is private
And that’s the ideal. I haven’t had an issue but I know plenty that have, on occasion it ends up all over the forums.
There are lots of wonderful people on here and I love being part of it
Well, I just learnt something. Never crossed my mind people would do this. "
They do that and worse...even getting other people involved when there is no need x |
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Why though? For what purpose? X  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes ........ rare but yes |
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"Why though? For what purpose? X "
No idea...just troublemakers I guess. |
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over a year ago
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"Why though? For what purpose? X "
Jealousy, possessiveness, mental health issues. Who knows? Never men though in my experience. Always said I understand men much better than I understand women! Lol. Swear I should have been one |
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Once only.
But after reading this it's probably best avoiding forumites for anything other than friendship.
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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"Once only.
But after reading this it's probably best avoiding forumites for anything other than friendship.
Jo.Xx "
Ahem  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why though? For what purpose? X
Jealousy, possessiveness, mental health issues. Who knows? Never men though in my experience. Always said I understand men much better than I understand women! Lol. Swear I should have been one glad your not you wouldnt look as good "
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"Why though? For what purpose? X
Jealousy, possessiveness, mental health issues. Who knows? Never men though in my experience. Always said I understand men much better than I understand women! Lol. Swear I should have been one "
This ^ including the being born a man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes my friend quite recently tell your friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why though? For what purpose? X
Jealousy, possessiveness, mental health issues. Who knows? Never men though in my experience. Always said I understand men much better than I understand women! Lol. Swear I should have been one
This ^ including the being born a man "
I have the mind of a man! In so many ways |
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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago
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Not that I can think of. But a few I intend to when time allows. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes |
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"Why though? For what purpose? X
Jealousy, possessiveness, mental health issues. Who knows? Never men though in my experience. Always said I understand men much better than I understand women! Lol. Swear I should have been one
This ^ including the being born a man
I have the mind of a man! In so many ways "
Haha I know that feeling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah. "
Was it that bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep!
I found my amazing man right here in the forums 9 months ago. He's the love of my life and we are sickeningly happy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep!
I found my amazing man right here in the forums 9 months ago. He's the love of my life and we are sickeningly happy.
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Interesting, I've never seen you and Ash on the same thread! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep!
I found my amazing man right here in the forums 9 months ago. He's the love of my life and we are sickeningly happy.
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 he’s a good un too. Keep him! |
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Yep!
He's still putting up with me 14mths later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep!
I found my amazing man right here in the forums 9 months ago. He's the love of my life and we are sickeningly happy.
Interesting, I've never seen you and Ash on the same thread!"
Then you need to go to specksavers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep!
I found my amazing man right here in the forums 9 months ago. He's the love of my life and we are sickeningly happy.
he’s a good un too. Keep him! "
Oh don't you worry, I'm not letting him go! we have just been on our first holiday together and on a very romantic walk on the beach he asked me a question and I said yes! he asked me to move in with him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah.
Was it that bad "
It didnt end well. |
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"Yep!
I found my amazing man right here in the forums 9 months ago. He's the love of my life and we are sickeningly happy.
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Love it |
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"Yep!
I found my amazing man right here in the forums 9 months ago. He's the love of my life and we are sickeningly happy.
he’s a good un too. Keep him!
Oh don't you worry, I'm not letting him go! we have just been on our first holiday together and on a very romantic walk on the beach he asked me a question and I said yes! he asked me to move in with him. "
This has just melted me. So happy for you two x |
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Swing and I found each other on the forum
Avoid the bat shit crazy folk and you’ll be fine |
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"Swing and I found each other on the forum
Avoid the bat shit crazy folk and you’ll be fine "
Oi! We need love too |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Yep!
I found my amazing man right here in the forums 9 months ago. He's the love of my life and we are sickeningly happy.
he’s a good un too. Keep him!
Oh don't you worry, I'm not letting him go! we have just been on our first holiday together and on a very romantic walk on the beach he asked me a question and I said yes! he asked me to move in with him. "
Awww you two! Congratulations. |
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"Yep!
I found my amazing man right here in the forums 9 months ago. He's the love of my life and we are sickeningly happy.
he’s a good un too. Keep him!
Oh don't you worry, I'm not letting him go! we have just been on our first holiday together and on a very romantic walk on the beach he asked me a question and I said yes! he asked me to move in with him.
This has just melted me. So happy for you two x"
Ah and me . Congratulations x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep!
I found my amazing man right here in the forums 9 months ago. He's the love of my life and we are sickeningly happy.
he’s a good un too. Keep him!
Oh don't you worry, I'm not letting him go! we have just been on our first holiday together and on a very romantic walk on the beach he asked me a question and I said yes! he asked me to move in with him. "
Aaww! Congratulations guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep!
I found my amazing man right here in the forums 9 months ago. He's the love of my life and we are sickeningly happy.
he’s a good un too. Keep him!
