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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a bit of a wanker..
On my travels through the usual porn sites I've noticed a very worrying trend.
The amount of porn that has step siblings brother/sister sister/sister mother/son Father/daughter uncle/niece Uncle/nephew Aunty/niece Aunty/nephew...
Should all this be allowed? I can't watch any of it, even though I know it's just actors and a scene.
What's wrong with just having old/young age difference? Why add that kind of thing into it?
If it's a case of supply and demand, then I'm very unsettled and worried.
Am I being a prude? I just don't get it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s just fantasy, something that’s considered taboo, some will like it, some won’t, it’s most probably been people’s fantasies for decades, it’s just a lot more accepted and easier to access now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really enjoy watching it was but I wouldn't say I was disturbed by it. As long as its legal and everyone involved is genuinely willing and consenting, I say each to their own. |
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"Because some of us like it.
Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis?"
Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s just fantasy, something that’s considered taboo, some will like it, some won’t, it’s most probably been people’s fantasies for decades, it’s just a lot more accepted and easier to access now."
it's the accepted part I'm struggling with. What if it gives people ideas.
There is a big difference between me roleplaying daddy daughter with a younger woman (Though I'd prefer Teacher/legal student). Than some twisted fuck touching up their kids. |
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"It’s just fantasy, something that’s considered taboo, some will like it, some won’t, it’s most probably been people’s fantasies for decades, it’s just a lot more accepted and easier to access now.
it's the accepted part I'm struggling with. What if it gives people ideas.
There is a big difference between me roleplaying daddy daughter with a younger woman (Though I'd prefer Teacher/legal student). Than some twisted fuck touching up their kids."
Exactly. 
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I'm with you GK...
It is weird the family essence I suppose....but suppose it's a case of each to their own?!
Obviously some people get off on fantasies about family members getting it on....just like other people like age difference....and others like trans etc....
But yes, to me its strange that there is so much 1ncest type stuff around!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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But that’s all porn is... role playing, if someone is role playing daddy daughter in real life... I find that more fucked up than someone watching it on a screen. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because some of us like it.
Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis?
Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out."
I dont care what two consenting adults get up to in private. Good for them I say. It's the porn sites where it concerns me.. lots of influential young adults using them. Lots of desperate people too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because some of us like it.
Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis?
Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out.
I dont care what two consenting adults get up to in private. Good for them I say. It's the porn sites where it concerns me.. lots of influential young adults using them. Lots of desperate people too."
You could say that about all porn as it gives an unrealistic view of sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because some of us like it.
Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis?
Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out.
I dont care what two consenting adults get up to in private. Good for them I say. It's the porn sites where it concerns me.. lots of influential young adults using them. Lots of desperate people too."
I completely see your point of view, I guess what I’m trying to say is people are watching two consenting adults, if they go on to do something illegal can you blame porn? It’s like asking can you blame music for mass shootings, or video games for violent crimes? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"But that’s all porn is... role playing, if someone is role playing daddy daughter in real life... I find that more fucked up than someone watching it on a screen. "
yes I get that.
Though I'm not sure I get the second point.
I wouldn't feel bad acting out a fantasy like that with someone i trusted.. in private.. because I'd know we aren't wrong uns.
My concern is for the minority who could be swayed to act on impulses they shouldn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm with you, I don't get it and I don't watch anything in that category. Many a time I have had requests for role play; pretend to be my step mum, my aunt etc and, although I won't do it, I understand we all have our kinks. My kinks are pretty dark, but they don't involve family members. |
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For me it's what I was raised being taught. That any sexual contact between the same gene pool is wrong.
Weather 18 year old neice and 48yr old uncle are consenting adults or not is not the issue, it's the fact they are related.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because some of us like it.
Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis?
Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out.
I dont care what two consenting adults get up to in private. Good for them I say. It's the porn sites where it concerns me.. lots of influential young adults using them. Lots of desperate people too.
I completely see your point of view, I guess what I’m trying to say is people are watching two consenting adults, if they go on to do something illegal can you blame porn? It’s like asking can you blame music for mass shootings, or video games for violent crimes? "
Good point. I often argue fervently against gaming and film being the catalyst for violence.
Hmmmmmmmmmmm... it's a tough one.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me it's what I was raised being taught. That any sexual contact between the same gene pool is wrong.
Weather 18 year old neice and 48yr old uncle are consenting adults or not is not the issue, it's the fact they are related.
Jo.Xx "
I wasnt condoning consenting gene pool sharers. I was condoning two lovers.. roleplaying that scenario in private.
Just questioning whether it should be freely available porn. Same as I question some of the Japanese sex dolls.
Though there are fair points being made in defence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because some of us like it.
Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis?
Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out.
I dont care what two consenting adults get up to in private. Good for them I say. It's the porn sites where it concerns me.. lots of influential young adults using them. Lots of desperate people too.
I completely see your point of view, I guess what I’m trying to say is people are watching two consenting adults, if they go on to do something illegal can you blame porn? It’s like asking can you blame music for mass shootings, or video games for violent crimes?
Good point. I often argue fervently against gaming and film being the catalyst for violence.
Hmmmmmmmmmmm... it's a tough one.
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It is a tough one, but I think it all lies within the individual, if they have strong enough urges to do something, they’re going to do it, with or without any type of influence, I grew up shooting the shit out of people on GTA but never have I, or will I, own a gun lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because some of us like it.
Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis?
Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out.
I dont care what two consenting adults get up to in private. Good for them I say. It's the porn sites where it concerns me.. lots of influential young adults using them. Lots of desperate people too.
I completely see your point of view, I guess what I’m trying to say is people are watching two consenting adults, if they go on to do something illegal can you blame porn? It’s like asking can you blame music for mass shootings, or video games for violent crimes?
Good point. I often argue fervently against gaming and film being the catalyst for violence.
Hmmmmmmmmmmm... it's a tough one.
It is a tough one, but I think it all lies within the individual, if they have strong enough urges to do something, they’re going to do it, with or without any type of influence, I grew up shooting the shit out of people on GTA but never have I, or will I, own a gun lol "
Yes.. I get that. |
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"Because some of us like it.
Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis?
Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out.
I dont care what two consenting adults get up to in private. Good for them I say. It's the porn sites where it concerns me.. lots of influential young adults using them. Lots of desperate people too.
I completely see your point of view, I guess what I’m trying to say is people are watching two consenting adults, if they go on to do something illegal can you blame porn? It’s like asking can you blame music for mass shootings, or video games for violent crimes?
Good point. I often argue fervently against gaming and film being the catalyst for violence.
Hmmmmmmmmmmm... it's a tough one.
It is a tough one, but I think it all lies within the individual, if they have strong enough urges to do something, they’re going to do it, with or without any type of influence, I grew up shooting the shit out of people on GTA but never have I, or will I, own a gun lol "
That's where I stand on it. If anything the more you restrict things seen as taboo the more perverted people become. I mean look at the Victorians! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Porn is a reflection of our fantasies, some are 'darker' or should I say niche.
I don't see porn as a negative whether it's fetish, Gonzo or vanilla. Everyone has different tastes.
Thanks to porn we can see what we could potentially enjoy and then explore that with another person who shares similar interests to us.
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It's strange to cater for a market that's non-existent and I'm curious whether someone did, which opened up s new niche which then got busy because it was different. A lot of us get requests for being a relative here too, so perhaps it's just a reflection of that. It doesn't offer anything really of value and I'm sure their creativity on the industry could create something different but good. |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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Well they have pretty much maxed out on the physical side that's allowable. So they have to go psychological.. dress up roles have been done to death, sonhas the teen and granny porn (opposite ends of age spectrum) so it has got progressively "naughtier" or "more forbidden" instead. There is also a trend for sleep sex, where one person pretends to be asleep (weird), and a trend for the girls to be absolutely teeny tiny.. as in about 4 foot 10 and 35kg in weight, again catering for a niche market. |
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"Well they have pretty much maxed out on the physical side that's allowable. So they have to go psychological.. dress up roles have been done to death, sonhas the teen and granny porn (opposite ends of age spectrum) so it has got progressively "naughtier" or "more forbidden" instead. There is also a trend for sleep sex, where one person pretends to be asleep (weird), and a trend for the girls to be absolutely teeny tiny.. as in about 4 foot 10 and 35kg in weight, again catering for a niche market."
Yes, this is effectively r**e porn and the exceptionally small actors are childlike... it’s wrong on every level. |
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By *irthandgirthMan
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"Well they have pretty much maxed out on the physical side that's allowable. So they have to go psychological.. dress up roles have been done to death, sonhas the teen and granny porn (opposite ends of age spectrum) so it has got progressively "naughtier" or "more forbidden" instead. There is also a trend for sleep sex, where one person pretends to be asleep (weird), and a trend for the girls to be absolutely teeny tiny.. as in about 4 foot 10 and 35kg in weight, again catering for a niche market.
Yes, this is effectively r**e porn and the exceptionally small actors are childlike... it’s wrong on every level. "
I have seen clips where the girls are that small, can be lifted almost one handed and bent like pretzels... and with well endowed male stars it just looks fucking abnormal. As you said, the females look very childlike.. quite symbolic without actually being children.
Not for me.. |
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Noted.