Oh don't you worry, I'm not letting him go! we have just been on our first holiday together and on a very romantic walk on the beach he asked me a question and I said yes! he asked me to move in with him. "
Awwww that made me go all goose pimply! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep!
I found my amazing man right here in the forums 9 months ago. He's the love of my life and we are sickeningly happy.
he’s a good un too. Keep him!
Oh don't you worry, I'm not letting him go! we have just been on our first holiday together and on a very romantic walk on the beach he asked me a question and I said yes! he asked me to move in with him.
This has just melted me. So happy for you two x
Ah and me . Congratulations x"
Thanks all, we are very excited.
Xx |
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Yeah. A long distance one. Meeting in a couple of weeks, and have 2 more planned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m here anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swing and I found each other on the forum
Avoid the bat shit crazy folk and you’ll be fine
Oi! We need love too "
We have OKC for that, I always answer for weird things to happen to me instead of normal |
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"Yep!
I found my amazing man right here in the forums 9 months ago. He's the love of my life and we are sickeningly happy.
he’s a good un too. Keep him!
Oh don't you worry, I'm not letting him go! we have just been on our first holiday together and on a very romantic walk on the beach he asked me a question and I said yes! he asked me to move in with him.
This has just melted me. So happy for you two x
Ah and me . Congratulations x
Thanks all, we are very excited.
Xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup, he's pretty amazing can say it's going pretty well, glad he spotted me |
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Nope , lots of texts but that’s it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep!
I found my amazing man right here in the forums 9 months ago. He's the love of my life and we are sickeningly happy.
he’s a good un too. Keep him!
Oh don't you worry, I'm not letting him go! we have just been on our first holiday together and on a very romantic walk on the beach he asked me a question and I said yes! he asked me to move in with him.
This has just melted me. So happy for you two x
Ah and me . Congratulations x
Thanks all, we are very excited.
Xx"
So pleased for you both xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We did |
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"Swing and I found each other on the forum
Avoid the bat shit crazy folk and you’ll be fine
Oi! We need love too
We have OKC for that, I always answer for weird things to happen to me instead of normal "
I'm a weird thing |
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Yes, but it's a double-edged sword that definitely makes me have reservations about doing so - there are some lovely people on here, but nobody should have to put up with the behaviour outlined above (and I know several people that this has happened to) |
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The forum isn’t just about ‘hooking up’ it helps forge friendships too, it’s wonderful when that happens. There are those that don’t want that but the forum has a way of bringing ppl together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swing and I found each other on the forum
Avoid the bat shit crazy folk and you’ll be fine
Oi! We need love too
We have OKC for that, I always answer for weird things to happen to me instead of normal
I'm a weird thing "
Perfect, just have to move your pretty ass to east Midlands now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The forum isn’t just about ‘hooking up’ it helps forge friendships too, it’s wonderful when that happens. There are those that don’t want that but the forum has a way of bringing ppl together "
Exactly. Iv made many friends though the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes my first ever meet was a forumite |
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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago
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Never have maybe someone will change that hehe x |
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"Swing and I found each other on the forum
Avoid the bat shit crazy folk and you’ll be fine
Oi! We need love too
We have OKC for that, I always answer for weird things to happen to me instead of normal
I'm a weird thing
Perfect, just have to move your pretty ass to east Midlands now "
You're 4 years too late! I used to live in Leicester. |
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Yup.. car crash.
Would I do it again? Yes very differently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swing and I found each other on the forum
Avoid the bat shit crazy folk and you’ll be fine
Oi! We need love too
We have OKC for that, I always answer for weird things to happen to me instead of normal
I'm a weird thing
Perfect, just have to move your pretty ass to east Midlands now
You're 4 years too late! I used to live in Leicester."
I think I went there once or twice, had to buy a suit for a wedding and they have decent shops |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yup.. car crash.
Would I do it again? Yes very differently. "
It does pay off sometimes.
Looking forward to seeing you again next weekend. X |
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"Yup.. car crash.
Would I do it again? Yes very differently.
It does pay off sometimes.
Looking forward to seeing you again next weekend. X"
Ha ha yeah I’m so happy to hear your news can’t wait for a catch up next week!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found a couple of friends via forum, but not likely to fuck them as they are not what i need sexually, but we've connected on a mates level |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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Yes. Often. Many great memories.
Couple of bad ones. But that's life. Cant win them all. Had a lot of shit thrown at me, but would rather people made up their own minds..
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over a year ago
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Yes thanks |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
Not for sex, but yes I've met ppl socially. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one we can think of...
Sorry to go off topic but your new profile picture is amazing! "
Why thank you very much Madam, as you know we always like to think outside the box on Forum pic challenges, so we thought "Sod just the mug, we'll have the whole tree in as well..." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. There's always a first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Third time lucky apparently |
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"No one we can think of...
Sorry to go off topic but your new profile picture is amazing!
Why thank you very much Madam, as you know we always like to think outside the box on Forum pic challenges, so we thought "Sod just the mug, we'll have the whole tree in as well..." "
Great challenge photo. |
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over a year ago
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Last word |
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